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dapyd1:
Okay o.

But I think finances is usually number one.
If that one is taken care of, somehow every other thing falls into place.

At least, most times.

Mzflexydeeva:
bbf

missbronze:
Even with all u wrote there,

A Nigeria gal will still refuse a guy proposal.

But, wait,

Are u saying because men are rare (according to u). That a lady should therefore accept any man that proposes.?


She shouldn't consider her own wants, likes, values, goals, feelings. etc. She should just accept.

missbronze:
I will finish that guy.

missbronze:
Very correct.


Truth is that, not all men are husband material.


In one way or the other, a lady will see what will make her nt want to get married to a guy. or have her reason for nt accepting the marriage proposal.




But, trust guys, they will nt want to know the reasons, or accept their fualts, and, work towards being a better person.


Rather, they will start labelling the gal all sorts of name. and, will be wishing her evil.

missbronze:
Lol.


Isiokpukpu. (strong head)

Comot for rd joor.

ayokunlei:
Doctor waa, na beta by Far newest I mean na

prosperanyi:
I just read thru from the first page...

I think the ish should be knowing how to and when to propose to a lady.

Trust me, females are in a steady state of changing feelings.

This is what i have learnt...

As a Man, while dating her, be confident. be social, be focused on your dreams.

Be humble, be deeply committed to a faith, have a steady source of income. be accommodating and be merciless in bed . (Get help if u must)

then play the delay game...

Be so good and sweet and then try to let her know you are nervous about marriage with your body language.

trust me, after some years... She will be the person making all efforts to encourage you to settle down. She will start turning every discussion into a Marriage Class.

If i hear she said NO if u proposed. Mtsheeew.

Ladies sha...

sonofananimal:
lolz that's why I use cap lock for the unserious me. By the way! To be honest I am once in this kind of situation, and I do thank her for being honest with her reason. sometimes we men do have some strange way of reasoning.

Orkpekyandega:
You just hit the point as rough as it is. This useless "ego" that most guys exhibit can be so killing you know. There is something very interesting about life that one must not ignore; knowing your flowns, faults, shortcomings, deficiencies, e.t.c. But if you don't know or can't identify them, you better be grateful to those who help you to, no matter how bitter it might sound like. And when you/they do, be ready to work on yourself-Self Development.
I am a guy but must commend you on this. Self Ego is an enemy to most guys.
Your signature sounds so interesting. Lol.

missbronze:
Some do reconsider.


Btw, most times u surprise me with ur post. very mature, when u want to be.


That's why i said i am inlove with u.


But, i am a NIGERIAN.

pbs4real:
nah mouth i wan gv u eight hours non-stp ragae,dnt say i didn't warn u. the last gal wey try am wit me nah stretcher dem use for am.

Orkpekyandega:
Don't mind Sonofananimal, I know very well that he is the direct opposit of what his posts speak about him . They are so many people on Nairaland whom you can't rightly judge by the tune of their comments or posts. [They are simply carried away by what the majority of bad people do, and then ride on the negativity of some bad eggs to make generalizations. Am good at reading people's comments and reconciling their tune with the reality of their lives , yourself inclusive Miss or Mrs. You sound very intelligent.

Orkpekyandega:
Don't mind Sonofananimal, I know very well that he is the direct opposit of what his posts speak about him. They are so many people on Nairaland whom you can't rightly judge by the tune of their comments or posts. They are simply carried away by what the majority of bad people do, and then ride on the negativity of some bad eggs to make generalizations. Am good at reading people's comments and reconciling their tune with the reality of their lives, yourself inclusive Miss or Mrs. You sound very intelligent.

missbronze:
Thanks sir.


My head is swelling big time.

rashylous:
Come to the North... What an average hausa girl believe is to get married and raise her own family. As early as 17...i thought is a joke until I witnessed it with my two Koro Koro eyes last weekend. The girl is just 15.

I later found out that.. The best way to win an hausa girl's heart to impress her with marriage proposal.

So wat are we talking about?

prosperanyi:
To be honest with you... I can't date a girl with your mindset. Even if i do, we wont last more than 48 hours before we break up. Girl! you really need to work on your mindset... I don't care whatever experience you have had, Stop viewing males the way you do.

missbronze:
Keep making mouth.


Just ask that a.b.o.ki for ur area Wetin i do am, even with all hin brutanshi wey drink.

I swear, if u provoke me,............?

sonofananimal:
FIRST LINE! YOU MAYBE RIGHT, BUT THE SECOND LINE! THAT'S WHERE YOU FVCKED UP.


YOU ARE A GOOD READER BUT NOT THE OBSERVING TYPE.
IF I AM WRONG!! YOU HAVE COMPLIMENTED THIS WOMAN TWICE AND WHEN A GUY COMPLIMENT SOMEONE AND TRYING TO BACK DOWN ANOTHER FELLOW, SOMETHING IS WRONG SOMEWHERE,





Sonofananimal who have I backed down in the first place pls?

YOU HAVE AN HIDDEN MOTIVE!!



Hidden Motive? Oh my God. Maybe you are the type of person that believes that any guy that compliments a woman more than once has a hidden agenda. The notion that every guy that compliments a woman more than once has a hidden agenda is scrap, a myth that has no basis. Why are you so fond of using or taking very insignificant behavioural samples to make generalizations in all cases. If you follow my mentions you will notice that I hadly ignore intelligent coments, atleast I always drop a 'like' to such coments whether it was made by a man or woman. Nairaland is so full of unintellingent comments most of whom sound so childish so I can't just ignore the once I feel are reasonable. Please most of these generalisations you guys are fond of don't always hold sway.

sonofananimal:
GUY! IT IS OK.

LET US LEAVE THE PAST AS IT IS.

OK!! I AM WRONG IN SOME WAY.

Orkpekyandega:
No I don't really mean that. Every body's opinion must be respected. Thanks.

missbronze:
No, we didn't lead him on. we dated him to know ourselves better, and, along the line, we realized is nt what we want.

rawtouch:
never will, her loss anyway

missbronze:
. why wont u like my location, badoo.


No, we didn't lead him on. we dated him to know ourselves better, and, along the line, we realized is nt what we want.