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passionate88:
Nigerian girls and money. Greedy bastards. She knew that he is a casanova yet she still went ahead to get married to him, now that she realised he isn't willing to change she's here giving the wrong advice. Why didn't she ask Nigerian girls not to marry for cash, not to depend on a guy for cash she's here saying don't love too much. RUBBISH.

PunkyVeer:
What's a myth? That women think sex will get them love? It's a fact

IndianaJay:
But....why so much venom? Give advice if you need to, must you call names? Are Nigerian girls the reason for your misfortune or the fact that you have no money? Who hurt you and why are you so angry at women? Na wa o....see a shrink pls. You have issues.

joshuamoses101:
i know one snake joint for choba o...should i take u there

yinkeys:
Without s**, not so sure about that. Times have changed. Though she ended up with the wrong dude

eni4real:
It is a fact that is not true.

kennycanny:
Some women think pussy is good enough to bring into a relationship to work. some even think having that stuff can give them access to almost anything they want!

PunkyVeer:
Of course it's not true but most women still believe their
average vjj is something special

Yesterday I was listening to a Trina song. She said something like "Make him work for that kitty cat. Give him none of that until..." . Well, until he does whatever. Can't remember the lyrics now. Instinctively, inside, I went "Yeah!!!!". But then I sat back & thought about it much deeper. Now as an outsider looking in. Objectively. I asked myself, what's so special about it that most of us attach so much value to it? Trina is definitely not a virgin, so why does she think a guy needs to do more before he can actually sleep with her? I get it & don't get it, if that makes sense. I get that you must have morals & not give yourself to just about anybody sexually. However, I still don't get why we put so much importance in it (using it as bargaining chip whenever possible), like we're doing a huge favour to whomever is going to get it as if we're the only ones giving a part of ourselves during intercourse. But it is what it is. I guess that's just how women are programmed, because even if a woman gave birth to several children, she'll somehow still believe she has the 8th wonder of the world right between her legs. It can be hilarious but ah well.

sinaj:
Illegal Straffing ain't worth it



If da nigga rily love you, he will stick to ya Witat sex


Premarital sex comes with Lotta insecurities nd Itz nt kul



Nice story op




FEAR GOD

IndianaJay:
But....why so much venom? Give advice if you need to, must you call names? Are Nigerian girls the reason for your misfortune or the fact that you have no money? Who hurt you and why are you so angry at women? Na wa o....see a shrink pls. You have issues.

IamLEGEND1:
why are you making so much sense gurl?

how many brains do you have?

khassy:
that's what ypu get when u get crazy about marrying a medical doctor... what happened to chukwuma that was being her to love him and she rejected simply because he didn't have a range rover


dumb story..dumb lie... dumb OP

PunkyVeer:
Awww thanks I guess it's because I have the ability to "step out" of myself (sometimes) & sort of look at things from all angles if you get what I mean.

IamLEGEND1:
keep this up (in real life) and even the billionaires aren't gonna be deserving of you....

you seem like a really great gyal...no really,you do.

