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I am in a fix now , I gave my life to Christ about 2 years ago and I have being doing fine, growing up spiritually , going for missions and by God's grace the lord has being faithful in using me to do some great things in his vineyard within this short period. But I have come to see that the emotional life is different from the Spiritual , all this period I have meant ladies but when it comes to relationship wise I discovered alot of our people in church pretend and not just real meanwhile some are very genuine. I am of age , through with school and doing fine , I believe I should get a girl now to settle down while thinking of this , I recently met one of my ex-girlfriend and seems I have found love again, she has a very good character but we use to commit sin then , I believe u understand what I mean, but apart from that, she has very good character more than the so called Christian sisters that I have meant though shes of different religion but a moralist, she was very supportive those years. But something happened yesterday, she came to greet me and we hanged out with some of my friends, so when it was evening I told my friends I have to go and drop her at the nearest busstop, when we got there and she was about getting down from the car she held my hand and said I still love you and hope one day we will come back, I didn't know what to do, like the atmosphere in the car changed, the temperature became different , plus for that short period, My body became charged too, then we said good bye, as I was driving back I couldn't concentrate, I feel like calling her to tell her I have the same thing in mind , but something is also pulling me back saying if u go you will fornicate you have done that several time with her before plus shes not born again plus I have a ministry that has to do with village outreach and pastors have being telling me I cant marry anyhow lady . Pls I need advice what can I do . I will appreciate a candid advice and experienced pastors too can pls drop there opinion and views.

Perching

Tell her the new you, she could repent... Don't underestimate the power of Love.. And if you still love her, it's a nice thing being with someone you've known for a long time...

tell her your new nature, and if she accepts it and said she will settle down with you, then it is time for fervent prayer to change her completely and let your pastor know to it, after all these, tell her your ministry, her reply to this will determine what next. but prayer is the key that can change her heart completely to Christ. May God Help You Not To Fall To The Trap Of Satan. Shalon!

Brb

Has GOD said it is not good for you to be alone? if YES,then he should lead you to the right woman but if NO,my brother go on your knees to seek God's guidance.You dont just marry because a woman is morally upright.When it comes to marriage there is more to it than just character.
You must be spiritually compatible.SEEK GOD'S FACE ON THAT ISSUE,HE WILL ANSWER YOU.JER 33VS3.Shalom

goddeyooo:
I am in a fix now , I gave my life to Christ about 2 years ago and I have being doing fine, growing up spiritually , going for missions and by God's grace the lord has being faithful in using me to do some great things in his vineyard within this short period. But I have come to see that the emotional life is different from the Spiritual , all this period I have meant ladies but when it comes to relationship wise I discovered alot of our people in church pretend and not just real meanwhile some are very genuine. I am of age , through with school and doing fine , I believe I should get a girl now to settle down while thinking of this , I recently met one of my ex-girlfriend and seems I have found love again, she has a very good character but we use to commit sin then , I believe u understand what I mean, but apart from that, she has very good character more than the so called Christian sisters that I have meant though shes of different religion but a moralist, she was very supportive those years. But something happened yesterday, she came to greet me and we hanged out with some of my friends, so when it was evening I told my friends I have to go and drop her at the nearest busstop, when we got there and she was about getting down from the car she held my hand and said I still love you and hope one day we will come back, I didn't know what to do, like the atmosphere in the car changed, the temperature became different , plus for that short period, My body became charged too, then we said good bye, as I was driving back I couldn't concentrate, I feel like calling her to tell her I have the same thing in mind , but something is also pulling me back saying if u go you will fornicate you have done that several time with her before plus shes not born again plus I have a ministry that has to do with village outreach and pastors have being telling me I cant marry anyhow lady . Pls I need advice what can I do . I will appreciate a candid advice and experienced pastors too can pls drop there opinion and views.

Christianity is all about Christ in us, exuding Christ,thats even how the disciples earned the 'title' Christians.If you feel she could make advances toward you and that could possibly lure you then it means she can't feel the supposed 'new' you.You might be only a Christian in your own eyes.Use this opportunity to reflect and make your stance in Christ known, not just through your words but actions and demeanor too.


I sincerely won't comment on your topic again.