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Elvis506:
that was then bro wen love still exist...

oh! so love no exist again ba?

The wife to be is f o o l ish.
what type of phone is she using that she can't have it passworded,pattern locked,face locked,voice locked,all d lockable that somebody will have access to see her chats and go thru her phone in her absence?

Oyind17:
it's cos u mention my old man. he's no more

Awwwww....M very Sorry...like deeply sorry pleaseeeeee.

Lizabeth25:
Like I said, person no dey put mouth for this kind matter even if the person be your brother or sister!

your bringing them together is a great ideal but bro, that should be the limit of your interference in their issues. You can lock them in a room self, make them agree or disagree but for the love of yourself, dont tell your friend what to do or what to say. You dont know where he will discuss your matter. Your best friend also have a best friend.!

if we continue to be afraid to speak the truth when truth can save,how do we save this generation from doom?

Elvis506:
and u practically wanna be on the other side of the judgement, a true jealous lover would never wait to that extend before reacting..

There is more to this story, I don't join the crowd when I hear a one sided story.

proxillin:
First, the lady was denying and was on the offensive when my guy confronted her that her conversations with the DJ were not business.
Secondly, she excuse my guy to go pick the DJ's call in isolation.
Why keeping her chat with the DJ confidential ?

And my guy will be the one to pay for the DJ service.

Your excuses are not logical

Exactly. And why lie to the DJ that she'd need his services for a friend's wedding? It goes to show that she has the hots for the DJ. She might not do anything now, but definitely will after the wedding.

Your friend better ditch the wh0re now

DrGroove:
The wife to be is f o o l ish.
what type of phone is she using that she can't have it passworded,pattern locked,face locked,voice locked,all d lockable that somebody will have access to see her chats and go thru her phone in her absence?

A woman that have the intention to cheat will only password the phone. until I sees s of their chat and hear the lady side of the story . all na wash

Oyind17:
Men can be jealous

you are showing your color here,ride on

OP advice your Nigga!!! Dump that B!tch now before losing money on divorce better to end things before th marriage oo!!

Billygee2u:
you are showing your color here,ride on

Lolzz, I'm far from cheating my dear

agarawu23:
stop speaking for him as if you were there

if you are the real person, let us know.

just answer this question

CAN YOU MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO MARRY A FLIRT ?[b][/b]

if the girl is a flirt, he won't wanna marry her.

Chief, Are you saying Flirts (Male& Female Folks) don't get married?
Many pretend and the insensitive partners are affected. I know of many guys that flirts and their Wife-to-be won't know, also know some hard core flirts girls in the neighborhood who also find a better half.

So let's face reality, she's obviously up to something with that DJ no doubt about that, perhaps she just want to flex away before she tie the knot which many guys (Male & Female) do. We all know what happened at Bach Eve

agitator:
People with comprehension issues always quick to comment on nairaland.

fvck off!
he was blind when he picked a date to wed her?

DrGroove:
The wife to be is f o o l ish.
what type of phone is she using that she can't have it passworded,pattern locked,face locked,voice locked,all d lockable that somebody will have access to see her chats and go thru her phone in her absence?

Now they are coming out to comment.

By their words, we shall know them.

Rockstar07:
Chief, Are you saying Flirts (Male& Female Folks) don't get married?
Many pretend and the insensitive partners are affected. I know of many guys that flirts and their Wife-to-be won't know, also know some hard core flirts girls in the neighborhood who also find a better half.

So let's face reality, she's obviously up to something with that DJ no doubt about that, perhaps she just want to flex away before she tie the knot which many guys (Male & Female) do. We all know what happened at Bach Eve

hmmmm
see as u decide like say you dey there

A broken relationship anytime any day is better than a broken marriage. he has the seen the warning signs for the road leading to a broken home alas he has found this late.

agarawu23:
The girl left her conversations with the DJ on her phone until the husband to be saw it ? we shouldn't rush into conclusion that the lady is trying to fvck the DJ.

They have been together for so long before planning to get married, and the guy never complained about the girl trying to cheat or flirt. if he hasn't, we shouldn't think what we are thinking.

But if the guy knows the lady for flirting around, he should end the wedding once and for all instead of planning to fvck around after the wedding because it will only shorten his life.

Is not ordinary chat cuz she didn't attend to him as his client, she was referring him to her friend not her wedding.

victorazy:
Is not ordinary chat cuz she didn't attend to him as his client, she was referring him to her friend not her wedding.

hmmm
those that mean she wanna fvck the DJ ?

Truth?

Listen, situations like this is a sensitive one! Did you force your friend to propose to the girl?

Billygee2u:
if we continue to be afraid to speak the truth when truth can save,how do we save this generation from doom?

