EfemenaXY:


Hold off on the whoopee first. Let her prove it. Too many fraudsters on nl.

Wait Efe! I know what might prove it. I hope you remember. Or even noticed

Wow! You guys really had a nice long discussion. I initially thought Mindfulness was a gal. So you just wanted to pull the ladies strings.

We agree to disagree, bottom line for me is women need to stop lying to themselves(I actually have a post on that) and placating themselves that their husbands were snared.

That's crap. Hold your husband accountable but some can't because they were the side chick before marriage.

Burntpalace:


Wait Efe! I know what might prove it. I hope you remember. Or even noticed

Go on....

So ileobatojo has metamorphosed into BURNT PALACE

Interesting

Burnt palace how market?

Abeg put fire extinguisher for palace make e no dey burn everytime abi na you dey deliberately committed arson ni?

Ewuro4:


Ileobatojo How you dey?

Burntpalace:
^^Jydo and trouble making.

Thanks for the welcome. Good to see you.

Wetin I for do now. I like trouble

Anytime.

Burntpalace:


Wait Efe! I know what might prove it. I hope you remember. Or even noticed

Before I deactivated, I followed you. Was hoping you would follow me back so I could pm you and say bye. You didn't follow me back.

SAMBARRY:


So ileobatojo has metamorphosed into BURNT PALACE

Interesting

Burnt palace how market?

Abeg put fire extinguisher for palace make e no dey burn everytime abi na you dey deliberately committed arson ni?

Kulyie! How's my sons wife Wura?

Burntpalace:


Before I deactivated, I followed you. Was hoping you would follow me back so I could pm you and say bye. You didn't follow me back.

That doesn't prove a thing.

Let's go back a couple of years...tell me something from the past. A comment you made in response to mine or vice versa

Interesting debate

Edwife I can't imagine you pulling weaves though

My take wives should face their husbands as men rarely ever confront whoever their wife was cheating with.As for the mistress/side chic karma is a female dog so I personally feel wifey Has no business confronting her. Pulling weaves might be therapeutic for some people sha but not something I would do.

From personal observation with ex runs/aristo chics they tend to make the most paranoid wives ever guess experience is the best teacher

[quote author=MusingsOfALady post=39558031]Wow! You guys really had a nice long discussion. I initially thought Mindfulness was a gal. So you just wanted to pull the ladies strings.

We agree to disagree, bottom line for me is women need to stop lying to themselves(I actually have a post on that) and placating themselves that their husbands were snared.
[b]
That's crap. Hold your husband accountable but some can't because they were the side chick before marriage.[/[/b]quote]

Burntpalace:




Kulyie! How's my sons wife Wura?

she's fine bet she's too little to be a wife

She's still In school. When she finishes her university and nysc we can then start talking about bride price

However you must know that she's too fragile to work. I hope there are arrays of cooks and cleaners that'll be doing the house chores and she doesn't want monster in-laws aka awon iya aje

So if you understand that when is little ileobatojo going to build his mansion in banana island?

No arson please

B

SAMBARRY:
she's fine better she's too little to be a wife

She's still In school. When she finishes her university and nysc we can then start talking about bride price

However you must know that she's too fragile to work. I hope there are arrays of cooks and cleaners that'll be doing the house chores and she doesn't want monster in-laws aka awon iya aje

So if you understand that when is little ileobatojo going to build his mansion in banana island?

No arson please

Bwahahaha! Don't worry, she'll fit right in in my family. I told you guys I was the chief of the lazy wife's club before (where's Chillisauce? ). Me I'm not interested in wives slaving away unnecessarily.

My son is working hard in school for that mansion.

MusingsOfALady:
I read a sob story online a few days ago. Well it’s actually a story that has been going round the internet for years but in different variations (with changing names and forms of course). It’s the story of how a married man was dating a single girl and lavishing money on her... bla bla bla and the wife prayed against the girl for 21 days or so and the girl was in an accident and lost all or went mad or died – or whatever variation of ending you will like to slot in here. And boy, do a lot of women love these stories! They click “Like” and "Share" on their Facebook wall immediately. Holy Ghost Fire!

