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Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by Gurgle(f): 1:29am On Aug 24, 2015
MrsChima:


Imo? Delta? Anambra?

Id love to answer you but im too paranoid to reveal my state on here. What are you? if youre not so paranoid as me lol

What do you think I am
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by Deejavuu(f): 1:30am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


Who you dey shine teeth for? Okay na, na your ikebe go hear am. I dey bunker dey wait. grin

angry shocked

No sleeping tonight, i don divert ..

All "weapon" fashioned against me shall fail grin
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by SUGARBEE(f): 1:30am On Aug 24, 2015
Gurgle:


Ok. what language is that

Can you dance ekombi?

Nah said I grew up in the north.. Can only understand it cuz my mom speaks it to me..
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by SUGARBEE(f): 1:31am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


Just enjoy. I can see beyond the shadows.

I just hope you're not insinuating that am missclasssy
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by MrsChima(f): 1:33am On Aug 24, 2015
Gurgle:


Id love to answer you but im too paranoid to reveal my state on here. What are you? if youre not so paranoid as me lol

What do you think I am

A state/village from the far East. tongue
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by ronald4lif(m): 1:35am On Aug 24, 2015
Deejavuu:


angry shocked

No sleeping tonight, i don divert ..

All "weapon" fashioned against me shall fail grin

Yimu. Only sterilisation can tame the punishment awaiting you. Fortunately, I'm immune to one. tongue

*dancing shakiti bobo*
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by MrsChima(f): 1:35am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:
Who invited mrschima here again undecided

You missed me bae? tongue
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by MrsChima(f): 1:36am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


Yimu. Only sterilisation can tame the punishment awaiting you. Fortunately, I'm immune to one. tongue

*dancing shakiti bobo*

This Igbo.

Runnnnnnnn Deejavu!
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by ronald4lif(m): 1:38am On Aug 24, 2015
SUGARBEE:


I just hope you're not insinuating that am missclasssy

Didn't say anything. Except if you want to say something sha.
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by SUGARBEE(f): 1:39am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


Didn't say anything. Except if you want to say something sha.
angry grin

Goodnight Sir
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by MrsChima(f): 1:40am On Aug 24, 2015
I am getting sleepy!
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by ronald4lif(m): 1:41am On Aug 24, 2015
MrsChima:


This Igbo.

Runnnnnnnn Deejavu!

No where to run or seek refuge for her. She must perform her usual nocturnal 'rituals'. Don't be a spoiler. undecided
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by Deejavuu(f): 1:41am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


Yimu. Only sterilisation can tame the punishment awaiting you. Fortunately, I'm immune to one. tongue

*dancing shakiti bobo*

Mouth!!!

You wey go soon dey snore.

Dancing shoki
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by Deejavuu(f): 1:42am On Aug 24, 2015
MrsChima:


This Igbo.

Runnnnnnnn Deejavu!

grin grin grin

Thanks mami..

Running as fast as usain bolt
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by SmartMugu: 3:11am On Aug 24, 2015
The closest I got to being scammed was a girl in high school, some almost 20 years ago. I was a prefect back then, girls liked prefects. She actually introduced herself to me in school and we started chatting from time to time whenever we saw each other in school.
I thought she liked me.
Back then, there were no GSMs, so I intentionally walked on her street hoping to see her outside and ask her out on a date. Eventually it happened.
As broke as I was, I gathered money from siblings to take her to an eatery. If it was me alone, wetin I dey find for eatery? Buka all the way.
I got to her place, we both headed to a popular eatery in Lagos. She started ordering everything. In my head, I was calculating how much the bill would be and smiling at the same time.
I decided to pass my point across in the midst of all the food she was eating, and to my surprise I got a shocker. She was like "Oh, sorry I have a boyfriend, can we just be friends"?
Ahhh, friends ke? I changed rightaway. I paid for the food, wrapped the remainder of what she was eating right in front of her and took it with me back home.
Not sure how she got home, she could have walked, who cares.
Why accept to go on a date with another man when you already have someone? Why make him spend his money and ask him to only be his friend. Only mugus want such friendship.

