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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Empredboy(m): 8:00am On Oct 02, 2015
ksbusari:
Marry the lady wit d secondary schl cert and ur friends and families brand her uneducated, Half educated and all sort of names especially when she misbehaves.
Marry d educated girl and she would also receive d comment dat education does nt pass tru her when she misbehaves too. I was in situation One tym. Pray to God for guidance. Bt i would choose, i prefer the educated girl cos if u choose the other, u will av to explain to a lot of pple.
what do u have to explain? I was in the same situation 5yrs ago. My ex was or maybe still a Banker while my wife then she was my street sister was a school cert holder. Now my wife is in her finals and managing the family business well both from school and when she is around. Guy my advice is u can upgrade a low class lady to ur taste but an expose girl can never be handled. The Bible says a nagging wife is like a poisonous snake.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kolaororocketm: 8:02am On Oct 02, 2015
My man, my advance for you is dat, marry School cert girl, and upgrade her to degree,marry some one dat will give peace and make u happy in ur union home....
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by linked: 8:02am On Oct 02, 2015
vizkiz:


I don't need your pity ass-wipe! undecided

Its my life, my rules, my headache.ig you wanna go marry an SSCE holder in this century, your life, your headache. You will soon get to know making a strong home isn't all about a girl who can wash cloths very well. Dummy undecided
Oh so sorry... I usually dont quote people of you kind whose reasoning faculties are latent because I believe doing so dignifies them... Am so sorry for showing you love
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 8:04am On Oct 02, 2015
spongebob0006:


so who told u d illiterate gal is not pretty...its just cos ders no money to Polish her na....wat makes u think she won't be successful too...nna ehn! odi egwu o

iaccording to the topic! Beauty vs manners, you should know one is not pretty, but she's gat manners undecided

So you saying I should leave a successful girl who will make a dream home and go and marry one illegal liability just because "she might make it too"

I am sorry, I love/think with my head not my heart undecided
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Tee999: 8:05am On Oct 02, 2015
You're seeing the real side of your graduate and beautiful lady which might improve for the best but I tell you, the other girl being well behaved now might turn to something else in future which you may live to regret.


Good luck.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 8:07am On Oct 02, 2015
linked:
Oh so sorry... I usually dont quote people of you kind whose reasoning faculties are latent because I believe doing so dignifies them... Am so sorry for showing you love

boo hoo...take your love and sholve it up your ass.
Btw, goodluck in your marriage with a house help undecided
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by sdm4christ: 8:08am On Oct 02, 2015
Both are important. Seek the face of God in prayers. My advice.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by misspicy(f): 8:09am On Oct 02, 2015
braine:
Marry the educated Beauty, even tho it may fade later; but there are other qualities she'll have that you'd appreciate. The school cert holder with 'good' manners may just be a pretender to get what she wants. Plus, by the time you upgrade her, you never can tell what she'd turn into.
You are a wise man sir

tido77 hope u read this one,
Am a lady n i know we pretend alot.decode ur ladies ursef,try to see d one pretending.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by femi4: 8:10am On Oct 02, 2015
Manners pls, that's what ll keep the marriage intact
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by misspicy(f): 8:13am On Oct 02, 2015
femi4:
Manners pls, that's what ll keep the marriage intact
I guess you will feed on manners right,wen u r financially down,d manners will.support ur marriage,mr man please think with ur brain not ur d!ck,Nigerian economy no sabi manners na money dey sustain marriage this days
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 8:15am On Oct 02, 2015
DrGroove:
the school cert girl can even clean ur a s s hole after u pOo.what else has she to offer?
the educated girl isn't mannerless.she just cant act like ur maid while the sch cert girl knows she is below u n inferior so performing domestic chores n kneeling for u,to her is a way to get ur mind.
Marry her n educate her.dont come back to tell us another story o

Well said!
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by macho44(m): 8:16am On Oct 02, 2015
If u ask me, na who I go ask?
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by butanep(m): 8:18am On Oct 02, 2015
ksbusari:
Marry the lady wit d secondary schl cert and ur friends and families brand her uneducated, Half educated and all sort of names especially when she misbehaves.
Marry d educated girl and she would also receive d comment dat education does nt pass tru her when she misbehaves too. I was in situation One tym. Pray to God for guidance. Bt i would choose, i prefer the educated girl cos if u choose the other, u will av to explain to a lot of pple.
Is he marrying for people or himself
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by femi4: 8:19am On Oct 02, 2015
misspicy:

I guess you will feed on manners right,wen u r financially down,d manners will.support ur marriage,mr man please think with ur brain not ur d!ck, Nigerian economy no sabi manners na money dey sustain marriage this days
Its obvious you lack manners. From the way they type, you shall know them.

