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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Ikiriye(m): 7:13pm On Aug 24, 2015
freecocoa:
Can't be.

I speak out of experience,I dated my wife for 12 years before I married her.today we are 8 years in marriage and the fire is still burning.the secret is to place a request to God who is the maker of marriage.your right partner will come.you attract what looks like you not opposite
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 7:13pm On Aug 24, 2015
shizzy7:
what kind of attitude are you talking about sir..
It's in the write up
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by ammyluv2002(f): 7:14pm On Aug 24, 2015
safarigirl:
did you know that the bible charges men to LOVE and CARE FOR their wives? In case you skipped that part, that is the CONDITION for submission. Nowhere did the bible ask you to be a man's punching bag, nowhere did it encourage promiscuity or adultery. So pray tell, dear Christian, which bible is your basis?
I have nothing to say to you. I mean why would you want to communicate with a senseless being? Smh
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by safarigirl(f): 7:15pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Okay! Senseless ba? I don hear you. Congratulations, on your meaningful comment
when you get married (cuz I assume your eye-service here will snag you a proper slave driver eventually grin), we non-conformists would love to know how well submission goes for you cuz we'll be old spinsters soon.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 7:17pm On Aug 24, 2015
muphasar11:


Am seriously crying

Why?
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Ikiriye(m): 7:18pm On Aug 24, 2015
safarigirl:
when you get married (cuz I assume your eye-service here will snag you a proper slave driver eventually grin), we non-conformists would love to know how well submission goes for you cuz we'll be old spinsters soon.

Remain who you are,time will tell
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by An2elect2(f): 7:19pm On Aug 24, 2015
safarigirl:
did you know that the bible charges men to LOVE and CARE FOR their wives? In case you skipped that part, that is the CONDITION for submission. Nowhere did the bible ask you to be a man's punching bag, nowhere did it encourage promiscuity or adultery. So pray tell, dear Christian, which bible is your basis?

Submissiveness is not subserviency. I think you a mixing up the two!
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by angelofurlife: 7:19pm On Aug 24, 2015
tintingz:
In as much as he's right about women to be subbmisive to their husband I don't agree nor support these statement.

How do you expect a woman to cope with a wayward man, until the man kill the woman then Una eyes go open.

I don't agree with this advise, a woman has the freewill to divorce if she's unhappy, pained in a marriage.

There are situation where God approve divorce
my thoughts exactly
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freecocoa(f): 7:21pm On Aug 24, 2015
Ikiriye:


I speak out of experience,I dated my wife for 12 years before I married her.today we are 8 years in marriage and the fire is still burning.the secret is to place a request to God who is the maker of marriage.your right partner will come.you attract what looks like you not opposite
You have digressed but are you saying people who have issues in their marriages, do so because they are wrong for each other?
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 7:23pm On Aug 24, 2015
safarigirl:
your initial comment was senseless and disgraceful to whatever education you've had. Even feminist Chimamanda is married. Did she marry an alien? Submissive without conditions, na so women dey die inside marriage. Goodluck sha, I hope you find a man worth your unconditional submission. Talking is easy when you're outside the union.


She will find...if all these guys refuse her, I'll marry her kiss

#following the Word#
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by safarigirl(f): 7:23pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
I have nothing to say to you. I mean why would you want to communicate with a senseless being? Smh
to impact some sense into you of course, even a dolt wouldn't mind knowing something new. I never called you senseless, I branded your COMMENT so, feel free to fix the term wherever though. Please, look through that bible you got your senseless comment from, that Oyedepo conveniently left out the man's responsibility, isn't license to turn off the intelligent part of your brain. Have a lovely night, Virtuous woman smiley

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by xkris11(m): 7:24pm On Aug 24, 2015
babygirlfl:


Gbam. When will these men of God start telling men to stop cheating. They conveniently forget how many marriages are crumbling because of the all men are polygamous crew.They hardly tell these men to stop cheating and reminding them that adultery is a sin. It's always about how the woman should be submissive and pray for a wayward man to come back. Looking forward to hearing from a man of God that will tell men to pray and wait for a wayward woman to come back.

