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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by whitestar01(m): 8:15pm On Aug 24, 2015
MrDenygerian:
Yes women,.. be submissive like slaves.

If he beats you, be submissive.
If he hits the kids, be submissive.
If he changed after marriage, lost his job, and takes your salary because he paid your bride 'price', be submissive.

Do this all in the name of Christ.
1 Peter 4:13
But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.




Fools.
U are too dull.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Eddy2cute(m): 8:15pm On Aug 24, 2015
kestolove95:
Rubbish...wat abt d men dat can stick dia prick to one toto?
mumu! Just open ur wide mouth dey talk anyhow
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by shizzy7(f): 8:19pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Nope!.pls check again. The Bible only allowed divorce in the case of adultery thatz the only reason. Being submissive have nothing to do with adultery , some folks commit that sin yet they are very submissive .

Btw, you can only remarry after the death of the other spouse and if you divorce your spouse on the grounds of adultery the person should stay unmarried. Pls read again!
When I said Unsubmissive Conditions ADULTERY is one of the conditions I was referring to
About your last Paragraph I think you're wrong

Det:24:1-2
1. When a man hath taken a wife, and married her and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes because he hath found some uncleanness in her then let him write her a bill of divorcement and give it in her hand and send her away

2.And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife...

That passage talked about the husband not taking her back after she has remarried AND was not clear on whether the husband should remain Unmarried or Can re-marry another woman ~ I stand to be corrected..

OR maybe you should re-read my previous post again I was clear enough
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:20pm On Aug 24, 2015
Rich4god:
I been wan reply you, but as I see ur dp, I just gv up...

Lwkmd o. Guy I weak too for the matter as I see her dp.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:20pm On Aug 24, 2015
kevinberry:


The point you are making doesn't count in reality

According to you, "You will have to explain to me,how your hymen isn't intact" and I explained that not bleeding during intercourse more to do with friction than virginity.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:25pm On Aug 24, 2015
kestolove95:
if d men don't patronise dem..d business won't strive..nd girls won't engage in it..so blame d men cox dey make d girls engage in it

How much u charge for a night? Wana hook up?
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by ammyluv2002(f): 8:25pm On Aug 24, 2015
shizzy7:
When I said Unsubmissive Conditions ADULTERY is one of the conditions I was referring to
About your last Paragraph I think you're wrong

Det:24:1-2
1. When a man hath taken a wife, and married her and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes because he hath found some uncleanness in her then let him write her a bill of divorcement and give it in her hand and send her away

2.And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife...

That passage talked about the husband not taking her back after she has remarried AND was not clear on whether the husband should remain Unmarried or Can re-marry another woman ~ I stand to be corrected..
Okay! I get your point but pls check Matt. 19 vs 3 -12. Christ was addressing the crowd when they asked Him a question on divorce, pls note the answer He gave especially the Moses part
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by sinizia: 8:26pm On Aug 24, 2015
Rich4god:
I been wan reply you, but as I see ur dp, I just gv up...

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by sinizia: 8:29pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
He's right! God bless him for saying the truth. Women are the problem we have today as in we just no wan agree.

We are so heady & annoying. You don't rub shoulders with a man all in the name of civilisation #Trash

A woman ought to be submissive to her hubby without conditions

Did a lady actually said this? This is shocking!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by shizzy7(f): 8:29pm On Aug 24, 2015
neoapocalypse:


Hmmm
I see you have nothing to say because my post talks about the whole truth....
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by shizzy7(f): 8:31pm On Aug 24, 2015
sinizia:


Did a lady actually said this? This is shocking!! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
I think she was just being sarcastic..
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:33pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
My dear, if you read my comments you will see where i said" it's difficult but we can do all things through Christ that strengthen us"

I can't boost that i can......only Christ can make me to be that submissive but still doesn't change the fact that we are expected to be submissive

What if you husbands wants you to commit an act contrary to the word of God, would you still go ahead in the name of submissiveness?
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
freecocoa:
I don't see why the man should cheat to start with, why does the woman have to take responsibility for the man's failure?

I know there is no justification for a cheating man. Some men are just plainly addicted to cheating, and if you will be honest women know they got a serial cheat as a boyfriend/fiance, men are unintelligent in organizing escapades unlike women, so when you discover, make a profound choice there and then not going ahead getting married, will you then blame every man or the now husband for a choice you willingly made?


And men who were not cheats befor marrying and all of a sudden started cheating are not chronic, they were driven out by their wives. All a man wants is SIMPLY peace of mind, We ain't that complex. if a wife wont give it, he will stay out and find it somewhere else certainly, without any apologies. Go to bars and you will see majority are married men who dont just want to go home because the woman wont just let him have peace..... Why share space with a grumpy woman when you can be outside?

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Eunore: 8:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
The op didn't put it the way the Bishop said it. He admonished men to love their wives as Christ loved the Church and gave himself for the Church while women should submit to their husbands as the head of the house. Only under these conditions will marriage work. If a man truly loves his wife, he will give up whatever would not make his wife happy including cheating.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by menxer: 8:34pm On Aug 24, 2015
Does he preach submission over tithing, first fruits, sowing seeds? Don't get me twisted.

Woman is a helper, like fire, a good 'servant' but not that good a 'master'.

Women equality has reversed the role of women in the scheme of things from the helper to the helped.

...that's why men help women do virtually everything, instead of practicing the principle of "the virtuous woman".

...that's why a woman expects a man to pay her house rent when it's due. Buy her phone and recharge vouchers etc.

