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Love is fragile. Love is vulnerable. When you love someone, you have given the person the power to hurt you.
No wonder a mighty man of valor called Samson died cos of love. Solomon said don't arouse love. I have learnt my lesson. No girl is worth my heart save my wife
Friends, am heartbroken. I got hurt cos I chose to love someone with my heart. I think is a crime to be nice to ladies.
My girl broke up with me cos she said she is scared of heartbreak. Is over a week now. I have decided to let go. Am committed to move on.
We are in the same school. I have been getting over it not until I saw her with a guy today. My heart now bleed.
Friends, how do I get over this. It would have been easier if we weren't in the same school. How do I make myself to feel normal when I see her with another guy. I need to get back to my normal self. Thanks

Passing by Sha

Any girl who is scared of heartbreak is not fit for marriage.... Dnt even promise commitment to her....

You can read my former thread about her here

https://www.nairaland.com/2502462/please-sincerely-need-advise-right

Cutehector:
Any girl who is scared of heartbreak is not fit for marriage.... Dnt even promise commitment to her....

I never knew of this until she told me last week. We were committed on the relationship. Marriage was our aim. She was happy. Suddenly she starts thing of being afraid of heartbreak cos of her past experienced. Then she left. Just like that. I just want a way to get over it that's all

Incorruptible:
I never knew of this until she told me last week. We were committed on the relationship. Marriage was our aim. She was happy. Suddenly she starts thing of being afraid of heartbreak cos of her past experienced. Then she left. Just like that. I just want a way to get over it that's all

ur depressed ryt nw.... U should do smth abt it... Smth bad...

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Op your post speak of frustration,you are seriously frustrated, see at times like this we have to remember there is someone,somewhere seriously thinking and fantasying abt us..

Breakups are essential part of our lives,it teaches us so many things,things we wouldnt have learnt from words of mouth, op go off and think,yes think abt her,the happy moments,tthe outing fun times, how it started,then think abt their flaws, why it is better to let them go, how unhappy you might have been if they were still with you..

A gal who breakup with you for such flimsy excuse is not worth dieing for,he value someone than you,..

Think of their negativity,op dnt try to force yourself into forgetting them, for now it will seem painful, like you are alone but note that you are not alone,there are millions people out there,like you suffering the same fate..

Think abt your life and the possible cause of her decision,it mayb ur attitude,your personality just something you are nt aware of, think and try to improve..

man, the thing is this...

She was hanging with that guy all along..... she broke up cos she wanted some one else.., not with that lame excuse.

Jollyjoy:
Op your post speak of frustration,you are seriously frustrated, see at times like this we have to remember there is someone,somewhere seriously thinking and fantasying abt us..

Breakups are essential part of our lives,it teaches us so many things,things we wouldnt have learnt from words of mouth, op go off and think,yes think abt her,the happy moments,tthe outing fun times, how it started,then think abt their flaws, why it is better to let them go, how unhappy you might have been if they were still with you..

A gal who breakup with you for such flimsy excuse is not worth dieing for,he value someone than you,..

Think of their negativity,op dnt try to force yourself into forgetting them, for now it will seem painful, like you are alone but note that you are not alone,there are millions people out there,like you suffering the same fate..

Think abt your life and the possible cause of her decision,it mayb ur attitude,your personality just something you are nt aware of, think and try to improve..

I'm sure you one of those who has always been of the opinion that guys are Heartbreakers.... here is a pure case of a how heartless ladies can be and you are preaching something else....

Incorruptible:
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Go have some good sex with a friend..... you know that girl that put you in the friendzone this years??

Go have some .... u l feel better.... and besides ladies don't toy with hard guys who don't give a Bleep bout them!

Vixo:
Go have some good sex with a friend..... you know that girl that put you in the friendzone this years??


Go have some .... u l feel better.... and besides ladies don't toy with hard guys who don't give a Bleep bout them!

Hahahahahahahahaha. Sex. Will that really solve it. Seriously, am planning to unleash it on someone that will be paying me a visit tomorrow. She is dying for me. She wants love. Serious love. But my heart has been closed to THIS THING CALLED LOVE.

and besides ladies don't toy with hard guys who don't give a Bleep bout them![/quote]Throw more light on this pls

She doesn't deserve you.

That's what happens when u fall in love with the wrong set of people.
Do get a girlfriend and play with her when passing ur ex.
Get someone that's more beautiful than her. U might not love her but
#pay her back

What school is that you both are in?

Incorruptible:
Hahahahahahahahaha. Sex. Will that really solve it. Seriously, am planning to unleash it on someone that will be paying me a visit tomorrow. She is dying for me. She wants love. Serious love. But my heart has been closed to THIS THING CALLED LOVE.

you l understand when u try it......

Blizzyblinkzy:
She doesn't deserve you.

That's what happens when u fall in love with the wrong set of people.
Do get a girlfriend and play with her when passing ur ex.
Get someone that's more beautiful than her. U might not love her but
#pay her back

Lol. You spoke my mind. Have been making moves to get in touch with those who were coming around. I turned them down cos of her

blublahd:
What school is that you both are in?

