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missbronze:
Even with all u wrote there,

A Nigeria gal will still refuse a guy proposal.

But, wait,

Are u saying because men are rare (according to u). That a lady should therefore accept any man that proposes.?

She shouldn't consider her own wants, likes, values, goals, feelings. etc. She should just accept.

it's rather alarming. They think girls are too desperate to say no

Mzflexydeeva:
it's rather alarming. They think girls are too desperate to say no

I am telling u dear.

The same way they say a gal is nt a wife material.

Is also the same way some of them are nt husband material.

missbronze:
I am telling u dear.

I know a lady who said no initially. Though she married the guy later but that was after they sorted out their issues

missbronze:
I am telling u dear.

The same way they say a gal is nt a wife material.

Is also the same way some of them are nt husband material.

them never see anything

missbronze:
Even with all u wrote there,

A Nigeria gal will still refuse a guy proposal.

But, wait,

Are u saying because men are rare (according to u). That a lady should therefore accept any man that proposes.?

She shouldn't consider her own wants, likes, values, goals, feelings. etc. She should just accept.

hilarious when women think drs a formula for finding love or the perfect man for marriage. So how many proposals hv u rejected based on ur formula? If none den u have to change ur formula so u can attract proposals since ur still single

XTHRONE:
Marriage is an uncessary burden one heap on oneself,marriage is over rated.too much hyping....

Yea, marriage is a huge burden to many that are in it.

missbronze:
U are nt serious.

if i catch u there ehn.

I dey very serious. The trouser is unzipped sef...so the entrance is open. Come catch me there abeg.

Topic should have been: 7 uncommon reasons why ladies say no to marriage.


If you like fulfil all the 7 reasons according to Op. A lady who will say no will still say no to proposal.

Reason: Personality, Poor Mental Judgement, Indecision.

Most often times the No's are reversible and those that are irreversible often regret saying No. Only a few are lucky with decisions.

Thionameek. How you doing?

missbronze:
Very correct.


Truth is that, not all men are husband material.


In one way or the other, a lady will see what will make her nt want to get married to a guy. or have her reason for nt accepting the marriage proposal.




But, trust guys, they will nt want to know the reasons, or accept their fualts, and, work towards being a better person.


Rather, they will start labelling the gal all sorts of name. and, will be wishing her evil.

of course because you girls are so confused and myopic, that you dont even know what you really want, u want a caring man, u want to rich guy,tommorow u want a built guy, next a tall guy, next a fair guy,dark guy,haba.so u dont blame guys calling una names,because u women are chaos...

[quote author=mekonglobal post=36901587][/quote]You sound like one yourself! That was my opinion Mr.

Raalsalghul:
Does kneeling down make the man a better husband or does it make the marriage successful?

Lolzzz, naaa,,,,,,can men be better??

Mzflexydeeva:
you'll be shocked

He has a shock absorber.

EroticAngelina:
u never know, there myt be something crucial delaying them. buh if there's nothing, then its nonsense.

ma'am, do you mean it is nonsense if a 22year old woman consider herself too young to get married?

Noted

lordyugo:
hilarious when women think drs a formula for finding love or the perfect man for marriage. So how many proposals hv u rejected based on ur formula? If none den u have to change ur formula so u can attract proposals since ur still single

Nobody is looking for a perfect husband here.

All we want is a marriage that will last till eternity both for d guy and gal.

Just as you have criteria in choosing a wife, so also do we.

Or, do u just marry any gal that comes ur way just because u are dating each other.

Edusouls:
of course because you girls are so confused and myopic, that you dont even know what you really want, u want a caring man, u want to rich guy,tommorow u want a built guy, next a tall guy, next a fair guy,dark guy,haba.so u dont blame guys calling una names,because u women are chaos...

You are doing exactly what i complained about.


Hasty to generalize and conclude.

Without bothering to check yourself first. and, seeing urself without a single fualt because u are a man.


why not slow down, ask your woman, talk to your woman. What she want.

missbronze:
Nobody is looking for a perfect husband here.

All we want is a marriage that will last till eternity both for d guy and gal.

based on d formula abi?

missbronze:
He may, he may not.

Is also left for the gal to give a second chance or nt.

to be honest, I have never seen a second chance of any such, once a woman said no to a proposal, she just can't go back to her word. And that will either be her lifetime mistake or happynes

lordyugo:
based on d formula abi?

Just like u have ur own criterias wen choosing a wife.

sonofananimal:
to be honest, I have never seen a second chance of any such, once a woman said no to a proposal, she just can't go back to her word. And that will either be her lifetime mistake or happynes

Some do reconsider.


