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7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by cyprianlah(m): 6:49am On Aug 20, 2015
One thing to know is that, having sex will never change you as a person

Getting disvirgined should be handled as a big deal. You really don’t want to face regret a few hours, days or years after losing it, which is why it’s best you wait until you are totally ready.

One thing to know is that, having sex will never change you as a person and several others things about your relationship status will never change after you lose your virginity.

Here are a few things that never changes about you after having sex for the first time:

1. Your body: If you haven’t already broken your hymen by playing sports, then your “cherry is going to pop” when you have sex for the first time. However, other than that, your body isn’t going to change at all. Your vagina acts like a rubber band, so it isn’t going to become loose after you have sex. Your body will look the same as it always did, so there’s no reason to be afraid of “ruining” it.

2. Your relationship status: You should never sleep with someone in the hopes that they’ll end up dating you after the fact. Unfortunately, some men are only interested in sex. While sleeping with a guy could potentially change your relationship, it probably won’t. So don’t assume that he’ll suddenly love you if you take your clothes off for him. If he doesn’t like you before you sleep together, he won’t like you after you sleep together.

3. Your value: You might’ve been taught that pure women are more valuable than sexually active women. However, losing your virginity doesn’t make you more or less attractive, and it certainly doesn’t make you more or less valuable. You’re still the same person, so your value hasn’t gone up or down.

4. The way others view you: You’re not going to be shunned by society after having sex. You’re not going to become the most popular kid in school after having sex, either. After all, no one will even know that you’re sexually active unless you or your partner tells them. That means you’ll be viewed the same way as you always were.

5. Your feelings: After you have sex with someone, your feelings for them probably won’t change. If anything, they’ll end up becoming more intense. So if you want to sleep with a guy in order to get over him, it’s not a great idea. If you liked him before you had sex, you’ll only end up liking him even more after you have sex.

6. Your morals: As long as you’re completely ready (and old enough) to deal with the repercussions of having sex, you shouldn’t feel bad about losing your virginity. Being sexually active doesn’t mean that you’re immoral. Stealing, cheating, and using drugs are all worse crimes. If having mature, protected sex is the worst thing that you’re doing, you can give yourself a pat on the back.

7. Your personality: Having sex might boost your confidence, but it’s not going to change you into an entirely different person. You’re still you. So don’t expect your life to change after sleeping with someone. For the most part, things will stay exactly the same as they always were.

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Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by sweetval: 6:50am On Aug 20, 2015
Tell 'em..
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by Immortall: 6:51am On Aug 20, 2015
Okay
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by BeeBeeOoh(m): 6:53am On Aug 20, 2015
Even if u don lose my virginity, with faith u still b virgin..
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by donholy28(m): 6:53am On Aug 20, 2015
The price of garri in d market
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by boboLIL(m): 6:57am On Aug 20, 2015
Nice write up.... grin
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by ikbnice(m): 6:59am On Aug 20, 2015
what wont change is the fact that you will never get your hymen back.
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by cyprianlah(m): 7:00am On Aug 20, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
Even if u don lose my virginity, with faith u still b virgin..

Lol...dat kind faith pass Abraham own ogrin
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by petux(m): 7:00am On Aug 20, 2015
the sales of indomie can never overcome garri
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by cyprianlah(m): 7:01am On Aug 20, 2015
ikbnice:
what wont change is the fact that you will never get yous hymen back.

Once broken shey?
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by Captainswag225(m): 7:15am On Aug 20, 2015
o.p, thats not true. Alot of things change when u lose ur virginity.., eg u either appreciate sex or hate sex...... Its never the same again
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by Nobody: 7:20am On Aug 20, 2015
Our generation is doomed!!

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Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by clintino700(m): 7:27am On Aug 20, 2015
It might affect prize of dollars grin
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by gabazin080(m): 7:30am On Aug 20, 2015
Even the hole size or wideness won't change if you don't do it regularly after
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by cyprianlah(m): 7:44am On Aug 20, 2015
Captainswag225:
o.p, thats not true. Alot of things change when u lose ur virginity.., eg u either appreciate sex or hate sex...... Its never the same again

Dat was y I began with dis Getting disvirgined should be handled as a big deal. You really don’t want to face regret a few hours, days or years after losing it, which is why it’s best you wait until you are totally ready.
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by Captainswag225(m): 7:53am On Aug 20, 2015
cyprianlah:


Dat was y I began with dis Getting disvirgined should be handled as a big deal. You really don’t want to face regret a few hours, days or years after losing it, which is why it’s best you wait until you are totally ready.
yeah, i agree with u, u gotta have sex when u are ready and u gotta do with the ryt person whom u will never have regrets afterwards.
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by babyfaceafrica: 7:59am On Aug 20, 2015
ikbnice:
what wont change is the fact that you will never get yous hymen back.
and what does hymen add to your life?...does it make you more successful?..does it give you salvation?..if no to the questions that its unnecessary!!!!
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by richard04(m): 8:01am On Aug 20, 2015
The president of Nigeria









Btw, check my signature
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by cyprianlah(m): 8:04am On Aug 20, 2015
Captainswag225:
yeah, i agree with u, u gotta have sex when u are ready and u gotta do with the ryt person whom u will never have regrets afterwards.

Yeh! Dats d word Regret

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Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by ikbnice(m): 8:11am On Aug 20, 2015
babyfaceafrica:
and what does hymen add to your life?...does it make you more successful?..does it give you salvation?..if no to the questions that its unnecessary!!!!
nd wot does breakin it add to your life too
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by ikbnice(m): 8:12am On Aug 20, 2015
cyprianlah:

Once broken shey?
yap
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by BeeBeeOoh(m): 8:22am On Aug 20, 2015
cyprianlah:


Lol...dat kind faith pass Abraham own ogrin
faith na faith bro, I tell u... smiley wink
Re: 7 Things That Doesn’t Change When You Lose Your Virginity by cyprianlah(m): 8:25am On Aug 20, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
faith na faith bro, I tell u... smiley wink

Dah one na wish nobe faith

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