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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by seanjy4konji: 2:27pm On Sep 02, 2015
I thought the way it deh do men na so it deh do women...

I wont support it if a guy does this but na only women,you need to see how some women make you really uncomfortable when you sit with them in a public bus but you would never hear the men ranting about how you lap three kids and inconvenient them.

Beside wetin deh your boobs pass lump weh weh just grow for chest or yansh weh full of shit...

Una never hear of free the nipplles ?na una mates deh free boobies for san francisco and all the nudist beach weh deh d world..

Boby na boby...make una stop deh make noise if dem press ur bobby make we hear word jare.

na so dem go deh ask for money before dem drop toto.

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by trendphemmy(m): 2:28pm On Sep 02, 2015
it is a sexual disorder called FROTTEURISM

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by ishar(f): 2:31pm On Sep 02, 2015
Freemanan:
Ladies and their paranoid self...
one day you will have brain
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by millionboi(m): 2:32pm On Sep 02, 2015
Mspread:
Dear Friends,

I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences:

Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu.

While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe shocked. I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus.

But this recent one really shook me cry. I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried cry cry. He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him.

Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you.

@lalasticlala
u sure say u neva go meet babalawo 4love spel?jst try 2rembr,cos dis uncomon
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by timunstopable: 2:36pm On Sep 02, 2015
Mspread r u saying someone finge.red u in d bus nd u didnt know

or was he smooching and u cant differntiate someoene's hand nd ur load


mehn i can't understand this ur story
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by happney65: 2:37pm On Sep 02, 2015
How was he able to put he's hand into your puss--y without you knowing?Abi na for leg you Puss--y dey? grin grin

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by eraly(m): 2:38pm On Sep 02, 2015
Hawlahscho:


since 200BC grin



I know wia to find u. grin
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by mexioni(m): 2:40pm On Sep 02, 2015
debetmx:
Nothing spiritual or diabolic about it. The guys are just perverts.

It's well.

Next time land am slap stright
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 2:40pm On Sep 02, 2015
trendphemmy:
it is a sexual disorder called FROTTEURISM
Correct.

Frotteurism (sometimes called frottage, although psychiatrically this use is incorrect) for the sexual disorder involving nonconsensual rubbing in public places without discovery.

Frot·tage is usually consensual.

frot·tage\frȯ-ˈtäzh\
noun
1 : the technique of creating a design by rubbing (as with a pencil) over an object placed underneath the paper; also : a composition so made
2 : the act of obtaining sexual stimulation by rubbing against a person or object
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by timunstopable: 2:40pm On Sep 02, 2015
ABEG werin this one they yarn ..
seanjy4konji:
I thought the way it deh do men na so it deh do women...

I wont support it if a guy does this but na only women,you need to see how some women make you really uncomfortable when you sit with them in a public bus but you would never hear the men ranting about how you lap three kids and inconvenient them.

Beside wetin deh your boobs pass lump weh weh just grow for chest or yansh weh full of shit...

Una never hear of free the nipplles ?na una mates deh free boobies for san francisco and all the nudist beach weh deh d world..

Boby na boby...make una stop deh make noise if dem press ur bobby make we hear word jare.

na so dem go deh ask for money before dem drop toto.

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Chookym(m): 2:41pm On Sep 02, 2015
Perverts on the loose. This normally happens in buses especially those days of molue

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by iamkingzlee(m): 2:43pm On Sep 02, 2015
nawa. pervs everywhere cry

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by muffins99(f): 2:43pm On Sep 02, 2015
It's a shame that these things are happening now but I've had 2 similar experiences... the guys were masturbating right next to me.

On both occassions, I was sitting next to the window and staring outside and not paying much attention to what was going on inside the bus. I then gradually became aware that the guys were sitting closer and closer and then their beathing became heavier and faster.

The first time it happened, i turned out of curiousity and couldn't believe what i saw! I immediately shouted to the driver to stop cos i wanted to get off. The second time, i turned in disbelief that it could be the same thing happening and sure enough, he had his thingy out right there. This time, I pushed against him so that he bumped into the person on the other side. He immediately told the driver that he wanted to get off.

What i wonder till this day is that nobody noticed, or where they also keeping quiet in order not to cause embarrasment?

Anyway, now when i get on the bus and a guy comes to sit next to me, my elbow is usually there waiting. He will never be comfortable until one of us gets off!

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by phabulous88(m): 2:44pm On Sep 02, 2015
Guys falling hands since 1452.

I pray there'll be no next time but if it recurs, don't pretend not to notice by 'dozing off again', otherwise the perpetrator will repeat the action. FYI, the perpetrator saw your being silent as you enjoying the action - you know what they say about silence being consent... When next you perceive something as close to tapping current, don't even think twice, give the perpetrator a stern look and he'll never try it again.