...not many women understand or know their role, those that do, are happily married and their men are basking in that glory. grin
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by ammyluv2002(f): 8:36pm On Aug 24, 2015
kmcutez:


What if you husbands wants you to commit an act contrary to the word of God, would you still go ahead in the name of submissiveness?
Nope! I won't...Never! Our primary aim is to make heaven so why would someone make me do otherwise
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freeage7(m): 8:37pm On Aug 24, 2015
kestolove95:
Rubbish...wat abt d men dat can stick dia prick to one toto?
So u too have become one of us, knowing good and evil?
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by sinizia: 8:38pm On Aug 24, 2015
freecocoa:
Just imagine, so the woman should keep being submissive and prayerful and God will bring back wayward men home.

Christianity and misogyny, smh.

Don't blame Christianity. Blame the pastor that's talking like women are meant to be slaves. That a woman is meant to be submissive doesn't mean women should be slaves when they are being beaten and abused. Common sense dictates any lady should walk away in such situations and God won't begrudge her. When God commanded the children to obey their parents, he doesn't mean they should kill someone all in the name of obedience or obey their parent at all times even when they will be committing sin. A woman can and should only submit to a man that loves her like Christ loves the church, which is what God commanded we men to do for the submisveness to come from the women.

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:38pm On Aug 24, 2015
menxer:
Does he preach submission over tithing, first fruits, sowing seeds? Don't get me twisted.

Woman is a helper, like fire, a good 'servant' but not that good a 'master'.

Women equality has reversed the role of women in the scheme of things from the helper to the helped.

...that's why men help women do virtually everything, instead of practicing the principle of "the virtuous woman".

...that's why a woman expects a man to pay her house rent when it's due. Buy her phone and recharge vouchers etc.

...not many women understand or know their role, those that do, are happily married and their men are basking in that glory. grin

So essentially what you are saying is that you want to have your cake and still eat it too.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Eunore: 8:39pm On Aug 24, 2015
kmcutez:


What if you husbands wants you to commit an act contrary to the word of God, would you still go ahead in the name of submissiveness?

A born again husband would not want his wife to commit an act contrary to God's word because he would not allow his body to rule over him.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by sinizia: 8:41pm On Aug 24, 2015
shizzy7:
I think she was just being sarcastic..

I hope she was cos it's shocking to me that's a man.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:41pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Nope! I won't...Never! Our primary aim is to make heaven so why would someone make me do otherwise

Ok, so now we are beginning to see that your submissiveness has conditions, therefore it is not unconditional as initially stated.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by ammyluv2002(f): 8:46pm On Aug 24, 2015
kmcutez:


Ok, so now we are beginning to see that your submissiveness has conditions, therefore it is not unconditional as initially stated.
Stop twisting this unnecessarily. Going against the word of God is no go area and u know it . Being submissive unconditionally are based on earthly things and not heavenly things
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by PublicAssurance: 8:46pm On Aug 24, 2015
This Clown is still preaching

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by shizzy7(f): 8:46pm On Aug 24, 2015
ammyluv2002:
Okay! I get your point but pls check Matt. 19 vs 3 -12. Christ was addressing the crowd when they asked Him a question on divorce, pls note the answer He gave especially the Moses part
Okay, I actually had no intention to refer to bible passages. I just wanted to clear out the Unsubmissive/adultery point..

BUT the Old/New Testament assertions in the Bible usually confuses me so maybe we should just agree to disagree..
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:48pm On Aug 24, 2015
Velocitron:


According to you, "You will have to explain to me,how your hymen isn't intact" and I explained that not bleeding during intercourse more to do with friction than virginity.

You tell me,how do one know if a guy is a virgin or not,there is no way,we only have virginity in females,I can pretend that I haven't had sex before and play dumb during sex,tell me,how will you know
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by ammyluv2002(f): 8:50pm On Aug 24, 2015
shizzy7:
Okay, I actually had no intention to refer to bible passages. I just wanted to clear out the Unsubmissive/adultery point..

BUT the Old/New Testament assertions in the Bible usually confuses me so maybe we should just agree to disagree..
Okay! We ve agreed

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:50pm On Aug 24, 2015
shizzy7:
I see you have nothing to say because my post talks about the whole truth....

What gives you that impression ? Anyways I don't feel ready for a verbal joust this evening.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freecocoa(f): 8:50pm On Aug 24, 2015
chrisbaba1:


I know there is no justification for a cheating man. Some men are just plainly addicted to cheating, and if you will be honest women know they got a serial cheat as a boyfriend/fiance, men are unintelligent in organizing escapades unlike women, so when you discover, make a profound choice there and then not going ahead getting married, will you then blame every man or the now husband for a choice you willingly made?


And men who were not cheats befor marrying and all of a sudden started cheating are not chronic, they were driven out by their wives. All a man wants is SIMPLY peace of mind, We ain't that complex. if a wife wont give it, he will stay out and find it somewhere else certainly, without any apologies. Go to bars and you will see majority are married men who dont just want to go home because the woman wont just let him have peace..... Why share space with a grumpy woman when you can be outside?

This is really heartbreaking, is it beyond men to be responsible and not cheat? How does cheating solve the problem, supposing a man's wife is all you claim?

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Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Nobody: 8:51pm On Aug 24, 2015
Eunore:


A born again husband would not want his wife to commit an act contrary to God's word because he would not allow his body to rule over him.

But there are grey areas in the bible. What the wife might see as a sin, the husband might not, vice versa.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by Eunore: 8:51pm On Aug 24, 2015
Being submissive doesn't mean you become a fool, submission should be within the context of the Bible which is the final authority.
Re: Bishop Oyedepo Says Ladies Attitude Today Is Why Marriages Are Failing Much. by freeage7(m): 8:53pm On Aug 24, 2015
All this girls wey dey here they make noise, how many fit swear say na only one prick don Bleep dem since dem born dem? Nonsense. Ashawo better pass many regular street girls.

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