@halexito,my broda I jus live my life o. I do hav issues(trust me,a lot of down moments too) but will I come and pile it on someone's head here?No! I try to spread my happiness here too,u knw sprinkle d joy round. I cnt pick holes or fight someone or create trouble for no reason. Na matured minds we all be here jare. If my happiness radiates arnd and is able to affect pple here,by all means,I'll keep up the good work.
@Toks2008,o da o,e sha ma ko agidi b'ori bi fan emeka,lol(tribute to d late Gbenga adeboye in one of his funny recordings) eyin na e ma ni suuru ni igba mi jo,se gbo gbo oro oun ni e ma ma dahun ni?
@ddshow,how u dear,pls I like to knw hear dat story#suspense mode#lol
@klassik,dis my sweetheart,you hav gone quiet o,come and mak a post wen u see dis,amd waiting.
@torqque7,na ur hand e dey o. I don say mak u com see my "baba" na. Delay is dangerful o,lol! If person snatch me,u beta be ready to buy aso ebi for d wedding and you must attend,lol!
And then for those of us in Lag,esp working on d island,I specifically pray for you all,may God seal come upon you,exempting you from all evils. Spate of traffic robberis is increasing. Just got an info abt robberies arnd iyana oworo,3rd mainland bridge. I cover us with the blood of Jesus,we shall not lose our lives neither our valuables to dis dis daredevil men of the underworld,can I get an Amen!
Hav a splendid and fantabulous day(phew dat was an epistel sha,lol)

halexito:

Hmm.. Always so cheerful.
What is the secret, sweet?

melish...u be iron. lady oo u can argue wella, e go fit both of us oo

I am over 30. Glad to join this thread

halexito:

Let us meet you first, no ghost mode here, please.
Let's start with knowing your age............

That's why I asked if I can come in, am 27, not up to 30 yet

udysweet:
@halexito,my broda I jus live my life o. I do hav issues(trust me,a lot of down moments too) but will I come and pile it on someone's head here?No! I try to spread my happiness here too,u knw sprinkle d joy round. I cnt pick holes or fight someone or create trouble for no reason. Na matured minds we all be here jare. If my happiness radiates arnd and is able to affect pple here,by all means,I'll keep up the good work.
@Toks2008,o da o,e sha ma ko agidi b'ori bi fan emeka,lol(tribute to d late Gbenga adeboye in one of his funny recordings) eyin na e ma ni suuru ni igba mi jo,se gbo gbo oro oun ni e ma ma dahun ni?
@ddshow,how u dear,pls I like to knw hear dat story#suspense mode#lol
@klassik,dis my sweetheart,you hav gone quiet o,come and mak a post wen u see dis,amd waiting.
@torqque7,na ur hand e dey o. I don say mak u com see my "baba" na. Delay is dangerful o,lol! If person snatch me,u beta be ready to buy aso ebi for d wedding and you must attend,lol!
And then for those of us in Lag,esp working on d island,I specifically pray for you all,may God seal come upon you,exempting you from all evils. Spate of traffic robberis is increasing. Just got an info abt robberies arnd iyana oworo,3rd mainland bridge. I cover us with the blood of Jesus,we shall not lose our lives neither our valuables to dis dis daredevil men of the underworld,can I get an Amen!
Hav a splendid and fantabulous day(phew dat was an epistel sha,lol)

Hmmm as innocuous as the embolden may sound i think i would like to drop some notes regarding it.

My school of taught have never ever seen ladies as second best or intellectually dumb but i'm always put aback when i hear guys use some derogatory remarks on women and most times when a guy and a lady starts a discussion that seem to be like a debate you hear guys say "se oro obinrin ni o ka kun" meaning "dont tell me you are regarding a lady's words"

This becomes quite worrisome and a total deviation from my social and intellectual stand-view because i will be the last person to waive a lady aside and see them as intellectually dumb hence must be ignored especially in areas of intellectual discussion.

I believe that respecting people's opinion no matter how dumb it is and discussing issues to a logical conclusion is the opium of a developing mind so if we men generally see ladies as second class in areas of intellectual discussion and just ignore them then it will be a terrible stigma on ladies and will never put them in their right place.

Nevertheless i have realized that most ladies get overly sensitive,defensive,abusive and sarcastic rather than discuss issues intelligently and im beginning to think in the direction of these men who believe its a waste of time having intelligent discussions with the female folk and this indeed is a sad situation.

