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Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Fourwinds: 4:17am On Sep 10, 2015
a good one
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by tonychristopher: 4:38am On Sep 10, 2015
lushious:
Hmmm that's harsh, for your info most ladies that date up to 20 or more men know how to take care of their homes very well and depending on who they settle with they respect and stick to their partner. Its not all girls that haven't been with many men that are level headed some unleash their true characters when they finally get married that's why we have many divorce cases.
. Hmmmm but I will not still go for her

How can a lady date 20 men and duck
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by tonychristopher: 4:40am On Sep 10, 2015
Toks2008:
Hmmm interesting i must say.The vulgarity tho
How
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Aystarz: 4:46am On Sep 10, 2015
aleem50:
OP, a broadcaster just stole your write up. The programme is still on star fm 91.5 in Ibadan.
Hahaha... Happens all the time. Even Lagos radio stations down here do that alot. I bet Toks is unperturbed though.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Princephelar(m): 5:45am On Sep 10, 2015
MsBliss:
Nope. I'd rather take a walk
Nna babe I Neva see any babe wey get common sense pass u... I salute ur level of maturity. Pls keep it up
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by ZianaJordana(f): 6:20am On Sep 10, 2015
The same could be said about attractive men.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Tunagee(m): 6:33am On Sep 10, 2015
Toks2008:
You don't need a pretty face or a curvy body to make a cute responsible man fall in love with you.

Any man whether responsible or irresponsible,good or bad can get attracted to a curvy pretty chic at instant glance but that is where the danger lies because even when most men are only willing to have a taste of your curves,most outwardly pretty ladies tend to fool themselves with the fact that they are getting attention from many men because indeed that is where it mostly ends.ATTENTION.

Have you ever bothered to ask why the not too outwardly beautiful chics are getting married quickly and also getting hooked to super cute responsible men while most sweet looking chics keep jumping from one man to another?

Have you wondered why many ladies with costly Brazilian hair and sophisticated looks keep losing their men to ladies on low cut with simple looks?


Here are some reasons and i hope it makes sense to you all.

1.Arrogance: The supposed not too beautiful ones with simple looks are humble.submissive,non abusive and level headed while the supposed outwardly beautiful ones can't just seem to pipe down and be serene with the men in their lives because they always have the subconscious believe that men will always come for them just to realize too late that most of the men that come for them do not actually come for them but for their body and of-course after having their way with them will likely dump them and move on to the next available sweet chic around.

2.Highest bidder: Many ladies with hot bodies tend to have this subliminal feelings that they are too hot for just any man with little cash to have so they tend to hope for a rich dude to buy them and they unfortunately realize too late that a rich man has enough money to buy as many hot chics as he can afford and once the guy has spent a ample sum on her if she is lucky to find one, she will be relegated and a new chic will definitely come on board.

3.Excessive body flaunting: When you flaunt your body as a hot girl,you are simply acting like a decoy and we all know how people treat sample products,they are showcased for people to see,touch and test and when its time to buy the actual product, we tend to demand for the ones sealed in the carton so the more you flaunt that sexy curve the more you are passing an indecent message to the guys.

4.Attention lovers
: Yes its quite fascinating to be admired and wanted by many men and this feeling can keep many hot chics unmarried for a very long time because the admiration they enjoy from men is so overwhelming that they can't just imagine giving that up to be with a man.

5.Being too picky
: I will not blame any hot chic for this but then many of them just don't know when to back down as they wil be bent on having a dude to compliment their hotness but unfortunately it does not work this way in the real world and they tend to realize too late and just pick any available one and this is why you see many hot chics ending up with guys that do not match up at all and this is because they have given up sweet guys hoping to get drop dead gorgeous ones.


My advice to ladies generally whether hot or not is Just to keep a level head and be humble and trust me, even the most handsome and responsible men will come begging to have you for keeps.

Its never about outward beauty but its all about the beauty of the mind and even a man who have sworn to date or marry a super curvy chic will melt if he comes across a humble,submissive,non abusive straight shaped lady with a quality of a real virtuous wife.

Guys are wiser now and a reasonable man will not mind to marry a humble respectful ugly lady rather than have a manner-less and sharp tongued sex symbol as a wife but would rather bleep and dump such.

