| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by 3plejay(f): 2:29pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Lyk criouzly?? U need advice?? I dnt think so cz u sounded lyk u've got it all figured out....so wasup wiv d qstn of,if it's okay 2date d guy....smh tho! |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Whizzcute(m): 2:29pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. Since you are ready to mingle, PM me let's roll  |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by depson(m): 2:29pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
No, don't go into Dating now because you will definitely call it waste of time with useless set of people because sometttimes it takes maturity and determination to be responsible in Dating: take note of these you are not an Angel but human being with naughty attribute # I can sense how you feel, from your write up. Northern part of Nigeria married earlier some @12,14,15 etc. But from your write up your environment can not allow it secondly you may think you are doing good or believed that you are doing good# if I may ask you have u received any merit award from an organisation or a company for being an ouutsatnding student in certain exam? If not work harder the feelings is just a mere distraction. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by kunshe(m): 2:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
I think at 17, you should be mature enough to make you own decision. Make sure the guy is responsible, and if you ever make mistakes learn from them and learn fast! |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by youngsailor(m): 2:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
I don't think u need any advice becos ur mind is made up. But in a relationship expect d unexpected n b ready to face ur destiny. Play safe. |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
age is just a number.. am way too younger than her when I started dating and she's older than me... it's all about giving more time to her education |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
, heartbreak will deal with u personally, you have not seen anything, if my sister trys it at 16Yrs, i will deal with the guy, u want to kill my sister for me? 18 is the best |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Timijo(m): 2:31pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. If you are truly busy with your studies as you have stated it out, you won't have the time to lust after opposite sex. Getting into relationship is not a crime but are you sure you can handle it? This is how immorality begins, before you know it, that guy that is lusting after you will soon get in between your legs and dump you. once you have a taste of sex before marriage, you will be longing for it and you may become addicted to it. I will advise you to get committed to spiritual relationship with God rather than going into a relationship prematurely. 1 Like |
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| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by JuicyStar: 2:33pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. Issues for determination: A. Why will someone come her requesting for an advice while all they want is just a validation for the choice they have already made in their heart? B. Why are people always economical with the truth? If it's your 17 year old child that come to you for advice, what will u say? C. Whether this babe deserve slap or advice? My Advice: Since u have made up ur mind on what u want, my advice is that u should please wait small till u are 18. This will enable u know how to differentiate between love and small pickin love. I don drop pen for ur matter. Now to those wey dey say make this small pickin whey water never dry for her head go ahead into a relationship, make una receive slap today. What nonsense!!! Most ladies wey don reach 35 years never find their bearing emotionally talk more of this tata. I dey vex... |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by haibe(m): 2:35pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
alaskido:
Hmmmmmm 16+. In this new generation anything can happen. The right age is 18 but that does not mean that you cannot have a boyfriend.
A boyfriend does not mean a sex partner. This is what some people do not understand. We have boyfriends and girlfriends we make while in secondary schools. We have lovers which means sex is involved. We have fiancée which is a woman you are engaged to and about to get married.
So my dear you are free to have a boyfriend but be very careful. The only sensible post I have read up to this point. . A boyfriend is not necessarily a sex partner. Others were just equating boyfriend to a sex partner. .I mean you can have a boyfriend/girlfriend without the intention to have sex |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by cristweeezy(m): 2:36pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. mtschew! Mumu post.. Ma own post wey go teach people lessons,dem no let people see am. 10-yr old girl don get boyfriends. 9-yr old pikin don dey nak,dem don disvirgin her. Con dey tok of 17, u wey b OP, temme say u b virgin. |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by godwil114(m): 2:37pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. ya date me |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by cristweeezy(m): 2:37pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
haibe:
The only sensible post I have read up to this point. . Others were just equating boyfriend to a sex partner. .I mean you have a boyfriend/girlfriend without the intention to have sex buh d GF fit dey collect money from d BF without sex? Ok o. |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Elxandre(m): 2:38pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
CandyBar:
Let me make it simple....
Focus on your studies, build your career & personality...... Great men will run after you.
Start dating before 18......Run after men for the rest of your life.
Choice is yours......Choose wisely. I can name several women who focused on developing themselves, buy found it difficult to get married at the end. The funny thing is most people here had bf/gf before their 16th birthdays sef... I wouldn't know what advice to give you though, because at 16, I never thought of time-wasting stuff life that.  I hope you don't ruin your life though, because same action brings same result for different people; You could do it and be very sorry for the rest of your life, or even get married to him like Omotola Jolade, so you see.....  |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Ajibel(m): 2:38pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. You can if you know the kinda guy he is, in and out. The kinda friends he keeps too because they could influence him to _fuck you when you are "ripe". I'm saying this from experience cuz some of my friends have been tempting me to _fuck my gf but I've been resisting. My current gf was 14 when we fell in Love, and 2 years after, we are still together, and still have kept our zips up |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by therapistmrs: 2:38pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
I believe you need to disturb yourself with boyfriend issues now.The time will come and you'll know when you're ready.concentrate on your books now.all the best.
Therapistmrs..com 1 Like |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. ohhh what has this world turn to. Even the moderators are very STVPID for encouraging immoral  Did you even know what you are venturing into  Did you know why there are still single foolish WOMEN around the street without husband or even boyfriend Because when there are young and foolish, like you RIGH now, them tend to venture out just to test that rod. We are truly in the end time days |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
naijaboiy:
Mr.Man if you cannot be civilised while using your crooked fingers to type to me then it's better you maintain your lane and shut the fuçk up!
