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Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 23, 2015
johnydon22:


You could say many not most. . . Am sure they are some people who think Anunnakis genetically engineered humans (And this lot includes both theists, atheists, pantheists and what have you)





This could be ok...




Exactly the point. . . According to evolution humans and monkeys come under one umbrella which is Primates.

this doesn't mean evolution asserts humans are monkeys or monkeys are humans ..Means they are genetically cousins like all forms of life in the planet are also related though some nearer than others.
That's the same reason i used the adjective ADVANCED and the word breed to define human type of monkey.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by johnydon22(m): 12:02pm On Oct 23, 2015
aaronson:
That's the same reason i used the adjective ADVANCED and the word breed to define human type of monkey.


I think advanced primates is the better word... there is no way monkey should have entered into it...
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 12:08pm On Oct 23, 2015
johnydon22:


I think advanced primates is the better word... there is no way monkey should have entered into it...
Got that but, be it monkey or primate....As long as I used the word advanced, its inconsequential to speak further of it because logically, they both could be traced to the same descent just some split in the family tree.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by johnydon22(m): 12:12pm On Oct 23, 2015
aaronson:
Got that but, be it monkey or primate....As long as I used the word advanced, its inconsequential to speak further of it because logically, they both could be traced to the same descent just some split in the family tree.


Exactly the point, since they have split from the same descent they are now basically two different species... Only one umbrella holds them and the correct word still is PRIMATES.

Using monkey means you can still use Humans to classify other primates or use Gorilla to classify monkeys.

These are simply different species and using the name of another to classify another because you put ADVANCED doesn't make sense of it at all..
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:14pm On Oct 23, 2015
CoolUsername:
OP, you've raised some valid points but there's one that can readily be remedied. You don't have to be a professor to some of these things but it takes extra effort because these things are glossed over in primary and secondary school.

At least we always have google. Google the following keywords on evolution: artificial selection, convergent evolution with marsupials, the laryngeal nerve, chromosone 2, ring species, endogenous retrovirus, the lungfish, archaeopteryx.

For a detailed comic strip on evolution follow this link:
darryl-cunningham..co.nz/2011/06/evolution.html?m=1

These keywords and the link were actually supplied by a female on a reddit forum.

You can google the big bang, formation of the milky way galaxy, our solar system, the earth and the moon.

Remember also that these links are not about atheism but are just about what is, real phenomena that brought us here today.

It is still advisable to remain in the closet about your beliefs. Enjoy the links smiley
thanks a lot
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:15pm On Oct 23, 2015
hpk:
that moral bankruptcy point is a really fragile one.
fragile but its rampant
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:16pm On Oct 23, 2015
aaronson:
Op spot on, Nice points you figured out.

It should also be noted that feminist theory of a lady been seen and not to heard applies to being atheist lady and only thing different is the lady ability to use her brain and still conform to the feminist culture in the Africa/Nigeria system.



If you are reading this, you an advanced breed of monkey(homo sapien), we atheists are just the first people to admit it and am proud of us.
grin
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 12:21pm On Oct 23, 2015
johnydon22:


Exactly the point, since they have split from the same descent they are now basically two different species... Only one umbrella holds them and the correct word still is PRIMATES.

Using monkey means you can still use Humans to classify other primates or use Gorilla to classify monkeys.

These are simply different species and using the name of another to classify another because you put ADVANCED doesn't make sense of it at all..
A dog is in the family tree of the wolf and fox but a dog is an ADVANCED breed because it has been domesticated to stay with human over time and serves as security purpose. But then again, the dog emanates from the same root as well as the fox.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by johnydon22(m): 12:50pm On Oct 23, 2015
aaronson:
A dog is in the family tree of the wolf and fox but a dog is an ADVANCED breed because it has been domesticated to stay with human over time and serves as security purpose. But then again, the dog emanates from the same root as well as the fox.


Yea they are COUSINS but that doesn't make a dog a fox... A dog is a dog and a fox is a fox.

You cannot classify a dog an advanced Fox or a fox and advanced dog... No rather you may classify one as an advanced breed of the canidae family.

Representing one specie with another is totally flawed...
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 1:08pm On Oct 23, 2015
johnydon22:


Yea they are COUSINS but that doesn't make a dog a fox... A dog is a dog and a fox is a fox.

You cannot classify a dog an advanced Fox or a fox and advanced dog... No rather you may classify one as an advanced breed of the canidae family.

Representing one specie with another is totally flawed...
Yes, I can't classify dog as advanced because its as primitive and wild as the fox, Isn't it? If yes is your answer, then where do they use fox for security purpose?

