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My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Mspread: 12:46pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Dear Friends, I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences: Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu. While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe . I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus. But this recent one really shook me . I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried . He wasnt even remorseful. But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing. Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him. Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you. @lalasticlala 55 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by INTROVERT(f): 12:48pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Stop sleeping on public buses... next time they touch you, shout but don't lay your hand on him. if I say I don't enter public buses, they will have my head I DONT ENTER PUBLIC BUSES. 57 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by ayokunlei(m): 12:48pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
BE Careful And Be Prayerful Says The BIBLE. GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST, JESUS IS COMING BACK!!! 48 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by ladyF(f): 12:52pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Oh my.... Its good to have a pen knife tho, when you notice a strange hand on some parts of your body, you bring out your knife and just silently chook the hand with all your might. It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again 209 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 12:56pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
who send you? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 12:58pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Some are ritual purpose and some are simply using it to find fuckmate 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by debetmx(m): 1:02pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Nothing spiritual or diabolic about it. The guys are just perverts. It's well. 71 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 1:07pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
ladyF: When you mistakenly cut your self nko 19 Likes |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Blakjewelry(m): 1:08pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Aba your case get as e be o, even if you are the most irresistible babe in the world it still strange. I mean not once but twice, mehn maybe there are alot more psychos in lagos than I think. On a second thought, I think you should get yourself an electric taser or pepper spray 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by CR77(f): 1:09pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by TheNextAce: 1:09pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Boys are not smiling Ladies, buy pepper spray 5 Likes |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by xertyy: 1:09pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
okk |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by raayah(f): 1:10pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Its very common in buses. I was sitting down one day and it felt like somebody was touching my behind. It happened like 3 times and i though it was the motion of the bus. The fourth time, the hand grab was too much, i turned back and the man just shouted " oga, stop touching my nyash abeg, which kain nonsense be dis". He came down at the next bus-stop. There is not really anything we can do about perverted men. I think you handled the issue in a good way. 34 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by oshibote1: 1:11pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Oki |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 1:11pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Ladies and their paranoid self... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by activelyA(f): 1:11pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Mostly in Lagos, you will find strange happenings Thank God we over here at Maiduguri are free from such nonsense 10 Likes |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Richie0974: 1:12pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
As much as I don't want to laugh, I can't help it... ....some guys can be stupid sometimes.... But you know now... Konji's a bastard .. 9 Likes |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by cjmike704(m): 1:12pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
nawa o |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by gboso1ne(m): 1:13pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by yomalex(m): 1:13pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
vigilance is key 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 1:13pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Oh oooooo |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by gboso1ne(m): 1:14pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
O girl, how person go post something and you go comment immediately? You na The Flash? INTROVERT: 9 Likes |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Omotayor123(f): 1:14pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
This is no News... Sorry my sister, I feel your pain. These perverts are Everywhere. Even in Banks while queuing for deposit. God save and protect we feminist.. Now I don't blame Naijasinglegirl for always traveling with matches And her advice for every lady to travel with a pepper sprayer.. 4 Likes |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by AmakaDNB(f): 1:14pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
ok Poorly written. Next time, send your story to DNB Stories. An editor will go through it and rework it before public consumption 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by naijathings(m): 1:14pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
pervs everywhere There is no justification for this. But you seff na wah for you.... is your sense of feeling very low that you would not know when a guy's hand is on your breast ? the second guy was almost close to the finish line with his fingers and you didn't even know it till it you got to your bus stop. By the way,....... what has anointing yourself with Olive oil or whatever it is got to do with these scenarios? you better dey thank God say you be the type of babe wey no dey sleep for bus if not Lucky winner for don emerge and you might even wake up to find out that your undies has been taken as an award by one of those guys. 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by dayleke: 1:15pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
ok 1 Like |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by naijathings(m): 1:15pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Omotayor123:for p square abi Panadol extra @OP... i have seen a scenario where a guy was standing behind a lady in a BRT and using every chance that the bus jerks to bump into the woman till he RELEASED IT all over his trousers and WE ALL saw it. I think we have so many sick people walking around. most of them go dey form SEX IS A SIN and then they LOSE THEIR MINDS and START DOING STUPID THINGS when they are sitting close or standing behind to the next girl they come across. then you hear the popular phrase when they get caught.... it is the work of the devil 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Hazardd(m): 1:15pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
i wonder for some men, konji is really a basta*d.... Op who know if you are enjoying the show 2 Likes |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by jemir000: 1:15pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
j 1 Like |
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by skillet(m): 1:15pm On Sep 02, 2015 |
Picture pls 2 Likes 1 Share |
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