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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:28pm On Aug 24, 2015
Idrismusty97:
Jesus/God/peter/Timothy this Bishop Oyedepo and literary everyone in the Bible said so. You are not a good Christian smiley.









Wait a minute! you are a Muslim
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by VickJames(m): 6:28pm On Aug 24, 2015
sonofananimal:
GOD DID NOT CREATE EVE AND ADAM BUT RATHER CREATE ADAM AND probably YEARS LATER, HE CREATED EVE.

AS FOR THE FEMINIST! YOU WILL DIE MISERABLE

Women don't understand how the world is run!

Men are higher than women in the presence of God!
Check the animal kingdom, the male animals are the boss! Oh! If they think they're better than animals, let them give reasons.

The world isn't created equal, even if the economy of the country is run on equal wealth, the economy will crash. So, the women should understand that equality with men is a "myth" propagated by feminists!

A lady once said in this thread that men shouldn't scold women, for feck's sake? Women should be scolded! Because when its their turn, oh my gosh! U better be far away from the earth because they'll rain down thunder from heaven for simple issues.

I am saying it again, its not an equal world. God doesn't have an equal! He doesn't have a woman beside him. Jesus tried as much as possible not to marry these women! To avoid marital problems!

I am saying it, if you don't take care of your home well, the man will not be good. He will only bear for some time and go outside to relax.

A wise woman once said, "leave your husband stomach full and the balls of your husband empty".

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Chukzyfcb(m): 6:28pm On Aug 24, 2015
Its the quest for "feminism"...The gender equality is steady creeping into their minds and making them compete in a Marriage! #spot on bishop!
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by cococandy(f): 6:29pm On Aug 24, 2015
frosbel2:


don't mind the charlatan.

This is the same man who slapped an illiterate girl because she used the wrong vocabulary.

Oh I even forgot that one. Publicly hitting on a minor.

SMH for the guy.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Jeromejnr(m): 6:29pm On Aug 24, 2015
frosbel2:


He is a crook in religious clothing.....

And how do you know that? Please enlighten me with details and proofs.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:29pm On Aug 24, 2015
kevinberry:


Really,send me a link,I want to read about it...plsssss
I WATCH IT IN A BBC DOCUMENTARY. IT IS CALL MGTOW, AND IT IS VERY STRONG IN JAPAN
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by tintingz(m): 6:30pm On Aug 24, 2015
He told the congregation that women must be submissive to their husbands and that if they follow such with prayers, even if such men are wayward, God would return them to the family.
In as much as he's right about women to be subbmisive to their husband I don't agree nor support this statement.

How do you expect a woman to cope with a wayward man, until the man kill the woman then Una eyes go open.

I don't agree with this advise, a woman has the freewill to divorce if she's unhappy, pained in a marriage.

There are situation where God approve divorce

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:31pm On Aug 24, 2015
tivta:
feminist alert.,lol the issue is women should learn to control their tongue then no such man will be disrespectful.

Don't ever call me feminist please. Thanks

Cheating is different from disrespect. That's me focusing on the explicit meaning of both.
I specifically said 'couples' _ that was me referring to both the man and woman. Then you call me a feminist?

What da fuq is feminist or wareva it's called? I hate to be qualified with that word.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by repogirl(f): 6:32pm On Aug 24, 2015
angelofurlife:
if you want a happy marriage u must erase this thought of urs.
a happy marriage where the man cheats and she knows but she keeps quiet and accepts it under the guise of submission until he gives her HIV and might not even tell her...and she gets sick, finds out and is still happy about it until she dies and leaves her children and kids for the man to either marry another woman or continue his frolicking while the kids grow up either without a mother or with a stepmother who maltreats them?

In the end, what did she gain from her submission foolishness.
Theres a clear difference between submission and folishness!

