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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by ladygudhead(f): 8:39am On Sep 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
I quite agree we must start somewhere... I agree with modesty in dressing but not fundamentalism....Only if the leaders have the right intent like I can see in your spirit will this be productive but they are interested in giving the people fear instead of boldness.

God help the Church

No one is inciting fear. This is where Christians get it wrong. we always have something to Justify.A church is trying to maintain sanity n morality in its sanctuary now u r seeing fundamentalism!

we all knw wats wrong n right but some of us will still choose to be stubborn. since they cannot control the day to day dressing of members, they ought in when they av claimed to come into the Sanctuary. They are the Elders or leaders par se of Christ body, so they would surely give account to the Head(Jesus).

But like someone had said, there should be no PARTIALITY....u knw Wat I mean.cheesy
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Deejaygold(m): 8:57am On Sep 14, 2015
ℓ reap Methodist Church Nigeria cheesy
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by soarhey(m): 9:04am On Sep 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Now this is stupidity and pure madness.....these guys should learn to separate tradition from Faith.

The church is blind... Anglican are blind

I feel very sorry for you.

The church has the right to to have their own rules. How dare you insult the church of God.

Many people like you will be the same afflicted with unknown and unidentifiable sickness later in life and start running from pillar to post for insulting God.

If you have nothing good to say, its better you keep your mouth mute.

I pray you ask for mercy and retrieve your statement.

God bless you as you do so.

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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by mapet: 9:10am On Sep 14, 2015
MissGdope:
starlingslimnet:
Funny thing is in heaven there is no Anglican....you are called by the name Christain here on earth anything other than that is madness and tradition
Exactly!!
....and also in hell
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by ladygudhead(f): 9:10am On Sep 14, 2015
Depathologist:
But your Kumuyi's Son could not Obey the church rules and regulations when he got married. Who is fooling who? Abeg park well


I heard pastor kumuyi's son n d bride was later suspected/disciplined. And even d Bride's father also cos he was or a formal SO. and they all served their suspension.

But I blamed them for going ahead with d wedding dat day they(the bride especially) showed up with such appearance.They should av stopped d wedding, cos daz Wat their local churches do.
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by talk2yommex2000(m): 9:15am On Sep 14, 2015
Freemanan:

Lwkmd... You bad pass me.

lol... na ur step i follow o boss. In fact, na u kindle my interest abt d pix o.
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by crystalfarmer: 9:19am On Sep 14, 2015
I think this is exactly what Islam preaches as dress codes for male/female
I love my church
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by iwatchandlisten(m): 9:20am On Sep 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Crap.....Last time I checked Christ own the Church!! They are wrong and need to be corrected! The Church belong to Christ and not some sets of ret.ardee who likes to abase the members!

My dear you are definitely correct...Christ owns the Church! Therefore those who come to church must follow the rules of decent dressing as Christ commands, and there are those people who Christ has put in the churches to lead His people in the churches, shouldn't these leaders militantly uphold Christ's rules?

The Anglican church says you must dress decently before you come into the church, and that makes them retards? and the people who are dressing indecently to church are the right thinking ones?

If everyone was free to do as they like in church, why did Jesus Christ himself physically dispersed some people from church because of their actions which was inconsistent with what the church stands for? (MAtthew 21: 12-13)

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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Onomatopoeia(m): 9:39am On Sep 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Now this is stupidity and pure madness.....these guys should learn to separate tradition from Faith.

The church is blind... Anglican are blind
The person who is mad & blind here is YOU. That is the CHURCH DOCTRINE, if you're not ok with it, then quit the church.
Look for some other churches where those things are accepted....
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Onomatopoeia(m): 9:41am On Sep 14, 2015
Handsomeemmy:
This is alright by me, the house of God is not a house for show up,beauty Pageant parade or wearing of seductive dresses. If societal morals is not uphold in church then where will it be uphold?
#GodBlessYou...... you will live!

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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by affyongehi(f): 9:44am On Sep 14, 2015
People will come here and be yarning opata! Re you members of the church of Nigeria Anglican Communion? If you are not then just park well. I'm a member and am not complaining and to the one who said Anglicans re blind. Thank God for Ʊ who can see but can't see! This is not a new rule, at least in my church it has been there for almost 10 years so stop drinking Panadol for our headache. If them invite you no come. Mshew

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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by charlesucheh(m): 9:48am On Sep 14, 2015
We Nigerians and Africans at Large place too much emphasis on superficial christian and moral values, while we go ahead committing heinous act in the hidden and even unconsciously.
Think if the reverse be the case, our country would be a healthy and more better place to stay.