Akuko uwa

Just saw this pics lol...how time flies..this was 18yrs ago..kaai i was still innocent then..i nevr spoil..

udysweet:
@halexito,my broda I jus live my life o. I do hav issues(trust me,a lot of down moments too) but will I come and pile it on someone's head here?No! I try to spread my happiness here too,u knw sprinkle d joy round. I cnt pick holes or fight someone or create trouble for no reason. Na matured minds we all be here jare. If my happiness radiates arnd and is able to affect pple here,by all means,I'll keep up the good work.
@Toks2008,o da o,e sha ma ko agidi b'ori bi fan emeka,lol(tribute to d late Gbenga adeboye in one of his funny recordings) eyin na e ma ni suuru ni igba mi jo,se gbo gbo oro oun ni e ma ma dahun ni?
@ddshow,how u dear,pls I like to knw hear dat story#suspense mode#lol
@klassik,dis my sweetheart,you hav gone quiet o,come and mak a post wen u see dis,amd waiting.
@torqque7,na ur hand e dey o. I don say mak u com see my "baba" na. Delay is dangerful o,lol! If person snatch me,u beta be ready to buy aso ebi for d wedding and you must attend,lol!
And then for those of us in Lag,esp working on d island,I specifically pray for you all,may God seal come upon you,exempting you from all evils. Spate of traffic robberis is increasing. Just got an info abt robberies arnd iyana oworo,3rd mainland bridge. I cover us with the blood of Jesus,we shall not lose our lives neither our valuables to dis dis daredevil men of the underworld,can I get an Amen!
Hav a splendid and fantabulous day(phew dat was an epistel sha,lol)

Haba sweetheart.. you are already breaking my heart when I have not come to steal u yet..hmm maybe I should pally with your younger brother so that he will protect my interest and chase all those suspicious snatchers.. hhmm a beg no waka anyhow go where them the rob o..u be like better Aje way go begin cry before them even shout or slap u..plss we don't want damaged goods so take care o,away from too much sun too..howz your day miss happy sunshine?

Halos Fam!

Wataguan?.....It's been relatively placid here today. Hope we're all good.

Udysweet, i'm very well! How are you and how's your day been.

trublvr:
I am over 30. Glad to join this thread

Your are most welcome. Feel free to join the conversation.

Lol@damaged goods! God no go bring dem and me face to face,never has and never will in Jesus name,Amen.
I don tell u o,jus dey delay der. My broda na soja,navy abi airforce or men in black?u go beta begin pay am salary niyen(he evn kuku dey job hunt since he come bak frm nysc for July)e gud sef.Do hav a splendid day*hugs*

torqque7:

Haba sweetheart.. you are already breaking my heart when I have not come to steal u yet..hmm maybe I should pally with your younger brother so that he will protect my interest and chase all those suspicious snatchers.. hhmm a beg no waka anyhow go where them the rob o..u be like better Aje way go begin cry before them even shout or slap u..plss we don't want damaged goods so take care o,away from too much sun too..howz your day miss happy sunshine?

Gudmorn house,how y'all doing? Hope your night went well?Thank God. Here's wishing us all a fruitful day*hugs and kisses*

siamia:
I am a she (is that good english? Lol) and yes, I am above 40.
Actually am not here to discriminate or disrespect anyone. I went thru several threads before starting mine.
Actually, anyone from 37 can join up bcs great minds think alike.
I wud just like to chat with people who remember Mirror in the Sun, Village headmaster and stuff like that. Lol.

are u married

At 30+ I don't seems getting a serious relationship yet, all my female friends I love all they want is gifts, birthday things, fu*k etc none ever talking about marriage stuff
And when I bring up marriage talks all they respond are excuses...
But the ladies I don't love are the ones ready to settle down with me, even some wanna have my baby.

