Guys, have you ever met someone and within the first hour or day of your meeting see too many qualities of what you want in your dream girl or future wife?

Iv heard of "love at first sight". Iv heard of " soul-mate".

Trust me, iv never been an advocate or a believer of any of them.

I'm like any other guy that 1st gets attracted to a lady based on appearances. Then beauty, brains, sense of humour follows.

Next comes other qualities like Chemistry, compatibility, right attitude.

But all these qualities come if/when I wanna take her seriously.

But if its just for sex or fling: I only care bout physical qualities.

This is my experience with susan.
I met her sometime last year, November 2014. Approached her, used some tricks/chyking.

Luckyly for us both, we felt like eating . so we had lunch on me in restaurant. We ended up going back to our individual houses from there. We saw again on like 5 different different dates.

What's so amazing is that within the first 3 hangouts I saw just too many things in her that made me know she may be the one. None of those hangouts exceeded 2hours. I saw and listed almost 20things in her alone that I craved for in my future wife.

Iv had relationships for years before but I could hardly list up to 10qualities in one single of my ex's. And some of those relationships lasted for years. I loved them, but not having that many numbers of qualities as I could count in Susan. The irony of it is that I had spent less than 10 hours with Susan as compared to years I had with all those other girls.


This is the sad part if it all, which is also my challenge:

1) I am currently in a serious relationship with someone I don't see as my future wife.

2) I have financial instability to try dating Susan. By dating her, I don't mean sleeping with her or going out with her to marry her.

By dating-her, I mean the old fashioned way of being special enuf to her to be considered as a potential future husband.
Not that she's a gold-Digger or I feel I can only lure her with money. Let's don't decieve ourselves, we need financial stability to direct our scripts.

Im hardly the type to denigrate a girl for needing money in a relationship. I just feel its a necessary factor.


Now this is the thing: Iv been in a relationship for past 8months, but my current girl has shown too many things of all I resent in my future wife. At 1st wen we started, I used to freak out. But in BTW as soon as it dawned on me that she wouldn't be the one, all I did internally is place her in my "make-i-just-dey-groove-this-one-till-arrange-myself-ZONE".

Now, I know I'm being challenged financially to go out of my way to succeed in luring Susan to become mine.

This has nuffing to do with inferiority complex or she being a gold-digger.

But I'm a man DAT cant afford to fail when I want something.

Hence I want several factors to be in order be4 I enter the marriage-market.

Why I need to be more in order is because even those times I enjoyed Susan's company when we hung out. She didn't seen yo take me seriously. She was careless with certain details. The only escuses I made out for her was that " maybe we weren't dating hence the frequent nonchalant attitude from her. At times she gets Back home and never calls to say she's gotten home. I call her several times but doesn't pick. I did her Bb subscription but didn't call to acknowledge.

These things irritated me, but I made escuses for them that perhaps she doesn't take me serious enuf to think of me when she's Alone.

My thot is maybe if we were dating she would be more detailed.

Truth is I can never know till I date her.

And I can't date her till I arrange myself, financially.

I know I WD mk it soon by God's grace. But withing my first millions, I have plans of spending at least 14straight days of seeing Susan. It would even be more than a blessing if we spend those days in one room in another country. In order to take her out of the distractions of all the toasters and boyfriends she may have.

If I find out the wonderful side of her that I fell in luv with is the real side of her when/if she's dating someone, then believe me I would say "Iv found my soulmate".

Guys don't judge girls for showing you better attitude cause you have made money and started dating them.

Instead appreciate and love them that they showed you a better side of them cause you became important to them.

If your upgrade is required for you to become important to them, then your deficiency may have been the problem, not their long throat.


I would make it and date Susan. A none-Sexual date. If she takes me more seriously and all those numerous characters I observed in her within those first few days we met are real, Then Iv met my soulmate. Never would I suspect her of falling for my riches, but hold me former deficiencies accountable. Cause wen ever we were togeda, she was extremely respectful and down to earth. Although she was inconsistent and nonchallant most times we were apart.
I can't take that to heart, afteral I wasn't her guy, we had met just 3 to 5 times and she had a life before we met.

Iv never met a girl and saw too many loved qualities in her within such few hours.

Your contribution would be highly welcome.

Thanx!

Nevana

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Michellla:
joined four minutes ago and already creating topics.
you no waste time at all

Iv been a nairalander for years. I only created this profile for this particular topic.

nevana:


Iv been a nairalander for years. I only created this profile for this particular topic.

ok figures.my bad

let's take this quite seriously.

ever fragment of this post may not apply to one person. but some little bit of it may apply to the person.

contribute based on what applies to you.

Many times...till Reality Pinches You

nevana:
let's take this quite seriously.

ever fragment of this post may not apply to one person. but some little bit of it may apply to the person.

contribute based on what applies to you.

ok

nevana:
Guys, have you ever met someone and within the first hour or day of your meeting see too many qualities of what you want in your dream girl or future wife?