Not forgetting the fact that they both from the same canidea family but the dog takes the branch of canini and the fox Vulpini of the same family tree.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Antiparticle(m): 6:33am On Oct 24, 2015
Wow. That's crazy. He is indeed similar to Boko Haram.

So, since you now avoid discussing your disbelief, how do you respond if/when people ask you why you don't/didn't go to church? (Assuming you stopped going to church.)

Assuming you still go to church (for understandable reasons), how do you respond when people ask you questions like: "what did you like about the pastor's preaching today?" Do you ever catch yourself almost instinctively answer such questions truthfully but then reroute your answer?

How do you hold yourself back (from rebutting) when people talk about church and God all the time?
K9blunt:
i told him he's no different from the Muslim extremist called book haram, he stopped in his tracks then left
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 11:05am On Oct 26, 2015
Antiparticle:
Wow. That's crazy. He is indeed similar to Boko Haram.

So, since you now avoid discussing your disbelief, how do you respond if/when people ask you why you don't/didn't go to church? (Assuming you stopped going to church.)

Assuming you still go to church (for understandable reasons), how do you respond when people ask you questions like: "what did you like about the pastor's preaching today?" Do you ever catch yourself almost instinctively answer such questions truthfully but then reroute your answer?

How do you hold yourself back (from rebutting) when people talk about church and God all the time?
hello!
yes I do avoid it but I discuss it with my bff whom knows about my beliefs and personality. well, what I tell those people in the dark about me, I just tell them am too busy, or I fell ill or I just didn't feel like it. then if I feel like I can stay to listen to their sermons on the importance of going to church (mostly that happens with my uncles and aunties) then i tune off, but others i simply give them my body odor grin of no interest, then they rest their case.

hmn, whenever i go, of course i can, tell what i managed to get into my head, ( i usually listen to messages i agree with) then tell them in my words, am sometimes good with words.


i keep mum smiley mostly or conveniently answer "amen" or i get mischievous grin

mehn life is too short to bother about such people
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Antiparticle(m): 3:05am On Oct 27, 2015
Ok. Thanks so much for responding.
I, too, go to church sometimes (with friends for the social factor) but I only listen to messages I agree with, otherwise I just browse my phone or think about other things the whole time.

But when I don't go to church, I am totally unapologetic about it. However I have to avoid the issue with parents or family (thankfully I live far away) because it could cause a mini-civil war! I wonder how long this can stay concealed.

Also, I am curious to hear your story of how you arrived at disbelief. Here's mine. There's a much shorter personal analysis here.

Btw, I like your locks.

K9blunt:
hello!
yes I do avoid it but I discuss it with my bff whom knows about my beliefs and personality. well, what I tell those people in the dark about me, I just tell them am too busy, or I fell ill or I just didn't feel like it. then if I feel like I can stay to listen to their sermons on the importance of going to church (mostly that happens with my uncles and aunties) then i tune off, but others i simply give them my body odor grin of no interest, then they rest their case.

hmn, whenever i go, of course i can, tell what i managed to get into my head, ( i usually listen to messages i agree with) then tell them in my words, am sometimes good with words.

i keep mum smiley mostly or conveniently answer "amen" or i get mischievous grin

mehn life is too short to bother about such people
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by malvisguy212: 12:02pm On Oct 27, 2015
K9blunt:
fragile but its rampant
were did you become an atheist ? Nairaland or were ?
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 2:06pm On Nov 03, 2015
malvisguy212:
were did you become an atheist ? Nairaland or were ?
well its a bit complicated

but nairaland helped making up my mind
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 2:19pm On Nov 03, 2015
Antiparticle:
Ok. Thanks so much for responding.
I, too, go to church sometimes (with friends for the social factor) but I only listen to messages I agree with, otherwise I just browse my phone or think about other things the whole time.

But when I don't go to church, I am totally unapologetic about it. However I have to avoid the issue with parents or family (thankfully I live far away) because it could cause a mini-civil war! I wonder how long this can stay concealed.

Also, I am curious to hear your story of how you arrived at disbelief. Here's mine. There's a much shorter personal analysis here.