Hope this helps
This ia one of the best piece i have read in years on nairaland. very factual! God bless u for posting this. i lnow so many beautiful, curvy and goodlooking babes who in their old age i mean likw 35, 40, 45 still looking for husbands
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Tunagee(m): 6:37am On Sep 10, 2015
Toks2008:
You don't need a pretty face or a curvy body to make a cute responsible man fall in love with you.

Any man whether responsible or irresponsible,good or bad can get attracted to a curvy pretty chic at instant glance but that is where the danger lies because even when most men are only willing to have a taste of your curves,most outwardly pretty ladies tend to fool themselves with the fact that they are getting attention from many men because indeed that is where it mostly ends.ATTENTION.

Have you ever bothered to ask why the not too outwardly beautiful chics are getting married quickly and also getting hooked to super cute responsible men while most sweet looking chics keep jumping from one man to another?

Have you wondered why many ladies with costly Brazilian hair and sophisticated looks keep losing their men to ladies on low cut with simple looks?


Here are some reasons and i hope it makes sense to you all.

1.Arrogance: The supposed not too beautiful ones with simple looks are humble.submissive,non abusive and level headed while the supposed outwardly beautiful ones can't just seem to pipe down and be serene with the men in their lives because they always have the subconscious believe that men will always come for them just to realize too late that most of the men that come for them do not actually come for them but for their body and of-course after having their way with them will likely dump them and move on to the next available sweet chic around.

2.Highest bidder: Many ladies with hot bodies tend to have this subliminal feelings that they are too hot for just any man with little cash to have so they tend to hope for a rich dude to buy them and they unfortunately realize too late that a rich man has enough money to buy as many hot chics as he can afford and once the guy has spent a ample sum on her if she is lucky to find one, she will be relegated and a new chic will definitely come on board.

3.Excessive body flaunting: When you flaunt your body as a hot girl,you are simply acting like a decoy and we all know how people treat sample products,they are showcased for people to see,touch and test and when its time to buy the actual product, we tend to demand for the ones sealed in the carton so the more you flaunt that sexy curve the more you are passing an indecent message to the guys.

4.Attention lovers
: Yes its quite fascinating to be admired and wanted by many men and this feeling can keep many hot chics unmarried for a very long time because the admiration they enjoy from men is so overwhelming that they can't just imagine giving that up to be with a man.

5.Being too picky
: I will not blame any hot chic for this but then many of them just don't know when to back down as they wil be bent on having a dude to compliment their hotness but unfortunately it does not work this way in the real world and they tend to realize too late and just pick any available one and this is why you see many hot chics ending up with guys that do not match up at all and this is because they have given up sweet guys hoping to get drop dead gorgeous ones.


My advice to ladies generally whether hot or not is Just to keep a level head and be humble and trust me, even the most handsome and responsible men will come begging to have you for keeps.

Its never about outward beauty but its all about the beauty of the mind and even a man who have sworn to date or marry a super curvy chic will melt if he comes across a humble,submissive,non abusive straight shaped lady with a quality of a real virtuous wife.

Guys are wiser now and a reasonable man will not mind to marry a humble respectful ugly lady rather than have a manner-less and sharp tongued sex symbol as a wife but would rather bleep and dump such.

Hope this helps
This ia one of the best piece i have read in years on nairaland. very factual! God bless u for posting this. i lnow so many beautiful, curvy and goodlooking babes who in their old age i mean likw 35, 40, 45 still looking for husbands, even despite their beauty. Stupid and senseless beautiful girls and ladies, una be use and dump for responsible guys and una go continue to be if una no change una character.The not so good looking ladies would keep getting the best guys because no responsible man would in his right senses want to spend the rest of hia life with arrogant, beautiful and curvy fools!
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by emmalexdboy(m): 7:02am On Sep 10, 2015
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Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by aleem50(m): 7:04am On Sep 10, 2015
otunsman:
You know whether na op steal that topic?
lol,it is possible sha.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op): 8:11am On Sep 10, 2015
tonychristopher:
How
The repetitive t*t* word lol!
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Judeblade24(m): 8:13am On Sep 10, 2015
Well said.....let those dat av ears hear.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op): 8:24am On Sep 10, 2015
aleem50:
I was like WTF! I heard the guy saying it on radio as I was reading it on Nairaland. The thing come sweet for him mouth like say nah him write am#lol
otunsman:
You know whether na op steal that topic?
LOL! in your dreams otuns.

