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I know d case of finance wil be number 1

reminds me of my used to be Prity neighbors,too Prity that she thinks no one is type.still single @43

At No.6 I can't coman kill myself put.
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lacicrips:
Let her buy the ring. She should get her choice, and bring it for me to propose.

ayokunlei:
Bbf newest

bbf

missbronze:
. why wont u like my location, badoo.


No, we didn't lead him on. we dated him to know ourselves better, and, along the line, we realized is nt what we want.

So why do u av to wait for him to pop the question b4 u back out? Maka y?

OP u nailed it with number 7! I just hate it when my man has too many female friends, but when I have too many male friends wahala go come burst! He will start asking what I am doing with too many male friends! I am doing the same thing u are doing M*o*d*a*f*u*c*k*e*r !

missbronze:
Very correct.


Truth is that, not all men are husband material.


In one way or the other, a lady will see what will make her nt want to get married to a guy. or have her reason for nt accepting the marriage proposal.




But, trust guys, they will nt want to know the reasons, or accept their fualts, and, work towards being a better person.


Rather, they will start labelling the gal all sorts of name. and, will be wishing her evil.

I would say you are speaking from personal experience as its not all guys that will call a default gal evil names,most guys I know won't want to call a gal evil names as it automatically pronounce they were involved with the evil @ dat tym
The OP spoke facts,and truth is there is no husband material or wfe material,but we have to make do with what we have and mould him as husband material.
Some of us get decieved thinking a caring yahoo guy is a husband material while a caring official worker is not because he cannot meet up with our financial needs and also the tym D family demands of him atm.
I see most of theproblem as civilisation!
The gadgets and the ease of communication
In the past our love life relied upon lettersznand once u can write a touching letter to ur lover,it goes a long way in D relationship.
But these days f u don't call and another toaster that lives closer does the frequent calling and meeting of basc needs,I.e hair nails and if given room to sex,we discover we tend to believe the guy more than the husband to be,
Wat are ur criterias for a true husband material?

SexyStrawberry:
OP u nailed it with number 7! I just hate it when my man has too many female friends, but when I have too many male friends wahala go come burst! He will start asking what I am doing with too many male friends! I am doing the same thing u are doing M*o*d*a*f*u*c*k*e*r !

what do u wanna do with the malefriends

chamboy:
what do u wanna do with the malefriends

See question

rawtouch:
During this scarcity of husbands no lady will say no

Actually the OP missed an important reason.

Many ladies have multiple boyfriends for various needs. The one with long fat dickus, another with a fat wallet, another with with swagger, with small change for recharge card etc.

Woe betide the recharge card guy or just swagger if he proposes, he ain't getting no where.

But later on, the one they want to marry might never propose. So you see them after multiple abortions heading towards age 40 running from prophet to prophet to get a "good husband".

Ok

Keep forming hard to get till all d good men waka pass you. Wise girls are getting married every Saturday while you are waiting for a perfect man

Woaw ... Nice post

KINDLY VOTE FOR MADJUNE IN THE MOBILEBOOKSHELF WRITE AND WIN COMPETITION WITH HIS POETRY ENTRY TITLED-

ALONE WITH MY THOUGHTS ( TORMENT OF THE WITCHING TREE)

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Una no dey sleep at all? Shuu

Come to the North... What an average hausa girl believe is to get married and raise her own family. As early as 17...i thought is a joke until I witnessed it with my two Koro Koro eyes last weekend. The girl is just 15.

I later found out that.. The best way to win an hausa girl's heart to impress her with marriage proposal.

So wat are we talking about?

EroticAngelina:
You hit the point!!! so men, hope y'all are reading and practicing.

is that no 5 a reason to say no to a guy nt jx a guy, buh the one u luv that's so ridiculous.

buh no 3 is very important and should nt be seen as a bad thing u knw. there are girls who are too young for marriage, they know nothing abt luv or life, u dnt rly expect them to jump into marriage. for example, a guy proposing to his 17 yrs old gf, and wanting them to get married now now now... Dats bullshiiit. she has to grow and be at least 21 yrs bfor thinking of marriage and having babies(at least that's hw I see it) etc, it has ntn to do with commitment.

BRIGHTRIVERS:
Guys hw does it feel to get a NO??.. I'v never xperienced a NO

LoL...Trust me u'll never get an answer to that question as most guys are just as clueless; or lemme put it this way, how many guys here can swear that they've even gotten to the stage of proposing to a lady?
How many of our single ladies here have ever been proposed to? I only know they (the ladies) dream alot about it.

Mznaett:
You're correct but permit to add to it sha lol

6: If her village people dey follow her up and down.. den we know d rest na hahahahahha

why eh be say na only u come talk abt no 6 na...

noblesteph:
such babes never see anything ...u help or man build ur home!anyway...time is cumin when there prayers would be like *God any how....even I will be d one sponsoring the marriage I will....Lord let him jx say it* a time is cumin when babes will be d one proposing....but DAT should be after I am married .#winks#

even I will sponsoring the marriage I will!!!ok good talk

Some reject marriage proposal cos of Education

Not being tall handsome and presentable

Or they haven't imagine themselves settling down.

