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| Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Toks2008(m): 1:10pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
A MAN OR WOMAN CAN NOT BE JUST FRIENDS WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX It’s no secret: guys and girls being "just friends" is a concept held by only the dreamers. Any lady who believes that she can be just a friend with a guy other than co-worker, co-student, or just on a platonic hi-hi level is in-fact the most myopic lady to walk on this planet A guy’s friends consist of, well, only guys. The only reason a guy would go close to a girl would be to date or bed her. No guy is going to waste his time just being a friend with a girl because it’s not like she is a sports freak or a trans-gendered. Guys have enough guy friends and won’t waste their time listening to ladies talk from a girl just to be their friend. Plain and simple he wants to bed you except of course you don't mind or he has not made it obvious yet. Guys being friends with girls is a farce: either he wants to sleep with her, or she still believes in unicorns, because a guy cannot genuinely be friends with a girl and its either the lady secretly desires him or vis avis even while one of the two are ignorant of this. In-fact i always tell a guy or lady to be more at alert when your bae says this about another opposite sex.."we are just friends,we enjoy each other's company,we are just fond of each other" because once you start hearing this from your bae,you should run because fondness is stronger than the feeling of love and what your bae will not dicsuss with you will be discussed freely with that person so of what use is the affair you are having? I know some people will say not in all cases and i quite agree but there is a simple test to know if there is no hidden notion or surpressed desire so please as a lady just prove me wrong? give that just friend of yours a kiss and watch him stop you. After-all you guys ought to be just friends. And for the married man, snap out of your delusion and tell yourself hard fact...YOU ARE OLOJU KOKORO...Let your wife be your only friend,best friend and close friend and same for the lady. Keeping "friends" of the opposite sex while married or committed to someone is an emotional affair and its even worse than actual physical affair. Just trying to make common sense. 159 Likes 22 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by falconey(m): 1:14pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
NO 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by slimmyjimmy(m): 1:15pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Yes but ur head no go dey there! 1 Like |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Elosky20: 1:15pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
yes that is if the both of them are gays 8 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Jayson504(m): 1:19pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
A Man and a Woman can be just friends as long as no strings is attached 36 Likes |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Cutehector(m): 1:28pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Frndships dnt last forever 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by awesome11(m): 1:28pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
I don't understand you. You mean because you and your friends can't keep such relationship with a lady, everyone can't. Don't generalize too hastily! I have about four female friends I keep such platonic relationship with. So? 86 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Luckygurl(f): 1:34pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Nah!!  I don't believe this... That the male friends I've got are all hanging around me cos of some future banging they hope to get. Plus the ones I personally initiated the friendship... If I hear  In as much as majority of the so called friendship between the opposite sex are mere facades to what actually is going on, you can't totally rule out the fact that there exist the platonic kinda friendship between a few that actually know what they want. 39 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by TheSonOfMark(m): 1:34pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Jayson504: Yes, only if both are in different relationships. If I am married/dating and she's also married/dating then , theoretically, our emotional and sexual needs are being satisfied by our partners which are essentially the reasons why people date. It's quasi-impossible to be just friends with a woman if she and/or you are not already dating others. 45 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by osazeeblue01: 1:38pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
No. Any girl that told u she keep male friends than female just know that she is a prostitute. If u think am lying go for research yourself. 14 Likes |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Nobody: 1:38pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Why not  My closest female friend is a fellow Arsenal fan. We're quite close, platonically........ Her brother is a soldier tho...... 14 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Olasco93: 1:41pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
@OP, the devil is NOT as powerful as you think. My own opinion is that a Guy and a Girl can be Just Friends. It all depend on 3 things: Responsibleness, Maturity and Mindset of the people involve. Remember all guys/girls are not the same. People are different. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by SkinnyDude(m): 1:44pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
unless she does not attract me sexually.. like this my neighbour.. yanshless and boobyless 31 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Hannysmilez(f): 1:47pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
For me,I think it depends on the kind of friends. If its just simple gist friendship,its possible. If its close as in besties kinda friendship,then no. I used to have two guys who I was just too close with,we were bestfriends until I realised they were getting way too attached. In conc. A girl and a guy could be friends with a small 'f' but not with a capital 'F'. They may have good intentions but there's a song that says "The heart wants what it wants." 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Toks2008(m): 1:47pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Luckygurl: Im impressed with your stand view..just do that simple test and GOD help you. 4 Likes |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by gamaliel121(m): 1:49pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
They will always fucccckkkkkk Fuccckkking will always happen.... Bleep that shiiiit 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Toks2008(m): 1:51pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
SkinnyDude: This is the point i made in one of the paragraphs.. Sometimes the male may believe it s platonic but the female will be haviing another agender. 4 Likes |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Yes of cos. Am just friends with chocolateme na 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Nobody: 1:57pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
SkinnyDude:i thought u were gay . So, u also fork girls too. Hmmm, intresting1 Like |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by SkinnyDude(m): 2:04pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Durentt:jesus!!!! have we met before 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
SkinnyDude:we have not met but i have seen many of ur gay post on nairaland. Deny and i'll post the links here for everyone to see 1 Like |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Luckygurl(f): 2:08pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Toks2008:  I should walk up to a male friend of mine and give him a kiss on the lips.. Lmao!! I sure would get the 'looks like you've been neck deep into your usual romance novels' or 'when did you start drinking' reply... On a more serious note, why should I? |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by SkinnyDude(m): 2:09pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Durentt:okay... oya post the link here.. let us see |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Lol. I have a female as my best friend nd yh, she's just the best person outta my family circle. 1 Like |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by joseph1832(m): 2:18pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
To me it depends on what the OP mean by 'friends' because to me, I just can't be friends with anybody. My friends are those that are like me. So if a girl isn't like me, there's no way in hell we can be friends. |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by naijaboiy: 2:53pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
I agree with the Op totally. There ain't no way I can be friends with a girl purely because of that. Most of the girls that are just my friends now we didn't just start like that. There was an attraction either from my side or hers but circumstances didn't let things happen. And yes if given the chance i'll still have sex with like 97% of my female friends. It's only girls that will not agree with this because they don't understand. Any girl who thinks every guy that is her friend has not nursed the intention of having sex with her before is just deceiving herself plainly. Quote me in maiduguri.  65 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Toks2008(m): 3:44pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Luckygurl: lol! no need to walk up to him.just do that anytime both of you are together and see..shebi we watch those movies where the guy will say "oh no, we should'nt be doing this, we are freiends for petes sake.." who knows the guy might just pas the test... 6 Likes |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Deejavuu(f): 3:49pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
naijaboiy:  |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by Aminat508(f): 3:50pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
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| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by chocolateme(f): 3:58pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Durentt:cool. |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by naijaboiy: 4:01pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Deejavuu:True talk 2 Likes |
| Re: Can A Guy and a lady be "Just Friends"? by hoobs(m): 5:20pm On Oct 31, 2015 |
Yess,bt my mind go still dy there,at a time we go chop clean mouth continue wid our friendship 5 Likes 1 Share |
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