I created this about 7days ago so its apparent he lifted it from here but as i wrote,all well and good. If only better copyright action dey i believe people will simply ask for permission or at worst state the source of any intellectual material they re enact.

If i start to paste the number of blogs that waits for a front page material on nairaland to be pasted on theirs you will marvel and this topic is presently on over 7 different blogs yet they will never write the source but when i look at the fact that even nairaland is guilty as many linda ikeji material come up here briefly after linda posts them and even linda sef is guilty of doing same to foreign blogs so i just let it pass.

So bro me i no sabi lift material at all and if i begin write 10 different threads a day here on nairaland it will amaze you that in 10years i will not repeat one article and all wll be originally written by me.

Freelance writing is a passion i have and while other guys derive pleasure from smoking,buzzing,clubbing,watching football,philandering or doing other funny stuffs,this is what turns my swagg on.Its a passion.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by MsBliss(f): 8:27am On Sep 10, 2015
Princephelar:
Nna babe I Neva see any babe wey get common sense pass u... I salute ur level of maturity. Pls keep it up
Thanks
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by segcymoor(m): 8:29am On Sep 10, 2015
On point!
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op):
Tunagee:
This ia one of the best piece i have read in years on nairaland. very factual! God bless u for posting this. i lnow so many beautiful, curvy and goodlooking babes who in their old age i mean likw 35, 40, 45 still looking for husbands, even despite their beauty. Stupid and senseless beautiful girls and ladies, una be use and dump for responsible guys and una go continue to be if una no change una character.The not so good looking ladies would keep getting the best guys because no responsible man would in his right senses want to spend the rest of hia life with arrogant, beautiful and curvy fools!
Thanks bro but honestly im in big trouble because nah curvy chic me i wan marry so make GOD help me o.And for the first time on nairaland i must confess that na wettin put me for wahala be that with my ex. This babe hot no be small but arrogance is her problem and still is that even presently at 32 she still feels she is too hot to mellow.

For over 11years that we have been together i have always observed that thing in her that just wont let here mellow down and at 30 she could not hold it any longer and started saying stufs like "she feels cheated having spent all her life from the age of 19 with just one man(me)" and i was like mogbe! when has that become a crime? and she got so hysterical that i began to tell myself that if i dont allow this lady to go and ufill her fantasy she might just poison me in the bid to see the outside world and today we are history so trust me,arrogance is one great characteristic of hot chics and it only takes one who has seen the world and have learned some hard lessons to really relax and be with one man.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by zeongeon: 11:00am On Sep 10, 2015
u forgot to add that some have spiritual husbands that chase the man or kill the man who is interested in them.

some when age starts to knock they start using jazz to snatch other pole husbands, some take up roles in church to get noticed.

what gals don't know is that the older a guy gets the more attractive he becomes while the opposite goes for women.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by MsBliss(f): 11:19am On Sep 10, 2015
doskie:
you have all it will take to win a third world war against the whole world. tact, intelligence and diplomacy. can we be friends? I like your type.
Wow Ayam flattered.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by MsBliss(f): 11:21am On Sep 10, 2015
Toks2008:
Thanks bro but honestly im in big trouble because nah curvy chic me i wan marry so make GOD help me o.And for the first time on nairaland i must confess that na wettin put me for wahala be that with my ex. This babe hot no be small but arrogance is her problem and still is that even presently at 32 she still feels she is too hot to mellow.

For over 11years that we have been together i have always observed that thing in her that just wont let here mellow down and at 30 she could not hold it any longer and started saying stufs like "she feels cheated having spent all her life from the age of 19 with just one man(me)" and i was like mogbe! when has that become a crime? and she got so hysterical that i began to tell myself that if i dont allow this lady to go and ufill her fantasy she might just poison me in the bid to see the outside world and today we are history so trust me,arrogance is one great characteristic of hot chics and it only takes one who has seen the world and have learned some hard lessons to really relax and be with one man.
How can you date someone for eleven years??
if you wanted to marry her,you should have done so long ago instead of caging her with love.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by BushidoBlue(m): 1:18pm On Sep 10, 2015
tonychristopher:
The bottom line hot girls are girlfriend material and they are the ones you take to club and strip parties ..but no reasonable man takes and exposes the level headed girl .she is wife material