Iv heard of "love at first sight". Iv heard of " soul-mate".

Trust me, iv never been an advocate or a believer of any of them.

I'm like any other guy that 1st gets attracted to a lady based on appearances. Then beauty, brains, sense of humour follows.

Next comes other qualities like Chemistry, compatibility, right attitude.

But all these qualities come if/when I wanna take her seriously.

But if its just for sex or fling: I only care bout physical qualities.

This is my experience with Vivian.
I met her sometime last year, November 2014. Approached her, used some tricks/chyking.

Luckyly for us both, we felt like eating . so we had lunch on me in restaurant. We ended up going back to our individual houses from there. We saw again on like 5 different different dates.

What's so amazing is that within the first 3 hangouts I saw just too many things in her that made me know she may be the one. None of those hangouts exceeded 2hours. I saw and listed almost 20things in her alone that I craved for in my future wife.

Iv had relationships for years before but I could hardly list up to 10qualities in one single of my ex's. And some of those relationships lasted for years. I loved them, but not having that many numbers of qualities as I could count in Susan. The irony of it is that I had spent less than 10 hours with Susan as compared to years I had with all those other girls.


This is the sad part if it all, which is also my challenge:

1) I am currently in a serious relationship with someone I don't see as my future wife.

2) I have financial instability to try dating Susan. By dating her, I don't mean sleeping with her or going out with her to marry her.

By dating-her, I mean the old fashioned way of being special enuf to her to be considered as a potential future husband.
Not that she's a gold-Digger or I feel I can only lure her with money. Let's don't decieve ourselves, we need financial stability to direct our scripts.

Im hardly the type to denigrate a girl for needing money in a relationship. I just feel its a necessary factor.


Now this is the thing: Iv been in a relationship for past 8months, but my current girl has shown too many things of all I resent in my future wife. At 1st wen we started, I used to freak out. But in BTW as soon as it dawned on me that she wouldn't be the one, all I did internally is place her in my "make-i-just-dey-groove-this-one-till-arrange-myself-ZONE".

Now, I know I'm being challenged financially to go out of my way to succeed in luring Susan to become mine.

This has nuffing to do with inferiority complex or she being a gold-digger.

But I'm a man DAT cant afford to fail when I want something.

Hence I want several factors to be in order be4 I enter the marriage-market.

Why I need to be more in order is because even those times I enjoyed Susan's company when we hung out. She didn't seen yo take me seriously. She was careless with certain details. The only escuses I made out for her was that " maybe we weren't dating hence the frequent nonchalant attitude from her. At times she gets Back home and never calls to say she's gotten home. I call her several times but doesn't pick. I did her Bb subscription but didn't call to acknowledge.

These things irritated me, but I made escuses for them that perhaps she doesn't take me serious enuf to think of me when she's Alone.

My thot is maybe if we were dating she would be more detailed.

Truth is I can never know till I date her.

And I can't date her till I arrange myself, financially.

I know I WD mk it soon by God's grace. But withing my first millions, I have plans of spending at least 14straight days of seeing Susan. It would even be more than a blessing if we spend those days in one room in another country. In order to take her out of the distractions of all the toasters and boyfriends she may have.

If I find out the wonderful side of her that I fell in luv with is the real side of her when/if she's dating someone, then believe me I would say "Iv found my soulmate".

Guys don't judge girls for showing you better attitude cause you have made money and started dating them.

Instead appreciate and love them that they showed you a better side of them cause you became important to them.

If your upgrade is required for you to become important to them, then your deficiency may have been the problem, not their long throat.


I would make it and date Susan. A none-Sexual date. If she takes me more seriously and all those numerous characters I observed in her within those first few days we met are real, Then Iv met my soulmate. Never would I suspect her of falling for my riches, but hold me former deficiencies accountable. Cause wen ever we were togeda, she was extremely respectful and down to earth. Although she was inconsistent and nonchallant most times we were apart.
I can't take that to heart, afteral I wasn't her guy, we had met just 3 to 5 times and she had a life before we met.

Iv never met a girl and saw too many loved qualities in her within such few hours.

Your contribution would be highly welcome.

Thanx!

Nevana

NEVANA,
I was almost taking you serious when I on a second note, i noticed that u were just keeping your fingers busy. You don't even know the name of the woman u claimed you love. Vivian? Sussan? Oya tell me, sussan is her middle name!

olatricia:


NEVANA,
I was almost taking you serious when I on a second note, i noticed that u were just keeping your fingers busy. You don't even know the name of the woman u claimed you love. Vivian? Sussan? Oya tell me, sussan is her middle name!

Typographical error.

her name is Susan.

Vivian is my current gf I also reffered to in the post.

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funny post.

u guys cut the o.p some slack.

I guess what he means not that he found his soulmate within few hours.

it means he saw several qualities In her within such a brief period.

maybe with other his from past relationships, it took years to see that many qualities.