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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Nobody: 12:18pm On Sep 04, 2015
LaurelP:


2 questions.
do u support d lady's lifestyle?
you ve neva gone thru someone's phone or belonging? be honest.

Look dear, I don't care about her lifestyle!
I don't visit people's phone when they don't give me the access to, because I don't want my phon to be visited. I blame the gurl jare, no be everybody you go open teeth dey laugh with For office.

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by mentorandfriend(m): 12:18pm On Sep 04, 2015
My mentor, Fela Durotoye drums it into our ears always that women are not trophies.
Its a small sentence with deep meaning.
Make impact to the society, be a true man to your friends and family especially, and make no time for useless socialising and flirting with women that has sent many noble men down the path of ignomy.

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by finestsuccess(m): 12:19pm On Sep 04, 2015
jaybee3:
MYOB

Aproko na your first name

You have no right to go through someone else's phone dingbat
....

Imagine is that the point he was making.... It's happens from sending a pics definitely u end up in WhatsApp after which u go to the homepage there u will see chat messages..... He never planned to go through the message..

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by murphyibiam15(m): 12:20pm On Sep 04, 2015
EggovinMma:


Women!
Him wey dey go another girl phone no fear God. Curiosity kills the cat! How dare he go other phone. Na mumu dey worry am.
am sure u do the same thing the gal in question does....i have read via all ur comment and u are just defending de gal with ur might..to u the gal is right and should continue bleeping the MD while the boyfriend continues suffering.smh...moral decay in our society today..she's no more than a prostitute..#fact

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Nobody: 12:21pm On Sep 04, 2015
STENON:

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sorry, quoted the wrong person sad
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by samsongbemisola(m): 12:21pm On Sep 04, 2015
Konji na bastard since the bf is not around she looks for alternatives to cure the konji. Thart is one of the disadvantages of distance relationship it put u in konji state and it encourages unfaithfullness.
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Mekzmoney(m): 12:21pm On Sep 04, 2015
Guy, I would do exactly wat u did.. I wouldn't check her whatsapp deliberatly tho, unless I see wat u saw grin... As u were having crush on her, its time u go ahead and try ur best.. Maybe u can take ur own share of d national cake grin... I only pity 4 her BF...
M not surprised because guys do d same but as 4 ladies, pretense is dia second name... I can't really judge her as she's cheating cos we don't knw wat her man would be doing over there but dat doesn't giv her d right to cheat...
xertyy:
I work in a technology firm where my colleague happens to be a female.. She's in her mid 20s, not too pretty but okay and goodlooking. Among all other staffs we both happens to be closer a bit that sometimes in our spare times we talk generally on relationships, love, heartbreak and all that..

Before those discussions kick starts something like a topic or an action relating to it has to take place.. So for the past one year + I have been working their with her, she's always telling me how Faithful and loyal she is to her boyfriend which happens to reside and work in other state within the south western part..

They talk on phone everyday at work and to some extent I do believe that these two are really in love and matured, even the fact she working, she told me her boyfriend even sends her allowance monthly..

And according to her they have been dating for 2 years+ and for the past 4-5 months they haven't seen.. This same lady got some toasters that do disturb her on phone and all that, in which lash them with harsh words and rejects them, her action in all makes me starts having a second thought of being faithful or even sticking with one girl.. I had a crush on her then,but due to this their lovey lovey lifestyle with the boyfriend, I decide to back off and keep my crush to myself instead of being rejected and all that..

Recently,earlier this week, our HRM sent for her,so she forgot her phone with me, usually she don't allow me to handle her phone,which was becoming obvious she's hiding something, not until she deletes or hides a particular chat or what then she can give me her phone to see her pictures.. So on this fateful day! On Tuesday to be precise, she forgot her phone with me,so I decided to go through her pics, fortunately I found one of my pics she took me with her phone,I decide to send the pics to mine phone via whatsapp, as I was about to do that, I discovered our MDs chats with her that she ended with "Love You Too" my curiosity increases which I opened to read..

What I saw was beyond my imagination, I didn't still believe what I saw.. From the whole conversation I can deduce that they have been sexing eachother and all that.. Early in the morning,she goes to the MDs office for quickie and all that.. I was shirt of words if this is really her or who.. Till this moment it seems I'm dreaming cos I never believed this girl can ever cheat on her guy.. I'm scared of Ladies! I'm scared of commitment, I'm scared of relationship! Right now I can't even put my trust on any lady! Ladies of these days are Something Else for Real!
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by smsdigito: 12:22pm On Sep 04, 2015
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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Nobody: 12:22pm On Sep 04, 2015
The only being to TRUST IN is GOD..