Me and my siblings feasted on the food i took from her when I got home. I bet she would have asked for to-go afterwards if i hadn't left. It's been in their blood even before we were all born.

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Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by sevule(m): 3:40am On Aug 24, 2015
SmartMugu:
The closest I got to being scammed was a girl in high school, some almost 20 years ago. I was a prefect back then, girls liked prefects. She actually introduced herself to me in school and we started chatting from time to time whenever we saw each other in school.
I thought she liked me.
Back then, there were no GSMs, so I intentionally walked on her street hoping to see her outside and ask her out on a date. Eventually it happened.
As broke as I was, I gathered money from siblings to take her to an eatery. If it was me alone, wetin I dey find for eatery? Buka all the way.
I got to her place, we both headed to a popular eatery in Lagos. She started ordering everything. In my head, I was calculating how much the bill would be and smiling at the same time.
I decided to pass my point across in the midst of all the food she was eating, and to my surprise I got a shocker. She was like "Oh, sorry I have a boyfriend, can we just be friends"?
Ahhh, friends ke? I changed rightaway. I paid for the food, wrapped the remainder of what she was eating right in front of her and took it with me back home.
Not sure how she got home, she could have walked, who cares.
Why accept to go on a date with another man when you already have someone? Why make him spend his money and ask him to only be his friend. Only mugus want such friendship.

Me and my siblings feasted on the food i took from her when I got home. I bet she would have asked for to-go afterwards if i hadn't left. It's been in their blood even before we were all born.

Lol! Your story had me in stitches! Boys are definitely not smiling!

Well I have had online dating experience both in Nigeria and America. In America nobody ever asked me for money and they are usually pretty blunt. If they are not feeling you, they tell you straight up and you move on. If they are, you schedule a real date and see if you guys are compatible. I have definitely met some strange and interesting characters online i.e a lesbian couple who were married and wanted to hang out with me. I also met a sergeant from the army who doubles as a DJ and film director

Nigeria
First thing that happens is that they call me swts or dearie or some term of endearment. My brother if a Naija babe that you meet online calls you sweetie, run!! Because the next thing you would hear is how they are stranded or they need money for credit. One told me that her parents are very rich, but yet she asked me for transport money. I have lost count of the number that ask for credit. The conversation usually goes like this

Me: Hey, whats up?
Her: Not fine -- Ol boy when you hear this one, RUN! Next thing is to ask for credit
Me: Why? What happened?
Her: My data is finished
Me: Really? Big Girl like you.
Her: Can you send me like N1000 credit?
Me: Deletes number right away

I do enjoy online interactions but I am definitely not desperate so none of this ever works for me. What I enjoy is having a great conversation with a person online but alas most Nigerian babes seem to have lost the art of conversing.

NB: I am NOT saying that Nigerian girls are gold diggers, I was simply narrating some events that happened in the past. Nigerian women just like women all over the world have their bad, good and ugly.

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Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by Kazrem(m): 3:51am On Aug 24, 2015
Scam? I have never been scammed. Disappointed? Yes, just as someone said few pages ago. Na person wey get money dem dey scam.
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by tunde1200(m): 4:04am On Aug 24, 2015
Tomfrench:
i've never been scammed by any girl online, and I pray not to be a victim cool


i'm more tuned to reality...... I hardly chat online.....if i ever happen to chat with a strange girl, its just for Fun and the mental relaxation that comes with it, PERIOD! undecided


