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| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by haftob(m): 10:45pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:Go ahead and marry him just make sure he informs his wife dat he's taking a 2nd wife and make sure u both meet. But be ready to accept the fact dat he has two wives so don't expect him to be with u all the time and also don't be surprised if he decides to take more wives after u. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by kaboninc(m): 10:45pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Children of nowadays sef.... I wonder how they reason before proffering advice. When you make your opinion become binding like fire by force. Victoria, you don jam therapist oh. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Holuwakemmy16(f): 10:45pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Lord will deliver u |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:46pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Christians or Muslims doing it does not make it RIGHT! Read Matthew 19:4-9, Malachi2:16. Those who know dis truth are making restitution and leaving such marriages before the coming of JESUS. I hv seen quick a lot. Ab025: 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Excellentric(m): 10:46pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Your subject I am in love with a married man has the solution or advice to your problem.He is married.Do not love him.Stay away from breaking another woman's home.3 kid? Madam look for your single man and stop paying for an already accommodated apartment.There are lots of unoccupied ones. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by socialmediaman: 10:47pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
@victoria91, Let me paint a scenario to you: You get pregnant for him, he comes to see your parents, he divorces his wife, he marries you... OR maybe he doesn't divorce his wife but you start living with him, and you have a baby for him, in his childishness he still wants you to behave like his sweet 16, but as a woman with a child and responsibilities, you have other priorities like raising his child and you can't be that sweet 16 forever, so you both begin to have a misunderstanding, he starts losing interest, he starts seeing another woman.... He tells her the same story, that he mistakenly impregnated you.... Can you see the picture now? Wake up woman! You're about to mess up your life... Leave that man alone and find your own man before you start regretting. If he means business, he should divorce his wife first and settle issues regarding the kids with her before going into a new relationship 3 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by humilitypays(m): 10:48pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
VICTORIA91:All I can say is money is awesomely good!  .....When I hear ladies describe a financially buoyant guy, and how handsome he is (of course it is the money they are seeing  ).....it makes me feel so good deep inside me  Guys, all men are awesomely handsome if and only if you have MONEY; owo, ego, kudi, that paper is so powerful it can win you the hardest battle in life! My advice to guys reading: Work hard, pray....work smart and pray harder to have money and watch all good things of life belong to you while you laugh in ecstasy Now to the poster, I know you can't see any other thing except this guy's money and the promise of good life that comes with it....so forget about those he is tall, handsome, decent because one, he is not tall, two, he is not physically handsome but financially handsome , four, he is not decent but very extravagantly decent in spending on you...the reason your hidden love part got ignited to infinity is his financial capability and nothing more because before u agreed to reply to his chat, private messages or whatever on the online platform u guys met, u must have accessed his worth via his photos, so forget all the handsome, decent talks , kai...broke guys have suffered in the hands of womenHe works with a State ministry and he is 33 and has this too much money you are describing here (though ladies can exaggerate about a man's wealth sha, lol). But if at all he is that rich and working just in a State ministry, and just 33 years, then that guy has deep his hands in messy office deals that may explode sooner than later except he is related to Tinubu (Tinubu) And I am guessing he is working with LIRS.....Lagos State tax office.....those guys are thieves.....it must be or ministry of land....but still, at 33; when did he graduate, serve, got the job to make all these so much wealth you are talking about or did he lied to you about his worth just to get you drunken in love with him  Many men do that when they want to win a lady's heart so fast....men can be funny.Don't allow greed for instant money and fun entice you into a regrettable life decision....... I won't advice you not to marry him....and I won't advice you to marry him either....but please weigh your options....of course if you refuse to marry him, some prettier, hotter chicks will if he is so bent on getting a second wife....that's the power of money in the hands of a man....there is nothing we can do about it....but remember KARMA and if you believe in God, pray. Wish you the best....but still laughing at women and men's money, kai, guys make una go hustle o 9 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by silverr(f): 10:48pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Dear victoria91, I understand you well well, I've been in a very similar case. This Bobo just left me to fall in love finish before telling me he's married with 3 kids. I initially felt the same way you feel, I was ready to marry him especially as he also told me how it was a one night stand and she got pregnant and his conscience and family couldn't let him kick her out. He claimed the other set of twins were born cus the lady got desperate after 4yrs of him not even kissing her and drugged him. So I felt: this woman wicked o! So what I wish to do can be forgiven after all she trapped a man against his wish. But......... for the love I have for God, I refused to be the tool karma/the devil will use against her. That's how I backed out. E pain me o, I cried to myself for weeks. Only for me to find out when I was coming out of the trauma that my so called Mr right was dating my friend and had made docs for her to fly out of the country (she was already pregnant sef). I went into another shock. For like 2yrs +, I was forming I don't need love. Now, the guy I'm dating is 10x better than my ex and he's single with no strings attached. Could I ever have forgiven if I went to be 2nd wife for a lesser man? Did I say the energy of those lonely years took my biz to a new height? Please learn from me and don't quote me. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by cresta11: 10:49pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
