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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by chimdiaNarrow(m): 12:14am On Oct 29, 2015
What you have to understand is that , you ll be killing someone innocent and such is highly detestable to God. For God will judge all adulterers and fornicators . For every sin , there is a direct or indirect punishment for such sin . let the baby be and bear what ever repercussion , accept it as a punishment by God. who knows he will look upon you and forgive. lastly pursue righteousness, holiness and uprightness, seek God in total repentance .
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by francoray(m): 12:15am On Oct 29, 2015
Are you a murderer? Were you aborted?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by bxcode(m): 12:15am On Oct 29, 2015
chimchim1:
thanks man. It's not as easy as you are saying it bro. I wish I can end it forever.
Wish will only give you a wishful outcome, You can't do it on your own because it's a battle of your mind and your flesh and trust me the flesh is ALWAYS gonna win, always. But there is a way out, just lean on God, thank him for his forgiveness even before you engaged in the act and ask him to help you use that inner Strenght in your spirit to overcome the temptation and before you know it, that way of life won't make sense to you anymore, you will remember it and get amused at how it used to be a priority for you in the past.
Only our father in heaven can help you end it forever. The question is are you ready to end it?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by legendsilver(m): 12:16am On Oct 29, 2015
Guy me n my fiancee dey find pikin and you wan abort the one when God give you? Abeg pack well jawe, that child will become great only if you allow the pikin to grow.
My advice, leave the child alone and see how your status will change for good
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by gbosky22(m): 12:16am On Oct 29, 2015
U probably used mistop... Wrongly and for it not to work it must afected the child which can lead to deformity of the baby,since it is below two months u don't have to panic,u can tryy to holla at me so I can tell u what to do asap
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:16am On Oct 29, 2015
fromnigeria:
Seriously speaking, Unprotected sex means you're ready for any result.
I hate abortion of any form. You should too.
Please take her as she is right now.
Let the pregnancy be.
And the child must never be aware that you took active steps to kill him/her but if not for God shocked
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by chimchim1(m): 12:16am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
Thanks alot sir, I will take her to hospital for ultrasound scan then if it is still positive then will go for d&c
Goodluck man. But try to sleep it's late already. Ur mates are either reading or sleeping. Or is this ur project topic you are discussing here on NL?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:19am On Oct 29, 2015
chimchim1:
Goodluck man. But try to sleep it's late already. Ur mates are either reading or sleeping. Or is this ur project topic you are discussing here on NL?
Lolz. No sir, will sleep soonest, it is not easy for me I swear.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by joey150(m): 12:21am On Oct 29, 2015
The deed has been done already. But incase of next time if you dont use a condom at least give her after sex pills to even stop the possibility of pregnancy at first.

Be sure she is still pregnant, this is still a doubtful case cause you are not sure yet.
Many will still make your mistake, take it easy man!

