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Bros, u lie ooh,

I ve two female friends, and what I gain from them is more than sex, I no de even reason dem go dat side,

I don't want to loose being friends, so, I dare not conceive that sex idea one bit.



Maybe ur sex drive is on the high side.




Btw, I ve been friends with one for 11yrz now, the other is just 8th year now, so, I no fit reason am

skimma:
So it means you will open your puny for any male friend since that is your mind-set from the onset.

just wondering

Very dumb response. What has opening puny got to do with what she said? She stated a fact. It doesn't matter if you admit or not

MrsPhyno:
I agree somehow. Especially if the lady in question is very beautiful or very sexy. Hard to stay platonic with her.....

However, I think it's up to the woman to decide. If she insists (with her actions) that you guys will only remain friends than it can work.

The lady may tease the dude tho, like sitting on his lap and hugging him and playing with him. Which can be more frustrating for the dude.

Sha, I wouldn't advise it. Male and female friendships are messy.

The friendship can only happen when they don't get too close like calling and checking on each other Regularly and spending time together privately. For me I call my female friends probably once in a month or when there are instances of her feeling not too well or problems that I can help out with.

chigoizie7:
Bros, u lie ooh,

I ve two female friends, and what I gain from them is more than sex, I no de even reason dem go dat side,

I don't want to loose being friends, so, I dare not conceive that sex idea one bit.



Maybe ur sex drive is on the high side.




Btw, I ve been friends with one for 11yrz now, the other is just 8th year now, so, I no fit reason am

exactly, I got One that I can't go a day without talking to and sex is the last thing on my mind,cos the friendship is worth more than sex

kayo80:
In the last couple of years, I have had girls attracted to me, and when I go the relationship way, or maybe the friends with benefits way, they usually refuse, and say they just want to be friends with me. I cut them off immediately, and they get angry saying why can't I just be friends with them without sex. Well, my thing is, I don't believe any man can ever be 'just friends' with a girl, without getting attracted to her and wanting sex in the long run. But ofcos, some wimps will say they can do that, but deep down, they so badly want to have sex with that girl.


You can believe me or not, but it is the truth. No. Men can never just be friends with a woman; attraction always gets in the way. But if you are lucky, you can fall in love with your best-friend.

If there was a way to qualify your thoughts as MORE THAN WRONG, this would be the most appropriate scenario. Like a friend of mine here on Nairaland would say, why the fuss about sex? What's the big deal there? It is overrated, overstated, overstressed, ... It is shocking.

I no send am. I no send her. Sex, the gal, she fine, she no fine, my friend, stranger. NOT INTERESTED!!!

I keep my body under"

kayo80:
In the last couple of years, I have had girls attracted to me, and when I go the relationship way, or maybe the friends with benefits way, they usually refuse, and say they just want to be friends with me. I cut them off immediately, and they get angry saying why can't I just be friends with them without sex. Well, my thing is, I don't believe any man can ever be 'just friends' with a girl, without getting attracted to her and wanting sex in the long run. But ofcos, some wimps will say they can do that, but deep down, they so badly want to have sex with that girl.


You can believe me or not, but it is the truth. No. Men can never just be friends with a woman; attraction always gets in the way. But if you are lucky, you can fall in love with your best-friend.

If there was a way to qualify your thoughts as MORE THAN WRONG, this would be the most appropriate scenario. Like a friend of mine here on Nairaland would say, why the fuss about sex? What's the big deal there? It is overrated, overstated, overstressed, ... It is shocking.

I no send am. I no send her. Sex, the gal, she fine, she no fine, my friend, stranger. NOT INTERESTED!!!

"I keep my body under" #pause #NoHomo

cornoil:
Abeg I wan be ur friend jare. Make we click up jare.

sure hw far na

kayo80:
In the last couple of years, I have had girls attracted to me, and when I go the relationship way, or maybe the friends with benefits way, they usually refuse, and say they just want to be friends with me. I cut them off immediately, and they get angry saying why can't I just be friends with them without sex. Well, my thing is, I don't believe any man can ever be 'just friends' with a girl, without getting attracted to her and wanting sex in the long run. But ofcos, some wimps will say they can do that, but deep down, they so badly want to have sex with that girl.


You can believe me or not, but it is the truth. No. Men can never just be friends with a woman; attraction always gets in the way. But if you are lucky, you can fall in love with your best-friend.

u get bad mind too much. Maybe u cant be friendz with ladies but alot of guys can.

loswhite:
The friendship can only happen when they don't get too close like calling and checking on each other Regularly and spending time together privately. For me I call my female friends probably once in a month or when there are instances of her feeling not too well or problems that I can help out with.

Hmm good point. I think I'm too close to my male friends. I'll try to adjust

kathykathy:
sure hw far na

Dey chill and enjoy my weekend jare. Make we connect through BBM

MrsPhyno:
Hmm good point. I think I'm too close to my male friends. I'll try to adjust

Ok

grad2012:
Says who I have wonderful, nyc , responsible and polite male friends its just depends on your maturity and boundaris and also there maturity and dem knowing there boundaris.

u ar a graduate and u writes like this?

Davidson267:
u ar a graduate and u writes like this?

lols wats wrong wit wat I wrote and inbtwn man correct urself .

cornoil:
Dey chill and enjoy my weekend jare. Make we connect through BBM pin: 2B649C65

u no even ask me weda i get bb u jst run acrobatic give me pin,,,,omo na nokia asha pin i get ooo i.e whatsapp,no vex

kathykathy:
u no even ask me weda i get bb u jst run acrobatic give me pin,,,,omo na nokia asha pin i get ooo i.e whatsapp,no vex

Choi, so u need bb be dat. I go bless u with one be dat, oya praise God

Guys like sex tru....most of the tym dei fantasise bout drilling a girl.dats how dey r wired! girls too do d same but would always pretend.
My point now
If a guy can't just b friends with a girl den soon he myt become a rapist...who ever posted dis no offence pls
If u can't b friends with a girl
Den u will always cheat on ur gf
Maybe u r not social or never been to school wtf?
I have female friends dat share their secretes wit me,seek for my advice in their relationship, I mean...Wat r friends for!
They teach me stuffs too

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.like how to b a perfect gentle man...by yabbin me wen I screw up in my relationship
BOTTOM LINE
GUYS WHO HAVE GUD FRIENDSHIP WITH GIRLS CAN ALWAYS D BEST BOYFRIEND U EVER IMAGINE


LASTLY SEX IS JUST LIKE A VIRUS...IF U LET IT LINGER TOO MUCH ON UR MIND THEN U START BEHAVING LIKE OUR OGA AT D TOP

grad2012:
lols wats wrong wit wat I wrote and inbtwn man correct urself .

it is hard to believe that u ar a graduate if u insist there is nothing wrong in ur writeup.

cornoil:
Choi, so u need bb be dat. I go bless u with one be dat, oya praise God

*dancing shoki* with i don get alert God win.

kathykathy:
*dancing shoki* with i don get alert God win.

Where ur watsapp number nah.

cornoil:
Where ur watsapp number nah.

mk we strt with facebook,,,,kate odoh

kathykathy:
mk we strt with facebook,,,,kate odoh

Cross rivers or Akwa Ibom?

cornoil:
Cross rivers or Akwa Ibom?

benue

kathykathy:
benue

Benue babe? Make sense die, idoma, otukpo abi Otukpa. Oya I don send request to u now.

Platonic relationship between a male. Nd female it. Just maturity of d mind from both Side nd boundaries.

why can't a person be 'just a friend'?

have female friends oo.