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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Dragonking: 10:35am On Sep 14, 2015
charlesucheh:
We Nigerians and Africans at Large place too much emphasis on superficial christian and moral values, while we go ahead committing heinous act in the hidden and even unconsciously.
Think if the reverse be the case, our country would be a healthy and more better place to stay.
So will the henious acts reduce when the bride is allowed to expose her boobs and butt in church Are you okay at all?

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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Nobody: 10:58am On Sep 14, 2015
I will love to reply all of you but i see its not worth it....doing so will be throwing what is Holy to the pigs
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Nobody: 11:01am On Sep 14, 2015
soarhey:


I feel very sorry for you.

The church has the right to to have their own rules. How dare you insult the church of God.

Many people like you will be the same afflicted with unknown and unidentifiable sickness later in life and start running from pillar to post for insulting God.

If you have nothing good to say, its better you keep your mouth mute.

I pray you ask for mercy and retrieve your statement.

God bless you as you do so.
FYI its been more than a year have had ordinary headache and I can guarantee for the rest of my days I won't be sick for a seconds of my life.. Now that is Faith in Christ.
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by missKiffy(f): 11:04am On Sep 14, 2015
I don't see anything wrong in the list, samity has to be upheld
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Opengates(m): 11:08am On Sep 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Now this is stupidity and pure madness.....these guys should learn to separate tradition from Faith.

The church is blind... Anglican are blind

Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Nobody: 11:09am On Sep 14, 2015
Opengates:

wot?
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Nobody: 11:12am On Sep 14, 2015
missKiffy:
I don't see anything wrong in the list, samity has to be upheld
Sounds plausible but that is not the solution.
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by oluFELAxy(m): 11:13am On Sep 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Did the Bible Teach the above or the church itself? The bishop said and I quote "They are expected to respect the 'beliefs' of the Church" Seems here the belief of some reta.rdee is what is paramount not the Faith of Christ!

There is the place of salvation which is living a life of holiness. in holiness, we find righteousness-doing what is right. if the church gives you a set of right things to do, do it. cos Jesus said it Himself-submit to higher authority.
The church wants to respect Jesus by telling people not to come to God's presence in naked bodies-the appeal shld nt be by force but if it is necessary to make it wat all believers shld do, d bible i read gives a go ahead.
because we are in the time of grace does not give u d audacity to misuse grace.
can does brides exposing their cleavage stand in the tabernacle of God in d old testament?
was it wrong for the king of nineveh to tell d people to dress in sack.To follow principles is not neglecting JESUS
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Nobody: 11:16am On Sep 14, 2015
oluFELAxy:


There is the place of salvation which is living a life of holiness. in holiness, we find righteousness-doing what is right. if the church gives you a set of right things to do, do it. cos Jesus said it Himself-submit to higher authority.
The church wants to respect Jesus by telling people not to come to God's presence in naked bodies-the appeal shld nt be by force but if it is necessary to make it wat all believers shld do, d bible i read gives a go ahead.
because we are in the time of grace does not give u d audacity to misuse grace.
can does brides exposing their cleavage stand in the tabernacle of God in d old testament?
was it wrong for the king of nineveh to tell d people to dress in sack.To follow principles is not neglecting JESUS
It's not the solution.
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by oluFELAxy(m): 11:38am On Sep 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
It's not the solution.
Then whats the solution?
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by ChristInMe2015: 11:40am On Sep 14, 2015
God bless Archbishop Vining Memorial Church for this.
Clearly shows that we still have some churches that will uphold godly dressing and conduct, purity and sanctity of the temple where we worship the Holy and Righteous God.

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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Nobody: 11:59am On Sep 14, 2015
oluFELAxy:


Then whats the solution?
Thank you.

The issue of immodest dressings in the church is one of the many moral decadence found in the church of which as we can see it's on a high trend.

Years ago when I started the journey of Faith in Christ I was struggling with lieing and I did want to stop it I tried my best but I couldn't; laid down rules and regulations as. such as above but all to know avail then I return to Christ and He told me "You lied because you fear humans." So what did I do? I forget about tackling telling lies and tackled fear remembering the Word of God that says "I have not received the spirit of fear to fall back into slavery." And I overcome the spirit of lie.

