sparklefresh:
I had this boyfriend who broke up with me recently,and i've been seeking for advice on how to forget him. But nothing seems to come out.please help oooo

seriously girl, u need to yield to the advice of d dharray, cus if u format that ur brain mayBE U MAY have common sense again.

The only thing to do, the only thing that will work. Get prettier. Lose weight or gain it or whatever you need to do and take really good care of your skin and dress well every day. Just get personal satisfaction from seeing yourself look nice. Then make some close female friends or if you already have them, capitalize on them. Laugh a lot and joke a lot with them and either focus hard on your school or try to get a promotion at work lol. Improve your life basically....

sparklefresh:



i didn't cheat on him but something worse came up and we managed to escape it together. after that he became afraid and asked for the breakup.

Now, he is afraid,maybe its all from your side.

U feel bad for that, t will be hard for u to forget him.

Dnt tik abt d happy moment u had togeda wt him, instead, tik of his flaws. Get rid of anytin dat willl remind u of him. Make more frnds, get ursef busy. Dnt play soft muziq.

sparklefresh:
I had this boyfriend who broke up with me recently,and i've been seeking for advice on how to forget him. But nothing seems to come out.please help oooo

very simple, Don't try to 4get him, Unblock him on ur whatsapp or bbm, if he talks to you reply him like nothing happens.

make frnds, The more you try to forget d more you keep Remembering him, Be free with him, With time u will surly 4get about him.

sparklefresh:
I had this boyfriend who broke up with me recently,and i've been seeking for advice on how to forget him. But nothing seems to come out.please help oooo

I can help you out my dear.....send me your phone number and let us party

sparklefresh:



i didn't cheat on him but something worse came up and we managed to escape it together. after that he became afraid and asked for the breakup.

maybe she got high and tried to tempt the guy to have s** with her......but the guy na virgin e gt scared and he ran away

I recommend this song for you _'bitch bera have My Money' by Rihanna, plug on your earphone turn up the volume ! tell yourself you're worth more than that . #getbusy.

My love he will be in your heart till someone that will make u forget him comes to take his place or time erases his existence from your memory ok. Don't worry, its just a matter of time not strength.

Hardeyghold:
I can help you out my dear.....send me your phone number and let us party

Guy change

ajixkhid1:

Guy change

ah no be APC omo granny

It will almost be nearly impossible to forget him, no matter how hard you try. All that you can do is try to pack away those feelings and move on with your life. You will heal!

sparklefresh:
I had this boyfriend who broke up with me recently,and i've been seeking for advice on how to forget him. But nothing seems to come out.please help oooo

Luckily am here to advise you.

First of, to be sincere no matter what you do, you will always remember him but we can reduce the frequency:

1. Start a new hobby or a job or something that is challenging after all the Hatred from the relationship will drive you towards your goal, don't mind what people say , sometimes Hatred is good as it gives a drive.

2. Adventure (safe adventure oh), start doing things you would never do, because ideally after breakups most women tend to break apart and become a ghost of their former self, you my dear are not going to be one of those, start visiting new places or new people. obviously ex have a way of checking on you so he will be surprised you've acutually moved on fine and if not fu.c.k that not like we need his concern after all.

3. Become less emotional to others, well this is quite needed, the last thing you want is for more people to walk over you, so what do you do, try as much as possible to be straight to the point and brutally honest with people. Well truly you should because fu.c.k it this heartbreak can get one worked up easily.

4. Destroy everything that has to do with him or reminds you of him, if you guys had a fav song, well guess what delete song, delete that's artiste's album (However if it's Enya well leave it because let's face it Enya's awesome). All those expensive gifts well you could sell them or something, but any place that reminds you of him, well time to avoid those places pending you think less of him.

5. Whenever someone brings up his name or wants you to explain what happened in the relationship don't, the more you dwell on it, you more you start to think about the relationship.

6. Well this worked for me, but get addicted to something well for me Video Games worked for me as I indulged myself it fully and seriously it took my attention off heartbreak and with the help of Alcohol i was practically numb till it wore off

7. After following this advices especially the career, and new hobbies and goals and adventures, obviously you will start to meet new people, make special good friends and along the line you will think less about him and when you do meet ex or have the chance to talk to him, don't hate him, because you more you hate him the more you realize he's in your head taking up rent, just let it be, see it as someone who wasn't worth your time. because the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference, at some point he will mean nothing to you, and at some point he will be uneasy that he means nothing to you, most ex like to think you can't live without them but YOU WILL.


NOTE: No matter how long , the truth is at some point, he will become a distant memory now time to recommend some heartbreak songs

1. Greenday -> Whatshername
2. 3 Days Grace-> I hate everything about you
3. Linkin Park -> Somewhere i belong


Ciao your truly dojoVader

was typing with speed so ignore the blunders

U re not really saying d cause of d break up buh i ll gv ma advice anyways...first...get closer to God..truth is ders dis emptiness insd u right now..trust me..no human can fill it til God fills it frst..so ma dear frst tin is to get lost in God..secondly,get busy...wit work,skill,or something you really enjoy.you cant forget ur ex overnight..trust me there ll b days you ll find yourself cryn n feeln miserable cos of d breakup...alow d tears..its a proces of grieving..buh knw when to draw the line n b determined to move on..you ll be fine quicker than you imagned...telln yoy frm experienz.hope this helps.

you can do well to tell us what happened so we can know where to start from

sparklefresh:
I had this boyfriend who broke up with me recently,and i've been seeking for advice on how to forget him. But nothing seems to come out.please help oooo

chai,the dude must have bleeped you real good for you not to forget him. Anyways,why the break up?your fault or his?...start living a normal life,stop thinking of him,delete his pictures you have,and most importantly stop fantasizing the way you guys used to be.

Imagine that he was late, how would you forget him? Consider him late in ur life n allow time to heal u. learn to take things easy.

sparklefresh:
I had this boyfriend who broke up with me recently,and i've been seeking for advice on how to forget him. But nothing seems to come out.please help oooo

Trust me, time will heal. Before it happens totally, find and engage in whatever gives you joy.

Confide in ur mum..

sparklefresh:



i didn't cheat on him but something worse came up and we managed to escape it together. after that he became afraid and asked for the breakup.

EXACTLY WHAT CAUSED THE BREAK UP? IF ITS YOUR FAULT ACCEPT IT, IMPROVE ON YOUR SELF , FORGIVE YOUR SELF AND MOVE ON. aCCEPT THAT HE MIGHT 80% NEVER TURN BACK.

arabianights:

EXACTLY WHAT CAUSED THE BREAK UP? IF ITS YOUR FAULT ACCEPT IT, IMPROVE ON YOUR SELF , FORGIVE YOUR SELF AND MOVE ON. aCCEPT THAT HE MIGHT 80% NEVER TURN BACK.

sweetie, i know its hard. and if its pretty recent, it might get harder still, but you have to

1. accept it. accept it. accept it.

2. talk about it. yep. you read right. discuss the break up with a more mature mind. you're not looking for blame, but release.

3. get busy!

...and you should stop blaming yourself for things you (should realise you) have no control over. forgive yourself. love yourself. the healing will take place and it will definitely take time.

one more thing: PRAY (if you want. if you (already) do. i promise it helps).

Simple. Take a piece of paper, draft 6 major things you hated about him.

Before you knew it your facial expressions will change

The rest will be history.