For me, infidelity and violence are the two red flags in marriage! Even God hates adultery (galatians 5:19-21)and violence (ephesians 4:31), so what is a woman still looking for in that marriage? Her death? She can be praying forbthe husband to change but not inder the same roof abeg!
++++++++++++++

God has made women equal heirs with men to the throne (1 peter 3:17), so a woman is in no way inferior to the man...I respect that he is the leader/ head of the family, but if the head is rotten can the body be sustained?

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:32pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
You don't have to force down your opinion on me. I only shared my views! Besides, I don't belong to the class of people that defend their tribe. I'm a full blooded Igbo chic but i don't support Biafra so it doesn't matter who's involved. I look at things without being biased at all

I don't remember forcing my opinions on anyone or even stating them. It's a public forum and you can say whatever you want, but if you want to make blanket/generalising prejudiced statements, add "I think".
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:33pm On Aug 24, 2015
Jeromejnr:


And how do you know that? Please enlighten me with details and proofs.

By the mere collecting of tithes he makes himself an enemy of the faith.

By living off the proceeds of the church while multitudes are suffering makes him an enemy of Christ.

And by slapping an illiterate girl who inadvertently used the wrong words, he makes himself a bully in total opposition to the doctrine of Christ.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
Jeromejnr:


So how do you know his heart if he is carried away by the things of this world? Is it because he is wealthy that you just jumped to that conclusion?

or are you of the fold that believe God wants us to be poor?
Think that is obvious, how do you explain 3 private jets? That's materialism not wealthiness. God remains the wealthiest Cos He,God provides for all. Wealthiness is not the measure of materials but how many you have made rich.

Being poor? Is God poor?

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
I have always maintained my stance that the Bible is a scam written by men to subjugate women. The Bible God is a misogynist.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Idrismusty97(m): 6:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
Oyind17:









Wait a minute! you are a Muslim
No
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
Filashade:
This thread is remarkeable

Why do they always blame women all the time?

Everywhere i go women this women that

Seriously I tell you solemnly our world is doomed for disaster

And this man calls himself a Bishop?

Its both Parties that need to be blamed not just women.

Men for being unfaithful and also women as well but women for wanting material things before anything else.

You cant blame the other party when they are both at fault.

Men say they dont want Virgins as wife but yet make fun and degrade women that are not Virgins.

U guys can never be satisfied.

I swear to God. Am sick an tired of hearing/ seeing this shit everyday.

Kilode?

They want so much expectations from women but yet the men can do whatever they like abi? The men can loose thier Virginity anyhow? The men can have as many wives as they please? The men can do whatever they fucking please right?

Unu continue dey stay dere ehhhn. Keep on dreaming!!!!

Oloshi!!!

sad sad sad

You make too much sense. I'm tired of all this one-sided bs.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:35pm On Aug 24, 2015
kestolove95:
Rubbish...wat abt d men dat can stick dia prick to one toto?


Are you real or you typed that while sleeping
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by tintingz(m): 6:36pm On Aug 24, 2015
Polygamy is even better you know who your husband is sleeping with. smiley

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by angelofurlife: 6:36pm On Aug 24, 2015
frosbel2:
When an African man says a woman should be submissive to her husband, he means she should be a slave.

So, should a woman submit to a serial adulterer ?? - NO

Should a woman submit to a wife beater ?? - NO

Should a woman submit to a cheat, fraudster, child molester etc - NO


When the bible says be submissive, it simply means respect and not to allow yourself to be a door mat.
this is what I know submission is, so look well before getting married to a mad man that will give submission another meaning.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by ammyluv2002(f): 6:36pm On Aug 24, 2015
Velocitron:


I don't remember forcing my opinions on anyone or even stating them. It's a public forum and you can say whatever you want, but if you want to make blanket/generalising prejudiced statements, add "I think".
Okay! ......."I think
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:36pm On Aug 24, 2015
kevinberry:


Lol,sister calm down,for the part of virginity,a man naturally is dis-virgin straight@birth,virginity is when the fore flesh is still intact,and you know that men fore flesh are normally cut off,that of the woman remains untouched....

