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| Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
Please this is not abt me, A friend seeking for advice... So,she met this at the mall,they got chatting and the rest,not too long the guy invited her on a date but she is so confused,she seem to be so into him but she is afriad what his reaction will be if he found out she have a child already.... Should she tell him about her previous marriage on the first date or she should just let it slide for the time being...please mature advice needed here....... |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by chocolateme(f): 8:29pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
Tell him, honesty is the grass root of every new relationship. If you don't, then you are not proud of your baby. To avoid story that touches when you two are already deep in love. 4 Likes |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by tpiander: 8:30pm On Aug 31, 2015*. Modified: 8:48pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
why not call him and inform him before showing up for the date. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Cutehector(m): 8:34pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
Keeping secrets is bad... So she should tell d guy... I dnt like dat crap when she will be like "I Ddnt wana tell u cuz I tot u"d not take me as I am" 2 Likes |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by boman2014: 8:34pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:Is she already in love before the date or... don't get that part... let her study him for some time before exposing her past 3 Likes |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by thorpido(m): 8:36pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
She can honour his date and bare it all while having a conversation. She has had a marriage and a child.She can't undo that. A man that will stay will stay regardless. 5 Likes |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Ahmed0336(m): 8:42pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
A couple of years back, i met this girl who happens to have a child out of wedlock. She told me the second time we met during lunch and to be honest with you op ever since she earned my respect I ll suggest she tell him. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by agarawu23(m): 8:43pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
boman2014:nothing to study about the guy . The earlier the better.  2 Likes |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
tpiander:how easy!! |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by tpiander: 9:22pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
I don't see what's not easy there. what if he even knows already sef, or is a nler and has seen your thread?  |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
tpiander:lolll,am not the one oooo. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Kelklein(m): 11:34pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
shey if u talk say na u, anybody go carry knife kill you ni? anyways, tell your friends it's not as hard as she thinks. she doesn't have to tell him on the first date except of course he asks. She should be as plain, free and honest as events unfold. Truth pays! |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by mutter(f): 11:59pm On Aug 31, 2015 |
My gosh what is this about baring and finding means of telling him That child is her greatest treasure A gift from God She should be so proud to speak of her child. If he does not like it he should take to his heals. No point marrying a man that can it be a father to the child 6 Likes |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Neverquit(f): 12:44am On Sep 01, 2015*. Modified: 11:00pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
You/your friend should go on that first date. Do not tell him on the first date. After the first or second date, tell him if you see any future with the relationship. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Youngpo413: 6:05pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
chocolateme:deep in LUST rather. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by lushious(f): 6:34pm On Sep 12, 2015*. Modified: 12:27pm On Sep 14, 2015 |
Before you date someone it's best to make them your friend so that you can be comfortable discussing your personal details, even if it doesn't work out you won't feel at loss. She should stop worrying and shouldn't make it look as if she killed someone. She should tell him anytime she feels like. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
there are ways in which u do stuffs like that. inasmuch as the child is a gift and a bundle of joy and all that, still No woman ordinarily wishes for a child out of wedlock. that being said, it is normal to want to put your best foot forward and yet you must tell him to avoid lack of trust and suspicion of manipulation later. So why not drop a hint. for example, you could come slightly late and apologise to him explaining that you had to find a baby sitter for your child before coming. this tells him you have a child, it also tells him you don't have any intention of hiding that fact (read honest.), and also let's him know that you are a caring and responsible person. good luck. 2 Likes |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
chocolateme:gbam best advice so far however i have issues dating ladies with kids, because let's face it there's still that connection to their ex unless the ex is dead, the ex is always going to be in the picture to remind you he's still around. obviously it's hard for babes to let go of their ex esp when they didn't break it off with them, you don't want to be that guy that gets booted off when the lady finally decides to stay with the ex in the best interest of the kid. too much baggage afaik 4 Likes |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by delectablegyal(f): 2:11pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy, u r the one. Stop lying dat it's ur friend. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 2:14pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
delectablegyal:  and what proof have you got does my pix look like one who has given birth before |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by delectablegyal(f): 2:18pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:Yes. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 2:37pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
delectablegyal:you are not serious..  |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Too bad. She can't have it all. I pray her mistakes don't haunt her. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by miqos02(m): 3:00pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:here we go again |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by miqos02(m): 3:04pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:that this true life story is not yours |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 3:33pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by KanwuliaJara: 4:47pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Stay out of other people's affairs and tend to yours! |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Youngpo413: 12:49am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:your breAsttt. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Nobody: 12:50am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Youngpo413:what abt m boobs mr |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by Youngpo413: 12:52am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:they firm and attractive. |
| Re: Should She Tell Him?? by tellwisdom: 1:19am On Nov 04, 2015 |
Jollyjoy:Your pikin na gurl or boi?  |
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