There are a number of reasons why a woman might reject a
man. Most of them, the guy has some control over, although
not all. Sometimes it’s you, and sometimes it’s not.
Women get hit on and approached by guys a lot. In one way
this works against you, as you’re just another dude trying to
chat her up. But if you can play it right, it will work for you.
Most of the guys hitting on a woman are creeps, or jerks, or
just disrespectful. It doesn’t take too much to stand out above
those men.

There are a number of reasons why a woman might reject a
man. Most of them, the guy has some control over, although
not all. Sometimes it’s you, and sometimes it’s not.
Women get hit on and approached by guys a lot. In one way
this works against you, as you’re just another dude trying to
chat her up. But if you can play it right, it will work for you.
Most of the guys hitting on a woman are creeps, or jerks, or
just disrespectful. It doesn’t take too much to stand out above
those men.

There are a number of reasons why a woman might reject a
man. Most of them, the guy has some control over, although
not all. Sometimes it’s you, and sometimes it’s not.
Women get hit on and approached by guys a lot. In one way
this works against you, as you’re just another dude trying to
chat her up. But if you can play it right, it will work for you.
Most of the guys hitting on a woman are creeps, or jerks, or
just disrespectful. It doesn’t take too much to stand out above
those men.

Source :- www.romanticgist.com/2015/04/top-9-reasons-men-get-rejected-by-women.html?m=1

Why are you getting rejected by the woman you like?

Here are the most common reasons that a woman will shoot
down a man. You’ll notice that some are beyond your control,
but most of them are mistakes that guys make. Are you making
any of these? Read on to find out, and correct the ones you’re
getting wrong. Your love life will be glad you did.

#1 Being too cocky. Arrogance is the way some guys cope
with their perceived shortcomings. For whatever reason, they
think that coming off as cocky will cover up the fact that
they’re insecure or short or boring or whatever. It never works.
Being yourself, whoever that is, beats arrogance any day.
Take the things you might be cocky about and downplay
them, or better yet, don’t even talk about them until they come
up naturally in conversation. Maybe you have a good job or a
nice car. Maybe you’re a good athlete. Whatever it is, she’ll
find out in due course, and will be much more impressed than
if you just blurted it out.

#2 Lacking in confidence. Probably the quality that women
value most in men is self-confidence. More than good looks,
money, a great job or a sense of humor, a self-assured man is
extremely attractive to women. But too many guys substitute
cockiness for confidence, and the two are polar opposites.
A confident man doesn’t brag. He doesn’t need to. He is
decisive, making decisions without wavering. He is respectful
towards women, polite to waiters, charming, and an all around
gentleman. This is something that all guys should strive
towards being.

#3 Out of your league. Sometimes, a guy gets rejected
because he aimed too high. Let’s face it, there are some women
that most guys never have a chance with. It might be about
looks or money or age or whatever else. If you shoot for the
stars, you can’t be surprised if you crash land.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t try, though. Sometimes,
the prettiest girl at the dance stays alone because everyone is
too afraid to approach her. Speak to a woman like this with
self-confidence and politeness, and you never know how
successful you might become. Just be prepared to be shot
down. Rejection is not the end of the world, as long as you
can handle it well.

#4 Too self-involved. It’s unbelievable the number of guys
that, when flirting with a woman or on a first date, spend an
entire evening talking about themselves. Whatever goes
through their heads when they do this, either thinking the
women are impressed, or that it’s their duty to do all the
talking for the woman, they are wrong.
Women hate this about guys more than most other things.
Unless you’ve just returned from climbing Mount Everest,
you don’t have anything more interesting to say than she
does. Even if you really did scale the Himalayas, shut up
about it anyway. If she wants to hear more, she’ll ask you.
Women are much more impressed by guys who show interest
in her life and career. Get over yourself or you’ll stay alone.

#5 Fouling the waters. Unfortunately, bad hygiene is an all
too common reason that women reject men. Luckily, it is an
easily preventable one. It’s pretty simple. Wash yourself, brush
your teeth, wear clean clothes, run a comb through your hair,
and you’re pretty much there. It’s easy for guys to get cleaned
up and ready to go out. Put in that minimal effort. If you’re not
clean, you will be rejected.

#6 Poor performance. Rejection doesn’t just happen at the
first encounter. You might have already gone on a few dates,
or even slept together. Any of these reasons can still apply
after the initial meeting. This one can only apply once you’ve
slept together. Maybe you just didn’t please her.
Women have s*xual needs just like men do. If a guy isn’t
meeting those needs, then she very well might reject him
because of it. Most women are pretty understanding, and as
long as a guy is making the effort, she should help him figure
out what her needs are. But if a guy is just a selfish lover,
putting his own pleasure before hers, then he will have only
himself to blame when she stops answering his calls.