Nawa o

siamia:
I miss those days when e cudnt go to sch until our right hand cud reach our left ear! Lol
I remember when we went to school, lined up & d headmistress & teachers inspect our nails & uniform, then we march to our classrooms. U Remember now??• D days of Nasco Biscuit, Okin biscuit, Trebor, Iced Coloured water tied in nylon- we called it "lolly"• D days of Goody-Goody & Pako biscuit. D days of Dandy & Bazooka chewing gum, days of Tree-Top sachets, Baba-dudu & Ekanna Gowon sweets, Obi-Edun fruit, Awin, Agbalumo, Ireke-Obo roots, yeye fruit, Bongo coffee, Tate/Lye & St Loius cube sugar, Pambolabola, Majidun rainbow coloured pant with string, Ewekoro pant. D days of Ali & Simbi, Mr Salami & Mrs Salami, Agbo lives in Calabar, Eze goes to school, The Adventure of Sousa, An African Night Entertainment, Kyauta, The Directors, The flying doctor in Lesotho, Ogboju Ode ninu Igbo Irunmole, Igbo Eledumare, Alibaba and the Angels. Mr Giwa is a trader.
I remember those days when one naira was money, even stronger than the dolla. I remember when groundnut was 5kobo & chocomilo sweet was 5 kobo• Days of messing game, who is in d garden, police and thief• D days of mama & papa play• Days when we used to build houses with sand, play suwe game, tinco tinco, change Ur style, ten ten, skipping• Those days when we used to fly kite on streets, those days when rubber band was stock exchange• D days of limca soft drinks & choco milo adverts on black & white TV, Sunday rendezvous by 1:30pm. Days of Elopee dance, Soul Train, Disco '79 & Disco '80, Cock Crows at Dawn. The Old Village Headmaster, Awada-Kerikeri(Baba-Mero Theater), 'Ajimajashan Theater, Baba-Sala, Jacob & Papa-Lolo, Ishiekwu, The Bala-Miller Show, The Art Alade Show, The Harbour's Band, The Soul Train, The Bar-Beach Show, Ere abalaiye, Feyikogbon, The Oyin Adejobi Theater, Ishola Ogunshola (I-Show Pepper), The Osumare Theater, The Omidina Theater, Diran Ajijedidun news cast, Walter Oyatogun reporting, Mirror in the sun, Winds Against my Soul, Second Chance , Madam Kofo, Amebo, Sisi Clara, Zebrudaya, Mrs Ovularia Nwobo alias 4;30, Giringory, Gorimapa, Chief Eleyinmi, Chief Kokonsari, Omo Akara-Ogun, Chief Dagbolu, Chief Faderin, Mr Garuba, Hawaii-5-0, The Famous-five, Combat(Jam Locker, Michael London, Vic Moroe, Pennar Roberts & Long Green) Frank Spencer. When we say 'leke leke give me white finger'• Those days when Bic biro was d best• D days when we used to drink water from d tap, even suck out d water if it's not coming out• The days when NTA will show rainbow sign for 30 mins then national anthem be4 program starts @ 4pm• The days when basket sandals, simbi, Learneds' & Cortina sandals by Bata shoes were d best• Days when we all sing sandalili sandalili songs, Dstv has come, no more old fun! I'm really proud to have experienced all these. If u are not smiling it means u were not born in my generation. Which means u are d INDOMIE generation lol! Abeg share make others laugh too. ROTFL.

Hahaha...how you take remember all this things..the good old days.

domwas2:
At 30+ I don't seems getting a serious relationship yet, all my female friends I love all they want is gifts, birthday things, fu*k etc none ever talking about marriage stuff
And when I bring up marriage talks all they respond are excuses...
But the ladies I don't love are the ones ready to settle down with me, even some wanna have my baby.

Nawa o

It depend on the age group of girls you are meeting..if you are seriously searching for someone to settle down with the you should look out for serious minded girls that equally want to settle down too.

omoharry:
It depend on the age group of girls you are meeting..if you are seriously searching for someone to settle down with the you should look out for serious minded girls that equally want to settle down too.

Na liie..your tactics no work..

Oya deactivate your ghost mode and lets know you and as the culture here suggeests,put your pics up for at least 10mins.

Some guys deey complain sey some ladies dy form kvels here...Yes i agre that a lady should form levels and that is cool but at least wait make the guy woo you first..

If you get an email notification from any male her abeg reply and socialize at least then you can start proving levels if he wooes you..kijinko?

Shout out to sis siamia and thee counciil of elders on this thrad are vexing seey we no dey too see you..abeg dey show face..my tiit tat udysweerrie how u dey,gratfulme40,Oloyiinbo ddshow and others wey i no rmember their name i hail oo.

Gdeven fine people of nairaland. Special greetings to the ladies and gents of 30plus and single.
Toks, how body? Rain no fall for ur side abi?rain fell heavily in my area, and since I live upstairs, the breeze got to me, so I have been quietly nursing one kind cold and malaria. I have happy to say I have conquered all of them.
How is everyone doing?
Am going to bed, under my blanket. I'll chat more in the morning.
Take care of ur beautiful selves.
And special hello to Melish.

Toks2008:


Na liie..your tactics no work..

Oya deactivate your ghost mode and lets know you and as the culture here suggeests,put your pics up for at least 10mins.

Some guys deey complain sey some ladies dy form kvels here...Yes i agre that a lady should form levels and that is cool but at least wait make the guy woo you first..

If you get an email notification from any male her abeg reply and socialize at least then you can start proving levels if he wooes you..kijinko?

Shout out to sis siamia and thee counciil of elders on this thrad are vexing seey we no dey too see you..abeg dey show face..my tiit tat udysweerrie how u dey,gratfulme40,Oloyiinbo ddshow and others wey i no rmember their name i hail oo.

siamia:
Gdeven fine people of nairaland. Special greetings to the ladies and gents of 30plus and single.
Toks, how body? Rain no fall for ur side abi?rain fell heavily in my area, and since I live upstairs, the breeze got to me, so I have been quietly nursing one kind cold and malaria. I have happy to say I have conquered all of them.
How is everyone doing?
Am going to bed, under my blanket. I'll chat more in the morning.
Take care of ur beautiful selves.
And special hello to Melish.