Just like the good book said:
The most successful ones are not always educated.

OR
The educated are not always successful.
Madam, education can only take you to the top, but manners keep you there.

By the way, I ve seen many jobless educated people roaming about without job

You can be educated and still be poor!


If money do sustain marriages, how come we have many wealthy broken homes?

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by dapsonlou(m): 8:20am On Oct 02, 2015
tido77:
I am limping between decisions, I need your piece of advice to buoy my wobbling senses. A well educated lady is in my radar, I like ladies that control grammar very well, in fact I am a sucker for such ladies. This my lady controls grammar so well and she is beautiful, a graduate.

Now, I also have a young lady that comes around, and I observed that they are both different in manners. She is not a graduate, she stopped at secondary school level due to finance problem.

When this not so schooled lady comes around she always notices disorganized things and would arrange them, would notice dirty floor and mop up,wash dirty dishes etc. She would not greet me without bending her left knee slightly to show respect. She is not as beautiful as the educated lady though.

The graduate lady do none of these things, all we do is just gist.

Lately the school cert lady makes me feel the warmth of a caring lady, I am beginning to notice her more.

I am a graduate with tastes, I don't know what I want again, I am confused, somebody advise.

My Guy sounds like you are Confused, listen you can not marry someone that's not educated because she cook n clean, you can always get a house keeper for that. Your other options is pay attention to the why your educated girl friend treat people around her, because done the line when you get use to each other in marriage that's how she will be treating you. You can take your time and look for an Educated girl with Good homely personality that you like
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by jelal007(m): 8:21am On Oct 02, 2015
tido77:
not sure if u read with understanding , the lady stopped at sec school coz of finance. U need to return to nursery school dude.
I think elantracey has a point. U lack manners,yet u want a girl that's got it all. U want my opinion? Marry both of them. Shoroniyen.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by macho44(m): 8:21am On Oct 02, 2015
If u ask me! na who I go ask?
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by mybad: 8:24am On Oct 02, 2015
I feel you OP.

The challenge can be analysed this way:-

(1) Both are women.
Literate or not, they eventually will act same way in the end.

(2) The school certificate lady looks like a good candidate in the interim but after being upgraded she'll start seeing your flaws or looking for attributes that are missing in you.

(3) The graduate may be efficient as a helper now with a job and can help with educating your kids.
They are however lazy, you'll end up doing all the chores.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by butanep(m): 8:25am On Oct 02, 2015
missdebs:
manners pls, everyone is beautiful, its a matter of time and money

I love your comments. Very true.

I remember a girl I used to ignore longtime ago. I later changed location due to NYSC. After 2yrs I visited the area, the lady has turn to a beautiful hot classy chick.

For my mind, jennifer has all this endowment, I didn't see it. I was now the one chasing after her.

Time & money can be so vital in upgrading ones appearance.

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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by spongebob0006(f): 8:28am On Oct 02, 2015
vizkiz:


iaccording to the topic! Beauty vs manners, you should know one is not pretty, but she's gat manners undecided

So you saying I should leave a successful girl who will make a dream home and go and marry one illegal liability just because "she might make it too"

