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patmaine:
next time dress properly. you 're addressed by your dress.

did she say she dnt or she dont dress well? It cn happn to any1. D fact she's probably d only one dat typed ha xperience here, dos nt mean she's d only one dat ve bn harrassed before.

Mspread:
Thanks for your comment. I DO NOT put on clothes that expose me. I got a nickname 'Onions' back in school because of the way I cover up. I am an advocate of 'You can be covered up and still look dashing'

Ur username sef.

abeg Wetin u dey spread??


something?
money?
contact
disease?
religion?

IVORY2009:
clap for yourself, "Chocolateme"

INTROVERT have u observed that this IVORY2009 guy calls you chocolate and me introvert? He does that in every of our posts.. I don't understand.

There are perverts everywhere. I had such experience when I was much younger, still in secondary school. I was sandwiched beside an old rickety looking man. The type that'll evoke pity on you. He had a sack on his lap and was looking very serious. As we proceeded on the trip, I felt something on my breast repeatedly, I had never heard of such things before and in my innocence It was preposterous to suspect such an elderly man.
I looked in his direction and saw no hand, I looked away and before long, the same thing. I looked at him again and he still seemed aloof and still no hand in sight.

So I pretended to look away while watching him with my corner-eye. Then I saw his sneaky hand move from behind his dirty sack to approach my breasts. I shouted at him. I was so embarrassed, shocked and dismayed. A woman beside me asked me what was wrong I could even talk, I just pointed at the man, She understood and also lent her voice in insulting the man, who quickly dropped at the next stop.

I have also had 3 more similar experiences.
I think young ladies should be told about, to prepare them for such so that they can rebuff the perverts.

chocolateme:
INTROVERT have u observed that this IVORY2009 guy calls you chocolate and me introvert? He does that in every of our posts.. I don't understand.

I dey laugh , do you want me to respond to dis or is for "Introvert" u? To ans

tunjilana:
While I understand the op and agree that there are many weirdly wired men out there especially with this very vivid example, my personal experience has also thought me that some women are very paranoid. Let me share my experience

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I got into a bus heading for a very important interview. All I had in mind was that I will have enough space to at least checkup things on my phone. Only for one annoyingly fat lady to come in right after me, cramping me into one corner that makes even breathing difficult.

I endured throughout the journey, couldn't even turn aside. I tried a couple of times to get out my phone from the pocket but observed she gave me a funny look the few times I tried.
Luckily for me someone dropped off from our row after a while, I was relieved and expected the lady to adjust immediately and get her ugly body off me so I can have my space but she didn’t move. After waiting for her to do the needful and she didn’t, I decided to use my shoulder to tap her so I can tell her to move.

Na so she bring down hell ooo in her words "Don't touch me Mr! You have been touching me all along and I didn't say anything".

If no be say my pastor don warn me to avoid conflicts and say I dey fast go the interview wey I wan do...Mehn I would have told her things that will make her cry. All I did was form gentleman and beg her to shift

Hmmmm una Don see am. dirty fat smelly with stretch mark. gosh.... accuse me. I go play her tape. I go tell am Wetin jacob tell Esau take collect his birthright.

timunstopable:
Mspread r u saying someone finge.red u in d bus nd u didnt know

or was he smooching and u cant differntiate someoene's hand nd ur load


mehn i can't understand this ur story

she was really tired and needed the release. that's why she didn't notice being smooched.

nuesmann:
them go beat f commot from your name.

lol dem no fit.

IVORY2009:
I dey laugh , do you want me to respond to dis or is for "Introvert" u? To ans

can u I imagine

TheNextAce:
Boys are not smiling
Ladies, buy pepper spray

pepper spray? When ota piapia is there

chocolateme:
can u I imagine

Imagine wat? Introvert abi Chocolateme

having read through page 5. I can now conclude that 80 percent of Nigerian girls have been sexually abused. the other 20 percent personally kno someone who is abused

Taleeysun:
pepper spray? When ota piapia is there

Issorait, that one sef de

Blakjewelry:
Aba your case get as e be o, even if you are the most irresistible babe in the world it still strange. I mean not once but twice, mehn maybe there are alot more psychos in lagos than I think.
On a second thought, I think you should get yourself an electric taser or pepper spray

Well it's more of perversion, especially masturbators who prefer carrying out lustful thoughts on subconscious ladies. Next time shout because they also are avoiding embarrassment.

Epatty:
did she say she dnt or she dont dress well? It cn happn to any1. D fact she's probably d only one dat typed ha xperience here, dos nt mean she's d only one dat ve bn harrassed before.

having read through page 5. I can now conclude that 80
percent of Nigerian girls have been sexually abused. the
other 20 percent personally kno someone who is abused

long epistle...

ayokunlei:
BE Careful And Be Prayerful Says The BIBLE.

GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST, JESUS IS COMING BACK!!!

What's the connection with the Op?

Mspread:
Dear Friends,

I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences:

Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu.

While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe . I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus.

But this recent one really shook me . I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried . He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him.

Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you.

@lalasticlala

Hmmm

I think you should be more concerned with praying to your God for a personal car.

I find it interesting that the solution to any problem or issue in Nigeria is to go and pray. With all the prayer we have been praying why are things still so messed up.

I'm sorry for what you had to experience, that is sexual harassment and in a sane society where coincidentally they even have less churches than Nigeria this would be a serious issue which would be dealt with, but my dear Nigerians will tell you to go and pray even when you raise the alarm.

