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Not only that.
they should pay him back the tuition he ever spent on the girl.
If possible down to underpants. What nonsense!

It's not a single moms thing.
Even a step mom can get direspected by her husband's kids and any attempt to discipline them will be termed wickedness.
One mistake and all their good deeds will be forgotten.

I feel being a step parent is most times a thankless job because those kids miss their real parent and don't appreciate what other people do for them as much as they would if their own parents did it. That's why everyone considers their mothers and fathers to be saints but don't see others that way.

Nitefury:
One of the reasons I don't fancy single moms.. It's either the child(ren) have no regard for you no matter the effort(s) you put into their lives or you constantly have to deal with the biological dad or his people.

After spending over 40grand (about N8m) seeing her through college, getting her a car and about to spend another $40k for her wedding, he couldn't invite 20 of his own friends. Who on this earth really have or know 250 persons there'll want to attend their wedding?

To say mother and daughter still didn't see anything wrong. SMH. Make the real papa foot the wedding bills na..

cococandy:
Not only that.
they should pay him back the tuition he ever spent on the girl.
If possible down to underpants. What nonsense!

You don vex!

cococandy:
It's not a single moms thing.
Even a step mom can get direspected by her husband's kids and any attempt to discipline them will be termed wickedness.
One mistake and all their good deeds will be forgotten.

I feel being a step parent is most times a thankless job because those kids miss their real parent and don't appreciate what other people do for them as much as they would if their own parents did it. That's why everyone considers their mothers and fathers to be saints but don't see others that way.

I know it's the same,with step moms if not worse, but I was actually stating why I would rather not get involved with a single mom. Because after it's all said and done, some guys don't mind hooking up with them.

Maybe I should modify the single mom to single parent.

But either way, the idea of step children thinking you're the reason why their parents aren't together (and despising you for it) when you have nothing to do with it isn't appealing to me at all. It's particularly bad if the other parent still have access to the children and poison their mind with false information like if not for you, their mother/dad would still be with them

cococandy:
It's not a single moms thing.
Even a step mom can get direspected by her husband's kids and any attempt to discipline them will be termed wickedness.
One mistake and all their good deeds will be forgotten.

I feel being a step parent is most times a thankless job because those kids miss their real parent and don't appreciate what other people do for them as much as they would if their own parents did it. That's why everyone considers their mothers and fathers to be saints but don't see others that way.

That's why I always want the details when a person comes up to say my step mom/dad/aunt/uncle/brother/sister maltreated me.

bukatyne:
You don vex!

Seriously

bukatyne:
Sorry step dad .. you should have had your ex arrested for attempted fraud .

It is a pity you spent 10yrs before realizing that you were not welcome to their cozy family.

Don't look at you have spent So far.... it was an investment in. love.

If I were the groom to be, I would be having doubts about marrying the daughter: she is an ungrateful person and doubt the marriage would last as the husband might just be the next ATM.

@ Single mother, carry go; your recompense is just in front.

Some people would have been happy to marry the bridezilla because they think they would be part of withdrawing from the "ATM". LoL

Glad the man could walk away without really being a big bastard about it.

LordReed:
Some people would have been happy to marry the bridezilla because they think they would be part of withdrawing from the "ATM". LoL

Glad the man could walk away without really being a big bastard about it.

True,

Some people never really see the bigger picture