What am saying is this there is a reason, a spirit behind immodest dressings in the churches: it's the spirit of Jezebel and it takes Spirit to combat Spirits.Physical rules cannot combat spiritual rules.God gave the Israelite rules and regulations yet they couldn't keep them because they lack the power to do so: the Holy Spirit. If the Holy Spirit is allowed He will Teach every believer what they are to do,how they are to dress with the power to obey.The Scribes Teach the people what to do but not the power to do it and that is why there is a record about Christ saying "He didn't Teach them like the scribes"

The rules and regulations given above can be compared to the leaves of a tree.If at all the members decide to do this it will be like plucking out the leaves of that tree in which another will grow in it's place i.e another form of moral decadence will soon come out of the fellowship and will they write yet another laws? But if they uproot the tree it won't bring out another leaf and such will it be if the Holy Spirit is allowed to fulfil his ministries in the life of the believers by uprooting all unclean spirits and guarding the heart of the believers always.

In conclusion, the Holy Spirit must be allowed to work.He is the Solution to the problem the church is facing. For I tell you there are fellowships in Nigeria where there are no doctrinal rules and regulations and believers there have none of this problem because they allow the Holy Spirit.
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by lovelyebony: 12:36pm On Sep 14, 2015
[quote author=starlingslimnet post=37997170] Thank you.

The issue of immodest dressings in the church is one of the many moral decadence found in the church of which as we can see it's on a high trend.

Years ago when I started the journey of Faith in Christ I was struggling with lieing and I did want to stop it I tried my best but I couldn't; laid down rules and regulations as. such as above but all to know avail then I return to Christ and He told me "You lied because you fear humans." So what did I do? I forget about tackling telling lies and tackled fear remembering the Word of God that says "I have not received the spirit of fear to fall back into slavery." And I overcome the spirit of lie.

What am saying is this there is a reason, a spirit behind immodest dressings in the churches: it's the spirit of Jezebel and it takes Spirit to combat Spirits.Physical rules cannot combat spiritual rules.God gave the Israelite rules and regulations yet they couldn't keep them because they lack the power to do so: the Holy Spirit. If the Holy Spirit is allowed He will Teach every believer what they are to do,how they are to dress with the power to obey.The Scribes Teach the people what to do but not the power to do it and that is why there is a record about Christ saying "He didn't Teach them like the scribes"

The rules and regulations given above can be compared to the leaves of a tree.If at all the members decide to do this it will be like plucking out the leaves of that tree in which another will grow in it's place i.e another form of moral decadence will soon come out of the fellowship and will they write yet another laws? But if they uproot the tree it won't bring out another leaf and such will it be if the Holy Spirit is allowed to fulfil his ministries in the life of the believers by uprooting all unclean spirits and guarding the heart of the believers always.

In conclusion, the Holy Spirit must be allowed to work.He is the Solution to the problem the church is facing. For I tell you there are fellowships in Nigeria where there are no doctrinal rules and regulations and believers there have none of this problem because they allow the Holy Spirit.[/quote/)



This is only tin you have said dat I can agree on a little bit
You should not have condemned dem like that. I am very sure that dey have bin teaching all these things and have been praying abt it. As u know dat some people's heart are hardened & d holy spirit can't work on them.
They needs some of these rules nt to turn d church to anoda thing.
Some people are in d church but not part of it but are there to lead odas a stray.
Am close to so many Anglican members and dey all dress decently. God will help us
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by flaminReed: 12:47pm On Sep 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Thank you.
The issue of immodest dressings in the church is one of the many moral decadence found in the church of which as we can see it's on a high trend.
Years ago when I started the journey of Faith in Christ I was struggling with lieing and I did want to stop it I tried my best but I couldn't; laid down rules and regulations as. such as above but all to know avail then I return to Christ and He told me "You lied because you fear humans." So what did I do? I forget about tackling telling lies and tackled fear remembering the Word of God that says "I have not received the spirit of fear to fall back into slavery." And I overcome the spirit of lie.
What am saying is this there is a reason, a spirit behind immodest dressings in the churches: it's the spirit of Jezebel and it takes Spirit to combat Spirits.Physical rules cannot combat spiritual rules.God gave the Israelite rules and regulations yet they couldn't keep them because they lack the power to do so: the Holy Spirit. If the Holy Spirit is allowed He will Teach every believer what they are to do,how they are to dress with the power to obey.The Scribes Teach the people what to do but not the power to do it and that is why there is a record about Christ saying "He didn't Teach them like the scribes"
The rules and regulations given above can be compared to the leaves of a tree.If at all the members decide to do this it will be like plucking out the leaves of that tree in which another will grow in it's place i.e another form of moral decadence will soon come out of the fellowship and will they write yet another laws? But if they uproot the tree it won't bring out another leaf and such will it be if the Holy Spirit is allowed to fulfil his ministries in the life of the believers by uprooting all unclean spirits and guarding the heart of the believers always.
In conclusion, the Holy Spirit must be allowed to work.He is the Solution to the problem the church is facing. For I tell you there are fellowships in Nigeria where there are no doctrinal rules and regulations and believers there have none of this problem because they allow the Holy Spirit.
It's a pity you don't know who the Holy Spirit is. He inspired the Word and never shuns the enforcement of the law of liberty. Paul, by the Spirit, wrote, ' let us judge this rather, that no man put a stumbling block or an occasion to fall in his brothers way'.. We will continue to judge ourselves and enforce righteousness lest we be condemned with the world.. The same Spirit by Paul wrote, 'them that sin rebuke before all that others may fear'. And Jesus said, every tree which my heavenly Father has not planted shall be rooted out'. No chance for ogbanje spirit in the church of Jesus. Amen
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by SirAgbaletu(m): 12:58pm On Sep 14, 2015
fergus0n:
I rep saint peters anglican church