Btw, I like your locks.
hmn well

I was always asking myself questions (because if I do out loud I get the "never question god" or "pray for the holy spirit answer"wink
like why would god be happy with the idea of his children burning in hell for ever if they don't love him

and why must humans go through hardship to find him?

then my situation, I usually get the " pray hard! and god will answer" and "the people at my village" and grin "my landlord (whos late now, miss him so much) is using our progress to prolong his life"

"come to this church, come to that church"

I prayed and prayed and prayed, then I asked why am I suffering for what I don't know, is it my forefathers/mothers? did I push them to sin for me to bear the brunt of their mistakes?

its quite long and I remember replying a similar question but to cut it all short

I suddenly realized av been fooling myself by being lead by a book and bred idea of a god, because everything I prayed for, wished for, worked and prayed for never came to be, then when I was given a bible as a gift (instead of a phone angry) I decided to read and then just got more annoyed and convinced that its all flawed and then I broke out.

Now though things haven't really changed with me but I can and will strongly admit,

I feel lighter,
better in person
happier
and my moralistic views has increased instead of diminished
and most of all, I know apart from natures forces, me and only me, myself and I is responsible for my actions and whatever I do or don't do is my responsibility not a fairy tale that couldn't control its supposed first creation.



and thanks for the compliments * feeling fly* grin
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by UyiIredia(m): 2:48pm On Nov 03, 2015
K9blunt:
YES you've been wondering why it's only male atheist that are openly (some what) debating about religion and the absurdities behind them, but the females just keep quiet and prefer staying in the shadows

* fear - it takes guts to make a stand, guts to be different from the usual, imagine a lamb in the midst of tigers. that's scary. I was arguing with a suppose friend one day, and it got to a point when the friend saw he couldn't change my mind he made to beat me, but for shear luck. imagine being in the midst of your family who are so religious,, but when you say otherwise and as a lady, the lady can get bashed, not all of us are strong willed, get emotionally bullied into thinking we won't be able to get settled with a husband and family with such mindsets and etc...

* jobs - now not only ladies but guys too. I personally work in an organization that's religiously centered on, of course I have to lie about my atheistic beliefs, or I get fired, but I can't afford to lose my job in this country where its hard to get a job and I have responsibilities. Nigerian jobs usually ask if you're either Christian or muslim. boiko who is ready to answer "neither, am an atheist" or "agnostic" ? we know the answer is pretty obvious.

*intellectualism - most of us are not that intellectually sound to debate so we leave the arguments to the professors here grin

*moral bankruptcy - my experience with a guy I thought I liked, when I told him of my beliefs, he started talking dirty sexual stuffs and even worsen his stupidity by sending his privates snap shots of himself and he was the second of seven people with such attitudes. smh


Nigeria is a religious country and from the arguments I see here on the religious thread, most theist are ready to bokolize anybody that thinks outside the box. pastors are ready to preach violence (I have no evidence but if some pastors/MOG are drilling and burning children for witchcraft what will happen to you atheist, a part on the back?) so that their business of making easy and quick money won't be threatened. so for now we prefer staying in the closet until the time comes when the country can be free of bigotism which is in the nearest dreamland time
Interesting. I will catch up with u later.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by malvisguy212: 5:47pm On Nov 03, 2015
K9blunt:
well its a bit complicated

but nairaland helped making up my mind
why do you make a decision (if God exist or not) via a faceless forum? Do you know the people you are reading there post? If you want to be convinced, God does not exist, you have to do the research yourself.

I tell you the truth my sister, God is there, God exist, believe me, do not allowed the devil to manipulate you. Trust me when I say God exist. Come back home, come back to Christianity. Bible say remember your creator when you are young, or is it when you grow old and life is not pleasurable anymore that you will remember God? Thank you
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:20pm On Nov 04, 2015
malvisguy212:
why do you make a decision (if God exist or not) via a faceless forum? Do you know the people you are reading there post? If you want to be convinced, God does not exist, you have to do the research yourself.

I tell you the truth my sister, God is there, God exist, believe me, do not allowed the devil to manipulate you. Trust me when I say God exist. Come back home, come back to Christianity. Bible say remember your creator when you are young, or is it when you grow old and life is not pleasurable anymore that you will remember God? Thank you
Mr man, my decision is my own, nairaland never forced me but helped in enlightening me. one cna get his or her knowledge from unlikely places. av always had my doubts. when i said its complicated, do not assume for me, you don't know my story and can not decipher my life.

keep your preaching to yourself and the gullible people around, that nairaland helped does not mean i didn't do my research.

good day
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:20pm On Nov 04, 2015
UyiIredia:
Interesting. I will catch up with u later.
ok
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by malvisguy212: 2:48pm On Nov 04, 2015
K9blunt:
Mr man, my decision is my own, nairaland never forced me but helped in enlightening me. one cna get his or her knowledge from unlikely places. av always had my doubts. when i said its complicated, do not assume for me, you don't know my story and can not decipher my life.

keep your preaching to yourself and the gullible people around, that nairaland helped does not mean i didn't do my research.

good day
alright.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 4:48pm On Nov 11, 2015
Op I am interested in you... Not sexually/ romantically grin...