As HUMANS, we shouldn't even TRUST ourselves... because ......

In every MAN lies a quiscent BEAST and it will only take the right CATALYST to activate it.

U may think you are STEADFAST and FIRM, just wait until you are pushed to the wall by anything...

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by olad1954: 12:22pm On Sep 04, 2015
pls respect your fellow workers privacy. you have no right to go through her phone even if she is your sister or daughter. respect is a two way street.

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Rumpelstiltskin(m): 12:22pm On Sep 04, 2015
EggovinMma:
Amebo!
If I am that gurl and I happen to find out you invaded my privacy, I go use that same toto make you lose your job! angry

I will make sure I Bleep that manager brains off till he is forced you to make you lose your job!Mumu!
Your parents must be really proud of you. Bravo!

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Ngokafor(f): 12:22pm On Sep 04, 2015
MikelEleta:
Noted bro buh mine is nt due to laziness. Somtymz am in a hurry cos am alwz bzy @ work. Jst get my msg nd get d hell outta hear. Ur comment is noted dou. Tnx bro





.....Awww sorry i sounded harsh,its just that it can be frustrating reading abreviated messages like yours.

..P.S i am female..oops! embarassed

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by tupacshakur(m): 12:22pm On Sep 04, 2015
EggovinMma:
Amebo!
If I am that gurl and I happen to find out you invaded my privacy, I go use that same toto make you lose your job! angry

I will make sure I Bleep that manager brains off till he is forced you to make you lose your job!Mumu!

You're one outspoken, nasty B!tch, you know!

I like you...

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by murphyibiam15(m): 12:22pm On Sep 04, 2015
EggovinMma:


Look dear, I don't care about her lifestyle!
I don't visit people's phone when they don't give me the access to, because I don't want my phon to be visited. I blame the gurl jare, no be everybody you go open teeth dey laugh with For office.
fellow biz woman as the gal described above...smh..


fear GOD u women

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by mentorandfriend(m): 12:23pm On Sep 04, 2015
Most of these hypocrites and serial cheats here will rather focus on why the op checked her phone, rather than focusing on a bigger moral issue here, which is...
WHY SHOULD A LADY IN A RELATIONSHIP BE CHEATING ON HER MAN?

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by omooba969(m): 12:23pm On Sep 04, 2015
sulmeza:
judging from d comments of most of dese ladies so far....m inclined to admit most of dem are hoes......dey are so quick to condemn d guy but fail to condemn d act...it's lyk dey see nothing wrng wit it...smh..

We all c things differently. grin
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Mistermamus(m): 12:24pm On Sep 04, 2015
gals dey cheat ehn boys dey learn nowadays. nysc opened my eyes u c dem sleeping around even d so called engaged ones. as in ehn its really bad.
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by cescky(m): 12:24pm On Sep 04, 2015
EggovinMma:


And he had to bring her private life to nairaland?

But he wanted to fuccck her as well, so what's the difference between him and the manager, despite knowing she has a serious boyfriend? Look, in this harsh economy, there no time to play mumu!

That's one bad thing about extending a handshake, some silly folks will grab the whole arm.She shouldn't have allowed him access to her phone from the onset. He will lose his job if he continues like this.

Egovin pls take it easy..if seen ur pics before ur too cute to talk this way..

I've seen married women look at me "strange" and other men strangely too...even if they want something, or had funny thots, they will handle themselves, and comport themselves immediatly knowing such isn't allowed. A saying goes that a girl and guy can't be 'normal friendls' true or false I don't knw, yes the. Guy wanted to do too, but he saw her as sacred, hence he killed that thot, if he knew her nature before, he'd have probaly tried his luck...he's just heart broken and in shock on behalf of her boyfreind!

Pls the economy is not harsh..all good things of life are from within us never outside of us.

