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Apart From Sex, What Else Do You Gain From Your Girlfriend? I Need Advice Please / Dont Know It To Ask For Forgiveness From My Ex (advise Needed Urgently) / He Is Almost 40 And She Is Above 34 But They Still Want Abortion (2) (3) (4)
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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 7:39am On Oct 29, 2015 |
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Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by olamidarsenal(m): 7:40am On Oct 29, 2015 |
pls guy, allow d child to live. the God that provide what animals and birds are eating would surely provide what your gf and d baby would eat. our God is a merciful God. besides, don't u know DAT abortion is a sin, God is against it. #saynotoabortion 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by andra112(f): 7:41am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Oh congrats u v been verified now u know u cn get a woman pregnant but seriously dia is a reason why there is a word called "private ". U n ur baby carrier needs to see a doc |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by shizzy7(f): 7:41am On Oct 29, 2015 |
You and your girlfriend are going to be Murderers.... If your mother had killed you on arrival,, you won't be on NL **She may lose her life - and you'll live with that guilt all the rest of your life.... I bet you don't know One abortion can destroy her womb and she'll become barren And it's not like you have the money for good doctors..... Carry your cross and live that child alone,, shebi you've been enjoying it. . |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by heywhytech1(m): 7:42am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Op u need to be careful about your actions, I was once in similar situation and I perfectly understand how hurtful it was, it was a wrong I can't rewrite please let the pregnancy stay, God will surely show you a better way to take good care of her if truely u both compatible. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Elektra008(f): 7:42am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Much as I can never be in support of abortion, I understand what you are going through. But the fact is that ur gf already took abortion pills so even if d baby did not die, dere is d possibility that the pills av already damaged it seriously so if u want to keep the baby u av to see a doctor and let him know d exact drug used, n determine d health of d child because drugs used in d early stages of pregnancy do d most damages. N a d and c mite b recommended. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by prothelley(f): 7:42am On Oct 29, 2015 |
collegereap: Seriously abortion is not the best and it becomes part of your daily memory even when you are 70years old. I made a mistake like you did......it can happen to anyone. I didn't have the heart to kill, I was young and needed to finish up school too. But it kept ringing in my head that abortion is MURDER, even worse than the fornication I committed. I DECIDED TO KEEP IT. I was mocked in church cos everyone was surprise and felt so bad......it won't have been me. I ignored human hates and talks, had a Job early enough and saved some money. I had a beautiful girl, left my family, got an accommodation and started alone. At four months, I ran out of cash.......I had to put her n daycare and had to take on a job. God knew that I have sinned but I didn't want to commit more sin. HE forgave me and helped me. I gained favours everywhere I go cos of my girl. Today, she is six years old, in Pry 2, VERY BRILLIANT and tops her class. Each time i look at her i thank GOD for not listening to hate speech and aborting her. It was painful, shameful, emabarrasing, i almost considred suicide at a point. But i had one thing in mind.....GOD knows my heart and HE knew i made a miatake. I knew if HE can forgive me, no human have the right to condemn me. I have gone back to finish up school (though on part time). I have own Biz now and don't depend on anyone. My advice to you is that you should keep that child.....you don't know tomorrow. Some people close to me have done abortion in the past, today they are married and running from one pastor to the other for a child. GOD is ever merciful. Tell your girlfriend to go to her parents(if they are still alive). Kneel down before them and tell them what has happened. She should apologise and ask for forgiveness. If her mum is still alive, she can have the child, nurse him or her, give the child to d mother and then go back to school. If she has a a good mother who understands the options off abortion as RISKY and future threatning, she will forgive her and let her have the baby. Don't think of what people will say. Do the right thing thats good in the sight of GOD and for your future too. Who knows she might have complications if she aborts the child. WILL YOU MARRY HER LIKE THAT? Knowing she can't have a child( just in case) THINK THINK AND THINK AGAIN. GOD BLESS YOU. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by JDhotral4: 7:43am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Bro see lot of ppl telling u D truth, b wise bro accept ur faith man is God giving. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Yemzy176(m): 7:45am On Oct 29, 2015 |
my f d time u d collect d london y u no use conductor, my advise is become man nt toy |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 7:45am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Fairbanks: Thanks. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by olayinkajnr(m): 7:47am On Oct 29, 2015 |
bisdam9086: Exactly Bisdam.. In fact, I've grown to love the mother of my child more and I don't think I can trade anything for her love. Things has really changed. You only feel the heat when it first happened but after then, you realise it's nothing compared to the blessing that comes with it.. The fact is, people are gonna call you names coz you impregnated a girl. Lolz, my friend called my son names, I didn't get mad at him but I made him realise this gift God gave me is wanted by many but they never had it. Many are still crying for just ONE. Op, I'll still encourage you to keep it. I don't have a standard job but my son and wife never go hungry for once. Be strong and face the challenges that comes with it OP. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 7:50am On Oct 29, 2015 |
14june: Please give me your WhatsApp number lets talk I'm in warri |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 7:50am On Oct 29, 2015 |