#7 Just not her type. Sometimes, a guy is just not what a
woman is looking for. It could be something about personality
or maybe she’s just not physically attracted to him. Maybe the
chemistry isn’t there for her. There’s not much you can do
about this, other than just accept it.
Again, rejection happens. If you approach her in a
gentlemanly way, she will be polite about it. You should be,
too. There’s nothing worse than a guy who gets bitter, whiny
or angry over rejection. Knowing how to accept rejection is
part of being self-confident enough to approach a woman in
the first place.

#8 He’s kind of a prick. Everyone’s heard it before, that nice
guys finish last, and that women like assholes. It’s impossible
to deny that there’s some truth to this, but do you really want
to be with a woman who likes guys who are jerks? Take the
high road and be a gentleman, and you’ll do much better.
This might be the most common reason of all that women
reject men. Guys are rude towards women either because that’s
how they are, or how they’ve convinced themselves that they
need to be. It’s a terrible approach. If you’re a jerk to her, she
will shoot you down. It will be a richly deserved rejection.

#9 Just not in the cards. Sometimes, you’re just unlucky. You
approach a woman you’re into, whom on any other day might
like you, too. But for whatever reason, she’s having a bad day.
Maybe she had a fight with a friend or a bad day at work or
maybe she’s just under the weather. You’ve got to accept that
there’s always an element of chance to things, and sometimes,
the timing just isn’t right.

SOURCE - www.romanticgist.com/2015/04/top-9-reasons-men-get-rejected-by-women.html?m=1

when I jus entered sch, I saw dis fyn boy and crushed on him lyk mad. few months later, we became friends thru a friend... although jus hlo/hi. den one day I jokingly told him dat I had a crush on him. well, one year later, he's asking me out...saying he also had a crush buh no courage.........
he's more handsome, still boyish cute, dresses to kill, very brilliant.... and I feel awesome he finally asked me out.
Am going to say no, dunno why, but no.
deres no reason for being rejected, it's personal and natural.

There's no need for all this story

Just cause you like someone doesn't mean they'll like you back

So if you're getting rejected it's just because she doesn't like you

Simple.

Trishpat:
when I jus entered sch, I saw dis fyn boy and crushed on him lyk mad.
he's handsome, still boyish cute, dresses to kill, very brilliant.... and I feel awesome he finally asked me out.
Am going to say no, dunno why, but no.
deres no reason for being rejected, it's personal and natural.

Mrsphyno
come show me that e-slap button abeg...

IamLEGEND1:


Mrsphyno
come show me that e-slap button abeg...

you you you

if i show u i will use u as my experiment

na u that button go first slap dont even test me today !

IamLEGEND1:

Mrsphyno come show me that e-slap button abeg...

ok, put on ur Wi-Fi.

MrsPhyno:
you you you
if i show u i will use u as my experiment
na u that button go first slap dont even test me today !

what was it you said about guys not knowing what they wanted?
and a slap from you is like a frech kiss to me...#LoversSlap

Trishpat:
ok, put on ur Wi-Fi.

so u even know where the button dey....
but na Nokia Asha 200 I dey use,so maybe next time...
by why u wan crush the guy soul na...

Trishpat:

ok, put on ur Wi-Fi.

Babe abeg. Don't give this legend reasons to insult u.

Trishpat:
ok, put on ur Wi-Fi.

so u even know where the button dey....
but na Nokia Asha 200 I dey use,so maybe next time...
by why u wan crush the guy soul na...

MrsPhyno:
Babe abeg. Don't give this legend reasons to insult u.

thanks hun, they'll be no reason.

IamLEGEND1:

so u even know where the button dey....
but na Nokia Asha 200 I dey use,so maybe next time...
by why u wan crush the guy soul na...

you never crush b4?

MrsPhyno:
Babe abeg. Don't give this legend reasons to insult u.

Me insult her?
woman plsssss....
I'm a gentleman.
except of coz if u're just trying to scare her off ur property......

IamLEGEND1:

Me insult her?
woman plsssss....
I'm a gentleman.
except of coz if u're just trying to scare her off ur property......

okay uncle do whatever u want

Trishpat:

you never crush b4?

no oooo. he hasn't. he's the abominable snowman with a chain-mail heart. superhuman.

