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| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 23, 2015 |
johnydon22:That's the same reason i used the adjective ADVANCED and the word breed to define human type of monkey. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by johnydon22(m): 12:02pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
aaronson: I think advanced primates is the better word... there is no way monkey should have entered into it... |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 12:08pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
johnydon22:Got that but, be it monkey or primate....As long as I used the word advanced, its inconsequential to speak further of it because logically, they both could be traced to the same descent just some split in the family tree. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by johnydon22(m): 12:12pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
aaronson: Exactly the point, since they have split from the same descent they are now basically two different species... Only one umbrella holds them and the correct word still is PRIMATES. Using monkey means you can still use Humans to classify other primates or use Gorilla to classify monkeys. These are simply different species and using the name of another to classify another because you put ADVANCED doesn't make sense of it at all.. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:14pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
CoolUsername:thanks a lot |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:15pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
hpk:fragile but its rampant |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:16pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
aaronson: ![]() |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 12:21pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
johnydon22:A dog is in the family tree of the wolf and fox but a dog is an ADVANCED breed because it has been domesticated to stay with human over time and serves as security purpose. But then again, the dog emanates from the same root as well as the fox. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by johnydon22(m): 12:50pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
aaronson: Yea they are COUSINS but that doesn't make a dog a fox... A dog is a dog and a fox is a fox. You cannot classify a dog an advanced Fox or a fox and advanced dog... No rather you may classify one as an advanced breed of the canidae family. Representing one specie with another is totally flawed... |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 1:08pm On Oct 23, 2015 |
johnydon22:Yes, I can't classify dog as advanced because its as primitive and wild as the fox, Isn't it? If yes is your answer, then where do they use fox for security purpose? Not forgetting the fact that they both from the same canidea family but the dog takes the branch of canini and the fox Vulpini of the same family tree. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Antiparticle(m): 6:33am On Oct 24, 2015 |
Wow. That's crazy. He is indeed similar to Boko Haram. So, since you now avoid discussing your disbelief, how do you respond if/when people ask you why you don't/didn't go to church? (Assuming you stopped going to church.) Assuming you still go to church (for understandable reasons), how do you respond when people ask you questions like: "what did you like about the pastor's preaching today?" Do you ever catch yourself almost instinctively answer such questions truthfully but then reroute your answer? How do you hold yourself back (from rebutting) when people talk about church and God all the time? K9blunt: |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 11:05am On Oct 26, 2015 |
Antiparticle:hello! yes I do avoid it but I discuss it with my bff whom knows about my beliefs and personality. well, what I tell those people in the dark about me, I just tell them am too busy, or I fell ill or I just didn't feel like it. then if I feel like I can stay to listen to their sermons on the importance of going to church (mostly that happens with my uncles and aunties) then i tune off, but others i simply give them my body odor of no interest, then they rest their case.hmn, whenever i go, of course i can, tell what i managed to get into my head, ( i usually listen to messages i agree with) then tell them in my words, am sometimes good with words. i keep mum mostly or conveniently answer "amen" or i get mischievous ![]() mehn life is too short to bother about such people |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Antiparticle(m): 3:05am On Oct 27, 2015 |
Ok. Thanks so much for responding. I, too, go to church sometimes (with friends for the social factor) but I only listen to messages I agree with, otherwise I just browse my phone or think about other things the whole time. But when I don't go to church, I am totally unapologetic about it. However I have to avoid the issue with parents or family (thankfully I live far away) because it could cause a mini-civil war! I wonder how long this can stay concealed. Also, I am curious to hear your story of how you arrived at disbelief. Here's mine. There's a much shorter personal analysis here. Btw, I like your locks. K9blunt: |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by malvisguy212: 12:02pm On Oct 27, 2015 |
K9blunt:were did you become an atheist ? Nairaland or were ? |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 2:06pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
malvisguy212:well its a bit complicated but nairaland helped making up my mind |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 2:19pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