@ DEMIGODS u're going to be a father in jesus name. AMEN! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Dbrainiac1(m): 7:52am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Demigods:Ehya, danBS... common sense and common #100 condom could have saved you and your beloved. My advice is don't do anything fishy. Na God win. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by olayinkajnr(m): 7:52am On Oct 29, 2015 |
prothelley: Nice one. Same shoe sis. Do u have any regret later on?? NO. I didn't have any regret either. Seeing my son is a joy to me. Always. What more can u ask for? OP, leave abortion out of it and accept the challenges. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by prothelley(f): 7:53am On Oct 29, 2015 |
olayinkajnr: God bless you for keeping that life. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by ZziClass1k(m): 7:54am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Right now you think you are being wise but no. Right now you are thinking only about yourself, you told us how much you love her,hmm liar, it is time to talk to matured people(parents), discuss with ur girlfriend and face your demons and conquer them. When you dey play tiki taka without boot you no remember say injury go come easily.remember abortion is a sin |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 7:54am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Amokwe: U want to take care of the baby or give me money to take care of it? Haba |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by chaz007(f): 7:56am On Oct 29, 2015 |
If someone posted...."My wife and I plan killing our 5yrs old daughter cos we can't cater for her", I'm sure he'll be condemned outright, and even prosecuted by child protection activitists. But here we have someone coming out openly to confess to attempting "criminal abortion" and we're taking it likely with him. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by olayinkajnr(m): 7:58am On Oct 29, 2015 |
prothelley:Ameen sister |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 8:07am On Oct 29, 2015 |
ndcide: I don't have time for cheating, one of the few handsome dudes who have self discipline and respect. My reaction? I would have been hard accepting your advise because of how active I am. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Richard216(m): 8:08am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Hi Brother.. I don't know much about abortions but I do know of clinics that can help you. I do advise your girlfriend sees a medical team. I would recommend The Bridge Clinic https://www.facebook.com/TheBridgeClinic/. I do know they deal with a variety of fertility care and more. I do wish you two well. macho44: 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 8:08am On Oct 29, 2015 |
MizFrances: I wasn't the one who did the test na, what she told me is what I wrote here. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Lescott7(m): 8:09am On Oct 29, 2015 |
It is better to abort an unwanted pregnancy than bringing the baby to this world to suffer. I have once been in this situation when I was in 200l,I told this gal to get rid of it but she went off to call my dad to inform(don't know how she got my dad number den) the plan to do dat was turned down. The main thing now is that she and her baby are the one suffering now,she thought the pregnancy would made me be committed to her but reverse is d case now,I don't care about she and her baby I only give her money to take care of the baby anytime she needs money. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by denitro(m): 8:09am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Hell awaits you if you prevent that innocent spirit child of God from experiencing Earth life... So selfish... Immediately you you will one day come face to face with him or her and explain why you selfishly didnt allow him or her the same opportunity of an earth life like you got. Wicked world |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by hamilton62(m): 8:10am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Demigods:First of all, you and her have committed murder and both of you are murderers... the girl is so stupid to accept a pill that has bad effect on her womb... this might be the beginning of her problem in marital state... So she the lady can kill herself because she was asked to do so? God forbid! When will they learn? Ladies, the day you decide to meet a man that day you have decided to get pregnant so you should get ready for it. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 8:10am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Kalvan: Bros thanks a lot, if I was working would have kept it, but if I let her keep this child, it will affect me badly cus so much pressure will be on me. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by kullozone(m): 8:13am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Simple matter... Just slice her belle open then remove everything inside and stitch back. Her stomach will be as flat as a board. |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by kizbad: 8:13am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Demigods: To Be Honest With You. M a Medical Doctor, If She was really 2weeks Pregnant, The Misopristol Should Av Washed It Out, Unless She Dint Take It, See How It work, She Should Have Taken 3pills And Insert One In hER Privates, Or take 3 and Insert Mifepristol...But If The Pregnancy Is Above 3week Den Dnt Bother Using Misopristol Cos U will End up achievn Partial Abortion Wc Will Mke her Smelling After D &C, most people that are sayn marriage marriage, its not dat easy if u are the victm u have to call her and ask her what she want..from her answer u will no wat to do, wat if she doesn wana carry it? MARRIAGAE IS NOT ALWAYS THE OPTION IN A CASE LIKE THIS, So Check The No Of Mispristol She Took, she sopos to bleed unless she is not PREGNANT |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 8:14am On Oct 29, 2015 |
DeejayTafari: Bro abeg drop contact let me add you on WhatsApp, plz |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by Nobody: 8:18am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Lescott7: Lwkmd o the mumu gan! |
Re: My Girlfriend & I Want Abortion, Mature Advise Needed! Help A Brother! by rinzylee(m): 8:20am On Oct 29, 2015 |
Fornication is sin, the thought of abortion is sin, the act of abortion is sin, the provider of the funds for.abortion, the doctor or whoever who performed the act, the consenting parties and advisory board are all involved in the sin. Go and meet your parents and your clergy or pastor or imam and get marriage blessings after you must have repented and asked for mercy and forgiveness from God. There is no safe sex outside marriage! It's a tough task bro but brace it. One love |
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