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Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Empredboy(m): 8:00am On Oct 02, 2015 |
ksbusari:what do u have to explain? I was in the same situation 5yrs ago. My ex was or maybe still a Banker while my wife then she was my street sister was a school cert holder. Now my wife is in her finals and managing the family business well both from school and when she is around. Guy my advice is u can upgrade a low class lady to ur taste but an expose girl can never be handled. The Bible says a nagging wife is like a poisonous snake. 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kolaororocketm: 8:02am On Oct 02, 2015 |
My man, my advance for you is dat, marry School cert girl, and upgrade her to degree,marry some one dat will give peace and make u happy in ur union home.... |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by linked: 8:02am On Oct 02, 2015 |
vizkiz:Oh so sorry... I usually dont quote people of you kind whose reasoning faculties are latent because I believe doing so dignifies them... Am so sorry for showing you love |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 8:04am On Oct 02, 2015 |
spongebob0006: iaccording to the topic! Beauty vs manners, you should know one is not pretty, but she's gat manners So you saying I should leave a successful girl who will make a dream home and go and marry one illegal liability just because "she might make it too" I am sorry, I love/think with my head not my heart |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Tee999: 8:05am On Oct 02, 2015 |
You're seeing the real side of your graduate and beautiful lady which might improve for the best but I tell you, the other girl being well behaved now might turn to something else in future which you may live to regret. Good luck. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by vizkiz: 8:07am On Oct 02, 2015 |
linked: boo hoo...take your love and sholve it up your ass. Btw, goodluck in your marriage with a house help |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by sdm4christ: 8:08am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Both are important. Seek the face of God in prayers. My advice. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by misspicy(f): 8:09am On Oct 02, 2015 |
braine:You are a wise man sir tido77 hope u read this one, Am a lady n i know we pretend alot.decode ur ladies ursef,try to see d one pretending. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by femi4: 8:10am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Manners pls, that's what ll keep the marriage intact |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by misspicy(f): 8:13am On Oct 02, 2015 |
femi4:I guess you will feed on manners right,wen u r financially down,d manners will.support ur marriage,mr man please think with ur brain not ur d!ck,Nigerian economy no sabi manners na money dey sustain marriage this days |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 8:15am On Oct 02, 2015 |
DrGroove: Well said! |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by macho44(m): 8:16am On Oct 02, 2015 |
If u ask me, na who I go ask? |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by butanep(m): 8:18am On Oct 02, 2015 |
ksbusari:Is he marrying for people or himself |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by femi4: 8:19am On Oct 02, 2015 |
misspicy:Its obvious you lack manners. From the way they type, you shall know them. Just like the good book said: The most successful ones are not always educated. OR The educated are not always successful. Madam, education can only take you to the top, but manners keep you there. By the way, I ve seen many jobless educated people roaming about without job You can be educated and still be poor! If money do sustain marriages, how come we have many wealthy broken homes? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by dapsonlou(m): 8:20am On Oct 02, 2015 |
tido77: My Guy sounds like you are Confused, listen you can not marry someone that's not educated because she cook n clean, you can always get a house keeper for that. Your other options is pay attention to the why your educated girl friend treat people around her, because done the line when you get use to each other in marriage that's how she will be treating you. You can take your time and look for an Educated girl with Good homely personality that you like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by jelal007(m): 8:21am On Oct 02, 2015 |
tido77:I think elantracey has a point. U lack manners,yet u want a girl that's got it all. U want my opinion? Marry both of them. Shoroniyen. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by macho44(m): 8:21am On Oct 02, 2015 |
If u ask me! na who I go ask? |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by mybad: 8:24am On Oct 02, 2015 |