Men can be so funny at times if i where him i will rather cancelled the so call wedding than having such as wife cos i don't knw why some girls re so heartless...

proxillin:
My friend’s wedding is coming up by next month. I am to be one of his men in suit.

I noticed they are quarreling recently. He opened up to me yesterday.

They are looking for a DJ to play at their reception, so his wifeToBe got a number of one DJ, added him on whatsap and they started chatting. My guy trusted the lady that she is just doing business chat with the DJ.

One day, my friend was going through her whatsapp chat with the DJ. The WifeTB told the DJ that she needs the service of the DJ for her friend’s wedding. She didn’t tell the DJ she is actually the one wedding.

The DJ started asking her out for date. She agreed to meet the DJ for a date somewhere.

My guy saw all that, yet he kept quiet and didn’t want to raise the issue with the lady as their wedding is close, before people start saying he is jealous, he is spying on his girl blahblah.

But my friend could not endure the whole thing again when the DJ started calling her repeatedly. They engage in confidential phone calls. She will be laughing…all Yes No Yes No Ok.. Ok hmmmm conversation, so that someone nearby will not understand what they are saying. At times she excuses my guy to go and pick the DJ’s call.
My guy finally confronted her, why all conversations with the DJ are not business and formal. Why is she hiding things from him?

The wifetobe went mad she alleged my guy is jealous, wrongly suspecting her.

My friend told her, he actually read their chats where they agreed to go out on a date.
That’s when she admitted that he actually asked her to meet him somewhere for a hangout.
She said she had nothing in mind for him. She is only going to meet him as friend at a restaurant. Nothing is going to happen. It’s just a harmless date.

My friend opened up to me that he regretted making decision to marry her. He told me a lot of things that he can’t cancel the wedding again. He will be part of the wedding, but after the wedding, he will start f***cking girls. He will make life difficult for her.

I told him, it’s better to remain single than to go into a hateful marriage.
Deep down in me, I can’t advise him to cancel the wedding.
I have summoned them for a meeting to discuss it and settle it. But that lady can be arrogant at times. My peace meeting may or may not be successful.

Is it normal for a lady to go out on a date with another guy just a month to her wedding?

Uhmmmm....

Ladies can act in a tricky way sometimes.

Yes she might not be having an affair with the dj. But then, every habit that tends to arouse jealosy intentionally in your partner should be avoided at all cost. From that angle, I think she missed.

proxillin:
My friend’s wedding is coming up by next month. I am to be one of his men in suit.

I noticed they are quarreling recently. He opened up to me yesterday.

They are looking for a DJ to play at their reception, so his wifeToBe got a number of one DJ, added him on whatsap and they started chatting. My guy trusted the lady that she is just doing business chat with the DJ.

One day, my friend was going through her whatsapp chat with the DJ. The WifeTB told the DJ that she needs the service of the DJ for her friend’s wedding. She didn’t tell the DJ she is actually the one wedding.

The DJ started asking her out for date. She agreed to meet the DJ for a date somewhere.

My guy saw all that, yet he kept quiet and didn’t want to raise the issue with the lady as their wedding is close, before people start saying he is jealous, he is spying on his girl blahblah.

But my friend could not endure the whole thing again when the DJ started calling her repeatedly. They engage in confidential phone calls. She will be laughing…all Yes No Yes No Ok.. Ok hmmmm conversation, so that someone nearby will not understand what they are saying. At times she excuses my guy to go and pick the DJ’s call.
My guy finally confronted her, why all conversations with the DJ are not business and formal. Why is she hiding things from him?

The wifetobe went mad she alleged my guy is jealous, wrongly suspecting her.

My friend told her, he actually read their chats where they agreed to go out on a date.
That’s when she admitted that he actually asked her to meet him somewhere for a hangout.
She said she had nothing in mind for him. She is only going to meet him as friend at a restaurant. Nothing is going to happen. It’s just a harmless date.

My friend opened up to me that he regretted making decision to marry her. He told me a lot of things that he can’t cancel the wedding again. He will be part of the wedding, but after the wedding, he will start f***cking girls. He will make life difficult for her.

I told him, it’s better to remain single than to go into a hateful marriage.
Deep down in me, I can’t advise him to cancel the wedding.
I have summoned them for a meeting to discuss it and settle it. But that lady can be arrogant at times. My peace meeting may or may not be successful.

Is it normal for a lady to go out on a date with another guy just a month to her wedding?

Once a slut, always a slut . This is what happens when you're the "needy" half in a relationship, you'll get pussywhipped - a lesson for the naive / stupïd men out there.