chai which kind love is that one |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by randomguy1: 10:49pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
God save you |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Chukabiz1961(m): 10:49pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Go ahead & marry the man & see if you will not become one of his three wives after an issue. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by harry509: 10:50pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Chosen1984:hmmmmmM! Nigerians. It's well oooh. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Iamthoney(m): 10:50pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Shebarh:U deserve an all expense paid trip to Dubai... jez say yes and see me foot the bill |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Sultanchidi(m): 10:50pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Wat of if u ar his 1st wife and he brings another woman home, how wil u feel. Pls receive sense and let d family have peace don't break another woman's home bcus KARMA is a bitch |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Mznaett: 10:51pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Hmm |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by innervoice(m): 10:51pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Shebarh: Before she does, put yourself in her shoes. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by timilehing(m): 10:52pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
If you're in love with a married man, which advice are you still looking for.? If he breaks up with his current wife just for you, someone else will also fall in love with him too after you have 3 kids for him. You're loving the wrong person |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by innervoice(m): 10:52pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
MrsChima: For now his wife is the second fiddle. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by menxer: 10:53pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
zicoraads: It's never a big deal if your family is rooted in polygamy, and you are the son of your father or daughter of your mother.  |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by mokane28: 10:53pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Na Baadt guy you be oo! My thoughts exactly buhari should probe the guy Omooba77: |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by sharpman1(m): 10:53pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
One sentence for you. Ode ni e!!!! |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by engrhorla(m): 10:53pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Funny thing is all these so called helpless and confused people never come back to tell us the end result... Nigerians are just confused frm d days of Lord Lugard! 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by freecocoa(f): 10:55pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Just know chances of marrying another woman and setting her up is very high. How do you love a man that cheated on his wife? Na wa o. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by tellwisdom: 10:55pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Nobody: 10:55pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
[quote author=VICTORIA91 post=38266683]Dear NL, I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded. At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one. He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins). I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself.... Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED. Wonders shall never end |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by tintingz(m): 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
@VICTORIA91. There is nothing bad for him to take you as the second wife as far you are cool with it. Polygamy is better than commiting adultery, you guys better legalise your relationship(marriage). And some people will say women don't prefer polygamy, we can see one here.  .2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by realGod(f): 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
eyaaaaaaa |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by ammyluv2002(f): 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
tellwisdom:Yes, we do. |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Princecalm(m): 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Stelvin101: I have been thinking so but the dictionary keeps disputing, perhaps the dictionary should be updated |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by jomoh: 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
I don't advice women. Except you're my girlfriend or wife. Its a waste of spittle. They will never listen cos they already know what they want to do. 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Tamakay(m): 10:56pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
I wish to reserve whatever harsh words I may have spewed on u for one condition. That u unknowingly fall in love with him. I am an African. If u are convinced that he loves u truly and ready to do d necessary things go ahead but try as much as possible not to allow him maltreat d first wife as a result of you. Love his children, show concern of the welfare of the first wife. People will definitely run their mouth simply because u are not a celebrity. Take for instance Annie Idibia and what about the babymama trend. Pls go ahead but not with the intention of kicking d first wife out if u do, then ask urself why there are so many mad women on d street. And again don't forget this adage, the broom d housewife uses to sweep away her mother inlaw same broom she will use to sweep her own mother away. Be ready for d task ahead or back out now! 1 Like |
| Re: I'm In Love With A Married Man. by Shwarz: 10:57pm On Sep 22, 2015 |
Trust me, what you feel isnt love but pure undiluted INFATUATION. Try living with him for two or three years after two or three kids, after seeing his really good and bad sides, if you still love him the same, then it is true love but i assure you it wont be. |
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