I am sorry, I love/think with my head not my heart undecided

heart thinker! Pele o....e sa se suuru o....aye o ribe.....all dat glitterz is not gold o....marriage is a skul of no return.....pray abt it......u can Neva go wrong wt God as ur master planner sha
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by mikaael(m): 8:30am On Oct 02, 2015
ADULTBASE:
angry jamb C.b.t. 2015 past questions! Ma bi ni jamb question! I no be dondu,i no be fool!
U wicked o
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Missonas(f): 8:31am On Oct 02, 2015
hope4nigeria:
YOU ARE A MAAAD IDIOOOOTS. I CANT ague with you. must you joke with everything? i fight gidigbo with your mother , the last cong-ful compitition i did last time. that was when your father died on the stage! ode
A MAAAAD IDIOOOOTS indeed! hahahaha
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by castel428: 8:32am On Oct 02, 2015
dnt let ur mind be clouded coz the other gal's so called gud manners.u shld ask urslf whether the virtue she display is inborn or just window dressing,forced out of low self esteem inorder to please u who is high abv her in education.the graduate gal may jst being herself to u cz she feels she has nothng to prove,as in she is beautiful,educated,u stil expect gud manners?come on man thats a rare combination,only very few ladies out there have such qualities,(i thnk only my babe,a beautiful,1st class(4.8cgpa)graduate of ind.chemistry,and very very gud mannered).what am i trying to say?u cnt have it all,wl advice u go 4 d graduate,u ar better of with her,the odds favours her,she has 2/3 of qualities while the other has 1/3.i bet that if the latter is even beautiful,lets leave being a graduate,dat she may not be that gud mannerd and humble.fact:beautiful and/or intelligent(highly educated)gals ar most times arrogant.so make ur choice.wish u well.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by braine(m): 8:34am On Oct 02, 2015
misspicy:

You are a wise man sir

tido77 hope u read this one,
Am a lady n i know we pretend alot.decode ur ladies ursef,try to see d one pretending.


Its hard to decode the pretence o; when everything looks good with the "good girl" behaviour, and it can be hard to let go. I'm speaking from experience.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by sucess001(m): 8:39am On Oct 02, 2015
Marry the one with bigger boobs and ass...




Thank me later




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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by sholay2011(m): 8:40am On Oct 02, 2015
hope4nigeria:
YOU ARE A MAAAD IDIOOOOTS. I CANT ague with you. must you joke with everything? i fight gidigbo with your mother , the last cong-ful compitition i did last time. that was when your father died on the stage! ode
Be civil please. I believe you are not from yaba left.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kengodson: 8:40am On Oct 02, 2015
Beauty will never last,manners does,choose wisely
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by sirwilly1(m): 8:43am On Oct 02, 2015
All of una harsh o. So the less educated no get hope again for Naija, abi? Bros check the one wey go give you happy ending. If you no dey satisfied, come our house.



I'm still single o.
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by misspicy(f): 8:44am On Oct 02, 2015
braine:



Its hard to decode the pretence o; when everything looks good with the "good girl" behaviour, and it can be hard to let go. I'm speaking from experience.
It only takes time,say lik a year or 6 months,reason its not good to rush into marriage,af courtship of like 6 months or more...

You get to see d real person with time no matter d pretence
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by DoTheNeedful: 8:45am On Oct 02, 2015
Cameleon72:
You are not confused rather you need rest. If you still insist on advise marry the two of them and graduate will be your ceremonial wife. Promiscious men always confused of tastes.


Just checked your profile picture and i can confidently tell you that you dont look promiscuous at all. I wont be surprised if you are a virgin sad
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 8:45am On Oct 02, 2015
With the kind of threads that Make front page on this marriage issue this days confuses me on what marriage is all about. Op I guess u hve to answer the question what marriage is all about for u: Is it about dominance or about partnership? Sins we now grade manners wit greeting wit bended knee and cleaning up I so wonder what the coming generation would term manners as maybe it with who ties wrapper best. Hmmm if ur idea of manners is such den come 2 some tribes dat greet u for everything and stl av the highest number of irresponsible men and women then u would know what manners is about.
NB: you have a good rapport wit the educated babe talk 2 her if she refuses 2 listen den u knw beta. Guy u don't kknw wat d higher institution would do 2 d least educated gal
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by braine(m): 8:46am On Oct 02, 2015
misspicy:

It only takes time,say lik a year or 6 months,reason its not good to rush into marriage,af courtship of like 6 months or more...

You get to see d real person with time no matter d pretence

Exactly. It is well. I hope I find one I'll be able to cope with soon.

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