PunkyVeer:
Lol, so are you telling me that she just lies there & waits for the orgasm to happen? That's like waiting for Santa to slide down the chimney at Christmas

I'm sorry but sex is a two-way street. If she's not reaching orgasm, something must be out of sync somewhere, probably at the spot where she's waiting for the orgasm to fall from the sky like manna A guy's ding dong is not some magic stick that delivers orgasms on contact(as much as some guys may foolishly think it is), you also have to take part in the process & make sure that you reach your destination as well. It's not all up to the guy. It takes two to tango. Such unbelievable naivety! Even a virgin like myself knows that an orgasm is not handed to you, you go get it!

PunkyVeer:
Lol, so are you telling me that she just lies there & waits for the orgasm to happen? That's like waiting for Santa to slide down the chimney at Christmas

I'm sorry but sex is a two-way street. If she's not reaching orgasm, something must be out of sync somewhere, probably at the spot where she's waiting for the orgasm to fall from the sky like manna A guy's ding dong is not some magic stick that delivers orgasms on contact(as much as some guys may foolishly think it is), you also have to take part in the process & make sure that you reach your destination as well. It's not all up to the guy. It takes two to tango. Such unbelievable naivety! Even a virgin like myself knows that an orgasm is not handed to you, you go get it!

PunkyVeer:
Lol, so are you telling me that she just lies there & waits for the orgasm to happen? That's like waiting for Santa to slide down the chimney at Christmas

I'm sorry but sex is a two-way street. If she's not reaching orgasm, something must be out of sync somewhere, probably at the spot where she's waiting for the orgasm to fall from the sky like manna A guy's ding dong is not some magic stick that delivers orgasms on contact(as much as some guys may foolishly think it is), you also have to take part in the process & make sure that you reach your destination as well. It's not all up to the guy. It takes two to tango. Such unbelievable naivety! Even a virgin like myself knows that an orgasm is not handed to you, you go get it!

PunkyVeer:
Lol, so are you telling me that she just lies there & waits for the orgasm to happen? That's like waiting for Santa to slide down the chimney at Christmas

I'm sorry but sex is a two-way street. If she's not reaching orgasm, something must be out of sync somewhere, probably at the spot where she's waiting for the orgasm to fall from the sky like manna A guy's ding dong is not some magic stick that delivers orgasms on contact(as much as some guys may foolishly think it is), you also have to take part in the process & make sure that you reach your destination as well. It's not all up to the guy. It takes two to tango. Such unbelievable naivety! Even a virgin like myself knows that an orgasm is not handed to you, you go get it!

misspicy:

......you dawg!you crack me up girl.kwakwakwakwakwa


so you mean girls shoukd strive to satisfy their man n also struggle to orgasm themselves....eg you suck him to cum n he can't do things to make you cum too than be drilling up and down

PunkyVeer:


Men speak when necessary, women often times don't speak up when they should be speaking. Save some of that clucking for the bedroom as well. He tells you to suck him & get him off. So what's stopping you from telling him to do the things that get YOU off?

misspicy:

well some guys are too stubborn,they think drilling her up and down makes her cum or d size of their ding dong,some even see a woman who express her what she wants sexually as a hoe...they just expect you to lie der and praise them

PunkyVeer:


Then why let him continue to drill you if you're not getting anything out of it? Sometimes you gotta be selfish. Show him that what he THINKS is not necessarily reality or what is actually happening. Wake him up from his delusions A guy that thinks you're a hoe for expressing yourself needs to grow the Bleep up & get a life. WTH. If he can speak up, why can't you? A loser like that should remain a virgin. So he should be praised even when he's lame?

PunkyVeer:


Hahaha.

But seriously though, who doesn't know that men lie? How you gonna believe them when they tell you they're going to give you an orgasm? What they actually mean is, I got the right tool & moves, the rest is up to you. You're gonna have to create your own zing. Sorry. Anyway, communication is the master key to everything imo. If he's not doing something right, then speak up & tell him how you want it to be. What's the big deal? Because if you don't you lose & he's gonna get his either way. It's a win/win situation for guys. Whereas for females it's either a hit or miss depending on many factors eg. the mood & mind has to be in it for anything to happen. Just my opinion though because for me, a guy can even spin on top of me if he likes but if I'm not in the mood nothing will happen. However when the mood is right & I get into it, an earthquake & a tsunami come rolled in one big wave

[b] It's the total silence of most women that is real mojo dampener...... absolutely zero desire to speak up for themselves and say what they want.

Women sure drew the short end of the stick in this case.......but the benefit of multiple orgàsms is an offer no guy will turn down though....... so really who got the better deal here is still debatable .

But ur statement couldn't have been more accurate, women know they came factory-sealed with a few meandering stretches on the highway to ur big-O...... the least you can do is lend a helping/navigatory hand(literally) to the driller
or the scuba diver, as the case may be.

You take the lead while the thing is happening and see if he won't follow.....and if he doesn't, well that's ur cue to bolt,no one's gonna hold it against you.
bt not after you just lay there counting the stars while he pounds away and finishes before you can say Jack.
So a woman's complain of unsatisfactory séx always comes across as just kind of a hail Mary moment. [/b]

IamLEGEND1:
[b] It's the total silence of most women that is real mojo dampener...... absolutely zero desire to speak up for themselves and say what they want.

Women sure drew the short end of the stick in this case.......but the benefit of multiple orgàsms is an offer no guy will turn down though....... so really who got the better deal here is still debatable .

But ur statement couldn't have been more accurate, women know they came factory-sealed with a few meandering stretches on the highway to ur big-O...... the least you can do is lend a helping/navigatory hand(literally) to the driller
or the scuba diver, as the case may be.

You take the lead while the thing is happening and see if he won't follow.....and if he doesn't, well that's ur cue to bolt,no one's gonna hold it against you.
bt not after you just lay there counting the stars while he pounds away and finishes before you can say Jack.
So a woman's complain of unsatisfactory séx always comes across as just kind of a hail Mary moment. [/b]

PunkyVeer:
Lol, so are you telling me that she just lies there & waits for the orgasm to happen? That's like waiting for Santa to slide down the chimney at Christmas

I'm sorry but sex is a two-way street. If she's not reaching orgasm, something must be out of sync somewhere, probably at the spot where she's waiting for the orgasm to fall from the sky like manna A guy's ding dong is not some magic stick that delivers orgasms on contact(as much as some guys may foolishly think it is), you also have to take part in the process & make sure that you reach your destination as well. It's not all up to the guy. It takes two to tango. Such unbelievable naivety! Even a virgin like myself knows that an orgasm is not handed to you, you go get it!