#CheersLass

J3da:
I met my husband Dayo, in my third year at the university. I can still remember that day. He had come to my hostel to put up with his cousin Tomi for a short while as he was posted to the university health centre for his national youth service corps.. Tomi had forgotten to drop the keys to his room on Dayo's instructions and he was stranded. It began to drizzle after a while and I had no choice than to let him wait in my room. I gave him some water and we started a conversation. Dayo was such an amazing person to be with that I didn't realize how much time we had spent chatting. It just seemed like I had known him all my life. We became friends and I was the happiest girl at that time. Dayo was everything I wanted in a man. Tall, dark, handsome and of course a medical doctor. I was just too obsessed with getting married to a medical doctor that I forgot about everything else. Dayo probably understood that I loved him too much and made a fool of me. I willingly offered him my most prized possession, my body, my virginity. Dayo was too happy to know that he was the first man and he promised me everything in the world. He told me that he would take me to the altar as soon as he got a job and i earnestly hoped and prayed for it. However one thing I couldn't understand about Dayo was his attitude towards women. I wouldn't say he went after them, but he just couldn't resist them. He accepted gifts and cash from them and would often introduce me as his friend. Everytime I complained about his attitude, he would say he knew exactly what he was doing and there was no point nagging about anything as I would be his wife one day. .. God answered my prayers and Dayo was retained in the university health centre. I waited eagerly for his proposals as the days went by but he began to drag feet. He said he wanted to save more and I obliged but days grew into months and months into a year and Dayo wasn't willing to see my parents. Two years passed by and I grew weary of waiting. Dayo had a good job, a nice car and a small beautiful apartment but he kept on postponing the big deal. I stopped having sex with him and Dayo had a good reason to cheat on me with my little cousin. I was very mad at him and he apologised profusely. He told me that my sister had seduced him and I believed him. Sarah was such a spoilt brat so I let the matter go. I began sleeping with him again to secure my relationship . I cooked his food, did his laundry, kept his house clean and did all the wifely chores but still Dayo wasn't making up his mind so I decided to help myself. .. I deliberately got pregnant for him! I had mixed feelings. Would my pregnancy make him speed up our marriage plans? Would he be happy? Would he reject it? I thought about it for several days and finally opened up to him. He dropped his spoon of rice hastily as I made the comment "I am pregnant", looked at me angrily and said "You must be joking. Are you so stupid to get pregnant? I am not ready for marriage. You better take that bastard out of your womb if you ever want to see my face again". I nearly slumped,I couldn't believe my eyes. Everything came back to me in a flash. The first time we met, the first time we made love, the day he got his employment letter, the day I caught him with my little cousin, the many female friends, the weird text messages from female colleagues... The world came crashing at my feet and I realized that Dayo didn't love me as much as i thought. I realized that I didn't take .enough time to know him before accepting him,I realized that giving him my body was the worst mistake, I realized that I ignored all the warning signs. Dayo wasn't the man for me but I pushed too hard... I couldn't stand an abortion, I couldn't stand having a child outside wedlock so I went in search of his family. I was lucky to meet his mum and she accepted me with open arms. She told me that no son of hers would bring shame to the family and that I was in safe hands. She sent for Dayo and he made it very clear to his mother and other family members that he wasn't ready to marry me... I wept like a baby but Dayo wouldn't change his mind. My church got wind of the news and suspended my parents who were church elders. My father was very mad at me and warned me never to return home.
It was a lonely world for me. Dayo called me all sorts of names and told me that he only accepted the pregnancy because he was the first man but he was too young to get married... After much persuasions from his big uncles and family members, Dayo decided to pay my bride price and I moved in with him.. Its four years now and I still cry every night. I am pregnant for the second child but Dayo doesn't regard that as anything. He blames me for every misfortune in his life and treats me like thrash. He still hangs out with the boys and acts like a bachelor... My husband is 29 and he feels he is too young to be a father and husband. He says I dashed his hopes of going abroad to further his studies, he says I didn't let him have his dream home and life. He just keeps saying I messed his life and I wonder why...
Every day I hope and pray for a miracle and I know someday my husband Dayo would come around........
Dear single ladies, do not love a man too much and forget that you are special too. You deserve to be treated like royalty. Getting pregnant in a bid to make a man marry you is just a sheer waste of time... You really cant force a man to do anything. Let him make up his mind. Let him be the one in a haste to take you to the altar and not the other round....
Call me old fashioned but I will still tell the truth. Sex before marriage to a large extent beclouds your sense of reasoning. You never see things rightly when you are giving it...
Finally, a broken relationship is a million times better than a broken marriage. So quit if it isn't working. Even if you have invested a good number of years in it, walk away. It is far better than spending the rest of your life in tears...A man who treats you like thrash in a relationship won't do better in marriage.. Wise up!

sinaj:
u no hear say d owner of d joint de Ogboni

joshuamoses101:
lolz lemme have your digits so i can booke us a reservation @silva bird

sinaj:
for d Hotel abi Cinema

joshuamoses101:
i was actually referring to the cinema but since u mentioned the other one i dont see why we cant do both

sinaj:
um I will b going to choch tomoro for prayer warrior meeting

PunkyVeer:
Of course it's not true but most women still believe their
average vjj is something special

Yesterday I was listening to a Trina song. She said something like "Make him work for that kitty cat. Give him none of that until..." . Well, until he does whatever. Can't remember the lyrics now. Instinctively, inside, I went "Yeah!!!!". But then I sat back & thought about it much deeper. Now as an outsider looking in. Objectively. I asked myself, what's so special about it that most of us attach so much value to it? Trina is definitely not a virgin, so why does she think a guy needs to do more before he can actually sleep with her? I get it & don't get it, if that makes sense. I get that you must have morals & not give yourself to just about anybody sexually. However, I still don't get why we put so much importance in it (using it as bargaining chip whenever possible), like we're doing a huge favour to whomever is going to get it as if we're the only ones giving a part of ourselves during intercourse. But it is what it is. I guess that's just how women are programmed, because even if a woman gave birth to several children, she'll somehow still believe she has the 8th wonder of the world right between her legs. It can be hilarious but ah well.

eni4real:
Lolz that is so true!
However,it will be of great help in a relationship if a woman can dispel such a thinking pattern because being narcissistic about her genital would only give room for selfish claim and make her see the relationship from her own perspective alone hence friction will set in.

joshuamoses101:
you won make fire burn u?

joshuamoses101:
Well well...you were selfish ,you wanted a medical doctor,handsome dude nd all that, didnt for a second think about what he wanted,u gave him your dignity(body)without him even asking....well i think the advice you should be dishing out is"dont be a hoe" #justsaying

utenwuson:
Walahi d gurl really destroy d guy ambitions! she destroy everything d guy works to achieve. d gurl only love him cos he was close 2 being "ok" wt lyf hussles! all I c in ds story is a desperate lady who has destroy a medical Dr cos she s insecure! virginity, sex, pregnancy can never mk a man love u no matter hw! even if he s force 2 marry u, he ll always cause d day he met u!

sinaj:
I b winch?