Antiparticle:hmn well I was always asking myself questions (because if I do out loud I get the "never question god" or "pray for the holy spirit answer" like why would god be happy with the idea of his children burning in hell for ever if they don't love him and why must humans go through hardship to find him? then my situation, I usually get the " pray hard! and god will answer" and "the people at my village" and "my landlord (whos late now, miss him so much) is using our progress to prolong his life""come to this church, come to that church" I prayed and prayed and prayed, then I asked why am I suffering for what I don't know, is it my forefathers/mothers? did I push them to sin for me to bear the brunt of their mistakes? its quite long and I remember replying a similar question but to cut it all short I suddenly realized av been fooling myself by being lead by a book and bred idea of a god, because everything I prayed for, wished for, worked and prayed for never came to be, then when I was given a bible as a gift (instead of a phone ) I decided to read and then just got more annoyed and convinced that its all flawed and then I broke out.Now though things haven't really changed with me but I can and will strongly admit, I feel lighter, better in person happier and my moralistic views has increased instead of diminished and most of all, I know apart from natures forces, me and only me, myself and I is responsible for my actions and whatever I do or don't do is my responsibility not a fairy tale that couldn't control its supposed first creation. and thanks for the compliments * feeling fly* ![]() |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by UyiIredia(m): 2:48pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
K9blunt:Interesting. I will catch up with u later. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by malvisguy212: 5:47pm On Nov 03, 2015 |
K9blunt:why do you make a decision (if God exist or not) via a faceless forum? Do you know the people you are reading there post? If you want to be convinced, God does not exist, you have to do the research yourself. I tell you the truth my sister, God is there, God exist, believe me, do not allowed the devil to manipulate you. Trust me when I say God exist. Come back home, come back to Christianity. Bible say remember your creator when you are young, or is it when you grow old and life is not pleasurable anymore that you will remember God? Thank you |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:20pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
malvisguy212:Mr man, my decision is my own, nairaland never forced me but helped in enlightening me. one cna get his or her knowledge from unlikely places. av always had my doubts. when i said its complicated, do not assume for me, you don't know my story and can not decipher my life. keep your preaching to yourself and the gullible people around, that nairaland helped does not mean i didn't do my research. good day |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 12:20pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
UyiIredia:ok |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by malvisguy212: 2:48pm On Nov 04, 2015 |
K9blunt:alright. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by Nobody: 4:48pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
Op I am interested in you... Not sexually/ romantically ...Following tho... |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by UyiIredia(m): 6:24pm On Nov 11, 2015 |
K9blunt:Yeah. Most theists but not all theists. I'm sorry for the wrongs done to you and I can't say it will bve better but you should stay strong. If atheists on Nairaland changed your mind by taking advantage of your doubts perhaps I may show you another way. First you'll have to come clean about your doubts and ask whatever questions are most important to you. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by K9blunt(op): 10:39pm On Jan 06, 2016 |
UyiIredia:Thanks but I don't have questions. Its just plain clear to me. There's no god simple. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by lepasharon(f): 10:59pm On Sep 26, 2016 |
It is actually illegal to ask if someone is Muslim or Christian for a job application. It is a divisive question..you are not even supposed to ask someones age. But anything goes in that zoo |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by EyeHateGod: 12:57am On Sep 27, 2016 |
lepasharon: shebi u say u no be Atheist but Secular? Watin u day fear? U can just feel anything na But as an Atheist u can execpt u just wanna be dishonest with yourself |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by EyeHateGod: 1:02am On Sep 27, 2016 |
K9blunt:And Hypocrite like Winner01 would come out to say 2billion people are being persecuted can u see how dumb that sound
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| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by winner01(m): 1:07am On Sep 27, 2016 |
EyeHateGod:Why in God's name would you wear a shirt with the inscription. "Football is bullshit" "Education is senseless" or "I dont believe in God" Nobody cares about your stupidity. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by EyeHateGod: 1:17am On Sep 27, 2016 |
winner01:U see y i called u A hypocrite? Why on Earth do i see people Wearing The lord choosen Shirt? |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by winner01(m): 1:24am On Sep 27, 2016 |
EyeHateGod:Atheism is not a thing. The Lords chosen is a thing. People will think you are mad. Can you wear " Football is for delusional people" for a day. People will thing you are mad. You can wear science, logic, rational etc If you wear your moniker "IhateGod", ol'boy, na psychiatric home oo. Cos nobody cares. |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by EyeHateGod: 1:29am On Sep 27, 2016 |
winner01:Do u see how this two sentences contradict each other and have u ever hear of the word double standard b4? |
| Re: Reasons We Female Atheist Don't Come Out by winner01(m): 1:31am On Sep 27, 2016 |
EyeHateGod:If you saw someone wear "I hate my mother", what wld u do? |
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) I decided to read and then just got more annoyed and convinced that its all flawed and then I broke out.