Eyaah,sowy sis.

If you only love those who love you,..............what special thing have you done?
If you hurt those who hurt you in revenge,......then what happened to forgiveness?
If you are able to see and read this, and you can't say thank you to God..............
Then, who is an ingrate?

Toks2008:

Baba, I remain loyal o...I'm still a learner for where you dey o. How the area? Hope no shaking Sir.

Udysweet, how far babe? What's the 411? This your persona is enthralling o.....e be like say we go set P o.

Siamia, sorry to hear about your gelid fettle! Please get proper medications ok? You'll be fine by his grace.

domwas2:
At 30+ I don't seems getting a serious relationship yet, all my female friends I love all they want is gifts, birthday things, fu*k etc none ever talking about marriage stuff
And when I bring up marriage talks all they respond are excuses...
But the ladies I don't love are the ones ready to settle down with me, even some wanna have my baby.
Nawa o

.

Boss, when you are ready, you'll surely find the right one. Trust me, u ain't ready...you are obviously still enjoying the moment. If you are ready and with prayers you'll meet the right one.

can i find a wife material here?a lady frm abia state.thanks

Donpiero1:
can i find a wife material here?a lady frm abia state.thanks

Am from Abia state and am above 30 yrs

Flowwitme:
Am from Abia state and am above 30 yrs

is same wit me.do u reside der

Hi,

Its a good invitation to all above 30 & single to speak out.
Its really an age where U can do almost anything fearlessly.

I'm running 62, single, still very young at heart, am on the
look out for friends to chat, discuss various issues, current affairs,
human relations/problems or even advise on sexual matters to youngsters.

Look forward to contributions, querries from one & all like minded.

Thanx.

Peter
prick35@yahoo.com

Flowwitme:

Am from Abia state and am above 30 yrs

How many yards?

prick35:
Hi,

Its a good invitation to all above 30 & single to speak out.
Its really an age where U can do almost anything fearlessly.

I'm running 62, single, still very young at heart, am on the
look out for friends to chat, discuss various issues, current affairs,
human relations/problems or even advise on sexual matters to youngsters.

Look forward to contributions, querries from one & all like minded.

Thanx.

Peter
prick35@yahoo.com

62? Or you meant to write 32?

Toks2008:


Na liie..your tactics no work..

Oya deactivate your ghost mode and lets know you and as the culture here suggeests,put your pics up for at least 10mins.

Some guys deey complain sey some ladies dy form kvels here...Yes i agre that a lady should form levels and that is cool but at least wait make the guy woo you first..

If you get an email notification from any male her abeg reply and socialize at least then you can start proving levels if he wooes you..kijinko?

Shout out to sis siamia and thee counciil of elders on this thrad are vexing seey we no dey too see you..abeg dey show face..my tiit tat udysweerrie how u dey,gratfulme40,Oloyiinbo ddshow and others wey i no rmember their name i hail oo.

Oga Toks.
Good evening Sir.
Been a while i commented here. Been crazily busy......somedays i just wish i can have extra hours. So many things to do with so very little time.

How have you been?
Udysweet.....sorry ooo about the traffic and the terrible sun.

Siamia....sorry about the malaria. I am happy you are a lot better now.
Halexito, klassic, sparkles and everyone else....i hail

Its morning, the dry season is at hand though rain still falls with lightning.

Good Day all.

I can see some ghosts on this thread. Now! Will you introduce yourselves before Siamia catches you and Toks you out? I don torqque my own o!

Hello lovelies! Goodmorn,hope ur night went well?
@DDshow wetin be set P? Abg ja mi sii ,lol!
@gratefulme40,tnx dearie. Hope you're doing great?plenty hugs for u
@halexito,whata gwan? Hope you're good
@siamia,sis mi mbok nsido?receive ur healing now in Jesus name,Amen!
@Toks2008,oga at d top,I full ground remain.
@all,do hav a thunderous thursday,love y'all

My 30th birthday is today so I can finally join this thread. I've been an observer since the day the thread was created. Kudos to the OP and those that have kept this thread alive. Happy birthday to me and God bless u all.

God is watching u in 3D. Someone's wife- ever yours. Take it easy bro. Do u av space in ur heart to accomodate anoda woman, or..... U r planning to just live ur life coveting someone else' wify.

lolu20:
Eva since I met d love of my life.my thinking about women,spending money for them is a waste.doe I couldn't marry her cos I met her married. doe,I didn't know.it started right from d first day,she went out of her way for me.it wasn't about money.u will spend money but not conditioned.since then,I don't spend anyhow for ladies.love should come first before money.let d guy feel u a little, d guy will spend all of his life making u happy.it is an experience I luv to share any time.in my heart ,she'll be forever mine.