Religion has made us intellectually lazy in Nigeria and we ignore the fact God has already given us everything we need to be a great nation and keep praying and praying.

Mspread:
Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried . He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses.

Mspread:
Dear Friends,

I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences:

Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu.

While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe . I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus.

But this recent one really shook me . I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried . He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him.

Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you.

@lalasticlala

OP its high time u got a car,,,God dez stories are pathetic,hw wld grown men act dez way,,,,,jeez

Upload pictures of the guys touching your boobs or adonblivit. #wink

Taleeysun:
pepper spray? When ota piapia is there

dis pepper spray looks a gud biznex to venture into

Mspread:
Dear Friends,

I am here to expose the acts of some guys who indulge in silly acts in public buses and also to seek how these evil acts can be curbed. I dont know the section to post this, so please Mods you can help by channeling to appropriate section. Thank you. Please find below my experiences:

Two months ago, i boarded a bus home after work on a friday night. I was so exhausted due to workload at the office and also the struggle to get a bus. I managed to get settled in the bus as the seats were so tight. I was seated directly behind the driver by the window. As we were transiting, I tried to chat with my friends on BBM so I wouldnt sleep off. I hardly sleep when transiting but that day I was too tired to even chat so I kept my phone inside my bag and placed it on my laps, then i rested my head on the driver's seat to take a short nap as my destination is still far. I boarded the bus from iyanoworo going to Ikorodu.

While sleeping, I felt something on my b**bs but I thought it just some imagination and then i dozed off again. I felt same thing again then i noticed that the guy sitting beside me was actually touching my b**bs but I wasnt so sure so I pretended i was dozing again and as soon as he repeated the act, i held his hand but he quickly dragged off his hands. I was too shocked to believe . I was perplexed. I couldnt say a word. I gave him a stern look and I told him to adjust himself. The reason I couldnt shout was because I didnt want to be embarassed by the passengers. The guy could actually lie about it as there were no evidence and the passengers were mostly men in the vehicle. I was just shaky and the guy was just humming along with the music been played in the bus and nodding his head like nothing ever happened. He alighted at the next bustop. Then, I promised myself that I would be more vigilant in the bus.

But this recent one really shook me . I boarded going to CMS around 5:30am last Monday. I sat at the back sit and here came this guy who sat beside me. He was well dressed, had his suit on his hands and he was putting on recommended glasses. As we moved, the chilly breeze blew across our faces which made about 80% of the passengers sleep. I dint sleep as usual but I wasnt comfortable because I was sick over the weekend so I was still feeling feverish. I dropped my bags on my laps and was trying to just BE when i felt something on my laps. I thought it was the heavy loads i put on my laps so i readjusted. The bus I boarded was on high speed making so much noise and bumping into different potholes without caution. So i was really uncomfortable. To cut the long story short, as we got to CMS Ajah park, the man that sat on my left side alighted which made me shift to his position. Then this guy also shifted closely beside me. I wondered why he sat that close when there were spaces but I ignored it since it didnt disturb me. As we got to our final destination, I carried my bag up so as to prepare to come down, Lo and Behold, this well dressed guy had his left hand on my laps just underneath my bags where my kitty lies while he had his suit on his second hand. I was so furious. I shouted at him, insulted him, asked him what he was doing. He didnt even mention a word, he was just murmuring. When we got down, I held him and was shouting but then what would that do? He just kept on walking away and he told me am embarrassing myself. I felt humiliated and assaulted. I was bitter. Some men asked me what happened and i explained. They said I should just ignore him and go so I dont embarrass myself and that I should go and pray. I was so sad that I almost cried . He wasnt even remorseful.

But i thank God i anointed myself that morning. This is what I do every morning before I step out, I also take a shot of the anointing oil and pray with it. It is a kingdom mystery that I partake in. So whatever evil he might have attempted, It has been destroyed by the anointing.
Ladies, please be very sensitive and vigilant in public buses. These monsters are out there. Its strange but true. Only God knows if they do it for diabolical purposes. I had a lot of questions running through my mind: Since when was his hand on my laps because I still adjusted for the other man to come down? How come I didnt even notice not until we almost alighted? How did his hands get there? God will definitely judge him.

Ladies, Please do share your experiences if you have encountered such before so as to serve as a warning to others. Responsible men in the house, is there a drive that makes some guys behave like that or you think its just for diabolical purposes. Your comments are highly appreciated. Thank you.

@lalasticlala

u must be a winner

raayah:
Its very common in buses.

I was sitting down one day and it felt like somebody was touching my behind. It happened like 3 times and i though it was the motion of the bus.

The fourth time, the hand grab was too much, i turned back and the man just shouted " oga, stop touching my nyash abeg, which kain nonsense be dis". He came down at the next bus-stop.

There is not really anything we can do about perverted men. I think you handled the issue in a good way.

LOL! *falls down from tomato tree* still , you even showed him some respect by calling him "oga" you should have kicked him on his di'ck (very painfull) next time he sees a woman yansh he will run. This happens every were even here in england. Nothing diabolical they are just perverts.

This your small yansh wan cause wahala for you

patmaine:
having read through page 5. I can now conclude that 80
percent of Nigerian girls have been sexually abused. the
other 20 percent personally kno someone who is abused

so many factors causes it