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I'm writing in response to this thread earlier posted on this forum. https://www.nairaland.com/2606915/what-excitement-wedding-night-when I somehow agree with the poster but only in one aspect, a wedding night should be a night of expectations and sweet love making to your wife. One might not really be excited if the girl in question is not a virgin but then, one did not marry for virginity sake but for companionship. A lot of people misunderstood his point and started talking about the marriage proper. Marriage and the wedding night are two different things.

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Modified: Mr. Poster, You've spoken well, You made very important points, Virginity is not a guarantee for a wonderful marriage, But virginity is a virtue. I for one can't get married to a non-virgin, I've said it times without number. I have my reasons, I've seen things, read experiences and heard tales. Most Women of nowadays are something else, Most of them are "hoes ", come to school and see what these girls are doing including the ones who are engaged, my brother, you will be appalled, And that's how it is everywhere.

How do you expect me to marry someone who different guys have smashed to smithereens, Some of them have done countless abortions, taken tons of postinor; marry this type of girl, and they will still go back to those exs who had sex with them. (Okafor's law of Congo dynamics comes to mind ). Not all non virgins are whores, but most are, So do a background check before you marry.

For you info though, I'm a Virgin. (believe it or not), So I deserve one.

Wedding night wey na sleep go carry una after all the stress

vizkiz:
this shiit is too long!
But I am gonna say "virginity is overhyped in Nigeria"

It's not compulsory you read and comment.

One can spot a lazy student easily!

SeverusSnape:
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Modified: Mr. Poster, You've spoken well, You made very important points, Virginity is not a guarantee for a wonderful marriage, But virginity is a virtue. I for one can't get married to a non-virgin, I've said it times without number. I have my reasons, I've seen things, read experiences and heard tales. Most Women of nowadays are something else, Most of them are "hoes ", come to school and see what these girls are doing including the ones who are engaged, my brother, you will be appalled, And that's how it is everywhere.

How do you expect me to marry someone who different guys have smashed to smithereens, Some of them have done countless abortions, taken tons of postinor; marry this type of girl, and they will still go back to those exs who had sex with them. (Okafor's law of Congo dynamics comes to mind ). Not all non virgins are whores, but most are, So do a background check before you marry.

For you info though, I'm a Virgin. (believe it or not), So I deserve one.

Agreed but like I said, I prefer an intelligent girl. Intelligent girls do not open their legs easily, I had one in my class, she had a first class! No time for dating.

You are rolling with lazy and dull girls. Every man seeks a virgin but then, virginity should not be a yardstick to blissful marriage because women are adventurous, she might want to try something else in marriage. I am very very selective so I will not settle for just any girl, I see all these girls you talk about and will not go one hundred metres close to them because they have nothing to offer other than their privates.

donbossone:
Agreed but like I said, I prefer an intelligent girl. Intelligent girls do not open their legs easily, I had one in my class, she had a first class! No time for dating.

You are rolling with lazy and dull girls . Every man seeks a virgin but then, virginity should not be a yardstick to blissful marriage because women are adventurous, she might want to try something else in marriage. I am very very selective so I will not settle for just any girl, I see all these girls you talk about and will not go one hundred metres close to them because they have nothing to offer other than their privates.

What do you mean... @ emboldened.

Do you know the kind of girls I "roll" with?...I was talking about what most girls do these days, I didn't say I roll with them because I don't.

SeverusSnape:
What do you mean... @ emboldened.

Do you know the kind of girls I "roll" with?...I was talking about what most girls do these days, I didn't say I roll with them because I don't.

Okay bro

Hymen na food? Lol. Who cares?

Some girls get their hymen torn during exercise or stressful stuff or whatever. So, it's by word of mouth you can know if they are virgins or not.

there are more important things to consider in a potential mate than virginity. if you ain't a virgin, u have no business demanding for one as a wife.