Thank god say no be only me waka come. After all, them no dey tell blind man say rain dey fall

AlabaSlim:
If you believe the OP then you are mentally mad!!!!!

Oshomole, AY, Akpororo, Taiye Taiwo, etc made us to understand that ONLY MONEY is needed for a girl to say YES for ever!!!!!!!

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EroticAngelina:
You hit the point!!! so men, hope y'all are reading and practicing.

is that no 5 a reason to say no to a guy nt jx a guy, buh the one u luv that's so ridiculous.

buh no 3 is very important and should nt be seen as a bad thing u knw. there are girls who are too young for marriage, they know nothing abt luv or life, u dnt rly expect them to jump into marriage. for example, a guy proposing to his 17 yrs old gf, and wanting them to get married now now now... Dats bullshiiit. she has to grow and be at least 21 yrs bfor thinking of marriage and having babies(at least that's hw I see it) etc, it has ntn to do with commitment.

Sure you are able to read and comprehend??

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Francisxavier:
Woaw ... Nice post

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sonofananimal:
LET THEM KEEP ON SAYING NO TO MARRIAGE,

WHO EVEN WANT TO PROPOSE TO YOU PEOPLE

AFTER ALL!!! NAIJA WOMEN ARE ANIMALS, AND ANIMALS DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE ANIMALS

sonofananimal:
LET THEM KEEP ON SAYING NO TO MARRIAGE,

WHO EVEN WANT TO PROPOSE TO YOU PEOPLE

AFTER ALL!!! NAIJA WOMEN ARE ANIMALS, AND ANIMALS DESERVE TO BE TREATED LIKE ANIMALS

Ohboy! u d vexoo, chehh, Na my Naija girls u d rubbish like this. mehn u no try

missbronze:
Believe me,


You will be shocked.

Man you ugly, wonder who will even wanna marry u. Smh for that person.

Mzflexydeeva:
The thought of a lady saying no to a marriage proposal to many is unrealistic. Many a time ladies are characterized by their attitude towards trapping a man into marriage rather than refusing a proposal but as uncommon as it may seem to many, guys still get their rings thrown back in their faces.

7 common reasons why ladies reject marriage proposals include:

1. Financial independence

When financial independence is mentioned, a lot of people are quick to say ladies are only after the money, want a well to do man but this isn't about the man. Not that the "independent state" of a man doesn't count but some ladies reject marriage proposals because they (the lady) want to be financially stable before starting a family. Not every girl likes the idea of a man taking care of all her needs. Some ladies want to also be able to contribute and support their husbands financially before their answer is yes.

2. Family attachment

A man who loves his family can be said to be a good man. He can also be said to be one who would make a good husband and father but when a man is too attached to family it can be a reason not to be taken seriously when he pops the question. A man who can't make decisions until he gets approval from his family still has an invisible umbilical cord round his neck.
A guy who has to meet all the needs of his family before considering the needs of his "to be" wife may not change after marriage. No woman wants a man whose decisions can only be final after the parents have certified

3. Age factor

Many ladies have lost great men because they have allowed themselves to be consumed by the feeling of "still young".
A lady who feels she is too young to get married shouldn't be in a relationship. Some ladies claim to be ready but when the proposal comes they say they are too young. This has more to do with their inability to deal with commitment.

4. Mending fences strategy

Relationships are never perfect and a good surprise is always welcomed but proposing during a misunderstanding or a fight usually backfires. It is good to want to work through issues easily and have them sorted out quickly but proposing when she's mad at you is risky. A no may just be what you get.

5. Proposal method and ring choice

Ladies usually have things they fantasize about. One of which is their wedding and also the way you propose. Ladies have been known to turn down marriage proposal because they felt it wasn't romantic enough, others because it was too extravagant. Choice of ring too has not been left out. Ladies love to show off among their peers, no wonder a lady would say no to a guy simply because she feels the ring used in proposing is not befitting.

6. Sexual satisfaction.

The importance given to sex in relationships these days cannot be over emphasized. A lady could reject a proposal upon considering if the guy satisfies her in bed or not. In a relationship, a lady can still try to get her sexual satisfaction from someone else but in marriage she may not. Knowing that a guy can't sexually satisfy her is a good enough reason to say no for some ladies.

7. Lack of trust (too many female friends)

Lack of trust is one of the most common issues faced by relationships today. A lot of people are in relationships where trust is only a mirage. A major cause of lack of trust for ladies is encompassed in the fact that the guy has too many female friends. In such situations, the lady is likely to feel insecure and unsure. Even when the guy proposes, she tends to take it as a joke and the reply is usually no.

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