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My name is achilies.
In a world and time where fame is the alter at which we worship, I do not know why you should care for who I am or that I even exist.

After all I am not a celebrity.
I am not related to any celebrity. I have never been abused by any celebrity neither have I donated my kidney for transplantation into any celebrity furthermore I have no desire to be a celebrity..

Life has been fair to me in more ways than I care to mention.

But I lack perhaps the most important thing in life. Which is Love and the ability to fall in love.

I am still Gentle I am An intovert and unpredictable by nature, but am also ambitious, confidence.
I have this mentality that I can get anything I want.
This traits have helped me to overcome many obstacles and take many Risks than I care to remember but It has also made me emotionally detached to people around me especially the women..

You see I can get any woman I want if I so chooses, no matter how hard they prove to be, I always win them over. But winning them over is not the issue. The issue here is I immediately lose interest the moment the supposed Lady agreed to my to be my woman
It doesn't matter how long it took me to win her over. The moment she agreed to be my woman, I immediately and automatically lose interest in that particular lady and starts looking for the next woman to approach.

In my younger days I used to see it as fun and adventurous ( I have never dated anyone more than 2 months) but now? It is a source of concern to me. The more I try to "fall in love", the more it becomes obvious to me that I am incapable of such emotion. At this rate I might still be single in 20 years from now.

How do I feel and stay in love?

Please Nairalanders guys I need your advice.
Emusmith wristbangle and Co please help a brother out.

Cc lasasticlala

Lah di dah. I'm not believing any of this until I see the alleged "beauty"

Bros this your matter get as early be.
So after u Don break women heart finish u come the ask us how u go take love them abi ?

Anyway as for me, weting I go tell u na for you to just look for any girl whether you like her or not bring her keep for house and begin practice how to love with her. But no give her Belle o

nwa-nna ,put your hands in the air and let the wind blow right through dem,ya will feel love.......#Ome-Ego

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PunkyVeer:
Lah di dah. I'm not believing any of this until I see the alleged "beauty"

Ok ugly.
Are u happy.

Ps: in other not to sound boastful I can authoritatively say am not bad looking.

Op your explanations are somehow contradicting considering who an introvert really is,btw dnt you think your writeup is more of admiration than seeking for advice













Why am i even finding this hard to believeafter chasing a lady you immediately loose interest,woaw....








op but there is always a story to every man's situation,what prompted the loosing of interest in ladies,any epic encounter with one

Achilies:
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Ok ugly.
Are u happy.

Ps: in other not to sound boastful I can authoritatively say am not bad looking.

you already sound boastful:|

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Jollyjoy:
you already sound boastful:|

Hmm
Ok.

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Jollyjoy:
Op your explanations are somehow contradicting considering who an introvert really is,btw dnt you think your writeup is more of admiration than seeking for advice













Why am i even finding this hard to believeafter chasing a lady you immediately loose interest,woaw....








op but there is always a story to every man's situation,what prompted the loosing of interest in ladies,any epic encounter with one

Yes I am an introvert.

And no am honestly not admiring myself. I just stated those things so that people will not am broke of have inferiority issues.

If I know why I lose interest in them immediately the agree to date me, I won't be asking for advice..

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Jollyjoy:
you already sound boastful:|

Do u have any advice to give ?
The issue is not if am boastful or beautiful but rather my inability to fall in love. And my lack of interest in a long term relationship

Op are you really asking for advice here or you are just trying to show off your ego?.

Here is the help I can offer... Mention Lalasticlala well

Pray

Get rid of that ego of yours

Be content

Stay single

Oyind17:
Stay single

That advice.....doesn't sound bad..

Oyind17:
Stay single

Jollyjoy:
Op your explanations are somehow contradicting considering who an introvert really is,btw dnt you think your writeup is more of admiration than seeking for advice













Why am i even finding this hard to believeafter chasing a lady you immediately loose interest,woaw....








op but there is always a story to every man's situation,what prompted the loosing of interest in ladies,any epic encounter with one

Mrs woman, pls don't find it hard to blv. He is saying the truth. it once happened to me in secondary school. Fell in love with this pretty girl and realised I didn't need a day after she accepted. Even after all the hard to get.

But my man, U have to have respect for them if not u will be sorry for yourself. Stop everything sex, don't talk to any girl until a year pass. While waiting, UAE that opportunity to create an imaginary girl with all the qualities u need. U will love your nxt girlfriend when u ar ready for one.
this helped me, and I pray it helps u too.

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Etetejake:
Mrs woman, pls don't find it hard to blv. He is saying the truth. it once happened to me in secondary school. Fell in love with this pretty girl and realised I didn't need a day after she accepted. Even after all the hard to get.

But my man, U have to have respect for them if not u will be sorry for yourself. Stop everything sex, don't talk to any girl until a year pass. While waiting, UAE that opportunity to create an imaginary girl with all the qualities u need. U will love your nxt girlfriend when u ar ready for one.
this helped me, and I pray it helps u too.

Thanks a lot man.
I will give it a try.