I don't give a shìt!!, even if she's as fresh as fuçk undecided

Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by dexcira(f): 4:43am On Aug 24, 2015
hehehe. una wan spoil this my new cash mind abi? abeg oo. ;Dhehehe. una wan spoil this my new cash mind abi? abeg oo.
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by Icecomrade: 5:32am On Aug 24, 2015
EroticAngelina:
it fits them since their konji-ransacked brain can't do without toasting and dating girls they meet online undecided

and the foolish ones get scammed by them. smh

Is your profile pic not a scam
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by Cutehector(m): 5:52am On Aug 24, 2015
Mhizkel:

I know. I'm still looking out for the right time. Please be patient.
alright
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by infosplash(f): 6:15am On Aug 24, 2015
yap buh i cnt jst say scammed dy r jst full of disappointment thou nothn surprise me anymore.. ;Dyap buh i cnt jst say scammed dy r jst full of disappointment thou nothn surprise me anymore..
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by JoelXclusive: 6:31am On Aug 24, 2015
After what happened to That Cynthia Girl from Abuja that got drugged and raped in an hotel in lagos (festac to be precise. I've always been careful meeting people online.
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by riddo2(m): 6:34am On Aug 24, 2015
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Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by Bahaushiya: 7:04am On Aug 24, 2015
Let me share my experience as to how I was scanned by a guy. Not only girls scam.
2012
I was just online doing my thing when this contact added me, and we got chatting. It got so interesting that we exchanged numbers and before you could say Facebook, he had proposed. Walahi I'm not lying. I was only 22 so its not like I was desperate ko.
He said I should help him buy jacket with leather elbows that he'll refund me. If I hear.
He made me pay for our fares and meals on the first and second date. He never ever gave me a dime. I wonder what was wrong with me that year. I just told myself this one is looking for sugar Mommie ne kowai.
He was 32 by the way.

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Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by TheSonOfMark(m): 7:05am On Aug 24, 2015
It's been a while, I suppose.♦
Xiadnat:

Hmmmmmmmmmm angry
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by kinglekan: 7:11am On Aug 24, 2015
ronald4lif:


Prof on sabbatical? Impossicant. cheesy

Anyways, my sixth sense is telling me that the 'belle' isn't who she's fronting as. 'She' might be a virile or a stolen identity.


Buhahahahahaha cheesy

Really? U think so? Well one can't rule that out tho. smiley
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by jtjohn(m): 7:12am On Aug 24, 2015
Na guys way dey smook weed girls fit scam online.........is very rare 4 a lady to scam a guy online..........let me share u my experience how a lady wanted to scam me on PALM CHAT but I in turn make a fool of her, how can u just met a guy 4 d first time u are demanding 4 money, I said ok dat she should send her account number which she did, the next. day I told her that I have send d money through mobile money transfer, she then went to d bank and try to withdraw the money but dere was no money and she called me and was like wait maybe is network, she waited and waited until she called me and told me I have scam her that I did not send any money so I started laughing........she then deleted me on palm chat with immediate effect.
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by Pepuscutie27: 7:14am On Aug 24, 2015
Well its not as if guys are the only victims here, girls on the other hand also are victims.
And trust me so many girls detest the online dating ish....
It works well for me, but not just on the dating aspect, have met a few cool guys online whom I finally got to know αи∂ we all have become friends till date.
It all entails been sincere on ur part αи∂ then expect to meet an honest person. If you are a very pathetic , gullible αи∂ unhonest person, please how do u think u'd meet a sensible αи∂ cool person online?
Doesn't work that way to me....
But online dating is cool...αи∂ if u find out the other person wanna play games with u, then play very cool αи∂ make sure u win.
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by TheSonOfMark(m): 7:22am On Aug 24, 2015

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Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by MyMouth(m): 7:30am On Aug 24, 2015
EroticAngelina:
it fits them since their konji-ransacked brain can't do without toasting and dating girls they meet online undecided

and the foolish ones get scammed by them. smh
Is that really u in the profile pix? Or is it just another ploy to scam us?
Re: Guys, Has A Lady Ever Scammed You Online? Share Your Experiences by tonimenia: 7:41am On Aug 24, 2015
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