Let me state categorically that adultery is wrong; it’s a sin, a betrayal of trust and no man or woman should be involved in it. So I am not about to defend husband snatching, no! Yet, I am writing to the many women stripping themselves naked at the stroke of midnight, raining curses on the other girl whom they say “snatched their husband” (Snatched? Is he a toy? 'cos toys get snatched but full grown men? Hmm…)


Before you send down thunder and fire, ask yourself: Would God punish the girl without punishing your husband? Would God be just to do that? If God is a just God, then the first person that prayer will likely land on, is your cheating husband. Okay, I know most of you won’t like this but it’s the truth. The other lady is not breaking any vow, she is committing a sin alright but she made no vow to you. The one who made a vow to you and is breaking it is your spouse.

Let’s be truthful, he is probably the one who initiated the affair (I said probably oh!) but surely, he agreed to it. He is the one bankrolling it, he is the one lying to you, deleting her texts, hiding behind your back to see her, probably telling her lies about you, buying her gifts instead of you, making her promises, sleeping with her, made a CHOICE to be with her… He! He!! He!!! The other woman owes you nothing "IF" she is a stranger to you. So cool down with the thunder and fire because you may just roast your hubby.


What if it’s Juju? Yeah, if it’s Juju, she will definitely get the fire and thunder but it’s not Juju 90% of the time, No, its indiscipline! The reason most women blame and curse "the other woman" is because they don’t want to face this reality or this truth. So what should you? Fold your arms? No!

1. Get your facts right and confront him calmly.
2. Get a commitment from him to break it off, he should get good pastoral/spiritual counsel.
3. He needs to get himself into an accountability relationship.
4. Check yourself. While you are not to blame for his straying eyes, you might have contributed. So check yourself, have you been unavailable, ignoring him, taking him for granted or something. Remember you pulled his strings, that’s why he married you, so, pull them again.
5. Pray for him for wisdom, strength and discipline to be faithful. Pray that every link between him and the other person be broken.
6. Pray for yourself as well.


If your husband can’t commit to being faithful then cursing other girls won’t work because even if the current girl or girls die, he will get another. Let’s stop trying to use God’s name for selfish reasons. God is a just God, if the girl who had an affair with your husband deserves death then so does your husband.

What are your thoughts?

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They should both go to hell. No man is worth the stress. My advice to any woman on earth is to be established and focus on raising her kids Godly. Better to live as a single mother than die prematurely because of some worthless womanizer!

SAMBARRY:


So ileobatojo has metamorphosed into BURNT PALACE

Interesting

Burnt palace how market?

Abeg put fire extinguisher for palace make e no dey burn everytime abi na you dey deliberately committed arson ni?

Lol. She opened my yansh when I came back then hoping to stay underG for a while.

I just returned a favour

I smell her aura in her posts from miles away.

Defo Ile, can bet my Royal Doultons on it.

Befitting:
They should both go to hell. No man is worth the stress. My advice to any woman on earth is to be established and focus on raising her kids Godly. Better to live as a single mother than die prematurely because of some worthless womanizer!

Someone's angry.

Burntpalace:
B

Bwahahaha! Don't worry, she'll fit right in in my family. I told you guys I was the chief of the lazy wife's club before (where's Chillisauce? ). Me I'm not interested in wives slaving away unnecessarily.

My son is working hard in school for that mansion.

ahen.that's good.

All she'll be doing is watching keeping up with the Kardashian (that's if they'll still be airing it by then)sleeping eating ,shopping and going to owanmbes

As well as wearing the latest lace,gele and necklace

EfemenaXY:


Someone's angry.

Yes, I'm angry.

EfemenaXY:


That doesn't prove a thing.

Let's go back a couple of years...tell me something from the past. A comment you made in response to mine or vice versa

But no one else would know that though.

The first thing that stands out is perhaps not for this thread.