Your friend needs to put the wedding on hold. Let family members know what the issue is. If she's remorseful he can forgive her, if not let him forget it.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment, if ur friend knowingly enter into an unpleasant union, he will forever regret it.
The lady does not understand the meaning of marriage.
Submission, tolerance, patience and true love are some of the qualities she must have to be successful in her marital journey

agarawu23:
The girl left her conversations with the DJ on her phone until the husband to be saw it ? we shouldn't rush into conclusion that the lady is trying to fvck the DJ.

They have been together for so long before planning to get married, and the guy never complained about the girl trying to cheat or flirt. if he hasn't, we shouldn't think what we are thinking.

But if the guy knows the lady for flirting around, he should end the wedding once and for all instead of planning to fvck around after the wedding because it will only shorten his life.

You disappoint me mehn...
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un-follows the nigga...

matingo:
Your friend needs to put the wedding on hold. Let family members know what the issue is. If she's remorseful he can forgive her, if not let him forget it.
Marriage is a lifetime commitment, if ur friend knowingly enter into an unpleasant union, he will forever regret it.
The lady does not understand the meaning of marriage.
Submission, tolerance, patience and true love are some of the qualities she must have to be successful in her marital journey

that brings us to the question: how old is she?

iPopAlomo:
You disappoint me mehn...
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un-follows the nigga...

is not q must you accept with my opinion
I can't judge a case i don't have the full story

agarawu23:
No evidence to prove she is flirting with the DJ and I don't blv a lady can be so stupiid to leave a flirting conversation for her 'husband to be' to see.

We guys think negatively especially we the flirting ones. we assume what isn't possible.

if the lady is a flirt, the guy wouldn't have made up his mind to marry her.

you can read his statement about fvcking around after marriage, you should know the guy is a player with negative mind. he might have exaggerated the whole story

we shouldn't judge so quickly

bros,write another one,the lady already complicated the issue by telling the DJ it's her friend's wedding,she has the intention of cheating abeg

Holluwatarhyor:
bros,write another one,the lady already complicated the issue by telling the DJ it's her friend's wedding,she has the intention of cheating abeg

okay na, I hear u

DrGroove:
The wife to be is f o o l ish.
what type of phone is she using that she can't have it passworded,pattern locked,face locked,voice locked,all d lockable that somebody will have access to see her chats and go thru her phone in her absence?

and your likes,that's if you are even maRried yourself,will go to your pastor,alpha or babalawo that guys are not asking you out,if you like password your pussy,na you sabi

proxillin:
My friend’s wedding is coming up by next month. I am to be one of his men in suit.

I noticed they are quarreling recently. He opened up to me yesterday.

They are looking for a DJ to play at their reception, so his wifeToBe got a number of one DJ, added him on whatsap and they started chatting. My guy trusted the lady that she is just doing business chat with the DJ.

One day, my friend was going through her whatsapp chat with the DJ. The WifeTB told the DJ that she needs the service of the DJ for her friend’s wedding. She didn’t tell the DJ she is actually the one wedding.

The DJ started asking her out for date. She agreed to meet the DJ for a date somewhere.

My guy saw all that, yet he kept quiet and didn’t want to raise the issue with the lady as their wedding is close, before people start saying he is jealous, he is spying on his girl blahblah.

But my friend could not endure the whole thing again when the DJ started calling her repeatedly. They engage in confidential phone calls. She will be laughing…all Yes No Yes No Ok.. Ok hmmmm conversation, so that someone nearby will not understand what they are saying. At times she excuses my guy to go and pick the DJ’s call.
My guy finally confronted her, why all conversations with the DJ are not business and formal. Why is she hiding things from him?

The wifetobe went mad she alleged my guy is jealous, wrongly suspecting her.

My friend told her, he actually read their chats where they agreed to go out on a date.
That’s when she admitted that he actually asked her to meet him somewhere for a hangout.
She said she had nothing in mind for him. She is only going to meet him as friend at a restaurant. Nothing is going to happen. It’s just a harmless date.

My friend opened up to me that he regretted making decision to marry her. He told me a lot of things that he can’t cancel the wedding again. He will be part of the wedding, but after the wedding, he will start f***cking girls. He will make life difficult for her.

I told him, it’s better to remain single than to go into a hateful marriage.
Deep down in me, I can’t advise him to cancel the wedding.
I have summoned them for a meeting to discuss it and settle it. But that lady can be arrogant at times. My peace meeting may or may not be successful.

Is it normal for a lady to go out on a date with another guy just a month to her wedding?

my brother can you imagine! With NO GULT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girl you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most-loyalty-is just not there with women. Women don't think in terms of honor, women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling to a woman than(1) the way she feels and(2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations.


Look, you can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal...but i could *never* trust a woman to be loyal.