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Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by BrianIke(m): 1:20am On Sep 30, 2015
ARE YOU AFRAID OF BECOMING JUST A FRIEND WITH THE GIRL YOU WANT TO BE INTIMATE WITH? USE THESE TIPS ON HOW
TO AVOID THE FRIEND ZONE IF YOU WANT HER TO GET INTO YOUR BED.

We all know that the friend zone is one of the most populated places on earth after China.

Getting in is quite easy but getting out and elevating to the status of boyfriend requires not just trial and error but pre-planned masterful approaches.

You may have been trying for months to get this girl to notice you; she finally starts paying you attention but you want to get close enough to her in order to tell her how much you like her and maybe get her into your bed.

But one day amidst all your efforts to woo (chyke) her she turns around and tells you that you’re such a good friend to her, or worse, “you’re like a brother to me.” BTW, those words should be banned!
Your world shuts down as you watch your all efforts vamoose!

Have you ever been there—friend zone?
I hope not.
There are no words to explain how you feel. One of the most trying times in a man’s life is when he has romantic/sexual feelings for a girl who only sees him as a good friend and he doesn’t know how/what to do about it.

Just for starters, who may be asking What The Heck A Friend Zone Is:

Simply put, a Friend Zone is when a girl decides that you’re her friend, you’re no longer a dating option. You become this complete non-sexual entity in her eyes, like a brother or a table.

You may get a few cuddles, a full 360 degree hug every now and then but you’re always going to be ‘just like a brother to her’ while she dates every other guy. And I know this is not where you want to end up.

HOW YOU GOT THERE IN THE FIRST PLACE:

The number one reason men fall into a woman’s Friend Zone is mainly because he took too long to make his move or he made the very wrong moves from the onset. Below are a list of wrong moves you may be probably making with that girl that will surely get you into her Friend Zone in less than week:

1. Getting too close
: if this is what you are doing right now in an attempt to win the girl over then I’m sorry for you. It’s wrong! Avoid this like you avoid LASTMA in Lagos highways. Most guys go to the extent of letting the girl go through the chats on their mobile phones just to get the girl comfortable with them. With time, she’ll start seeing you as one of her girlfriends.

2. No attraction: if after meeting her you don’t spark off any chemistry/feelings in her, then, Friend Zone awaits you. Whenever you hear a girl describe a guy as “just there” or “just an ok guy,” you should drop everything you’re doing then and start praying for the guy because that is the beginning of the end for him.

3. Becoming her best friend:
so, you watched this movie where a certain guy who was always there for a girl never gets to date her.
The girl gets hurt, gets advice from this dude who is her bestie and goes back to her boyfriend.
At the end of the movie, something romantic happens and the girl finally falls in love with the guy who used to be her best friend. Wow! What a super story! And that’s why it’s called a movie.

In reality, you will always remain her best friend and nothing more. You can never get into a girl’s pants or become her boyfriend by becoming her best friend. You’re not Majid Micheal and I bet she’s not Yvonne Nelson.

By now the question probably going through your head is:

HOW DO I AVOID BECOMING JUST A FRIEND TO HER AND GET HER TO SEXUALLY DESIRE ME?

This can be very tricky especially if you’re already into the dreaded zone and knowing that your friendship is at stake here. Well, here are a few guaranteed pointers that will keep you out of the Friend Zone today:

1. Make the right first move: the first moves are as important as the finishing moves. When approaching a girl or talking to a girl you like very much, you need to make calculated moves.

Falling in love/lust is not by fate. All happily married couples and players always plan their moves ahead of time.

When meeting her for the first time, be confident, make sure you make her laugh and when she does, get her number and leave at once.

Don’t linger for too long. And try as much as possible to avoid her when friends are around her. You can’t really hit on a girl when she’s surrounded by friends.

2. Pass your message the right way and on time: In my former post, I said something about adding sexual-connoted words in your discussions with any girl you want to get intimate with. Now is the perfect time when such conversation is needed.

When you find her alone, show up and talk with her. If any of her friends comes around when you’re with her, jokingly say something like, “just when I thought I could spend some time with you, she comes up out of nowhere!” and make a funny face. This will get her confused and wondering if you’re really joking or serious.

The point is to give her a hint that you like spending time with her alone. Now, that’s sexy and indicates some serious interest. It will get her thinking as you haven’t told her anything yet about how you feel.

Another example is to flatter her creatively while passing your point at the same time. If she dresses up nicely, tell her she’s hot.

If she catches you staring at her hips or cleavage, just blush, say you’re sorry and tell her that you tried but couldn’t resist it.

Keep it light and funny but pass a sensual connoted message just as I explained earlier and in my free eBook 101 Ways To Compliment A Girl Sexually And Make Her Blush.

3. Act like a man: in your attempt to get her to sexually become aware of you, make sure not to become her puppy and do everything she wants. This will have the opposite effect and give you a straight admission into the friend zone.

