Emotional Trauma - Romance

Emotional Trauma - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum › Nairaland General › Romance › Emotional Trauma (1542 Views)

Emotional Trauma by akindele91(op): 8:40pm On Sep 20, 2015

Am typing dis with a deep sorrow in my heart am in my late twenties and since wen have been dating have not meet a God fearing serious girl no matter how i care and love dem dey still cheat don't know if its their (girls) nature or if am d one dat is cursed...If not can u imagine a girl i met through my grandma househhelp dat is so local but love Is blind all my friends insulted me cuz of dis girl dat she is local and not a wel behaved girl but i didn't listen to dem cuz am a kind of guy wen am love with any girl i don't joke wit her i don't even double dat cuz i like loving wit all my heart, have also been seeing a lot of sign dat she is cheating on me but d love i have for her didn't make me succumb to my thoughts only for me to find out the LovePeddler of a girl i called my girlfriend is a confirm runs girl not even those one hanging out in hotel my own always wear skimpy cloth goin from one bus stop to d other so men can approach her...My nairalander friends pls tel me am i cursed cuz have not seen my true love yet at my age or is it dat ladies don't have loving heart anymore

Re: Emotional Trauma by afolwalex20(m): 8:44pm On Sep 20, 2015

*sighs..

1 Like

Re: Emotional Trauma by luigiajah(m): 8:50pm On Sep 20, 2015

how old r u

Re: Emotional Trauma by akindele91(op): 9:00pm On Sep 20, 2015

luigiajah:
how old r u

Am in my late twenties

Re: Emotional Trauma by Sankabson(m): 9:22pm On Sep 20, 2015

Akindele Got Me grin

.. Akin tha Lover Boy! Lmao!

Re: Emotional Trauma by Sankabson(m): 9:23pm On Sep 20, 2015

Akindele Got Me grin

.. Akin tha Lover Boy! Lmao! Maybe You Need Deliverance.

****Modified****
Pictures Of The Girl Or Idontbelivit.

Lmao!

Re: Emotional Trauma by Nobody: 9:27pm On Sep 20, 2015

Brb

Re: Emotional Trauma by akindele91(op): 9:40pm On Sep 20, 2015

Sankabson:
Akindele Got Me .. Akin tha Lover Boy! Lmao! Maybe You Need Deliverance.

****Modified****
Pictures Of The Girl Or Idontbelivit.

Lmao!

Dis is a serious issue pls i will really appreciate a good advice cuz am so confused right now

Re: Emotional Trauma by Sankabson(m): 9:47pm On Sep 20, 2015

akindele91:
Dis is a serious issue pls i will really appreciate a good advice cuz am so confused right now

. Hmmmm Serious Issue!! Make I Ring You.

Re: Emotional Trauma by bqlekan(m): 9:50pm On Sep 20, 2015

Karma they say is a biatch.. trace your roots, re-trace your steps..

Re: Emotional Trauma by akindele91(op): 10:24pm On Sep 20, 2015

Sankabson:
. Hmmmm Serious Issue!! Make I Ring You.

if u wish am not just in a good mood right now i may not even pick ur cal cuz i so much trusted and love this lady dat betrayed me

Re: Emotional Trauma by Nobody: 10:43pm On Sep 20, 2015

leave your age. all you need to be is yourself. be focused and know what you need in a lady, dont pressure yourself. so that you wont settle for anything less out of desperation

sometimes its better to free your mind from dating or relationship, and you ll just find yourself meeting the right person. start out by making friends and take a little time to study who you want to get more attached to. you also need to pray to God to make you come in contact with that true ONE

before i forget. hope you have broken up with ur current lady

Re: Emotional Trauma by akindele91(op): 1:33am On Sep 21, 2015

ilobasama:
leave your age. all you need to be is yourself. be focused and know what you need in a lady, dont pressure yourself. so that you wont settle for anything less out of desperation

sometimes its better to free your mind from dating or relationship, and you ll just find yourself meeting the right person. start out by making friends and take a little time to study who you want to get more attached to. you also need to pray to God to make you come in contact with that true ONE

before i forget. hope you have broken up with ur current lady

I really appreciate ur advice i will think abt it and yes have broken up with her but i still love her so much am feeling it so much d way am avoiding her cuz i don't want to end up marrying a slot as a wife wen d time cums

Re: Emotional Trauma by Nobody: 2:10am On Sep 21, 2015

akindele91:
I really appreciate ur advice i will think abt it and yes have broken up with her but i still love her so much am feeling it so much d way am avoiding her cuz i don't want to end up marrying a slot as a wife wen d time cums

its not your fault she refused to change. and you will surely will the pain after the breakup but just do other stuffs that will distract you so as not to think about it .

Re: Emotional Trauma by segzyndpep(m): 4:48am On Sep 21, 2015

Don't go back to her for any reason.she will harm you believe me.u will get a beta lady with time jst be open.

Don't welcome her
Don't be weak
My advice

Re: Emotional Trauma by IamLEGEND1: 6:07am On Sep 21, 2015

so you found out that she was a hàrlot but you still can't move on......shows EXTREME emotional weakness... stop being a síssy and move on carry on with your life.

every hoe you date keeps cheating on you and yet you continue to be in pining away for them,REPEATEDLY.

guess what,that is not love.....

that is a just you being a weakling who has zero control over his emotions....

So just forget the local hoe and one day you are will find a woman just for you.

you know how you never find something when you are frantically searching for it in all the spots you thought you would see it just to find it in an unexpected place when u least expected it...sometimes when you're not even searching for it,it just pops up....

that is how love is.

Re: Emotional Trauma by akindele91(op): 9:55am On Sep 21, 2015

IamLEGEND1:
so you found out that she was a hàrlot but you still can't move on......shows EXTREME emotional weakness... stop being a síssy and move on carry on with your life.

every hoe you date keeps cheating on you and yet you continue to be in pining away for them,REPEATEDLY.

guess what,that is not love.....

that is a just you being a weakling who has zero control over his emotions....

So just forget the local hoe and one day you are will find a woman just for you.

you know how you never find something when you are frantically searching for it in all the spots you thought you would see it just to find it in an unexpected place when u least expected it...sometimes when you're not even searching for it,it just pops up....

that is how love is.

Thanks so much i will work on that

Re: Emotional Trauma by IamLEGEND1: 10:08am On Sep 21, 2015

akindele91:
Thanks so much

1 Reply

Nigerian Ex-lovers Melt Hearts With Their Emotional Exchange On Facebook. - Read • "Cucumber Is My Husband" Lady Gets Emotional About The Cucumber. • I Call It Emotional Trauma And Infatuation • 2 • 3 • 4

A Girl Bought Me Chocolates On Our First Date • Help-her Ex Keep Calling Everyday • How To Know If Your Girlfriend Is Cheating On You