More recently, we disagreed about male rape victims.

If you ask something specific, then I'll answer.

Or else you can watch for my writing style like you said.

Ewuro4:


Lol. She opened my yansh when I came back then hoping to stay underG for a while.

I just returned a favour

I smell her aura in her posts from miles away.

Defo Ile, can bet my Royal Doultons on it.

So you dey do do me i do you

Ewuro4:


Lol. She opened my yansh when I came back then hoping to stay underG for a while.

I just returned a favour

I smell her aura in her posts from miles away.

Defo Ile, can bet my Royal Doultons on it.

Lol. That was on the thread about a widow wanting to marry the OP's brother and their family was refusing.

Befitting:
They should both go to hell. No man is worth the stress. My advice to any woman on earth is to be established and focus on raising her kids Godly. Better to live as a single mother than die prematurely because of some worthless womanizer!

don't you want to be like the Chinese woman that we saw in one thread here of accepting her husband's mistress with her group of friends in which they stripped the girl naked and beaten her blue blue black sotey them tear her pant

damiso:
Interesting debate

Edwife I can't imagine you pulling weaves though

My take wives should face their husbands as men rarely ever confront whoever their wife was cheating with.As for the mistress/side chic karma is a female dog so I personally feel wifey Has no business confronting her. Pulling weaves might be therapeutic for some people sha but not something I would do.

From personal observation with ex runs/aristo chics they tend to make the most paranoid wives ever guess experience is the best teacher

Lol honestly i can't,i even run away from people's fight.I was just trying to give many instances and one from my very good friend.

I witnessed everything,it was so dangerous when the mistress started stalking her and her kids.She had to do something.

Whether she dealt with her husband then decided to forgive him after she was driving a new ML that's her business but the mistress had her fair share also.Everybody got served!

Burntpalace:


Lol. That was on the thread about a widow wanting to marry the OP's brother and their family was refusing.

Welcome back

Oya drink cold water to cool YA temper

Befitting:
Yes, I'm angry.

babygirlfl:


Welcome back

Efe,mindfulness,byvan,musingoflady glad to have had a very mature and civil discussion.

edwife:


Lol honestly i can't,i even run away from people's fight.I was just trying to give many instances and one from my very good friend.

I witnessed everything,it was so dangerous when the mistress started stalking her and her kids.She had to do something.

Whether she dealt with her husband then decided to forgive him after she was driving a new ML that's her business but the mistress had her fair share also.Everybody got served!

so pouring of acid no dey reign again or baptism of feaces on the mistress

Burntpalace:


Lol. That was on the thread about a widow wanting to marry the OP's brother and their family was refusing.

Yup.

Why did you forsook me.

SAMBARRY:

Oya drink cold water to cool YA temper

tnk u

SAMBARRY:
so pouring of acid no dey reign again or baptism of feaces on the mistress

Na them sabi dear.I have no business with either.

I see a woman who chose to stay in a loveless and abusive marriage only to wait for the husband to die so she can go and frolicking all over town with losers as useless as the ones fighting the mistress.If you are not happy,leave!

edwife:


Na them sabi dear.I have no business with either.

I see a woman who chose to stay in a loveless and abusive marriage only to wait for the husband to die so she can go and frolicking all over town with losers as useless as the ones fighting the mistress.If you are not happy,leave!

Burntpalace:


But no one else would know that though.

The first thing that stands out is perhaps not for this thread.

More recently, we disagreed about male rape victims.

If you ask something specific, then I'll answer.

Or else you can watch for my writing style like you said.

Okay....

1 a.) What's Ile's favourite sport?
b.) We had an argument based on differing perspectives of "equality of pay" for both sexes. Who were the main (male) opposers to the notion that it should be based on gender rather than ability?

2.) A couple of months prior to this ^^ argument, we had a debate on the family section organized by Tgirl and whom?
b.) Who were the judges of the debate?
c.) Ile had a "clash" with one of the debaters. Without mentioning names, what was the bone of contention?