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Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Tomjazzy2(op): 7:35pm On Sep 20, 2015
tonychristopher:
But I have seen some decent ladies also in camp


I do not think that it will be nice to label all ladies promiscuous


There are still some decent ladies


I have seen virgins that passed nysc and still virgin
I didn't label all ladies as promiscuous bro smiley
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by hola106(m): 7:35pm On Sep 20, 2015
Am abt to go dere God wil help but am stil single I tink I can do anyhw I like wen I get dere
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by mansam15: 7:38pm On Sep 20, 2015
Wat do u mean allow ur girlfriend or wife is she not an adult?
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by joseph1832(m): 7:38pm On Sep 20, 2015
Well I believe if the girl in question has good up bringing and proper moral standard, she won't cheat on her boyfriend of even husband.

So to a very large extent, you're right, the temptations are just too great in NYSC, especially that 3 weeks in camp, during my time I saw hoo yaa lots and lots of married women touching their toes without so much as an ounce of shame.

I even believe now that the married women cheat and misbehave more than the single girls during their NYSC.
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by ronald4lif(m): 7:38pm On Sep 20, 2015
francizy:
So am now a fool since I mostly venture into distance relationships eh?? Nwoke, kpashara anya gi oh! undecided
Nwanne asim mua, oburo kwa gi dohhh. grin
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by peeparty(m): 7:40pm On Sep 20, 2015
MARINS:
WHAT IS KONJI? AND WHAT LANGUAGE IS THAT??
seriously?
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by tonychristopher: 7:41pm On Sep 20, 2015
Tomjazzy2:
I didn't label all ladies as promiscuous bro smiley
But camp can be termed devils parlour ...they even shared condoms
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Nobody: 7:42pm On Sep 20, 2015
Crap..... we meet people everyday. The scheme is not that special thing. How about married women that are still in the UNI. Null and void assertion this is.
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Tomjazzy2(op): 7:45pm On Sep 20, 2015
tonychristopher:
But camp can be termed devils parlour ...they even shared condoms
Sodom and Gomorrah would be apt cheesy
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by tonychristopher: 7:47pm On Sep 20, 2015
Tomjazzy2:
Sodom and Gomorrah would be apt cheesy
Lol

Where did u serve
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by cristweeezy(m): 7:48pm On Sep 20, 2015
Tomjazzy2:
Having successfully concluded my one year compulsory service to the nation, I can categorically say here that, any girl/lady who doesn't cheat, or attempts to cheat on her partner/husband during her service year, will to a very large extent, remain loyal and faithful for the rest of her life; take it from me.

The reason for the afore assertion is not far-fetched; NYSC is generally perceived as an avenue to engage, even if for the last time, in all maners of immoralities. During this period, you can hardly differentiate a married lady from a single lady; they all want to catch the fun with out any form of social discrimination from their colleagues. Most married ladies go as far as taking off their sacred wedding rings once they put on that revered, or perhaps cursed khaki.

I remember quite vividly, the frown that greeted me the day I curiously, but politely asked a married lady in my platoon, why she wasn't working on redeploying back to the state where her husband was residing. The stern look on her face as she looked at me, could be vaguely interpreted to mean, "wtf! do I look too old to be in this camp?"

Carry out a quick but careful study, you'd be surprised to find out the number of female corp members, that get married just few weeks after POP, who were hitherto, your close/intimate female friends.

I will NEVER advice any reasonable man, to allow his wife particularly, and may be his fiancee, to be deployed outside his state of residence. But if he wants to put her character to test, then there isn't any test which can be as rigorous and complex as the NYSC (Not recommended) smiley



NB: the above post is made with out prejudice to the sound moral and ethical standards, which the NYSC scheme is built upon.
it happened to two of ma friends. Both of dem went through a 5-yr course and theirs GFs back in skul went through a 4-yr course which made the girls to go for service bfore dose guys. Though,the two guys don't know each other,it happened @ a different time and year. Their respective GFs saw anoda guys dere and all they could do was to send messages they were no more interested in the relationships.
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Tomjazzy2(op): 7:49pm On Sep 20, 2015
tonychristopher:
Lol

Where did u serve
Ebonyi/Rivers

What about you?
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by francizy(m): 7:49pm On Sep 20, 2015
ronald4lif:
Nwanne asim mua, oburo kwa gi dohhh. grin
Hehehehe! But did you actually consider that a girl who's bound to cheat will cheat even if she's your gf and shares the same apartment with you?

To me, long distance relationships isn't the best but it does come with certain advantages.

