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My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 12:35pm On Apr 18, 2018
what do you take of your cousin sister showing advances and professing deep love and care?

It started when we were young, about 15 years ago. I had finished my SSCE when we had a get together at the remembrance of my grandfather, all the grandchildren showed up, and it was the first time we had met(grown up).

I was almost 2 years older, we got talking and chatting and trying to know each other. While at it, I was in charge telling her about myself, the school I attended and all. All I could observe is staring and gazing straight into my eye balls.

After the remembrance, I got to understand her looks translated into feelings where she had to ask her mum can one marry her cousin? To me i only can feel she was just a kid being childish about it. Since then we kept our cool and we're just the normal cousin brother and sister.


Fast forward till now, I'm Married while she's married too. We've lost contacts for years cos of struggles and all and we only got back online talking lately, we got talking about life and delved into relationships. It was then she told me what she had for me years back. Her husband is a weekend husband coz of the nature of his work, but she wants some sort of very close friendship. It really funny and confusing what string she's trying to pull


Matured minds please advise

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by QueenSuccubus(f): 12:42pm On Apr 18, 2018
grin

It really funny and confusing what STRING she's trying to pull




Well, probably her G-string sha grin

But joke aside...She must be juz bored sha, u better stay away from that kind of fire, it can burn u to death..

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 12:48pm On Apr 18, 2018
QueenSuccubus:
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Well, probably her G-string sha grin

But joke aside...She must be juz bored sha, u better stay away from that kind of fire, it can burn u to death..



I tell you.. Honestly I thought I was dreaming.. Even with two kids. Although we stay far apart


It's weird

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by QueenSuccubus(f): 12:58pm On Apr 18, 2018
hadjipapiey:



I tell you.. Honestly I thought I was dreaming.. Even with two kids. Although we stay far apart


It's weird


Its obviously a temptation...But Ofcurz , it's up to u if u gonna dive in or tell her off...the last card is in ur hands.

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 1:01pm On Apr 18, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



Its obviously a temptation...But Ofcurz , it's up to u if u gonna dive in or tell her off...the last card is in ur hands.

Thank you wink

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by Oma307: 1:17pm On Apr 18, 2018
how do you expect me to believe this

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 1:27pm On Apr 18, 2018
undecided
Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by lacruz12(m): 1:37pm On Apr 18, 2018
You sounds like you actually wanna have a fling with her.... why let it bother you so much

You are the big bro here, stand your ground and move ahead.

Or if you wanna fill in the gap for the week days her husband no dey around, still move ahead

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 1:48pm On Apr 18, 2018
lacruz12:
You sounds like you actually wanna have a fling with her.... why let it bother you so much

Not really! I've stood my ground, but seems she's letting consume her.

You are the big bro here, stand your ground and move ahead.

I refused to pick her calls sometimes too which she still sees as me avoiding her

Or if you wanna fill in the gap for the week days her husband no dey around, still move ahead



Plus she seldom wants video calls
Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by Nobody: 2:14pm On Apr 18, 2018
Run













Far












Away!

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by esthy86(f): 2:18pm On Apr 18, 2018
don't mistakenly give in to such impending unwarranted taboo,dntl let de devil use u ,fear woman

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 2:31pm On Apr 18, 2018
Earthbound:
Run












Far












Away!




Thanks Man

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 2:33pm On Apr 18, 2018
esthy86:
don't mistakenly give in to such impending unwarranted taboo,dntl let de devil use u ,fear woman





You have a point, more reason I scare her of my wife being around always when she wants my attention h
Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 2:35pm On Apr 18, 2018
Oma307:
how do you expect me to believe this




Ask your brother or sister if it has ever happened to them

It's of no use if you believe or not. .

This is what's happening to me

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by theunnamed: 2:50pm On Apr 18, 2018
I think you want something to happen...

Of course I only know what I've read, but I don't think it should be an issue if she's physically far from you and married with kids...but yet, here you are finding yourself thinking about it...




Our subconscious is a very tricky thing

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 3:09pm On Apr 18, 2018
theunnamed:
I think you want something to happen...

Of course I only know what I've read, but I don't think it should be an issue if she's physically far from you and married with kids...but yet, here you are finding yourself thinking about it...