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Fourwinds: 12:24pm On Sep 04, 2015
peeparty:
op you get time sha.
if na me I will do d same.. dats how we learn to know d way forward
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by hemmaoshos(m): 12:25pm On Sep 04, 2015
lol......girls ehn...It's better you don't check at all because the end results are tremendous and it will leave you hanging... Hack your girlfriend Whatsapp backup file even if she deleted her conversation then you will see what evil they are made off..
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Nobody: 12:25pm On Sep 04, 2015
SAMBARRY:
grin

now you're talking. So that's the reason for your inability to face ya front abi? grin


pele dear grin


another eja nla is on the way. Hotter and finer than her grin

This op na proper ignorant guy grin grin cheesy
I pray this girl doesn't know about it else she go carry am tell Oga manager after another romp, the sack letter will be LEGENDARY grin grin cheesy

Even women bosses frustrate female inferior that pose a threat to their sugar bobo, talkless of female employees. Devil won use am drink Pepsi and agege bread for that company. grin
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by MikelEleta(m): 12:25pm On Sep 04, 2015
Ngokafor:






.....Awww sorry i sounded harsh,its just that it can be frustrating reading abreviated messages like yours.

..P.S i am female..oops! embarassed
Am sorry lyk I said I was in a hurry xo didn't check d sex. Jst replace all d places I said bro with "dear". Ur welcum dear
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by LaurelP(m): 12:26pm On Sep 04, 2015
EggovinMma:


Look dear, I don't care about her lifestyle!
I don't visit people's phone when they don't give me the access to, because I don't want my phon to be visited. I blame the gurl jare, no be everybody you go open teeth dey laugh with For office.
Babe u didn't answer my first question. do u support d lady's character?

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by STENON(f): 12:26pm On Sep 04, 2015
ArseneWenger:
sad
Alright, No problem.

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Ephemmm: 12:27pm On Sep 04, 2015
xertyy:
I work in a technology firm where my colleague happens to be a female.. She's in her mid 20s, not too pretty but okay and goodlooking. Among all other staffs we both happens to be closer a bit that sometimes in our spare times we talk generally on relationships, love, heartbreak and all that..

Before those discussions kick starts something like a topic or an action relating to it has to take place.. So for the past one year + I have been working their with her, she's always telling me how Faithful and loyal she is to her boyfriend which happens to reside and work in other state within the south western part..

They talk on phone everyday at work and to some extent I do believe that these two are really in love and matured, even the fact she working, she told me her boyfriend even sends her allowance monthly..

And according to her they have been dating for 2 years+ and for the past 4-5 months they haven't seen.. This same lady got some toasters that do disturb her on phone and all that, in which lash them with harsh words and rejects them, her action in all makes me starts having a second thought of being faithful or even sticking with one girl.. I had a crush on her then,but due to this their lovey lovey lifestyle with the boyfriend, I decide to back off and keep my crush to myself instead of being rejected and all that..

Recently,earlier this week, our HRM sent for her,so she forgot her phone with me, usually she don't allow me to handle her phone,which was becoming obvious she's hiding something, not until she deletes or hides a particular chat or what then she can give me her phone to see her pictures.. So on this fateful day! On Tuesday to be precise, she forgot her phone with me,so I decided to go through her pics, fortunately I found one of my pics she took me with her phone,I decide to send the pics to mine phone via whatsapp, as I was about to do that, I discovered our MDs chats with her that she ended with "Love You Too" my curiosity increases which I opened to read..

What I saw was beyond my imagination, I didn't still believe what I saw.. From the whole conversation I can deduce that they have been sexing eachother and all that.. Early in the morning,she goes to the MDs office for quickie and all that.. I was shirt of words if this is really her or who.. Till this moment it seems I'm dreaming cos I never believed this girl can ever cheat on her guy.. I'm scared of Ladies! I'm scared of commitment, I'm scared of relationship! Right now I can't even put my trust on any lady! Ladies of these days are Something Else for Real!

The earlier you realize that goods girls are girls that have not been caught, the better for you.

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Mekzmoney(m): 12:27pm On Sep 04, 2015
Sorry op, I wanted to quote sum1 else and I quoted u... grin
xertyy:
I know I got no righ to do that! But it was an eye opener man!
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Nobody: 12:28pm On Sep 04, 2015
xertyy:
I work in a technology firm where my colleague happens to be a female.. She's in her mid 20s, not too pretty but okay and goodlooking. Among all other staffs we both happens to be closer a bit that sometimes in our spare times we talk generally on relationships, love, heartbreak and all that..