A good example is one within the academic environment. I had long distance relationships throughout my 100-400L not until 500L that I dated within my school environment. A friend of mine lived a family life with his gf back then in school. The result is, I graduated with good class of degree while the guy is probably still nurturing his COs 3 years after we left him there in school.
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Nobody: 7:51pm On Sep 20, 2015
solonazzy:
Hmmmmmm....... N ma gf go soon go serve.... Wahala in view
Start looking for another gf
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by tonychristopher: 7:52pm On Sep 20, 2015
Tomjazzy2:
Ebonyi/Rivers

What about you?
Delta
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by solonazzy: 7:53pm On Sep 20, 2015
bestcomrade:
Start looking for another gf
She just might prove Dis theory wrong
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Nobody: 7:53pm On Sep 20, 2015
Tomjazzy2:
You obviously do not understand these terrains you listed viz-a-viz how it affects corpers. I have so many pals who served in some core Northern states, they would laugh so hard if they come across this your post grin
oga....I was born here in kano and I served in the LGA stated above....oh...and other female Corp members from other states where posted there as well.Nothing....absolutely nothing happened.In a Muslim dominated localityhuh
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Tomjazzy2(op): 7:54pm On Sep 20, 2015
tonychristopher:
Delta
Hope you had fun and of course, contributed to nation building? cheesy
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Tomjazzy2(op): 7:56pm On Sep 20, 2015
Eugenedimgba:
oga....I was born here in kano and I served in the LGA stated above....oh...and other female Corp members from other states where posted there as well.Nothing....absolutely nothing happened.In a Muslim dominated localityhuh
Okay, you win smiley
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Nobody: 7:58pm On Sep 20, 2015
And you think it's only the woman who gets messed up when she cheats or when she is promiscuous...you and your likes should keep deceiving yourselves.
prodiG:
So true.Many girls mess themselves up in during the course of service. undecided
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by osazeeblue01: 8:04pm On Sep 20, 2015
Is like i failed the test during my nysc as a guy man
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by nonjebose(m): 8:06pm On Sep 20, 2015
MARINS:
NYSC IS YES AN AVENUE OF CRAZINESS.... I REMEMBER HAVING A QUICKIE WITH MY PLATOON LEADER..
hmmm
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by goldfish80(m): 8:07pm On Sep 20, 2015
MARINS:
NYSC IS YES AN AVENUE OF CRAZINESS.... I REMEMBER HAVING A QUICKIE WITH MY PLATOON LEADER..
Lol
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by 1stdammy: 8:11pm On Sep 20, 2015
missKiffy:
The bf/husbands who are cheating on their partners nko
Is that a justification??
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by stephmike(m): 8:11pm On Sep 20, 2015
A lot of married women will fail it. It's life time test for corps members except u don't stay in ur station I.e ghost copper tin. A Really life time test!!!
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Nobody: 8:14pm On Sep 20, 2015
Well, I'll be there come Oct.28th. As a correct , fine, sharp boy, I'm gonna nack all the knackable ladies there. Infact, they should wait for me; I will knack them tire. This time around, my knacking knacking of ladies will and must surpass the level I operated while in school. For sure, it gonna quadruple.

Both single ladies and maried ladies; I don't give a bleeping care about your status, so far I don't see any engagement or wedding ring...like I said; I don't carea a hoot, I must knack you. Because, this going to be my opportunity to knack wella, in the absence of my nagging girl friend, whom I will be marrying next 2years when I will be 26yrs of age.

So mehn!!!! NYSC here I come oo. I thank God I will be posted to Akwa Ibom, where ladies give it any how the like. There must feel my heat for one full year.
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by missKiffy(f): 8:22pm On Sep 20, 2015
1stdammy:
Is that a justification??
Not at all
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by tonero230(m): 8:25pm On Sep 20, 2015
ajuwarhodes:
Men talk like say na only women dey cheat!!!
Yes, you people are serial cheaters.If you hv a man in your life and another man comes chyking,and if you do not gv in to his antics,there would'nt be cheating.Just like one in my life now,she has a man in her life and still going out with me to the the extent that i have kissed and may still screw her hard and still blanc her.Yes, why wouldn't i?If she sees someone better, she will still do the same thing she is doing to that guy now.
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by ailehwise(m): 8:25pm On Sep 20, 2015
Odoggs1:
Well, I'll be there come Oct.28th. As a correct , fine, sharp boy, I'm gonna nack all the knackable ladies there. Infact, they should wait for me; I will knack them tire. This time around, my knacking knacking of ladies will and must surpass the level I operated while in school. For sure, it gonna quadruple.

Both single ladies and maried ladies; I don't give a bleeping care about your status, so far I don't see any engagement or wedding ring...like I said; I don't carea a hoot, I must knack you. Because, this going to be my opportunity to knack wella, in the absence of my nagging girl friend, whom I will be marrying next 2years when I will be 26yrs of age.

So mehn!!!! NYSC here I come oo. I thank God I will be posted to Akwa Ibom, where ladies give it any how the like. There must feel my heat for one full year.
NO GAIN my broda
Re: NYSC: A Litmus Test For A Faithful Wife/girlfriend by Jalinco: 8:25pm On Sep 20, 2015
The most annoying thing is pregnant women also do it
At times they do it on parade ground in the night.


Those who don't indulge in it will be like there should be no night again while those who do it pray the orientation camping should be night all through
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