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tohphunmie:
I cried for real oo. There was even a time i was crying at 4:00am and i called customer care if there was a way i could block his line from not calling/texting. The C.C.A i spoke with then was a guy, he said i couldn't and when he noticed i was crying he said maybe i should be telling him what i know would piss him off like preaching the word of God and so on.....the foolish guy really frustrated my life and funny enough i don't know the foolish boy o but he knew me so well then.
Lol...thanks dear @ ur last sentence

tohphunmie:
I cried for real oo. There was even a time i was crying at 4:00am and i called customer care if there was a way i could block his line from not calling/texting. The C.C.A i spoke with then was a guy, he said i couldn't and when he noticed i was crying he said maybe i should be telling him what i know would piss him off like preaching the word of God and so on.....the foolish guy really frustrated my life and funny enough i don't know the foolish boy o but he knew me so well then.
Lol...thanks dear @ ur last sentence

funkyjms:
Well, there are different ways you could have use to track/have his details.

tohphunmie:
what are the different ways

funkyjms:
Anyway, that won't matter since it's now in the past.

Bamz:
LOL crazy experiences on here... I thought stalking stopped at checking people's posts and wanting to get their attention at every possible time, like I'm doing right now....
tohphunmie, *strokes your hair* you never have to cry any more my lady

tohphunmie:
Yes oo...many times sef but there was this guy that really frustrated that i cried so many times then

BirdOfParadise:
Awwww! That's sad. Sorry to hear that.

tohphunmie:
I cried for real oo. There was even a time i was crying at 4:00am and i called customer care if there was a way i could block his line from not calling/texting. The C.C.A i spoke with then was a guy, he said i couldn't and when he noticed i was crying he said maybe i should be telling him what i know would piss him off like preaching the word of God and so on.....the foolish guy really frustrated my life and funny enough i don't know the foolish boy o but he knew me so well then.
Lol...thanks dear @ ur last sentence

Bamz:
LOL crazy experiences on here... I thought stalking stopped at checking people's posts and wanting to get their attention at every possible time, like I'm doing right now....
tohphunmie, *strokes your hair* you never have to cry any more my lady

funkyjms:
Well, there are different ways you could have use to track/have his details.

MzRoyalHighness:
I Had One In Primary School.....He Knew My Closing Time And Was Alws On The Balcony Each Time I Pass From School..He StareS At Me Intensely Everyday With A Sly Smile.I Started Passing Another Street.DonT Know How He Got To Know Of The New Street But I Was Surprised To See Him There'..He Came To Me And Asked Y I Stopped Passing Front Of His House.I Was ScareD Stiff...And To Think I Was 8Years Old Then.Was Real Creepy

tohphunmie:
Thanks dear

BirdOfParadise:
My stalker also knew my friends names and claimed to know where I lived. I had insomnia for 4 months because of him. I was frightened outta my wits. He did me so much wrong and God will judge him accordingly.

tohphunmie:
Same here, I was frightened that someone i know nothing about could know so much about me! Amen and Amen!!

Okay, ama tell you somehun but certainly, I can't reveal all. You know now...

On the first premise, you have to be a stalker for you to track a stalker, at least for that moment. If you can't, just take the number to a herbalist instead of crying.

The methods listed may not be 'absolute' as they are subject to some conditions.

First, you can search via social network apps/sites. This is 2015, almost everyone would have a number register to, at least, a social network account. What you'd do then is to save his number on your phone.
For example, Whatsapp would automatically load the person's profile provided the privacy settings has not been altered. You need not necessarily chat him up. God help him if he's the type that changes DP and updates often, you'd get the necessary details.
If you have Facebook app on your phone, you can make of the "Find friends with contact" feature. This has worked for me severally. Here is how the Facebook system works. There was this particular number I wan' track with the app. I know if I search while my other contacts are on my phone, it will load many unfamiliar profiles. So, I backed up my contacts on another phone. Then, I deleted all the contacts on the phone except that number. Afterwards, I opened my Facebook app, made use of the find friends by contact feature and being the only contact on my phone, voila, the profile was displayed and I recognised the 'yeye guy' easily. Alternatively, you can search the number via Facebook's search engine. You can also adopt this method with Gmail and Yahoomail, just search by contact leaving the number as the only contact on your phone. I think same applies to twitter too.