Make her feel special only when you’re with her. Hold her hands when you cross the roads, hold the doors open for her. Buy her small special gifts not because she asked for it but because you want to surprise her.

I remember once when I got a small cute book of nursery rhymes for a girl, I bought crayons and customized the write-ups to suit her, putting our names in appropriate lines and gently cancelling parts that didn’t match and drawing smileys on the pages. I read it for her when we were all alone in her room…the rest is history.

The point I want you to get is that women will always rant about how they want a caring man who responds to their every wish but if you become that man, they will lose every respect for you and put you in the zone.

4. Never tell her how you feel: don’t think that was a mistake or a typo. On no account should you go about ranting to a girl about how much you love her and can’t sleep at night because of her. This will put the girl on a defensive and will make her want to say no and automatically start avoiding you.

Before you even start thinking about telling her all those sweet stuffs you’ve memorized, always make sure that she has in more than 5 ways revealed or told you that she’s falling for you first.

5. Ask an expert: a whole lot of men get past the Hello stage, spark a bit of romantic interest in a girl and let everything fall out of place by not knowing how to keep the sexual interest alive.

Some go all the way—getting the girl to spend the night and then just when they were given the golden opportunity to make her addicted to them, they spoilt it all by making all the known mistakes in bed.

The Friend zone is where no man ever wants to end up with a woman. I know because I’ve been there.
That is why I’ve taken time to put up this article about how you can avoid that trap.

But I cannot help you if you don’t want to be helped. You need to read up every article relating to becoming a better lover and at the same time order for the free eBooks which gives you accurate expert advice on How To Give Any woman An Earth Shattering Orgasm which is coincidentally the name of my eBook.

Every man should be ahead of his game both in and out of bed. Being romantic is good but being amazing in bed is a skill that needs to be harnessed and learnt.

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It’s simple! To avoid ending up being just a friend to her, to avoid being dumped for someone better, you need to get that book today!

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Nobody: 1:31am On Sep 30, 2015
Duhhh...y dyu want her 2 want u sexually?...FTC
#Philosopher Quëën#
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by BrianIke(m): 1:40am On Sep 30, 2015
Oliviaarims:
Duhhh...y dyu want her 2 want u sexually?...FTC

#Philosopher Quëën#




Why would u wanna Friend Zone a brother after letting him spend his time and money on you? undecided

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Nobody: 1:46am On Sep 30, 2015
BrianIke:


Why would u wanna Friend Zone a brother after letting him spend his time and money on you? undecided
I've never been guilty of that...if I know s guy's interested in me in a way I can't reciprocate,I don't lead him on or make him spend hz money on me...





#Philosopher Quëën#

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by ajademola2000(m): 1:55am On Sep 30, 2015
Oliviaarims:

I've never been guilty of that...if I know s guy's interested in me in a way I can't reciprocate,I don't lead him on or make him spend hz money on me...





#Philosopher Quëën#
You are beautiful! I can spend all my income on you. I don't see why you should have someone else when you have a soldier like me but saying you've never been guilty of that is a lie undecided

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by BrianIke(m): 2:07am On Sep 30, 2015
Nothing is fair in love and war...

Does the words 'Friend Zone' sound fair to u? It's more like purgatory on earth

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by tafabaloo(m): 2:10am On Sep 30, 2015
Hmmm
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Nobody: 2:11am On Sep 30, 2015
ajademola2000:
You are beautiful! I can spend all my income on you. I don't see why you should have someone else when you have a soldier like me but saying you've never been guilty of that is a lie undecided

Search around d world nd find me that 1 guy other than "Him" that can accuse me of "eating his money" and I'll kiss ur feet. I'm actually a very simple person..I don't like complications in my life,so I don't create any 4 ppl....If yhu wanna do anyfin 4 me,just keep it until ny bday nd I'll gladly accept...
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by ajademola2000(m): 2:12am On Sep 30, 2015
BrianIke:
Nothing is fair in love and war...

Does the words 'Friend Zone' sound fair to u? It's more like purgatory on earth
friend zone ke? nonsense of the highest order lol
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by ajademola2000(m): 2:15am On Sep 30, 2015
Oliviaarims:

Search around d world nd find me that 1 guy other than "Him" that can accuse me of "eating his money" and I'll kiss ur feet. I'm actually a very simple person..I don't like complications in my life,so I don't create any 4 ppl....If yhu wanna do anyfin 4 me,just keep it until ny bday nd I'll gladly accept...
Presently I'm dating a girl who has inheritance and she's been telling me same thing just want to know if girls can be truly this way cus my ex was a gold digger, you can always enlighten me, one of the reasons I like being around you peeps grin
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Nobody: 3:12am On Sep 30, 2015
ajademola2000:
Presently I'm dating a girl who has inheritance and she's been telling me same thing just want to know if girls can be truly this way cus my ex was a gold digger, you can always enlighten me, one of the reason I like being around you peeps grin
Inheritance?..the same thing..I don't get!

