This friend need ur advice.
In 2012, I was transferred to ibadan. I have lots of girlfriends in lagos and don't want to date any new girl in
ibadan, so me and my friend that was transferred to ibadan
together became regulars at a brothel. Me and my friend had
just 2 customers we
patronize. 6 months later (early 2013) I was transferred back
to Lagos. After I left, I do invite one of the
girls to Lagos because she is too good in bed till I lost her contact
when my phone got lost (December 2013).
We all travelled home due to sallah celebration. I was surprised when I saw my younger brother come with the prostitute in ibadan and introduced her to me as his fiancee. I just stood there not
knowing what to do because I was expecting the girl to feel somehow and but she didn't even show
any fear. Throughout the day She was everywhere cooking and joking with everybody around
there. I thought she was pretending not to know me but I didn't
confront her, so I asked for some of her pix from my brother
and sent it to that my friend if he knows the girl and he was quick
to tell me that's the girl I do sex in ibadan. But when I told him of
the relationship between my brother
and the girl, he told me to tell our parents and my brother so they can cancel the
relationship that the girl isn't worth it. Now am confused, I
don't know if the girl is pretending or she
doesn't recognize me anymore because of her numerous customers. I don't know if I should tell my brother or just keep quiet. Advice me pls.

Talk to ur brother first if he knows everything abt his gf...if he don't then u can show him some proofs to prove...but if still he insist to marry tat girl,then it's none of ur biznez..but never confront that girl in front of ur brother,let them talk instead and let them settle their differences & abt the parents for sure they will be disappointed abt it if this is all true...but as most ppol say, Love conquers everything

You see one thing with guys..
when you were bleeping her she worth that one abi?
now you want to obstruct her blessings, do you know if it might change her life.
it's naht fair man.
nobody is a saint, you better stand out!!!

what is wrong with you?

just allow the guy enjoy his time with her.

don't be a killjoy and an amebo.

u know how many people don sleep with ur own babe?.

Let d sleeping dog lie. D fact dt there's 'was' is enough & of course indicates dt she's no longer ur sex mate. She might have changed, dont just spoil whatever dt exists between dem instead tell ur Bro to b careful & he should look very well before he leeps.

She might have turned to a new leaf. A man can make a prostitute to become a responsible girl.

Op, we av read dis ur story b4 na...how many tyms did dis stuff happen??

Tell your brother. Don't keep it from him. If he decides to go ahead, then it is okay.
If anything should go wrong in their relationship, your brother will blame you for not tell him and he will be angry at you.

Prostitute, you say? What is the evidence that she has changed? What if she met some of her old customers and still services them? What if she infects your brother with diseases? Pls, don't joke with this, so that he will know the next line of action to take. The issue will continue to weigh on your mind that you are keeping a vital secret from him.

U never can tell she might av changed and forgot her past which includes u anyway....I will say u should observe things a lil more b4 u tell ur brother.

You have no moral standing to condemn the girl. Prostitution is a 2 way contact - you and her! You prostituted her too!

It will also be unfair to your brother to deny him information about such a vital history of his future wife. Who tells him first is the prerogative of you/her. But your brother surely has a right to know.

Forget that question of whether the girl doesn't recognise you anymore. You need plenty acting skills to succeed as a prostitute. She seems to have perfected this act on you. This must also be considered if you will be the first to inform your brother. She might just go all dramatic on the issue, claiming that persona you accuse her of never was her.

And btw sir, stop prostitution.

Nna broz!!!!! Ashi!!!!! For 6 months?
Dz 1 is strong

daniel9202:
You see one thing with guys..
when you were bleeping her she worth that one abi?
now you want to obstruct her blessings, do you know if it might change her life.
it's naht fair man.
nobody is a saint, you better stand out!!!

put urself in d xame shoe. Itz nt gonna be a pleasant thing 2 see dt d lady u've straff many times is gonna b ur bro's fiancee. She'll be filthy in his eyes nd d memory will still b dia.

Sunexy:
Op, we av read dis ur story b4 na...how many tyms did dis stuff happen??

pls read d beginning again.

You went to a brothel and picked a prostitute,and have been having s*x with her because she was good at it than some others,you are a damn prostitute too,and I think if no man deserves the babe,you are also not in anyway better than her,you sleep with different girls and tag them prostitutes,and different girls sleep with U too so tag urself a prostitute,...better overlook that stuff and act like you never knew her,your brother looks happy with her and that's all that matters......

Oga tell your brother, it will be difficult to tell your parents because they will be disappointed that you have been sleeping with prostitutes, but if you are close to your dad, you can let him in on the secret, after all men will be men , he mite have had such sexcapades too when he was younger. But you must tell your kid brother!

If it were ur older bro,it myt be easier to talk to him,but ur kid bro? No way!. The girl in question myt av changed, mayb ur bro met her d same way nd they connected in ways deeper than u nd her did and she changed because of him.

The truth is that you people " you & your brother" are possessed by the spirit of prostitution. I

Again, seek for family deliverance especially for you and your brother, & the girl.

After that take to your your about your past life with the lady, then allow him to make HIS DECISION.


Respect that decision once is made, & do not judge the girl because you are not better than her.

Thanks

Am I the only one wondering if your future wife is somewhere in Ijebu-ode working in a brothel?


We as human have our past and failures. But the earlier we learn to face and redeem ourselves from its bond the better.

I sincerely think you should talk to your brother who am sure will think your against him getting married before you, that's why you think his fiancee is a prostitute.

Sincerely your only evidence is the virtual confirmation of your partner in crime.

The accused is hereby discharged and acquitted.

.

@lajose78 okay she was a prostitute and so what?
That woman you will marry do you know her own history? As long as u did not marry a virgin,must Nigerian women af multiple sex partners before marriage.....tho prostitution is not good buh shey na u holy pass?

Please let them be,if she has not changed your bro will find out himsef