datYoyo2000:
I met this girl in January nd we started dating in march. I've been into the game business but when I met her I decided to forego the gaming stuff nd stick with her. The relationship from March was cool, it was normal nd I'm loving her like Madt. But today she came over nd told me we need take break dat she dont knw where d relationship is going nd dat she's not getting younger. Mind u, she jst turned 24th last month nd am 27, I'm working but d pay is not too gud nd I don't want to rush into anything like marriage seeing what my mum went tru, I don't want my woman to go tru d suffering my mum went tru.

Is dis girl being impatient? Cos she wants marriage

dharay99:

grea† one 0p,
av yhu †ried explaininq ds ²her,
I mean ur reasons.

I guess yhu should si† her down calmly
& explain all dez †o her & if she is s†ill sayin dsame †in,
Niqqur plz qive her a s†raiqh† RED CARD.!

tobimillar:
Gbagaun!! Gbagaun!!!!! Gbagaun!!!! Break time!!!!!

Break time is the perfect time to rest, think and refocus...be grateful for the break. not everybody get fortunate like you

McCarlito:
C'mon OP: u're still 27.... Don't forget Life begins at 40

Flashh:
Don't let any girl rush you into marriage so that you won't rush out.

If a girl start telling you "she don't know where the relationship is heading to".

She's indirectly telling you to be prepared for marriage or else she will go in for a guy who's ready.

KiidaACE:
Oga leave her joor,,,
if she doesn't wanna wait for u to be established first be4 marriage,then you let her be.
You'll surely meet the one for you sometime,someday...iyee!

PunkyVeer:
She's crazy, it's too early. Doesn't she know your current situation? After she'll be complaining about a "fullstop ring"

Lol, the wedding photo of a couple that had slices of bread as a wedding cake just popped into my mind. That's what happens when you can't slow your roll & rush into things you can't afford- you get wedding bread & a ring from a kid's lucky/party packet. Ha!

datYoyo2000:


That's right bro... my uncle told me that a long time ago.

0luwatope:
I love break time, especially in my primary school days.... *now serious* OP try and work on something that will benefit you and your future wife, that bitch is looking for Mr money spender and its obvious nothing can convince her, let her continue searching for the rich niqqa until she is 35. #YOLO

datYoyo2000:


God bless u bro. Future first.

Flashh:
Don't let any girl rush you into marriage so that you won't rush out.

If a girl start telling you "she don't know where the relationship is heading to".

She's indirectly telling you to be prepared for marriage or else she will go in for a guy who's ready.

ivyT:



am sincerely asking_'is it a bad thing for her wanting marriage?

Nothing "bad" if a girl is asking for marriage.

But everything is "bad" when a girl is trying to force a guy into marriage when he is not ready, based on his very low financial status.

Shey you go dash the (op) moni? The guy needs money to settle down.

halfrica:
prison break
Break even
Op b happy
U dodged a bullet if u had married her na so she go talk say make una break after 12kids

ivyT:



am sincerely asking_'is it a bad thing for her wanting marriage?

Richiy:
She is simply trying to tell you she feels like talking about the future of the relationship. Tell her exactly what you have in mind for her. And let her respond from there.

andysnoopy:
Simple truth? She wanted the break because somebody has promised her marriage or she has been betrothed to another nigga. A woman that is desperate for marriage won't quit a relationship that is serious for anything in the world.