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kevinberry:
What happen to minding your business...what if I tell you that the so called man is my daddy friend....

kevinberry:
My dad has already made it clear to him that should the marriage happen that will be the end of their friendship...

bukatyne:
Sambarry, What am I owing you

You better name your baby Bukky o! Luckily for you, it is unisex

Idowuogbo:
so if your dad already made things clear with this man, wetin b your own? Are you secretly eyeing the olosho?

bukatyne:
Don't you think you will get better answers in the boys' thread?

Kimoni:
But people have advised him and even told him the girl is a runz babe yet he refuses to give up, what can you possibly do again? Continue to advise him if you can or ask your dad to speak with him.

kevinberry:
You don't get it,he don't want to,the woman is the one disturbing him

Kimoni:
Is he a kid? Is that the rubbish he is telling you guys and you believe him

Kimoni:
Is he a kid? Is that the rubbish he is telling you guys and you believe him

kevinberry:
The man is a family friend..and yes he promised to make her the second wife...should the marry happen,she will automatically becomes a family friend too and that might leads to so many things...

It quiet funny,you guys seems to see her wayward lifestyle as nothing to worry about

Pathetic

kevinberry:
You don't get it,he don't want to,the woman is the one disturbing him

cococandy:
yet he's buying house and car for her.

Abeg carry this tori go romance section.

cococandy:
it's funny you don't see a cheating married man as nothing to worry about. How on earth is he better than her?

kevinberry:
I don't have time for blame game,so please zip it up

kevinberry:
Learn to read and understand...for all I know,I don't know if she was an olosho before coming to my neighbourhood,it was when she came to my neighbourhood that we got to know about her way of life,hence why everybody is advising the man not to marry her....perhaps she was residing in another city before coming down to the same city with this man

EfemenaXY:
Imagine this!

So Bukky, they drove / sent you lot packing on the grounds that you lot aren't intellectually capable to hold down an intelligent conversation with them - and instead of holding your ground and proving them wrong, you hightail, with your tails firmly tucked between your legs, and meekly (submissively) oblige...only to come here to talk knitting / boy-friend saga / idle, non-substantive, female chit-chat??

I feel sooooooooo insulted. Infact, c'man take ma name off that your list jare.

At times like this, I seriously miss

~ Debrief
~ Aisha2
~ Ileobatojo
~ Jennykadry
~ Carefreewannabe
~ BabyOsisi a.k.a BabyMama.

bukatyne:
Ladies good morning

Hope yesterday was fun?

Please let's move on to other matters.... and leave Kevin alone. He is just a troll because He was on the boys' thread yarning dust against the same 'mature single ladies' He is asking for advice here.

I just stumbled on a thread 'the angry black woman' by babygirlfl and went through it again.

Just wanted us to debate on the 'perceived racism against blacks' in America.

Perceived because I have not had a first hand experience.

Reference point is the youths killed by white policemen.

So ladies especially in diasopra, do you think/see this institutionalized subtle racism or are other factors involved?

Naijababe; damiso; edwife; cococandy; tearoses; kimoni; babygirlfl; EfemenaXY; Idowuogbo; salsera; etc.

tearoses:
Racism is a topic that is really too deep to discuss
Its everywhere; even back home in Nigeria even though its a different flavour (tribalism)

Its more pronounced in the US because damage can be instant and permanent due to guns and we hear about it everyday

There is racism here too but its not as widely reported and seen in the US.

I tell my son to work hard as he may come accross subtle undertones of racism in his life here (its against the law to do it openly) but I told him that there will come a point where even the most racist wont be able to do anything because he will be so good at what he does.
In that same America I heard that there is a Nigerian Major General in the US marines.

If you ask me, the society owes half and the individual owes half too. We cant sit at home and cry racism. We need to get out there, go to school, better ourselves and work hard and be good at what we do. We also need to integrate and follow the rules wherever we find ourselves.

babygirlfl:
@ bukatyne,

There is still racism here in the UK. It's more pronounced in some parts of the UK more than the others. Personally, I have received worse treatment from people from other tribes in Nigeria than people from other race. I do know however that that is not the case for everyone.

jaybee3:
I'm hungry