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Seriously, I have read diff writeup on NL about guys trapped or been trynna escape friendzone wit them crush all in the name of declination. Honestly, guys, I dunno what's wrong with being a friend wit ur crush after declined to be ur girlfriend. To me I see no big deal being in FRIENDZONE. If I truly love the girl and probably she's in relationship with someone else, not that the guy is better than me but she choose to be loyal. She could have be loyal to me too if she's mine. Guys, abeg, lets put on our thinking cap. If a girl actually mean something to us then she's best be in whatever the relationship she is to us(dating or no dating). I been wooing a girl for the past few months but she keeps the absolute NO. I keep buying her things nd send her presents not to impress her but to let her realise she actually mean something to me. Even beyond dating her. At some point i meet with their boyfriend, jokingly i say to them how luck the guy is to have her as his girlfriend bcoz i been treapin' for his girl... this often create laughter btw us and we just laughed it off! #DasMaturityCheck#Well I dunno much about this... but, blv me, some sharp guys used this so called friendzone to win a girl in some cases. Choosing not to be friend wit ur crush after she declined ur... it shows that u re weak nd very immatured
I love my crushes that we later ended being friends. that shows my level of maturity, and That's a message for em that I av a true passion for em nd not golddigger.
FRIENDZONE ain't HELLZONE. #Grow-up bro *winks*

Ok I pray all your brothers gets friend zoned

Oh-kay

Her still being your friend isn't the issue. It's her demanding from you as if you are her boyfriend.

my guy, u never jam.... hope she always tells u about how she loves d guy and how both of them role together... how do u always feel when she says dis to u or when she answers his (love) calls in Ur presence....... grow up my man and stop dying in silence..

u re in friendzone my guy... but Ur problem now is that u have not realized it yet

Lol. #thinkingofhowicanfriendzoneop.

Dude is such a nice guy

There was a girl who friendzoned me for 3 years. ..and I proposed to her and she said yes.

Though she died of cancer of the lungs 6 months after.

But my point is, I knew I was in the friendzone and that did not change my attitude towards her. We were still good friends. I helped her when she needed my help and she helped me too back in the day.

But the Op's point is that you should not change towards a lady who put you in the friendzone that's what he is saying. There is nothing wrong with it. If you have a crush who has a bf and she friendzoned you.. It's not much of a bad thing. After all she has a bf.

Friendzoon is not the issue, let her not demand for anything cause am not gona giv in to that

Ubyj:
Lol. #thinkingofhowicanfriendzoneop.

Dude is such a nice guy

that could be where I am best being wit u.

Ubyj:
Lol. #thinkingofhowicanfriendzoneop.
Dude is such a nice guy

that could be where I am best be wit u.

Maxi112:
Friendzoon is not the issue, let her not demand for anything cause am not gona giv in to that

bro abeg far from that thinking... pray that God shud bless u.

Obviously you either don't know what "friendzone" means or you're downplaying it.

It is not your everyday "friendship". No respectable guy should be remain under such manipulation.

211Observer:
Seriously, I have read diff writeup on NL about guys trapped or been trynna escape friendzone wit them crush all in the name of declination. Honestly, guys, I dunno what's wrong with being a friend wit ur crush after declined to be ur girlfriend. To me I see no big deal being in FRIENDZONE. If I truly love the girl and probably she's in relationship with someone else, not that the guy is better than me but she choose to be loyal. She could have be loyal to me too if she's mine. Guys, abeg, lets put on our thinking cap. If a girl actually mean something to us then she's best be in whatever the relationship she is to us(dating or no dating). I been wooing a girl for the past few months but she keeps the absolute NO. I keep buying her things nd send her presents not to impress her but to let her realise she actually mean something to me. Even beyond dating her. At some point i meet with their boyfriend, jokingly i say to them how luck the guy is to have her as his girlfriend bcoz i been treapin' for his girl... this often create laughter btw us and we just laughed it off! #DasMaturityCheck#Well I dunno much about this... but, blv me, some sharp guys used this so called friendzone to win a girl in some cases. Choosing not to be friend wit ur crush after she declined ur... it shows that u re weak nd very immatured
I love my crushes that we later ended being friends. that shows my level of maturity, and That's a message for em that I av a true passion for em nd not golddigger.
FRIENDZONE ain't HELLZONE. #Grow-up bro *winks*

Whatever rocks your boat mate. It's fine and okay if you can handle it. Not everyone can. So don't expect everyone to model you. Or even try to suggest that those who have a different point of view are immature. You thinking so is actually immature, because you simply can't accept that we are all different.

My advice is, the next time you feel like making a rant because you want to feed your ego, please save it.

211Observer:
that could be where I am best being wit u.

ok, where do we start?

211Observer:
bro abeg far from that thinking... pray that God shud bless u.

and also pray mk she no friendzoon me too

Ubyj:
ok, where do we start?

Lolss. send ur number

Ubyj:
ok, where do we start?

Lolss. send ur number

LordAdam:
Whatever rocks your boat mate. It's fine and okay if you can handle it. Not everyone can. So don't expect everyone to model you. Or even try to suggest that those who have a different point of view are immature. You thinking so is actually immature, because you simply can't accept that we are all different.

My advice is, the next time you feel like making a rant because you want to feed your ego, please save it.

Angry man

LordAdam:
Whatever rocks your boat mate. It's fine and okay if you can handle it. Not everyone can. So don't expect everyone to model you. Or even try to suggest that those who have a different point of view are immature. You thinking so is actually immature, because you simply can't accept that we are all different.

My advice is, the next time you feel like making a rant because you want to feed your ego, please save it.

Angry man

AfroKnight:
Obviously you either don't know what "friendzone" means or you're downplaying it.

It is not your everyday "friendship". No respectable guy should be remain under such manipulation.

well if u think u av a point I think u re rolling wit less matured ladies.

Guys don't Use their heads....
...Just their Lower Bodies...""

uhm...I forgot to add "SOME GUYS" before I get brutally crucified.... So, there You go!

Estharfabian:
Guys don't Use their heads....
...Just their Lower Bodies...""

uhm...I forgot to add "SOME GUYS" before I get brutally crucified.... So, there You go!

lol

falconey:
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Don't mind the dude... Let him keep enjoying the laugh he's getting from his crush, while another high-status dude keep getting "moaning and screams" from the girl..

Those with eyes are many... but only few see things

211Observer:
Angry man

Funny you.
I hope you got my point though.

Eiyaaa, I pireee you, OP. Keep trying to justify the fact that a girl don padlock you keep inside cooler.

211Observer:
well if u think u av a point I think u re rolling wit less matured ladies.

You obviously don't know what it means. The internet is replete with information. Educate yourself.

211Observer:
Lolss. send ur number ;DLolss. send ur number

you are on your own

Wake me up when you come back on NL complaining about same issues...

Raalsalghul:
Her still being your friend isn't the issue. It's her demanding from you as if you are her boyfriend.

Where did he say she was demanding anything from him he's giving of his own free will.

Nice moniker btw

MrsPhyno:
Where did he say she was demanding anything from him he's giving of his own free will.

Nice moniker btw

If that's the case, no need of complaining then.

Guy u seriously need a doctor cuz ur sick....the gifts,care and time u spend on d bitch who has friend zoned you is a total waste......ur lover its out there dying inside cuz she wudnt want to disturb u by asking you u things and doesn't want to be seen as a burden yet ur killing urself over whoz in love with anoda man dat just uses u as an instrument of upgrading her relationship......am not saying is wrong to buy gifts for a female friend once in while but making it a priority is so stupid to do.......channel ur effort to were it will be celebrated not appreciated.....

Whatever!