No need to call the name of my school. Thanks

One thing Iv learnt from women is that u can't force a woman to love u. If u try doing that then u have just succeeded in digging ur own grave. If a woman dosent like u, no matter the amount u give to her, she will turn around and give it to the one she prefers. If u ask me I will simply advise u to let her go. Look around u must definitely find someone who loves u more, only that uv not been observant enough to even notice other girls.
Trust me bros, Iv been there and done that.. Believe me Op in my own case, she came back begging after I graduated and made money but I f***ked the hell out of her in a hotel room at Apapa for 1 whole week and ended up breaking up with her @ d hotel reception on our way out.

dukeolumde:
One thing Iv learnt from women is that u can't force a woman to love u. If u try doing that then u have just succeeded in digging ur own grave. If a woman dosent like u, no matter the amount u give to her, she will turn around and give it to the one she prefers. If u ask me I will simply advise u to let her go. Look around u must definitely find someone who loves u more, only that uv not been observant enough to even notice other girls.
Trust me bros, Iv been there and done that.. Believe me Op in my own case, she came back begging after I graduated and made money but I f***ked the hell out of her in a hotel room at Apapa for 1 whole week and ended up breaking up with her @ d hotel reception on our way out.

Lol
I never forced her to love me. She fell willingly. It was going on well.
I don't want her back. Just need a way to forget about her. That's all

Incorruptible:
I never knew of this until she told me last week. We were committed on the relationship. Marriage was our aim. She was happy. Suddenly she starts thing of being afraid of heartbreak cos of her past experienced. Then she left. Just like that. I just want a way to get over it that's all

That is the way some ignorant gals behave,who isn't scared of a broken heart but the last thing I'll ever do is to turn myself into a trash bin for men cos am "too scared to be in love",I wud never keep dating and dumping guys cos am too scared of love..... Pls take heart and just move on she aint worth the heart ache

Incorruptible:
I never knew of this until she told me last week. We were committed on the relationship. Marriage was our aim. She was happy. Suddenly she starts thing of being afraid of heartbreak cos of her past experienced. Then she left. Just like that. I just want a way to get over it that's all

I have read your past thread and from what I gathered she left you for another man.and you know why she did that.dont you.3 reasons
1)either you are not giving her money
2)either you are not buying her gifts
3)either you no sure atall talking from my sister point of view now

dukeolumde:
One thing Iv learnt from women is that u can't force a woman to love u. If u try doing that then u have just succeeded in digging ur own grave. If a woman dosent like u, no matter the amount u give to her, she will turn around and give it to the one she prefers. If u ask me I will simply advise u to let her go. Look around u must definitely find someone who loves u more, only that uv not been observant enough to even notice other girls.
Trust me bros, Iv been there and done that.. Believe me Op in my own case, she came back begging after I graduated and made money but I f***ked the hell out of her in a hotel room at Apapa for 1 whole week and ended up breaking up with her @ d hotel reception on our way out.

nice one Bro. that is how they should be treated

Incorruptible:
Lol
I never forced her to love me. She fell willingly. It was going on well.
I don't want her back. Just need a way to forget about her. That's all

my brother i you're an average chump



why are you crying...

hbpeze:
I have read your past thread and from what I gathered she left you for another man.and you know why she did that.dont you.3 reasons
1)either you are not giving her money
2)either you are not buying her gifts
3)either you no sure atall talking from my sister point of view now

my brother you're a disgrace to brotherhood


So this is what you have to do to make a woman love you for who you are.



Op you're doomed if you heed to this chump advice.

hbpeze:
I have read your past thread and from what I gathered she left you for another man.and you know why she did that.dont you.3 reasons
1)either you are not giving her money
2)either you are not buying her gifts
3)either you no sure atall talking from my sister point of view now

You are spot on in the first two. Truth is, I met h3r when I was having challenge in my office. Was being debited over 34k monthly. With school demands and transport to office, I wasn't really meeting up. I actually explained to her. Though from time to time i do give her something. She was really angry when I didn't get her something for her birthday. Fortunately for me, the money they were debiting ended last month. She had asked me to buy her a phone cos her previous one was bad. I agreed I will. I was ready to surprise her this month, but unfortunately, she came back with a new phone when she visited her parents. And when she came back from the visit, she called it quit.
Truth is, she is gone. Am moving on. Have actually learnt my lesson.

Cholls:
my brother you're a disgrace to brotherhood


So this is what you have to do to make a woman love you for who you are.



Op you're doomed if you heed to this chump advice.

He is not far from the truth bro

esosa993:
That is the way some ignorant gals behave,who isn't scared of a broken heart but the last thing I'll ever do is to turn myself into a trash bin for men cos am "too scared to be in love",I wud never keep dating and dumping guys cos am too scared of love..... Pls take heart and just move on she aint worth the heart ache

Thanks

Incorruptible:
Lol
I never forced her to love me. She fell willingly. It was going on well.
I don't want her back. Just need a way to forget about her. That's all

Get someone more beautiful, more sweet and probably more romantic than her and I can guarantee u will forget her after a very short while.
Note: The new girl must be good in d kitchen and most importantly on the bed. Kutuma Bura ubanna Op, u can be rest assured she will be gone in ur heart before u say
Dukeolumide

dukeolumde:
Get someone more beautiful, more sweet and probably more romantic than her and I can guarantee u will forget her after a very short while.
Note: The new girl must be good in d kitchen and most importantly on the bed. Kutuma Bura ubanna Op, u can be rest assured she will be gone in ur heart before u say
Dukeolumide

Noted

Twas lust and not love that killed Samson...