As for men marrying many women,well I don't have anything to say about that,but I have read and heard that it do happens,they termed it polyandry one woman,many husband..don't know if it is true thous....but I guess the reason why it is like that is because men naturally are good at handling and keeping things under control..hence why the society choose to follow that part,it might also be maybe they learn it from lions(our junior brother)...

I totally don't know....

Another aspect I think you should study is why a man@60 can marry as much women as he wants,but a woman stand no chance of getting any..why is it so..ponder on it...take oshiomole and ngozi ezonu as case study

Dude, come on. You're mistaking virginity for circumcision. Virginity is the state of never having had sexual intercourse, and it applies to both sexes.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by babygirlfl: 6:37pm On Aug 24, 2015
cococandy:


Do people still listen to this man?
Wasn't he the one narrating his early married life and how he used to mistreat his wife to test her faith.
One time she was having a miscarriage and he still ignored her while ordering her to make his food and serve him.
Or was it the time he locked her in a car with a mad man?

Tufiakwa marriage advice from this man.
Only misogynists and sadists won't see something wrong with his opinions about women.

Don't mind some people. They would listen to anybody that preaches what they want to hear. I stopped respecting him after he slapped the poor girl.

It is sad though that those who should be examples and those who should be building marriage are those who are destroying it in the name of advice. I have a friend that is a christian who preaches to young couples now and he told me why he took that role voluntarily. He told me how his marriage was crumbling and he was unable to save it. Every time they went for counseling from men of God, all they told him was to love his wife and provide for her. The wife got the remaining blame. He kept waiting for his wife to change until someone he calls a miracle told him the truth which was that he too needed to change. He agrees he is happy today.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Obascoetubi: 6:37pm On Aug 24, 2015
kestolove95:
if d men don't patronise dem..d business won't strive..nd girls won't engage in it..so blame d men cox dey make d girls engage in it
without opening ur legs to men, no men can partronise u & ur ashawos
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 6:37pm On Aug 24, 2015
[quote author=Idrismusty97 post=37292995] No[/quote
Stop thinking about women that way, they are not slaves

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Obascoetubi: 6:41pm On Aug 24, 2015
Midehi:

thank you my dear...if only they can stick to their wife alone and render the business closed, no man, no ashewo.
wat of u who cheat on ur husbands ?
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Idrismusty97(m): 6:41pm On Aug 24, 2015
Oyind17:









Stop thinking about women that way, they are not slave
It was all sarcasm by the way, Just pointing out the absurdities of the misogynist holy books.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freecocoa(f): 6:41pm On Aug 24, 2015
kevinberry:


Lol,sister calm down,for the part of virginity,a man naturally is dis-virgin straight@birth,virginity is when the fore flesh is still intact,and you know that men fore flesh are normally cut off,that of the woman remains untouched....

As for men marrying many women,well I don't have anything to say about that,but I have read and heard that it do happens,they termed it polyandry one woman,many husband..don't know if it is true thous....but I guess the reason why it is like that is because men naturally are good at handling and keeping things under control..hence why the society choose to follow that part,it might also be maybe they learn it from lions(our junior brother)...

I totally don't know....

Another aspect I think you should study is why a man@60 can marry as much women as he wants,but a woman stand no chance of getting any..why is it so..ponder on it...take oshiomole and ngozi ezonu as case study
That picture you painted about old women not being able to get married is in our society, elderly women find love everyday with young men sef all the times in the other parts of the world, we live in a misogynic society.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by tranxo(m): 6:42pm On Aug 24, 2015
kestolove95:
if d men don't patronise dem..d business won't strive..nd girls won't engage in it..so blame d men cox dey make d girls engage in it
If girls keep taking the type of picture on your profile, then what is the difference between those that advertise on the street and those that advertise on the internet?
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Jeromejnr(m): 6:42pm On Aug 24, 2015
author=frosbel2 post=37292960

By the mere collecting of tithes he makes himself an enemy of the faith.