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 2:48pm On Sep 02, 2015
It happened to me once when I was still single about 12yrs ago. I was returning from the office'boarded a bus from race course to sabo-yaba. It rained cat n dog that day. I was drenched. In the bus I dozed off,not knowing one stupid pervert had unbuttoned by top. I grabbed him by his collar and screamed ole!! Ole!! The driver had to pull over. I showed the rest of the passengers my top and what he did,you need to see how they beat and disgraced him. Better to have peppersprays handy. If you can't find to buy just make yours. Ingredients are: All kinds of peppers;fresh and dried.
Garlic,ginger,aligator pepper,ogogoro and vinegar. mix thoroughly and pour in an air-tight container with spray.

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by UjSizzle(f): 2:51pm On Sep 02, 2015
You don't say. There are perverts everywhere now, that's why I prefer to sit in spacious buses or beside women.
I experienced something similar not so long ago on my way back from Victoria Island.
Another was on a bus to Oshodi.
And one time in Anambra.
Very shameless people around harassing women.

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by hola106(m): 2:52pm On Sep 02, 2015
Lady check ur self shey. Na only u be lady ni...
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by drnoel: 2:54pm On Sep 02, 2015
Mspread:
Dear Friends,

I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences:

Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu.

While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe shocked. I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus.

But this recent one really shook me cry. I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried cry cry. He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him.

Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you.

@lalasticlala



so sad but they dont do it to only girls. They now do it to guys too. I was in the buss with my wife when one youngman entered our buss and sat close to me. My wife was sitting by the window and I close to her. A few minute into the journey I noticed the guys hands somewhere, I turned to look at him but he looked away. I leaned towards my wife and informed her. My wife confronted him immediately and as we were querying him, he shot off the buss as it slowed down to drop passengers. U should have seen the way he ran off the buss. He was practically hit by another buss that was passing by but he escaped with his life by a hairspring. Eveyone should be careful.

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 2:54pm On Sep 02, 2015
Mspread:
Dear Friends,

I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences:

Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu.

While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe shocked. I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus.

But this recent one really shook me cry. I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried cry cry. He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him.

Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you.

@lalasticlala
these are the kind of perverted thing idiotic men do that attracts insults and degradation from people.... Why would a fully grown man indulge in such dastardly act? It's irritating I swear....

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by dynamo007(m): 2:55pm On Sep 02, 2015
kevinberry:


When you mistakenly cut your self nko
lol no mind am
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by SAMBARRY: 2:57pm On Sep 02, 2015
henrixx:
Did you enjoy it? ;DDid you enjoy it?
another perv that give reasonable men a bad name undecided
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by kinibigdeal(m): 2:59pm On Sep 02, 2015
How did you dress?
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 3:00pm On Sep 02, 2015
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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 3:03pm On Sep 02, 2015
Maybe what the op is carrying about is tempting,who knows. * Ukwu and oyon*
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by SAMBARRY: 3:04pm On Sep 02, 2015
hola106:
Lady check ur self shey. Na only u be lady ni...
excuse me Mr perv any man or woman can be raped in public and in any case fellow pervs like you also touch their fellow men in inappropriate places in public undecided

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Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 3:04pm On Sep 02, 2015
ishar:
one day you will have brain
Amen my sister... Amen.
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by SAMBARRY: 3:05pm On Sep 02, 2015
dancok:
Maybe what the op is carrying about is tempting,who knows. * Ukwu and oyon*
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 3:06pm On Sep 02, 2015
drnoel:




so sad but they dont do it to only girls. They now do it to guys too. I was in the buss with my wife when one youngman entered out buss and sat close to me. My wife was sitting by the window and I close to her. A few minute into the journey I noticed the guys hands somewhere, I turned to look at him but he looked away. I leaned towards my wife and informed her. My wife confronted him immediately and as we were querying him, he shot off the buss as it slowed down to drop passengers. U should have seen the way he ran off the buss. He was practically hit by another buss that was passing by but he escaped with his life by a hairspring. Eveyone should be careful.
Trying to pick your pocket maybe?
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by UjSizzle(f): 3:06pm On Sep 02, 2015
BoboYekini:

Correct.

Frotteurism (sometimes called frottage, although psychiatrically this use is incorrect) for the sexual disorder involving nonconsensual rubbing in public places without discovery.

Frot·tage is usually consensual.

frot·tage\frȯ-ˈtäzh\
noun
1 : the technique of creating a design by rubbing (as with a pencil) over an object placed underneath the paper; also : a composition so made
2 : the act of obtaining sexual stimulation by rubbing against a person or object
Modified
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by Nobody: 3:06pm On Sep 02, 2015
dancok:
Maybe what the op is carrying about is tempting,who knows. * Ukwu and oyon*
Guy you have fault... grin
Re: My Shocking Experiences In Public Buses----ladies Be Very Vigilant! by debetmx(m): 3:06pm On Sep 02, 2015
Anyway, now when i get on the bus and a guy comes to sit next to me, my elbow is usually there waiting. He will never be comfortable until one of us gets off![/quote]

Not all guys are perverts. Why make all guys around you uncomfortable because of your experience with two unscrupulous people?

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