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Please kindly advice on how to tell her that I don't find her food appealing without hurting her feeling

You don't have to tell her anything rather stylishly ask her to improve on her cooking

Wen she is cooking, assist her

Hey op,u dont need to hide dis,tell her face to face,i swear she will improve!!I trust my boo on matter like dis!

"Baby, u know I love you and will never do anything to hurt you? I just have to tell you that I have been enduring the meals u prepare...it's just not as nice/sweet/delicious/tasty/presentable as what I'm used to. Do you mind if I get someone to put you through?"
***Or***
"Tah! Wetin be this?! U no dey try at all! Na everyday u wan make I dey visit Iya Basira joint? Abeg pack this thing throway."

Very simple! Just say it!
If she is sensible enough she won't pick offense

Spot the missing ingredients and assist her with them when she's cooking... You dont have to say anything...

Geoiyke:
Please kindly advice on how to tell her that I don't find her food appealing without hurting her feeling

Go like this o.p......"Biatch! Your cooking stanks! I can't keep torturing my stomach and depleting my bank account just for the sake of eating your experimental ghoulash! In fact its over! _fuck out of my life!"

Whenever she wants to cook, get your ass up the sofa and assist her in the kitchen. Prepare the meal to your own taste and flavour while she watches you. Repeat the process often until she's able to learn and adapt to your cooking standard.

Sorry but if you don't know how to cook yourself then you don't have the privilege to complain. Just eat what you're served as you're no better.

Geoiyke:
Please kindly advice on how to tell her that I don't find her food appealing without hurting her feeling

no matter how u say it, she's going to be hurt one way or another so its best to sit her down and tell her politely. Be ready to console and assure her when she starts crying and starts feeling down.

ronald4lif:
Whenever she wants to cook, get your ass up the sofa and assist her in the kitchen. Prepare the meal to your own taste and flavour while she watches you. Repeat the process often until she's able to learn and adapt to your cooking standard.

Sorry but if you don't know how to cook yourself then you don't have the privilege to complain. Just eat what you're served as you're no better.

If you were a woman, you would be a feminist

You have a good head on your shoulder which is rare for most Nigerian men

oreos:
If you were a woman, you would be a feminist

You have a good head on your shoulder which is rare for most Nigerian men

Hehe! Feminist ke? You mean the type we have on NL? No thanks.

I think it has more to do with my environment. You know like everyone I know can cook and prepare food for themselves. For the married ones, they often do cook for their wives and kids and it's not a problem and has never made them less a man.

These things are uncommon in Nigeria and it's still considered as a role for women which it's not exactly true. Anyone can cook and perform house chores as no one is a cook or a maid to the other.

simple,just say



bae i cook pass you for real!!!!

just open your mouth while telling her. lol

ronald4lif:
Hehe! Feminist ke? You mean the type we have on NL? No thanks.

I think it has more to do with my environment. You know like everyone I know can cook and prepare food for themselves. For the married ones, they often do cook for their wives and kids and it's not a problem and has never made them less a man.

These things are uncommon in Nigeria and it's still considered as a role for women which it's not exactly true. Anyone can cook and perform house chores as no one is a cook or a maid to the other.

Trust me, you are reasonable and I think you tend to think from a practical and fair point of view.


Everyday cooking is normal. It should not be a designated chore of a sex.

That's why you are in a relationship oga. She no just good for fu*ck alone. The one way she no do well put her thru
If she doesn't cook well, and you know how to cook, I don't see why you won't help her with it, at least not 100%, but to a level.

She's your gf, not to help you cure erections alone. Deal with it.