I am not in support of men whoare polygamous in nature,but what you should know is there is little you can to stop that,it has been like that since the earth was formed and in the day of moses,Abraham,according to the bible, most of Gods servant are married to several wivies.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by tivta(m): 7:24pm On Aug 24, 2015
Kachisbarbie:


Don't ever call me feminist please. Thanks

Cheating is different from disrespect. That's me focusing on the explicit meaning of both.
I specifically said 'couples' _ that was me referring to both the man and woman. Then you call me a feminist?

What da fuq is feminist or wareva it's called? I hate to be qualified with that word.
Yes Ma.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Ikiriye(m): 7:26pm On Aug 24, 2015
freecocoa:
You have digressed but are you saying people who have issues in their marriages, do so because they are wrong for each other?

Most at times yes,reasons likely are
I need a rich guy,initial beauty,body size,lies,deception and unGodly.when these things fades away or manifests.the drums of misunderstanding comes on.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by safarigirl(f): 7:26pm On Aug 24, 2015
emusmith:


She will find...if all these guys refuse her, I'll marry her kiss

#following the Word#
lol. Go marry her. After watching 'WOMEN WHO KILL' I've realised it's the 'submissive' women who are most likely to kill their husbands. When pesin dey find husband, dem go come net dey form bible reader......FRAUDS EVERYWHERE grin

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by xkris11(m): 7:28pm On Aug 24, 2015
And we have started seeing the result of failed or broken home in our society,its now a society full of mannerless children,reason why we have so many prostitutes on our road
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by safarigirl(f): 7:29pm On Aug 24, 2015
An2elect2:


Submissiveness is not subserviency. I think you a mixing up the two!
lol. It's all semantics. Go and ask a Nigerian man what he means by being 'submissive'. In fact, read through this thread

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by peeparty(m): 7:30pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Amen! I wish you same too but getting a loyal man isn't the main thing.

The bible made it very clear to be submissive whether he's loyal or not just do your part and be submissive. It's difficult though but with Christ we can do all things. I listened to a Rev Fr yesterday on AIT and he said " You can't make someone change but your acceptance can make them conceive the thought"
.

ur bless child of God.touch ba dis.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 7:30pm On Aug 24, 2015
safarigirl:
did you know that the bible charges men to LOVE and CARE FOR their wives? In case you skipped that part, that is the CONDITION for submission. Nowhere did the bible ask you to be a man's punching bag, nowhere did it encourage promiscuity or adultery. So pray tell, dear Christian, which bible is your basis?
hey there miss,
I think YOU will find, that in no where does the Bible relates the two statements as being conditional to each other. Men are expected to unconditionally love their wives. Wives are unconditionally expected to be submissive to their husbands.

However, there is a point I would like to point out here. The bible, it seems, unequivocally mandates that christians refrain from martial unions with unbelievers. Following this rule makes everything quite easy, a male believer WILL MOST DEFINITELY love His wife, same way for a female. But when you disobey that first rule, you begin to complicate things.

I would like to however stress that the bible does not relate the two statements as being conditional to each other. If you find yourself with a bad guy, you are to unconditionally be submissive to him. And as a male, if you find yourself with a cheater, you are to unconditionally lover her. As long as you are joined in marriage.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by shizzy7(f): 7:32pm On Aug 24, 2015
neoapocalypse:

It's in the write up
Its all about women Not equating theirselves to their husband

BUT In Nigeria today its a woman's world
The woman takes responsibility for everything in the household while the men do little or nothing with FEW exceptions,,

Its no longer about advising people Because The Society we are in has already paved the way for EQUALITY BETWEEN HUSBANDs AND WIVES...
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 7:33pm On Aug 24, 2015
tivta:
Yes Ma.