It's not by force to quote someone when your brain is still porous.
Nonsense! Fool! |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Magicc: 2:40pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
I am very sorry dear. Please check the meaning of Boyfriend or Girlfriend in the dictionary again. A boyfriend to a girl means her sex partner. haibe:
The only sensible post I have read up to this point. . A boyfriend is not necessarily a sex partner. Others were just equating boyfriend to a sex partner. .I mean you can have a boyfriend/girlfriend without the intention to have sex |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 2:42pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
quiinnBee:
if its university you are free to do what you want. Hi, you on Facebook or Instagram? Would like to follow you |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by haibe(m): 2:42pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
cristweeezy:
buh d GF fit dey collect money from d BF without sex? Ok o. She should let him know she is not interested in money and try as much as possible not to accept material things. Any gifts in the relationship should be in its entirety voluntary from either party as a result of love, not for selfish reasons. |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by naijaboiy: 2:43pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
forix4u:
Fool! Your ancestors are all Fools.
Iranu! |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Vizzim: 2:44pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
At 17 I believe u know what is good and not. I think ur ready to make ur decisions. My only advice please be careful or mindful of the guy u date and hmm protect ur'self oooo.
Can I paste my comment. Thank you |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
starlingslimnet:
Hhaha..... you funny die but come to think of it the OP's gullibility amidst her naivety is credibly funny.Imagine a 16 year old having nothing to write about on a blessed Monday than wanting a relationship and claiming to her own ignorance she knows many things about life. My brother that calls for "Shaking heads diagonally" "seconded" |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by ChynoBEATS: 2:44pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
yes, i think i can. But even if i can't and anything bad happens, i'll learn from it. Thanks a lot for your concern. Hmm its easy to say but hard to do dear........ Yes you'd learn from it.... But the deep cut can kill I know what I'm talking about ...... I like the fact that you're bold and courageous And the fact that you have foresight ........ I'm not in support of it tho because mere friendship 2me is way better but Becareful of the kinda guy you date .... Set a moral standard for yourself I pray you dont fall cos most guy's just play along Please dont force yourself into it and don't let peer pressure control your judgement on things concerning it |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by IceDude(m): 2:45pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. "Them nor dey tell small pikin make he/she nor get big teeth provided big lips dey to cover am"............"Whoever is teasing a beehive must know how to run fast"...........A cow thats in a hurry to travel to America will come back as corned beef"........Sweetie be very careful |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by mrdino(m): 2:45pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. You sound pretty intelligent for a 16 year old gal, so u shud b able to understand that, with freedom comes a price. I advice u 2 start gradually, especially if d boy is a good influence, e.g., an A-student. & pls, practice abstinence for now... don't b in a hurry, because once u loose it, u can never get it bak... & wen dt moment comes let it b a special one. |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by israelBigFame(m): 2:45pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Diamondqueen:
So I know you'll tell me school first and face your books. Yes, I know all that. I'll be 17 in two months. I'm intelligent and i do very well in school. Most of you guys have passed through my stage and I hope you understand that this is the stage where you start having feelings for the opposite sex. So I hope this doesn't sound like I'm a bad girl or something like that. I don't want you to say things like "what is this generation turning into?" because I'm very sure it happened in the previous generation and there are evidences such as the single mums that i see that got pregnant then. Long story short, there is a boy i like and he likes me too and he just asked me out. I made it very clear to him that we are not going to get intimate and he is very okay with it. I know you'll say it can happen by accident but i know that the only place we can get intimate is at a lonely place so all I'll have to do is to avoid it. The thing now is that do you think getting into a relationship at 16 is quite okay. Mind you, I'll soon be 17. Come let me teach you I will slap my meaty cock on your face Bang you till you are on unconscious Then visit you in the hospital and bang your unconscious body How do you like that huh? |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by Nobody: 2:45pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
otunsman:
Why do you think most losed and cheap girls get married quickly than the stricter and holier ones who does it coded?Do your survey.Though, I am not saying she should start dating at a tender age,however, most female adults started collecting rod secretly at a very tender age. Bros that's not d subject matter @ hands. Everyone is @ liberty but only @ d appropriate time n condition. If u feel or bliv there r lose or cheap girls its up to u but d question is wu made dem lose or cheap, what prompt dem to b lose, where they introduce into sex by rape, abuse, evirons, or by "razzed" guys  Rev TD. Jakes says "notin is a coincidence". Things just don't happen but for a reason ok. Be of a good mind n give advice constructively, intelligently n with love. |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by cristweeezy(m): 2:45pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
haibe:
She should let him know she is not interested in money and try as much as possible not to accept material things. Any gifts in the relationship should be in its entirety voluntary from either party as a result of love, not for selfish reasons. ahhhh! For dis naija? Naija babes wey dey dey horrrny like anything. |
| Re: I'm 16+, Can I Have A Boyfriend Now? by haibe(m): 2:47pm On Sep 28, 2015 |
Magicc:
I am very sorry dear.
Please check the meaning of Boyfriend or Girlfriend in the dictionary again.
A boyfriend to a girl means her sex partner.
please show me where it is stated that a boyfriend is necessarily a sex partner.. Even if it is, then am believing the context in which the OP is using it is not that of a sex partner buta relationship with someone she is attracted to or loves. |