Who wants to marry a woman that uses a BlackBerry passport and iPhone 7 ....while the dude is using his simple infinix


The best thing to hot girls fuckkkk em and dump em

And you won't even enjoy the Toto because too much passage and the Toto has turned a thorough fare so why border to keep a lady that has a well as a Toto

Go for the tight Toto and you get them in level headed woman


The hot girl won't even want to wash beans for akara or moimoi so her manicure won't be spoilt and she will kill you once she lacks her transparent soap and St eves creams ...get used to Elizabeth Arden cosmetics and make Mary Kay your assesory ...forget what it means to manage


In short she is a disaster waiting to happen

Marry her at your own risk


Who wants a complicated woman in a complicated society


The simple lady balances it


I will go for that girl that will use 1k cook good food and the one that her Toto grips my abunna



Life is too short and simple
You are too badt!!!!
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op): 2:45pm On Sep 10, 2015
MsBliss:
How can you date someone for eleven years??
if you wanted to marry her,you should have done so long ago instead of caging her with love.
lol

my dear we got lgally married 6yrs into the courtship so it was actually 6yrs of courtship n anthr 5yrs of marriage but that non the less did not deter her from breakng out.

Its like a ritual most ladies must prform before they calm down.

If you like be the cutest man on earrth or the most caring,if you are dating a lady who have never bn heart broken or has no experience of another man,she will always bliv there is something berrer out there.

This is why i dont even mind an ex slut this time around as long as she is willing to calm down.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by tonychristopher: 2:51pm On Sep 10, 2015
Toks2008:
The repetitive t*t* word lol!
Toto
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op): 3:04pm On Sep 10, 2015
tonychristopher:
Toto
Chai you are so raw.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by MsBliss(f): 3:30pm On Sep 10, 2015
Toks2008:
lol

my dear we got lgally married 6yrs into the courtship so it was actually 6yrs of courtship n anthr 5yrs of marriage but that non the less did not deter her from breakng out.

Its like a ritual most ladies must prform before they calm down.

If you like be the cutest man on earrth or the most caring,if you are dating a lady who have never bn heart broken or has no experience of another man,she will always bliv there is something berrer out there.

This is why i dont even mind an ex slut this time around as long as she is willing to calm down.
OK I understand .

You wore the shoe and know where it pinch so suit yourself.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by Toks2008(op): 3:39pm On Sep 10, 2015
MsBliss:
OK I understand .
You wore the shoe and know where it pinch so suit yourself.
Definitely sis.
Thanks
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by IBBG(m): 4:23pm On Sep 10, 2015
op u r right. I'm speaking from experience. Their problem is arrogance.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by sammaking(m): 8:50pm On Sep 10, 2015
lushious:
Hmmm that's harsh, for your info most ladies that date up to 20 or more men know how to take care of their homes very well and depending on who they settle with they respect and stick to their partner. Its not all girls that haven't been with many men that are level headed some unleash their true characters when they finally get married that's why we have many divorce cases.
Get this right, there's a difference between a cool headed girl and one who's pretending to be a cool headed girl. A girl who has lost count of the no of men She's slept with will never keep her to to with her husband. Her legs will always be pointing outside because of the forces driving her except for Gods intervention.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by sammaking(m): 8:55pm On Sep 10, 2015
lushious:
Hmmm that's harsh, for your info most ladies that date up to 20 or more men know how to take care of their homes very well and depending on who they settle with they respect and stick to their partner. Its not all girls that haven't been with many men that are level headed some unleash their true characters when they finally get married that's why we have many divorce cases.
Get this right, there's a difference between a cool headed girl and one who's pretending to be a cool headed girl. A girl who has lost count of the no of men She's slept with will never keep her to to with her husband. Her legs will always be pointing outside because of the forces driving her except for Gods intervention.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by EmmyDe25(m): 5:16am On Sep 11, 2015
I can't agree more. But then, i can't settle for an ugly babe as a wife. There are still ladies who are fine both on the inside and the outside.
Re: 5 Reasons Why Its More Dificult For Hot Chics To Settle Down With A Man. by doskie(m): 6:53am On Sep 11, 2015
MsBliss:
Wow Ayam flattered.
naahh. you dont need to. but lemme chat wid you.
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