Again, you can make use of Google. Just type the number in different format of "070123456789" or "070123456789 nairaland" "070123456789 facebook." You may be lucky, it may bring anything relating to the number.

You can also make use of Truecaller. Search the number with the search engine, it would give you an hint.

Another method is to engage a third party. There are different method you can use here also. Here is a scenario. I wan' track someone with the help of my friend, I know if my friend lied to him that she missed a call from him few days back, the dude would deny it and as such would be cautious as to revealing his identity. So, I told my friend to tell him this cooked up line and certainly he would fall for it.
"Erm...please, I somehow mixed up my contacts and I just noticed I saved this number with a wrong name, erm...who is this please pleaseee?"
I know he won't asked her that how did she have his number because she would have already killed that thought by saying "...I mixed up my contacts..." and by saying please pleasee twice, it would weakens him and lastly, he is a pervert, since it's a lady's voice, he would hardly conceal his identity. He fell for it!

There is a way you can get the identity of the stalker from the service provider but not via the customer care. You got' visit their office. I must stop here, I'm very cautious of what I post but certainly, there are different ways.
You can also treat his f--kup too. Just drop his contact for some pervert guys like him especially on hookup threads or on hook up sites. Certainly, that has to be done with an alternate female's account. You can also pick the call and drop the phone somewhere, if you waste his airtime for some time provided he's not using bonus , he would stop!

As you can see, tracking a stalker automatically makes you a stalker too

Cc:tohphunmie, BirdOfParadise

BirdOfParadise:
That one is a pervert! Stalking a little girl. Shame on him.

BirdOfParadise:
Believe you me, stalking has gone beyond that sphere... It has advanced with technology. Over here, some guys would even show up wherever you go and frighten you. Some would send you dead animals, locks of hair, voodoo, name it!

tohphunmie:
Lol...and my e-husby to be is stalking me aiidy

BirdOfParadise:
Please everyone, the purpose for which I created this thread is for people to share their experiences, encourage one another and profer solutions to stalking. That purpose of mine must not be defeated. God bless.

Bamz:
Well that's a creeper not a stalker any more...

I read up this:

This term is nearly as overdiagnosed as ADHD is in children. Any women who think an undesirable man might be interested in her will almost always automatically label him a stalker.

Note: Far too many idiots think they're more important than they really are. Real stalkers seek out beautiful, interesting, and often famous members of the attractive gender. 90 percent of the people who use the term couldn't get a real stalker to save their lives.
A hot girl who follows you around and shows up at your door is a friend.

An ugly girl who follows you around and shows up at your door is now, according to most, a stalker.

A hot guy who gives you flowers is a romantic.

An ugly guy who gives you flowers is a stalker.
[Urban Dictionary]

So stalking isn't all that bad, depending on the stalkee anyway and the level of obsession or insanity (as the case may be) of the stalker.

MzRoyalHighness:
yea right.he was probably a paedophile

Bamz:
Well that's a creeper not a stalker any more...

I read up this:

This term is nearly as overdiagnosed as ADHD is in children. Any women who think an undesirable man might be interested in her will almost always automatically label him a stalker.

Note: Far too many idiots think they're more important than they really are. Real stalkers seek out beautiful, interesting, and often famous members of the attractive gender. 90 percent of the people who use the term couldn't get a real stalker to save their lives.
A hot girl who follows you around and shows up at your door is a friend.

An ugly girl who follows you around and shows up at your door is now, according to most, a stalker.

A hot guy who gives you flowers is a romantic.

An ugly guy who gives you flowers is a stalker.
[Urban Dictionary]

So stalking isn't all that bad, depending on the stalkee anyway and the level of obsession or insanity (as the case may be) of the stalker.

funkyjms:
Thanks mate.. Very helpful info.