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by omoikea(m): 3:25am On Sep 30, 2015
Oliviaarims:

I've never been guilty of that...if I know s guy's interested in me in a way I can't reciprocate,I don't lead him on or make him spend hz money on me...





#Philosopher Quëën#

if i hear....
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Nobody: 3:26am On Sep 30, 2015
omoikea:

if i hear....
Take it that u've heard....so??
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by glamourroudy(m): 3:27am On Sep 30, 2015
Op..all dis passage ontop girl matter? undecided

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by omoikea(m): 3:35am On Sep 30, 2015
how does this change the price of garri in the market?

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by joefredd006(m): 4:20am On Sep 30, 2015
omoikea:
how does this change the price of garri in the market?
you still dont gerrit.... do ya ? not everyfin revolves round food

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by drey076(m): 5:52am On Sep 30, 2015
Epistle
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Kingsley1000(m): 6:04am On Sep 30, 2015
op so your aim and purpose of being in a relationship is to get into her pants?......that's infatuation

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Idrismusty97(m): 7:06am On Sep 30, 2015
7. Get her pregnant
8. Run away!

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by HomieQuan(m): 7:19am On Sep 30, 2015
nawa o OP
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by BrianIke(m): 8:13am On Sep 30, 2015
Kingsley1000:
op so your aim and purpose of being in a relationship is to get into her pants?......that's infatuation

The post is specific. it's something a great number of boys pass through on a daily.

No matter how much you may want to think otherwise, yes, all men get into relationships with the hopes of getting laid someday.

When it happens doesn't matter. We all pray it happens sooner than never.

But if you prefer to be just 'like a brother to your babe' then knock yourself out, bro.

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Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by BrianIke(m): 9:34am On Sep 30, 2015
ajademola2000:
Presently I'm dating a girl who has inheritance and she's been telling me same thing just want to know if girls can be truly this way cus my ex was a gold digger, you can always enlighten me, one of the reasons I like being around you peeps grin

If she was giving u some while digging ur wallet then you're in luck. Civil servants call it pension.
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Spikkylee: 10:04am On Sep 30, 2015
BrianIke:


If she was giving u some while digging ur wallet then you're in luck. Civil servants call it pension.

Lmao..Trinidad James-Friend Zone....Download nd share testimony
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by omoikea(m): 12:51pm On Sep 30, 2015
Oliviaarims:
Take it that u've heard....so??
so i doubt it
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Lawalsuleiman(m): 1:48pm On Sep 30, 2015
Oh Friend zone...
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Nobody: 2:01pm On Sep 30, 2015
omoikea:

so i doubt it
Lol..alright,then...suit urself.
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by BrianIke(m): 6:43pm On Sep 30, 2015
smiley funny
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Tosinville(m): 10:44pm On Sep 30, 2015
glamourroudy:
Op..all dis passage ontop girl matter? undecided
guy, I tire o!
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by Nobody: 10:47pm On Sep 30, 2015
cheesy love doc?
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by glamourroudy(m): 11:13pm On Sep 30, 2015
Tosinville:
guy, I tire o!
lol....I tire pass u
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by sthugo: 11:16pm On Sep 30, 2015
All these stories arent feasible..its all about connection,once there is connection every stuff falls in place
You dont need no plan,she will be the one wanting to come to you,if she really desires you.
Just suit into her fantasy,look good,attractive..all she wants and she will hurriedly become yours.
Money control things
Re: Simple Tips On How To Avoid Becoming Just A Friend & Get Her To Want You Sexualy by BrianIke(m): 12:12am On Oct 01, 2015
sthugo:
All these stories arent feasible..its all about connection,once there is connection every stuff falls in place
You dont need no plan,she will be the one wanting to come to you,if she really desires you.
Just suit into her fantasy,look good,attractive..all she wants and she will hurriedly become yours.
Money control things

Okay. Nice point.

What if you meet a girl and u you fall head over heels for her on the first day. I mean, it happens. You felt a 'connection' and she doesn't feel a spark. Let alone a 'connection' to you. What do u do? You walk away? Because there was no 'connection'?

I bet you are one helluva chick-magnet and land a lot of women with that 'connection' theory of yours.

It is your duty as a man to go after what you want. You can't keep waiting on the day cupid sends someone who has a 'connection' with you before you get laid. You'll die Hot and lonely.

My guy, u have to create that connection.

Fate has nothing to do with it. All players know that.

And money can land you some women but it won't keep the woman. Where do u think Sugar Mummies came from? From rich husbands who once thought their money could keep a woman.

Money makes u attractive, no doubt, but with a little swagger and skill, you'll never have to sleep alone again.

Visit www.lashgator.com for more.

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