Johniyke2flex:


Shut that thing you call a mouth and be real for once. Must you always expose how much of a slut you are? I read all your comments and I must say I'm ashamed for u. There's nothing more to know about you, your comments have clearly defined you. Its obvious you indulge in same act.

You just carry the matter for head like say na you the guy dey talk about. Instead to hit on the lady whose sexcapades with her boss needs to be condemed and discouraged, in your foolishness, you chose to attack the OP. What you need is a re-orientation. Its obvious that you've watched too many oyinbo movies and in your delusion you think you are one. Privacy my foot. Between the lady's privacy and her sexcapades which do u think carries more weight. Who talks about privacy when a much more important issue has unfolded. I pity u!!!

sukkot:
you do sound very angry and bitter. i want to help you. have you had a rough life ? confide in me sweetie

EggovinMma:



First of all, I don't take relationship serious.
Well for a fact that she is already sleeping with him, I don't see the reason why she should stop because of a junior colleague who means little or nothing to her. Please understand that I am trying to be open minded her and say it as I see it from my own understanding.A ball is already set rolling, for whatever reason(s) she may have for sleeping with her boss.Paainfully, that niggar can't stop her, but she can stop him.

I am not supporting the girl for cheating, at the same time, I don't see it as anybody business. That's what privacy should be abouat. The op on the other hand is placing himself in a dare situation, because if things get put of hand, he will lose out.I suggest he keeps this tiny secret to himself and give this lady a reasonable distance,face his work and find love elsewhere.

HelpeeDeck:


if you really matured you will not comment this manner

Theflint1:
Sis you funny die... been laughing like mad going through your posts.

EggovinMma:


EVERY BODY HAS A RIGHT TO HIS OR HER PRIVACY!
MAYBE I AM NOT LIKE YOU GUYS WHO DONT VALUE "PRIVACY".I M NOT USE TO HAVING MY PRIVACY BREACHED.

MikelEleta:
Sorry bro buh wahs d meaning

xertyy:
I work in a technology firm where my colleague happens to be a female.. She's in her mid 20s, not too pretty but okay and goodlooking. Among all other staffs we both happens to be closer a bit that sometimes in our spare times we talk generally on relationships, love, heartbreak and all that..

Before those discussions kick starts something like a topic or an action relating to it has to take place.. So for the past one year + I have been working their with her, she's always telling me how Faithful and loyal she is to her boyfriend which happens to reside and work in other state within the south western part..

They talk on phone everyday at work and to some extent I do believe that these two are really in love and matured, even the fact she working, she told me her boyfriend even sends her allowance monthly..

And according to her they have been dating for 2 years+ and for the past 4-5 months they haven't seen.. This same lady got some toasters that do disturb her on phone and all that, in which lash them with harsh words and rejects them, her action in all makes me starts having a second thought of being faithful or even sticking with one girl.. I had a crush on her then,but due to this their lovey lovey lifestyle with the boyfriend, I decide to back off and keep my crush to myself instead of being rejected and all that..

Recently,earlier this week, our HRM sent for her,so she forgot her phone with me, usually she don't allow me to handle her phone,which was becoming obvious she's hiding something, not until she deletes or hides a particular chat or what then she can give me her phone to see her pictures.. So on this fateful day! On Tuesday to be precise, she forgot her phone with me,so I decided to go through her pics, fortunately I found one of my pics she took me with her phone,I decide to send the pics to mine phone via whatsapp, as I was about to do that, I discovered our MDs chats with her that she ended with "Love You Too" my curiosity increases which I opened to read..

What I saw was beyond my imagination, I didn't still believe what I saw.. From the whole conversation I can deduce that they have been sexing eachother and all that.. Early in the morning,she goes to the MDs office for quickie and all that.. I was shirt of words if this is really her or who.. Till this moment it seems I'm dreaming cos I never believed this girl can ever cheat on her guy.. I'm scared of Ladies! I'm scared of commitment, I'm scared of relationship! Right now I can't even put my trust on any lady! Ladies of these days are Something Else for Real!

xertyy:
I work in a technology firm where my colleague happens to be a female.. She's in her mid 20s, not too pretty but okay and goodlooking. Among all other staffs we both happens to be closer a bit that sometimes in our spare times we talk generally on relationships, love, heartbreak and all that..

Before those discussions kick starts something like a topic or an action relating to it has to take place.. So for the past one year + I have been working their with her, she's always telling me how Faithful and loyal she is to her boyfriend which happens to reside and work in other state within the south western part..

They talk on phone everyday at work and to some extent I do believe that these two are really in love and matured, even the fact she working, she told me her boyfriend even sends her allowance monthly..

And according to her they have been dating for 2 years+ and for the past 4-5 months they haven't seen.. This same lady got some toasters that do disturb her on phone and all that, in which lash them with harsh words and rejects them, her action in all makes me starts having a second thought of being faithful or even sticking with one girl.. I had a crush on her then,but due to this their lovey lovey lifestyle with the boyfriend, I decide to back off and keep my crush to myself instead of being rejected and all that..