Even if you don't believe in tithing, don't you know there are genuine ministers with a pure heart for God and people that take tithes because they grew up with that kind of knowledge.

By living off the proceeds of the church while multitudes are suffering makes him an enemy of Christ.

And how do you know the multitudes are suffering and he lives off proceeds. Did any of them complain to you?

And by slapping an illiterate girl who inadvertently used the wrong words, he makes himself a bully in total opposition to the doctrine of Christ.

You jumped to a conclusion. Paul cursed someone and made him blind, Jesus took whips and chased people away from the temple, Ananias and Saphira lied on what they gave and they died ate Peters feet. If this things happened today, what you said is still what we will hear.

Do you know if God led him to do it? no i guess not. You just assumed. What if that happened because God knew there were weak and baby Christians who would have believed that you could be a witch for Jesus. And so they would have taken witchcraft as something accepted in the church?

If he just left her when she said that, what could those weak Christians have said in their hearts (*wow! since he didn't do anything about that statement maybe it could be true*)

I am just thinking here.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by tintingz(m): 6:42pm On Aug 24, 2015
VickJames:


Women don't understand how the world is run!

Men are higher than women in the presence of God!
Check the animal kingdom, the male animals are the boss! Oh! If they think they're better than animals, let them give reasons.

The world isn't created equal, even if the economy of the country is run on equal wealth, the economy will crash. So, the women should understand that equality with men is a "myth" propagated by feminists!

A lady once said in this thread that men shouldn't scold women, for feck's sake? Women should be scolded! Because when its their turn, oh my gosh! U better be far away from the earth because they'll rain down thunder from heaven for simple issues.

I am saying it again, its not an equal world. God doesn't have an equal! He doesn't have a woman beside him. Jesus tried as much as possible not to marry these women! To avoid marital problems!

I am saying it, if you don't take care of your home well, the man will not be good. He will only bear for some time and go outside to relax.

A wise woman once said, "leave your husband stomach full and the balls of your husband empty".
@bold. When it comes to the presence of God(in spirit) men and women are equal, men and women will have equal judgment, men and women will have equal rewards from God.

When it comes to the flesh men are the head of the family, men are not higher than women stop spreading false information.

There are roles for men and roles for women it is called equity.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by cococandy(f): 6:43pm On Aug 24, 2015
Let them lie around and what for those only interested in massaging their egos.
*The women will change.
*Pray for the cheating abusive men.
*Stay and die in the marriage.
*Cover up for them when they rape their children and house girls
*Wear combat kits and go fight off their numerous mistresses.
*let's not forget the red pants and black bra grin and their favorite meals

Yet the problem will remain. Because no one has the little 'wisdom' to understand that marriage is a two way street and not dependent on the wife alone to make it work.

When has being told what you want to hear instead of the truth ever helped anyone?

Thank god for your friend.
babygirlfl:


Don't mind some people. They would listen to anybody that preaches what they want to hear. I stopped respecting him after he slapped the poor girl.

It is sad though that those who should be examples and those who should be building marriage are those who are destroying it in the name of advice. I have a friend that is a christian who preaches to young couples now and he told me why he took that role voluntarily. He told me how his marriage was crumbling and he was unable to save it. Every time they went for counseling from men of God, all they told him was to love his wife and provide for her. The wife got the remaining blame. He kept waiting for his wife to change until someone he calls a miracle told him the truth which was that he too needed to change. He agrees he is happy today.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by RAKITIC: 6:44pm On Aug 24, 2015
The last time i checked marriage is not a do or die affair i u cant be submissive as a christian lady pls stay away from marriage and remain single so u won't have to submit to anybody. As a man if u cant love ur wife as the bible stated pls stay single. BEEN SINGLE IS NOT A SIN.

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