I feel you OP. The challenge can be analysed this way:- (1) Both are women. Literate or not, they eventually will act same way in the end. (2) The school certificate lady looks like a good candidate in the interim but after being upgraded she'll start seeing your flaws or looking for attributes that are missing in you. (3) The graduate may be efficient as a helper now with a job and can help with educating your kids. They are however lazy, you'll end up doing all the chores. 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by butanep(m): 8:25am On Oct 02, 2015 |
missdebs: I love your comments. Very true. I remember a girl I used to ignore longtime ago. I later changed location due to NYSC. After 2yrs I visited the area, the lady has turn to a beautiful hot classy chick. For my mind, jennifer has all this endowment, I didn't see it. I was now the one chasing after her. Time & money can be so vital in upgrading ones appearance. 1 Like |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by spongebob0006(f): 8:28am On Oct 02, 2015 |
vizkiz: heart thinker! Pele o....e sa se suuru o....aye o ribe.....all dat glitterz is not gold o....marriage is a skul of no return.....pray abt it......u can Neva go wrong wt God as ur master planner sha |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by mikaael(m): 8:30am On Oct 02, 2015 |
ADULTBASE:U wicked o |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Missonas(f): 8:31am On Oct 02, 2015 |
hope4nigeria:A MAAAAD IDIOOOOTS indeed! hahahaha |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by castel428: 8:32am On Oct 02, 2015 |
dnt let ur mind be clouded coz the other gal's so called gud manners.u shld ask urslf whether the virtue she display is inborn or just window dressing,forced out of low self esteem inorder to please u who is high abv her in education.the graduate gal may jst being herself to u cz she feels she has nothng to prove,as in she is beautiful,educated,u stil expect gud manners?come on man thats a rare combination,only very few ladies out there have such qualities,(i thnk only my babe,a beautiful,1st class(4.8cgpa)graduate of ind.chemistry,and very very gud mannered).what am i trying to say?u cnt have it all,wl advice u go 4 d graduate,u ar better of with her,the odds favours her,she has 2/3 of qualities while the other has 1/3.i bet that if the latter is even beautiful,lets leave being a graduate,dat she may not be that gud mannerd and humble.fact:beautiful and/or intelligent(highly educated)gals ar most times arrogant.so make ur choice.wish u well. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by braine(m): 8:34am On Oct 02, 2015 |
misspicy: Its hard to decode the pretence o; when everything looks good with the "good girl" behaviour, and it can be hard to let go. I'm speaking from experience. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by sucess001(m): 8:39am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Marry the one with bigger boobs and ass... Thank me later |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by sholay2011(m): 8:40am On Oct 02, 2015 |
hope4nigeria:Be civil please. I believe you are not from yaba left. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by kengodson: 8:40am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Beauty will never last,manners does,choose wisely |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by sirwilly1(m): 8:43am On Oct 02, 2015 |
All of una harsh o. So the less educated no get hope again for Naija, abi? Bros check the one wey go give you happy ending. If you no dey satisfied, come our house. I'm still single o. |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by misspicy(f): 8:44am On Oct 02, 2015 |
braine:It only takes time,say lik a year or 6 months,reason its not good to rush into marriage,af courtship of like 6 months or more... You get to see d real person with time no matter d pretence |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by DoTheNeedful: 8:45am On Oct 02, 2015 |
Cameleon72: Just checked your profile picture and i can confidently tell you that you dont look promiscuous at all. I wont be surprised if you are a virgin |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by Nobody: 8:45am On Oct 02, 2015 |
With the kind of threads that Make front page on this marriage issue this days confuses me on what marriage is all about. Op I guess u hve to answer the question what marriage is all about for u: Is it about dominance or about partnership? Sins we now grade manners wit greeting wit bended knee and cleaning up I so wonder what the coming generation would term manners as maybe it with who ties wrapper best. Hmmm if ur idea of manners is such den come 2 some tribes dat greet u for everything and stl av the highest number of irresponsible men and women then u would know what manners is about. NB: you have a good rapport wit the educated babe talk 2 her if she refuses 2 listen den u knw beta. Guy u don't kknw wat d higher institution would do 2 d least educated gal |
Re: Beauty Vs Manners, Who Should I Marry? by braine(m): 8:46am On Oct 02, 2015 |
misspicy: Exactly. It is well. I hope I find one I'll be able to cope with soon. |
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