We da best!!!
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by lovelyebony: 1:27pm On Sep 14, 2015
starlingslimnet:
Thank you.

The issue of immodest dressings in the church is one of the many moral decadence found in the church of which as we can see it's on a high trend.

Years ago when I started the journey of Faith in Christ I was struggling with lieing and I did want to stop it I tried my best but I couldn't; laid down rules and regulations as. such as above but all to know avail then I return to Christ and He told me "You lied because you fear humans." So what did I do? I forget about tackling telling lies and tackled fear remembering the Word of God that says "I have not received the spirit of fear to fall back into slavery." And I overcome the spirit of lie.

What am saying is this there is a reason, a spirit behind immodest dressings in the churches: it's the spirit of Jezebel and it takes Spirit to combat Spirits.Physical rules cannot combat spiritual rules.God gave the Israelite rules and regulations yet they couldn't keep them because they lack the power to do so: the Holy Spirit. If the Holy Spirit is allowed He will Teach every believer what they are to do,how they are to dress with the power to obey.The Scribes Teach the people what to do but not the power to do it and that is why there is a record about Christ saying "He didn't Teach them like the scribes"

The rules and regulations given above can be compared to the leaves of a tree.If at all the members decide to do this it will be like plucking out the leaves of that tree in which another will grow in it's place i.e another form of moral decadence will soon come out of the fellowship and will they write yet another laws? But if they uproot the tree it won't bring out another leaf and such will it be if the Holy Spirit is allowed to fulfil his ministries in the life of the believers by uprooting all unclean spirits and guarding the heart of the believers always.

In conclusion, the Holy Spirit must be allowed to work.He is the Solution to the problem the church is facing. For I tell you there are fellowships in Nigeria where there are no doctrinal rules and regulations and believers there have none of this problem because they allow the Holy Spirit.

This is d only tin you have said dat I can agree on
a little bit but pls next time mind ur choose of word b4 commenting especially in matters like dis. U may have a point but be careful d way you go abt it becos those dat made dis laws are right on their own part b4 u command d wrath of God on urself
You should not have condemned dem like that. I
am very sure that dey have bin teaching all these
things and have been praying abt it. As u know
dat some people have hardened their heart & d holy
spirit can't work on them. We need to keep preaching and praying for does souls
They needs some of these rules nt to turn d
church to anoda thing.
Some people are in d church but not part of it
but are there to lead odas a stray.
Am close to so many Anglican members and dey
all dress decently. God will help us
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by Olufhemy(m): 1:41pm On Sep 14, 2015
the fact that most comments are against this post shows that the society is DOOMED.

What is right can never be wrong.

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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by joliej(f): 1:45pm On Sep 14, 2015
don't i just love this comment of yours grin kudos
Handsomeemmy:
This is alright by me, the house of God is not a house for show up,beauty Pageant parade or wearing of seductive dresses. If societal morals is not uphold in church then where will it be uphold?

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Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by tompat86(m): 1:58pm On Sep 14, 2015
mznuez:
Hmmmmm


That's y I like my church



Deeper life bible church

u attend deeper lyf n u wear that kind makeup for prof pix ? u can lie ooooooo
Re: Read A Church's Regulation On What A Bride & Groom Should Wear For Their Wedding by charlesucheh(m): 2:25pm On Sep 14, 2015
Dragonking:
So will the henious acts reduce when the bride is allowed to expose her boobs and butt in church Are you okay at all?
Are you a FooL!!! Are those Boobs disturburbing you Think about the illicit sexual activities you engage in before condeming wedding gowns and dress codes!!! You're a typical discription of the Nigeria i initial defined....

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