Lol dude learn the art of €jaculation to grin
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by chimchim1(m): 12:23am On Oct 29, 2015
[quote author=Demigods post=39467141]Lolz. No sir, will sleep soonest, it is not easy for me I swear.[/quote
The Lord is your strength bro
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Michellla(f): 12:24am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
Ugly stupid fuvcktard why so pained? Get your ugly asshole pussy face outta here before ma gf scolds me for talking to a ugly pained hoe, grease ball bastardd.
if you see me you'd remove that rag you call a cloth and spread on the floor for me to walk on.
and i see you were deeply hurt by my comment.now if you would send me your addresses i'd be sure to send a care package attached with a personal handwritten message expressing my deepest apology. grin
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by mcyemite(m): 12:24am On Oct 29, 2015
Start thinking of the baby's name..
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:26am On Oct 29, 2015
Michellla:
if you see me you'd remove that rag you call a cloth and spread on the floor for me to walk on.
and i see you were deeply hurt by my comment.now if you would send me your addresses i'd be sure to send a care package attached with a personal handwritten message expressing my deepest apology. grin
Tecyn@yahoo.com
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Michellla(f): 12:26am On Oct 29, 2015
raayah:
yes tell him! He's unbelievably rude.
and obviously an airhead too
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:27am On Oct 29, 2015
[quote author=chimchim1 post=39467223][/quote]Thanks a lotsmiley
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:29am On Oct 29, 2015
gbosky22:
U probably used mistop... Wrongly and for it not to work it must afected the child which can lead to deformity of the baby,since it is below two months u don't have to panic,u can tryy to holla at me so I can tell u what to do asap
Please what to do?
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:30am On Oct 29, 2015
Michellla:
and obviously an airhead too
:/
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Tcapello: 12:31am On Oct 29, 2015
wait o, u ve been banging dis babe for a year without protection and u you thought she is infertile.... bros embrace d change, d baby is here to stay... congrats papa Emeka
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by NnaekweC(m): 12:32am On Oct 29, 2015
Dude the baby is innocent what if your mum had done same to you...? Might be ur shinning star tomorrow keep the child
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by gbosky22(m): 12:33am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
Please what to do?
let me send u a pm
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 12:34am On Oct 29, 2015
If you know what and how this OP feels mentally and physically.you will know he is in a very big soup...draw soup...some parents can even keep you in police cells for doing so to their daughter,...but OP..YOU ARE REALLY RUDE AND SHOWS NO REMORSE FOR YOUR ACTIONS.you were having it when she was in her free period before ovulation and you thought she was infertile that means you never planned to marry her right? or will you marry an infertile woman?? .I expected you to welcome any post here but is alright.....the drug miso nd pesto....only work within d three weeks of conception and i would advice after this weeks...pls accept the fate bro...that girl may go through alot in that D&C...and you cant just take her to a hospital and start talking trash to them. The doctor will feel is a trap to jail him.....so you will need an insider....but in ALL...I WISH YOU GOOD LOCK IN YOUR FINAL DECISION
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Lifebender(m): 12:35am On Oct 29, 2015
Euceey:
he nids an advice
Which i av given.EOD
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Agabbies: 12:37am On Oct 29, 2015
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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Csami(m): 12:38am On Oct 29, 2015
What type of nigga are you?
The one that made sh*t happen?
The one that's watching sh*t happen?
The one that is so confused and doesn't know what's happening?

Your signature



Please don't kill that unborn child.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by damton(m): 12:38am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
Thanks a lot, will give feed back after I get I'm glad you understand I don't want ma child to suffer
I think postinor only works to the 4th day after the act if I'm correct
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:38am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.
jezzz angry

The time you dey go back and front with her, you no think say you go get pinkin abiundecided

Now you won make she abort your pinkin. undecided

I pray your mother abort you! This thing will not happen.

EEDIOT angry be killing innocent child up and down. GOD WILL DEAL WITH YOU PEOPLE angry
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by gbosky22(m): 12:39am On Oct 29, 2015
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.
ur email would be needed so I can reach u
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ArcSEMPECJ(m): 12:42am On Oct 29, 2015
And please those that talk of condoms.....is not even a 100% way of avoiding it because condoms do burst or may have leakage that you may never see.....something one does within 5-20mins will become a problem for the rest of ones life.....even married people do have unexpected kid
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:47am On Oct 29, 2015
21 years....
7 years...
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by lovinam: 12:48am On Oct 29, 2015
Baby has come to stay! Congratulations dad!
Demigods:
I have been contemplating on weather to post this or not, but it has gotten to the point I can no longer keep to myself and rely on informations from net, let me keep this short.

I and my gf have been in a relationship for over a year plus now and been having unprotected sex most time we see, I love her so much that I would love to marry her, we usually have unprotected sex all the time and she never got pregnant, she is not the cheating type, some may oppose me but if I say our history of how we came to be you will understand(story for another day) just 3 weeks ago she told me she missed her period and that she is pregnant after we had sex and I was shocked still wondering how come after a year of sex she never got pregnant, why now, I thought she was not fertile, fast forward to the point, she took abortion pills, mis..... to be precise, the pregnancy was just 2 weeks plus when she took it.

After taking it she was expecting to start bleeding and all that but she didn't, she only saw few drops of blood and having discharge along with stomach pains, so I made researches online and told her it is not every woman with preganacy that bleeds. She is very worried as she as never done it before, now the problem is it's been a week remaining 4 days to complete two weeks she took the drugs, yet she has been complaining of feeling unwell with pregnancy symptoms and last time I saw her days back her burst looks bigger and fuller alonsgide her ass and her skin looks a bit rough, she has been complaining and Now I'm a bit frustrated don't know what to do, her friends her advising her to do D and C method but I'm scared that there are no professionals to do it well as to avoid complications I said no to that, please nairalanders this was unexpected occurrence, help a brother out on to do, please how do we remove this pregnancy, we are both not ready for it now.

Moderators, please do this for me I need lots of people to share their views on what to do.
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 12:48am On Oct 29, 2015
Bros, the baby no gree comot o! Accept ya destiny congrats Baba bonboy
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