Btw, most times u surprise me with ur post. very mature, when u want to be.


That's why i said i am inlove with u.


But, i am a NIGERIAN.

rawtouch:
I like your location

Why will you date a guy and lead him on then when he pops the question you reject him, I have never heard such before if the dude is truly the only one in your life

guys go into a relationshp for many reasons of which marriage is the last on the list but when a lady goes into any relationshp, she usually visualizes marriage as the end point so, No lady can say NO

rashylous:
Come to the North... What an average hausa girl believe is to get married and raise her own family. As early as 17...i thought is a joke until I witnessed it with my two Koro Koro eyes last weekend. The girl is just 15.

I later found out that.. The best way to win an hausa girl's heart to impress her with marriage proposal.

So wat are we talking about?

no, wat are YOU talking abt is every girl in Nigeria Hausa I think the problem with u boys is generalization! no offense. u guys think every girl z the same. gone are those days ok.

REJECTING MARRIAGE PROPOSAL because of family ko....
keep rejecting because of family a time will come when that same family ..will start insulting u ..
with words like
what are u still waiting for in this house go and marry...
ALL UR MATES are married and u are still here...

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anumide:
ma'am, do you mean it is nonsense if a 22year old woman consider herself too young to get married?

if there's a solid reason for that decision, then yes its nonsense. different girls come with different lyf ambitions that can't be achieved when married. I hope this z self explanatory.

I hate it when ppl think women must get married too early lyk she's some slave or something

seedorfg:
They (ladys) should keep forming and be rejecting a man's proposa,l by the time the HER beauty faded and SHE is plus 33years SHE will be visiting church to mosque from radio to television in search of a man whose God fearing

Awon oniranu gbogbo, let me just see any woman that will turn down my proposal. i will just port to a more serious lady instead .....

FIX

noniwealth:
I would say you are speaking from personal experience as its not all guys that will call a default gal evil names,most guys I know won't want to call a gal evil names as it automatically pronounce they were involved with the evil @ dat tym
The OP spoke facts,and truth is there is no husband material or wfe material,but we have to make do with what we have and mould him as husband material.
Some of us get decieved thinking a caring yahoo guy is a husband material while a caring official worker is not because he cannot meet up with our financial needs and also the tym D family demands of him atm.
I see most of theproblem as civilisation!
The gadgets and the ease of communication
In the past our love life relied upon lettersznand once u can write a touching letter to ur lover,it goes a long way in D relationship.
But these days f u don't call and another toaster that lives closer does the frequent calling and meeting of basc needs,I.e hair nails and if given room to sex,we discover we tend to believe the guy more than the husband to be,
Wat are ur criterias for a true husband material?

you have really spoken well I never thought some ladies still have this much brains inside their heads

AreaFada2:
Actually the OP missed an important reason.

Many ladies have multiple boyfriends for various needs. The one with long fat dickus, another with a fat wallet, another with with swagger, with small change for recharge card etc.

Woe betide the recharge card guy or just swagger if he proposes, he ain't getting no where.

But later on, the one they want to marry might never propose. So you see them after multiple abortions heading towards age 40 running from prophet to prophet to get a "good husband".

Lol I call that misplaced priority when you have those guys as sides your main target will also keep you as side hoe equally

Ifebazz:
The author of this piece must be a teenager who is yet to know how 'hard' it is to come by men who are ready or willing to 'pop the question'. She and her cronies should keep on with their fantasies till their early and mid thirties, maybe by then, they'd know why even superstar ladies are becoming baby mamas by the minutes. If they had lousy mummies men to 'pop the question' during a physical fight, he won't have to finish the sentence before she drags him to the altar. The married ones are having a hard time keeping their husbands to themselves alone let alone the unmarried and maybe a totally dependent liability. Be wise, lady.

you just sounded like a real observant mind leave them after they will be looking for the witch that held them back. That was how my pretty aunt in her hay days turned down a lot of cool men jst to beg one abuser to marry her and leave with her in her own house. Now she is looking for who pity her situation

missbronze:
Some do reconsider.


Btw, most times u surprise me with ur post. very mature, when u want to be.


That's why i said i am inlove with u.


But, i am a NIGERIAN.

lolz that's why I use cap lock for the unserious me. By the way! To be honest I am once in this kind of situation, and I do thank her for being honest with her reason. sometimes we men do have some strange way of reasoning.

SexyStrawberry:
See question

all u av is mouth ... u probably can't do any tin

Abeg make I go watch highlight

[quote author=Oyind17 post=36904482]Ok no fighting... Yes ur opinion is repected, and so is mine.