Our subconscious is a very tricky thing



OK thank you

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by Oma307: 3:32pm On Apr 18, 2018
hadjipapiey:




Ask your brother or sister if it has ever happened to them
It's of no use if you believe or not. .
This is what's happening to me
deal with it since you are mature
Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by SoapQueen(f): 3:33pm On Apr 18, 2018
hadjipapiey:



I tell you.. Honestly I thought I was dreaming.. Even with two kids. Although we stay far apart


It's weird


Incest! Hear me "Terminate this mission"!

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 3:42pm On Apr 18, 2018
SoapQueen:



Incest! Hear me "Terminate this mission"!


Retreated!

Mission on the verge of termination undecided

Thanks


BTW, sounds like you have encountered such experience or seen, have you

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by Obakoolex(m): 8:53pm On Apr 18, 2018
It just happened to a friend of mine last month. Her wife had sex with her cousin when she travelled to there village for a wedding and d husband found out tru sneaking tru her pone when she came back, well that led to d divorce.

So oga ask yourself if you can bear d curse and shame attached to being responsible for breaking your cousin's home and probably yours too. Good luck

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 9:07pm On Apr 18, 2018
Obakoolex:
It just happened to a friend of mine last month. Her wife had sex with her cousin when she travelled to there village for a wedding and d husband found out tru sneaking tru her pone when she came back, well that led to d divorce.

So oga ask yourself if you can bear d curse and shame attached to being responsible for breaking your cousin's home and probably yours too. Good luck




POC, I am not drawn to her..

Thanks all the same bro

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by Grayjoy: 9:15pm On Apr 18, 2018
Getting emotionally attached to a cousin? Bad idea.
This feeling will pass only if u let it pass by making her understand to d last detail that u are nt intrested.

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by Nobody: 9:22pm On Apr 18, 2018
You can enjoy your cousin bro but when nemesis starts to enjoy you, never you open a thread here or...

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by Akious2k2(m): 9:40pm On Apr 18, 2018
hadjipapiey:



Retreated!

Mission on the verge of termination undecided

Thanks


BTW, sounds like you have encountered such experience or seen, have you
The only problem I see here is that she's now married... I would have advised that you marry her... THIS IS NOT INCEST... There are categories of relations you can't marry and can be termed INCEST... I don't want to delve there now

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by Nobody: 9:53pm On Apr 18, 2018
grin op stay away from that girl, you guys are related by blood somehow

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 9:53pm On Apr 18, 2018
Grayjoy:
Getting emotionally attached to a cousin? Bad idea.
This feeling will pass only if u let it pass by making her understand to d last detail that u are nt intrested.



Please get the whole story up there, I'm just OK with her as cousin right from the get go...

Thanks
Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 9:55pm On Apr 18, 2018
Akious2k2:

The only problem I see here is that she's now married... I would have advised that you marry her... THIS IS NOT INCEST... There are categories of relations you can't marry and can be termed INCEST... I don't want to delve there now


Please do

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 10:00pm On Apr 18, 2018
Tochyodiks:
No offense but Muslim people will like this thread grin op stay away from that girl, you guys are related by blood somehow


She's my uncle's daughter from my grandmother's step wife

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by emror4u(m): 10:02pm On Apr 18, 2018
Bro please believe it, things like this do happen on a daily,,,
I had to make a personal commitment to God that if I ever fall for her, anything I'm looking for in this world, let me not find it.

So I keep a long distance, very long one.

Oma307:
how do you expect me to believe this

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 10:03pm On Apr 18, 2018
CaptJeffry:
You can enjoy your cousin bro but when nemesis starts to enjoy you, never you open a thread here or...


Na on top your head that tool go land shocked

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by hadjipapiey(m): 10:05pm On Apr 18, 2018
emror4u:
Bro please believe it, things like this do happen in a daily,,,
I had to make a personal commitment to God that if I ever fall for her, anything I'm looking for in this world, let me not find it.

So I keep a long distance, very long one.



Thanks Bro..

Cut deep ties, discipline and long distance is key

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Re: My Cousin Is Tripping Badly, Please Share Your Experience by Grayjoy: 10:25pm On Apr 18, 2018
hadjipapiey:




Please get the whole story up there, I'm just OK with her as cousin right from the get go...

Thanks
I got it. Was tal.kn abt her feelings nt urz. Could nt retype initially.

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