Recently,earlier this week, our HRM sent for her,so she forgot her phone with me, usually she don't allow me to handle her phone,which was becoming obvious she's hiding something, not until she deletes or hides a particular chat or what then she can give me her phone to see her pictures.. So on this fateful day! On Tuesday to be precise, she forgot her phone with me,so I decided to go through her pics, fortunately I found one of my pics she took me with her phone,I decide to send the pics to mine phone via whatsapp, as I was about to do that, I discovered our MDs chats with her that she ended with "Love You Too" my curiosity increases which I opened to read..

What I saw was beyond my imagination, I didn't still believe what I saw.. From the whole conversation I can deduce that they have been sexing eachother and all that.. Early in the morning,she goes to the MDs office for quickie and all that.. I was shirt of words if this is really her or who.. Till this moment it seems I'm dreaming cos I never believed this girl can ever cheat on her guy.. I'm scared of Ladies! I'm scared of commitment, I'm scared of relationship! Right now I can't even put my trust on any lady! Ladies of these days are Something Else for Real!

telexfree1:


If you value your privacy so much, then don't leave your phone lying around.

All that trash you are saying about the lady making the guy lose his job simply that--trash.

OP. Next time you check that fone, email a copy of those messages to yourself and keep it handy just in case you might need to sue his ass for wrongful dismissal

If anything happens and you can prove in court there was an illicit relationship going on and you were fired because you were privy to that information, you will clean out with millions.

The HRM (human resources manager ) is walking on thin ice.

smh for people coming here to spew trash just because it's a faceless forum

jaybee3:
MYOB

Aproko na your first name

You have no right to go through someone else's phone dingbat

EggovinMma:
Amebo!
If I am that gurl and I happen to find out you invaded my privacy, I go use that same toto make you lose your job!

I will make sure I Bleep that manager brains off till he is forced you to make you lose your job!Mumu!

dabriggs:
You work in a Firm bla bla bla...


So how has anything changed? After all the talk and post?

Mind your business and stop being hurt because she chated on her boyfriend. You are not him. It is either you call him and tell him or you report your oga to his wife. If not shut the hell up and mind your freaking business.

Also what type of man snoops around a lady's phone. Even if she is your girl friend, your rights to her privacy are limited. What type of men are raised nowadays?And he is even spelling wrongly and talking about "let us talk about A and not B blah blah..". If I know you I will never employ you.

And let us even consider your girlfriend. If she cheats on you or you cheat on her it is either you move on or you forgive her. But just do something and shut up!!!!!! You all should stop insulting the use of ICT.

EggovinMma:


I wish I read this.

mightyokwy:

Hmmm mma, so u did't see any thing wrong with her cheating her BF. Am nt supporting him invading the privacy of the lady in question but some times curiosity could lead us into invading other people's privacy

EggovinMma:


Believe me, I am one of the happiest girl on earth, do you know why? I really do not have secret. Again, I don't force people to like me by pretending to be who I am not.Too lazy to lift that much load around.

xpac01:
My brother, until you marry a lady, never take her faithful and all that especially in a long distance r/ship..

prettyjo:
in other words...
what do you actually want us to do

xertyy:
I want you to stop cheating on your real boyfriend.. Keep your private part private.. Oshey! Thanks!

Creamish:
Ur a man who luvs gossip & invasion of privacy... Somehow, I can't see past that to understand your worries here..

Johniyke2flex:


Please stop! Just stop! Can u do everybody a favour? Get lost and self-destruct!

You dnt have a secret and you're human! Your background is faulty. You dnt even have wisdom to choose ur words as a lady. You've succeeded in making yourself the centre of distraction. Even Gaborone, a female like you, feels disdain with your choice of words. That should tell you a lot.

EggovinMma:


Oh oooooooooooooo!
All these things you are saying will happen for this naija?
*pour him cold wine*
Wake up jare! We are not in obodo oyibo. He may even be sacked for breach of privacy first.


Look, as long as the phone isn't his, he has no right to access it at all.

Bjergtrolde:


Are you jealous?
One advice I got when I was younger is not to spy as you may not be able to deal with what you find. That is obviously what is happening here.

No be Naija where sexual harassment plenty? Why are you shocked?
May be if the baby had said no, it would have been good bye to her job.

xertyy:
Lool! That's one issue with you people! Everyone in here is a kid or aint upto your taste or something! I feel for you! Meet me real life,I wll take care of your bills till you touch 6ft below!

esosa993:




Let's be honest cheating is bad, but if the gal had cheated on her bf with the Op would he have come here saying all this

Gaborone:


Yet another shame to her.

Shei shei shei...SHAMEEEE!

whoisuche:


So you prefer her to be committing adultery. When d punishment will come u wlll stand by hr to share in it.

Matthew 7:1
"Do not judge, or you too will be judged.

prettyjo:
quite funny...
I piry you

konvict0111:
Babe, you read it but just had no answer.

You have been completely floored and easily so, because whether you like to admit it or not, your choices and perspective of life is fundamentally wrong.

I understand your point about respect for other peoples privacy, but that is small matter compared to need for responsible and honorable lifestyle.

It might be the case that you watch too much of foreign movies, but after all said and done, you and I would one day come to that place of discovery, where we realize that the life of an individual belongs not to him, alone, but to the society at large.

Please learn to be honorable...