Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..

Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..

histemple:


According to oath of confidentiality, code of conduct and professional ethics, even if the patient is in coma or moribund, no trained doctor will reveal that to you without the approval of the patient.

The doctor will rather try to resuscitate her and where all efforts failed, you will only know what happened when she is dead.

Let me ask you, if the lady wanted you to know, why didn't her tell you before carrying out the abortion.

Do you know that the doctor can lose his/her license because of this?

The medical profession is just like banking. No trained banker will tell you anything about you husband, father or mother's account balance, not matter the emergency situation.

histemple:


There is what we call oath of confidentiality, aside code of professional conduct and ethics, it's only the adult patient that can authorise the doctor to tell anybody.

And just to educate you, there is nothing they need to sign after the abortion. It's only before the abortion that a relative or guardian is supposed to sign, authorising the abortion and agreeing to accept the outcome. This is so, because abortion anywhere in the world is 50/50.

This doctor and the hospital can be sued for revealing this information and the doctor must lose his license.

dicefrost:
Op, your story is fictitious, and a slap on the medical profession. No doctor will reveal a patient's condition to you just like that, especially such a sensitive one.

dicefrost:



No sir, as long as the patient is over 18, he alone can decide who should know about his health status. I have attended to people who are hiv+ and their spouse know nothing about it. im bound by ethics not to reveal it to their spouse unless they tell me to.

donholy28:
according to him,they called him meaning that he came as a relation to her...according to d doctors code,he has to tell him everything

BeeBeeOoh:
It's true she lied & the fact remains that "Trust" is gone, but if I may Ask; Is It Her Virginity You Loved or Is Is Her That You Loved??






9ja girls deceiving men since the days of David & Goliath..

IYANGBALI:
op are you a virgin?

BeeBeeOoh:
It's true she lied & the fact remains that "Trust" is gone, but if I may Ask; Is It Her Virginity You Loved or Is Is Her That You Loved??






9ja girls deceiving men since the days of David & Goliath..

yanabasee:

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You don't even sound like a medical student...less talk about a doctor or an interns partner..
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Because a patient is above 18years, then the doctor will have to go and ask the patient under an emergency treatment to give a list of people she wants them to know her secrets? Did u consider that she did a D&C and which is common between bf and gf...?
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Brother, the doctor did the right thing and as the OP instituted, he paid off the bills and leave.. He couldn't have paid the bills without knowing what he's paying for.

NinaNigeria:
In the medical profession, there is what we call the Doctor Patient Confidentiality binding. Which prohibits any medical practitioner to disclose any type of information to anyone regarding their patients. Yes, even if the person is the next of kin. So i do not blv even for a second dat de doctor told u all this. Anyhow if it is true, there is a possibility dat yo girl had been heartbroken, used or toyed with, by men, and she swore to herself dat she will never allow herself to be used as a intimacy gadget ever again. So wen she met u, she must have felt dat u r de guy she wud love to spend her whole life wit, n de only way to protect dat, was for her to prevent u frm seeing her de way those other men saw her, as dey only saw her as an object n hurt her. Confront her, ask her why she did it, n if u still love her, plead wit her to never lie to u ever again, make her see the importancy of trust in relationships. both of u can still build a strong union together bcoz she now knows never to lie to her man ever again. Dis might be de one lesson which teaches her to see dat u r de best man ever and deserve to be cherished. Unless she is a fool. Remember true love conqueres, never fails and always forgives

butterflyy:
Do we(girls) still lie about virginity A̶̲̥̅̊₪d̶̲̥̅̊ whatsnot. †̥hα̲̅†̥ is sooo ice age

kosplateau:


oh she stopped being an object for only the op...na still a guy got her pregnant. na wa for ur analysis.

dicefrost:
Op, your story is fictitious, and a slap on the medical profession. No doctor will reveal a patient's condition to you just like that, especially such a sensitive one.

dicefrost:
Op, your story is fictitious, and a slap on the medical profession. No doctor will reveal a patient's condition to you just like that, especially such a sensitive one.

HARDDON:


She's got u wrapped under her arm pit gee!

U mean u paid for ur virgin-aborter? Supported her abortion in ur lil way? While d person that has been ringing it is awol, u bear d brunt?Wow!

Now u want hy er back, Cos u can't do without her or u just Wano collect ur share?

Do Hope her womb isn't damaged