Before those discussions kick starts something like a topic or an action relating to it has to take place.. So for the past one year + I have been working their with her, she's always telling me how Faithful and loyal she is to her boyfriend which happens to reside and work in other state within the south western part..

They talk on phone everyday at work and to some extent I do believe that these two are really in love and matured, even the fact she working, she told me her boyfriend even sends her allowance monthly..

And according to her they have been dating for 2 years+ and for the past 4-5 months they haven't seen.. This same lady got some toasters that do disturb her on phone and all that, in which lash them with harsh words and rejects them, her action in all makes me starts having a second thought of being faithful or even sticking with one girl.. I had a crush on her then,but due to this their lovey lovey lifestyle with the boyfriend, I decide to back off and keep my crush to myself instead of being rejected and all that..

Recently,earlier this week, our HRM sent for her,so she forgot her phone with me, usually she don't allow me to handle her phone,which was becoming obvious she's hiding something, not until she deletes or hides a particular chat or what then she can give me her phone to see her pictures.. So on this fateful day! On Tuesday to be precise, she forgot her phone with me,so I decided to go through her pics, fortunately I found one of my pics she took me with her phone,I decide to send the pics to mine phone via whatsapp, as I was about to do that, I discovered our MDs chats with her that she ended with "Love You Too" my curiosity increases which I opened to read..

What I saw was beyond my imagination, I didn't still believe what I saw.. From the whole conversation I can deduce that they have been sexing eachother and all that.. Early in the morning,she goes to the MDs office for quickie and all that.. I was shirt of words if this is really her or who.. Till this moment it seems I'm dreaming cos I never believed this girl can ever cheat on her guy.. I'm scared of Ladies! I'm scared of commitment, I'm scared of relationship! Right now I can't even put my trust on any lady! Ladies of these days are Something Else for Real!
look her face very well and u will notice traces of hidden wrinkles! Oooh yes! Girls cant hide it. It shows on the face, it shows on the body getting shrinked and wobbling. The more they sex, unprettier and older they get.

Maybe she got her job thru that agreement of giving the man morning tea. If her guy is wise enough he shud be a steady nairalander for more updates grin . A cheating GF always has a smelly CUNTinent.

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Damalex4luv(m): 12:28pm On Sep 04, 2015
EggovinMma:


Sweety sentiments apart, there is no organisation I this country where these things dint happen.Its a man's world, even the brilliant babes at a point get to fuccck a superior to get there.The babe dey try to keep her job, I expect the mumu op to mind is god damn business and face his own job else he will lose it oooooo.Even if i be man sef kon ear say the my smallie for office wey dey give me her kpekus complain say a colleague give her problem, I will sack the niggar straight! Who born am?
Have gone through every of your comment on this topic and I was wondering the kind of mother you would become. I don't know the kind of advice you're going to give your daughter if someone complain to you that she got engage in such attitude. The mere fact that all this things do happen doesn't mean we should be encouraging it as an individual or as a group. The main reason why most guys are afraid to get married is because of all this unfaithful girls around now. We should call a spade a spade and face reality. What's wrong is wrong, if you have a brother and she comes to you that his fiancee is sleeping with her boss, will you encourage him to continue with the relationship. Stop showing your slutiness on every thread and face reality. I wonder the type of guy that will marry a bittch like you.

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Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by Nobody: 12:29pm On Sep 04, 2015
No comment though, especially if you betray the trust someone has reposed on you shocked
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by kingk(m): 12:29pm On Sep 04, 2015
VenusBetty:
olofofo, gbekerude, amebo
You're a rare gem, still factory fitted, first body spray (black) hope you won't employ more than one driver?.
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by omooba969(m): 12:31pm On Sep 04, 2015
murphyibiam15:

am sure u do the same thing the gal in question does....i have read via all ur comment and u are just defending de gal with ur might..to u the gal is right and should continue bleeping the MD while the boyfriend continues suffering.smh...moral decay in our society today..she's no more than a prostitute..#fact

@bolded,

Hw did u arrive @such conclusion?
Re: My Manager Sleeps With Our Female Colleague by sukkot: 12:31pm On Sep 04, 2015
xertyy:
Ok! Thanks dawg! Lol! Pls kip ur tin private and stop using it to make money!
Report her to her boyfriend. help save the mans future. do him a favor. and so he can stop sending her his money. it is your duty to report her. anything short of that and you are falling hand big time

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