MrsPhyno:

okay uncle do whatever u want


no oooo. he hasn't. he's the abominable snowman with a chain-mail heart. superhuman.

lool...ya 4ni

Trishpat:
you never crush b4?

what?
so as u don give D guy green light finish......
him don get the msg and now him wan do the needful,you wan reject am?
our naija babes wic way na?

MrsPhyno:

okay uncle do whatever u want


no oooo. he hasn't. he's the abominable snowman with a chain-mail heart. superhuman.

you see ur life... why u go come dey call me uncle?
u wan paint me like one old pesin abi?

and I'm a real softie.......
so no just vex me now
coz I fit start dey cry

IamLEGEND1:


you see ur life... why u go come dey call me uncle?
u wan paint me like one old pesin abi?

and I'm a real softie.......
so no just vex me now
coz I fit start dey cry

my life? it is well
no be u dey call me dey look for my trouble
now u don find am. congratulations.

MrsPhyno:
my life? it is well no be u dey call me dey look for my trouble now u don find am. congratulations.

I no just want activate mah trolling mode now...
u na wifey,so I go just allow u make u you dey run ur fat mouth anyhow ""

IamLEGEND1:


I no just want activate mah trolling mode now...

u na wifey,so I go just allow u make u you dey run ur fat mouth anyhow ""

r u not always a troll

dont talk about my mouth, weren't u flirting with someone before? jus continue and lemme alone.

MrsPhyno:

r u not always a troll

dont talk about my mouth, weren't u flirting with someone before? jus continue and lemme alone.

flirting ke...

u call that flirting?

plsssss,my flirting is strictly X-rated...

Trishpat:
when I jus entered sch, I saw dis fyn boy and crushed on him lyk mad. few months later, we became friends thru a friend... although jus hlo/hi. den one day I jokingly told him dat I had a crush on him. well, one year later, he's asking me out...saying he also had a crush buh no courage.........
he's more handsome, still boyish cute, dresses to kill, very brilliant.... and I feel awesome he finally asked me out.
Am going to say no, dunno why, but no.
deres no reason for being rejected, it's personal and natural.

you are saying no so that you can boast about rejecting a prince charming who asked you out.....hmmm

Trishpat:
when I jus entered sch, I saw dis fyn boy and crushed on him lyk mad. few months later, we became friends thru a friend... although jus hlo/hi. den one day I jokingly told him dat I had a crush on him. well, one year later, he's asking me out...saying he also had a crush buh no courage.........
he's more handsome, still boyish cute, dresses to kill, very brilliant.... and I feel awesome he finally asked me out.
Am going to say no, dunno why, but no.
deres no reason for being rejected, it's personal and natural.

seriously?
Y were u nw crushing on him in the 1st place?

IamLEGEND1:


flirting ke...

u call that flirting?

plsssss,my flirting is strictly X-rated...

u see ur life

strictly X-rated? than u dont have skill my friend.... u no reach

MrsPhyno:
u see ur life
strictly X-rated? then u dont have skill my friend.... u no reach

well,
PG+13 flirters like urself bore me to death,so they got no skills too...
but as for me?
'Cause I may be bad but I'm perfectly good at it Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the.......

Mtshew

bobbyluis:
seriously? Y were u nw crushing on him in the 1st place?

shuu! seriously too...it's natural.

SonOfEl:


you are saying no so that you can boast about rejecting a prince charming who asked you out.....hmmm

you don't know the guy, so its not boasting.

IamLEGEND1:

what?
so as u don give D guy green light finish......
him don get the msg and now him wan do the needful,you wan reject am?
our naija babes wic way na?

that way.

IamLEGEND1:


well,

PG+13 flirters like urself bore me to death,so they got no skills too...

but as for me?

'Cause I may be bad
but I'm perfectly good at it
Sex in the air, I don't care, I love the.......

it's more likely that u just have the attention span of a jackrabbit......

u don't know my skills my son

whoever is massaging ur ego is doing a good job okay, tell them I said so

Trishpat:


shuu! seriously too...it's natural.

Hmm

MrsPhyno:

it's more likely that u just have the attention span of a jackrabbit......

u don't know my skills my son

whoever is massaging ur ego is doing a good job okay, tell them I said so

WIC SKILLS?

mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwww

make I see road abeg....

u wey wan dey form mother Theresa for NL

and my ego doesn't need to "MASSAGED" by someone other than me.....

self-validation is enough for moi...

if I say I'm awesome,datz bcoz i'm awesome..