Following tho...
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by UyiIredia(m): 6:24pm On Nov 11, 2015
K9blunt:
YES you've been wondering why it's only male atheist that are openly (some what) debating about religion and the absurdities behind them, but the females just keep quiet and prefer staying in the shadows



Nigeria is a religious country and from the arguments I see here on the religious thread, most theist are ready to bokolize anybody that thinks outside the box. pastors are ready to preach violence (I have no evidence but if some pastors/MOG are drilling and burning children for witchcraft what will happen to you atheist, a part on the back?) so that their business of making easy and quick money won't be threatened. so for now we prefer staying in the closet until the time comes when the country can be free of bigotism which is in the nearest dreamland time
Yeah. Most theists but not all theists. I'm sorry for the wrongs done to you and I can't say it will bve better but you should stay strong. If atheists on Nairaland changed your mind by taking advantage of your doubts perhaps I may show you another way. First you'll have to come clean about your doubts and ask whatever questions are most important to you.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 10:39pm On Jan 06, 2016
UyiIredia:
Yeah. Most theists but not all theists. I'm sorry for the wrongs done to you and I can't say it will bve better but you should stay strong. If atheists on Nairaland changed your mind by taking advantage of your doubts perhaps I may show you another way. First you'll have to come clean about your doubts and ask whatever questions are most important to you.
Thanks but I don't have questions. Its just plain clear to me. There's no god simple.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by lepasharon(f): 10:59pm On Sep 26, 2016
It is actually illegal to ask if someone is Muslim or Christian for a job application. It is a divisive question..you are not even supposed to ask someones age. But anything goes in that zoo
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by EyeHateGod: 12:57am On Sep 27, 2016
lepasharon:
It is actually illegal to ask if someone is Muslim or Christian for a job application. It is a divisive question..you are not even supposed to ask someones age. But anything goes in that zoo
grin shebi u say u no be Atheist but Secular? Watin u day fear? U can just feel anything na But as an Atheist u can execpt u just wanna be dishonest with yourself
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by EyeHateGod: 1:02am On Sep 27, 2016
K9blunt:

* jobs - now not only ladies but guys too. I personally work in an organization that's religiously centered on, of course I have to lie about my atheistic beliefs, or I get fired, but I can't afford to lose my job in this country where its hard to get a job and I have responsibilities. Nigerian jobs usually ask if you're either Christian or muslim. boiko who is ready to answer "neither, am an atheist" or "agnostic" ? we know the answer is pretty obvious.
And Hypocrite like Winner01 would come out to say 2billion people are being persecuted can u see how dumb that sound

Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by winner01(m): 1:07am On Sep 27, 2016
EyeHateGod:
And Hypocrite like Winner01 would come out to say 2billion people are being persecuted can u see how dumb that sound
Why in God's name would you wear a shirt with the inscription.

"Football is bullshit"

"Education is senseless"
or
"I dont believe in God"

Nobody cares about your stupidity.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by EyeHateGod: 1:17am On Sep 27, 2016
winner01:
Why in God's name would you wear a shirt with the inscription.

"Football is bullshit"

"Education is senseless"
or
"I dont believe in God"

Nobody cares about your stupidity.
U see y i called u A hypocrite? Why on Earth do i see people Wearing The lord choosen Shirt?
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by winner01(m): 1:24am On Sep 27, 2016
EyeHateGod:
U see y i called u A hypocrite? Why on Earth do i see people Wearing The lord choosen Shirt?
Atheism is not a thing. The Lords chosen is a thing. People will think you are mad.

Can you wear " Football is for delusional people" for a day. People will thing you are mad.

You can wear science, logic, rational etc

If you wear your moniker "IhateGod", ol'boy, na psychiatric home oo.
Cos nobody cares.
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by EyeHateGod: 1:29am On Sep 27, 2016
winner01:
Atheism is not a thing. The Lords chosen is a thing. People will think you are mad.

Can you wear " Football is for delusional people" for a day. People will thing you are mad.

You can wear science, logic, rational etc

1. If you wear your moniker "IhateGod", ol'boy, na psychiatric home oo.
2 Cos nobody cares
.
Do u see how this two sentences contradict each other and have u ever hear of the word double standard b4?
Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by winner01(m): 1:31am On Sep 27, 2016
EyeHateGod:
Do u see how this two sentences contradict each other and have u ever hear of the word double standard b4?
If you saw someone wear "I hate my mother", what wld u do?
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