Lols
No vex. I just hate to be addressed as that, these days Nairalanders throw that word about carelessly.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 7:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
safarigirl:
lol. Go marry her. After watching 'WOMEN WHO KILL' I've realised it's the 'submissive' women who are most likely to kill their husbands. When pesin dey find husband, dem go come net dey form bible reader......FRAUDS EVERYWHERE grin


Lolz...you dis chick! I no say you enter this thread Like A Wrecking Ball...and your fellow widows...oh...Feminists... But it's OK. To me, I'll love my wife to the point that she can't look me in the face and think of an insultive word...just simple Leadership. cool
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by shizzy7(f): 7:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
HAKKINS:
It will do you immense good to read about women liberation or feminists. i think dats wot u dnt understand. thank me later.
Is that a Novel??
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freecocoa(f): 7:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
Ikiriye:


Most at times yes,reasons likely are
I need a rich guy,initial beauty,body size,lies,deception and unGodly.when these things fades away or manifests.the drums of misunderstanding comes on.
I don't agree in this context, if we are talking about some individuals that you know and have reasons to think such about, then okay, but on a general note? I say mba.

So now you no longer stand by the statement "men are polygamous in nature"?
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by safarigirl(f): 7:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
Teempakguy:
hey there miss,
I think YOU will find, that in no where does the Bible relates the two statements as being conditional to each other. Men are expected to unconditionally love their wives. Wives are unconditionally expected to be submissive to their husbands.

However, there is a point I would like to point out here. The bible, it seems, unequivocally mandates that christians refrain from martial unions with unbelievers. Following this rule makes everything quite easy, a male believer WILL MOST DEFINITELY love His wife, same way for a female. But when you disobey that first rule, you begin to complicate things.

I would like to however stress that the bible does not relate the two statements as being conditional to each other. If you find yourself with a bad guy, you are to unconditionally be submissive to him. And as a male, if you find yourself with a cheater, you are to unconditionally lover her. As long as you are joined in marriage.
well goodluck to all those in the "MARRY OR I DIE" crew. 90% of 'beleivers' are FRAUDS anyway.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by SmartMugu: 7:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
Midehi:
guys will feel funky now.

waiting to hear comments from the guys *wink*
Yup. We need more messages like this. Ladies, hope you heard him, be more submissive says the man of God.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 7:36pm On Aug 24, 2015
Velocitron:


Dude, come on. You're mistaking virginity for circumcision. Virginity is the state of never having had sexual intercourse, and it applies to both sexes.

Well here in nigeria and other part of the world we all know the usual stories

You will have to explain to me,how your hymen isn't intact...it has caused so many to divorce...that the only way people can believe you
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 7:37pm On Aug 24, 2015
safarigirl:
well goodluck to all those in the "MARRY OR I DIE" crew. 90% of 'beleivers' are FRAUDS anyway.
it's never by force to marry. Seriously. Like da Vinci said,
Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes and expecting to pull an eel out.
There are many things involved and it is something you have to work. Most people only think about the sex. So sad,
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freecocoa(f): 7:38pm On Aug 24, 2015
safarigirl:
well goodluck to all those in the "MARRY OR I DIE" crew. 90% of 'beleivers' are FRAUDS anyway.
Teempakguy is right btw, the bible supports misogyny.undecided

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 7:38pm On Aug 24, 2015
mtchewww... pastopreneur is talking.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by safarigirl(f): 7:41pm On Aug 24, 2015
emusmith:


Lolz...you dis chick! I no say you enter this thread Like A Wrecking Ball...and your fellow widows...oh...Feminists... But it's OK. To me, I'll love my wife to the point that she can't look me in the face and think of an insultive word...just simple Leadership. cool
...and as long as a man respects himself, he won't be having issues with me. I can be very passive in nature, but I'm no doormat. My father didn't waste millions to educate me only for me to turn my face away from injustice and I never saw my mother cower at any challenge, but she died married. Couples will disagree and even exchange blows at times, but what matters is what happens after that. Any woman that never confronts or corrects her man is evil and vice versa

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by shizzy7(f): 7:42pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
I know but if we are to go by the Bible rules....We should be even in that Unsubmissive conditions
NO, The Bible justifies Divorce In case of Unsubmissive Conditions and even allows remarriage after divorce..

check DEUTERONOMY 24:1-4

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