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YourMain:
Clearly girlfriend number one doesn't love you enough. And she's only using you as a replacement cause the one she loves doesn't love her. Don't be an idiot.

panthera4:
the thing there is before we started dating that first time she already had a boyfriend, she accepted me when she broke up with him. When she left me we were still friends but I couldn't hide the fact that I love her so I asked her out this time and she accepted. Can't u get it?

Largas:
some guys are dumb. that's why she left him and returned, playing with his emotions. she would do it again, because she knows he won't reject him whenever she returns even if it takes 20years

gab264:
Is that wah u girls have been doin eeeeeh.
"Ridiculous"

YourMain:
Okay. So you can see yourself she's not very loyal. So she was cheating on a guy with you. That means all the times she told him she loved him were all lies. She probably cheated on you with her ex. Then she leaves you for him. So when another guy comes along, shell cheat on you with him then leave you for him . Maybe come back to you for a joyride and go back to him again.

I know it's hard to love someone and know they're no good for you. I think you need to love yourself more and don't rely on her love. Allow yourself to realize you deserve soooooo much better than a wishy washy girl. Plenty of fish in the ocean. But it's very clear that you love her. Go for it. But know you will more than likely get hurt.

Leave the other girl out of it. She deserves so much better than you. No offence. Just end it with her. How you feel about her is exactly how the girl you love feels about you.

panthera4:
it will surprise you to know that she is a Virgin.

YourMain:
Lol and so ? Being a virgin doesn't not make you all goody goody two shoes.

And it's easy to say you're a virgin when you're not...

panthera4:
I won't doubt you on that. What if I let go of the two of them for a while

YourMain:
That would be an ideal.

panthera4:
do you settle for petty or for what you love? Be sincere

panthera4:
dear the decision is not that easy here for me to make

YourMain:
You're just being selfish at this stage.
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If you want to ruin your life with girl number one. That's cool. No one cares

At least leave the other girl alone. 've told you how.

panthera4:
the truth is I don't want to hurt anybody even if I have been hurt before

IamLEGEND1:

now I'm honestly beginning to think you're just an ídiot and a wimp.
you think by dating the 2go girl you're settling for less?

ur ex is the one who is settling here..... u were her side bítch before she broke up with her boyfriend and then you became the rebound guy....... after you served ur tenure as her emotional punching bag she dumped you in the trash can and went running back to her ex.

Ex saw she was damaged goods and sent her packing and now you're coming back into office......but in a different capacity: you're now her full-time bítch and you wasted no time in shoving ur head up her àss.

So keep on Deceiving urself that you're in love.
You're only being a síssy.

YourMain:
Yes. But you're hurting both girls by dating two girls now aren't you ?

Just break up with girl number two.

panthera4:
my dear I wish you understand how I feel inside

panthera4:
I never said the 2go girl is less.

YourMain:
Oh my Lord.

You don't like her. Just meet her and be honest.

panthera4:
the thing there is before we started dating that first time she already had a boyfriend, she accepted me when she broke up with him. When she left me we were still friends but I couldn't hide the fact that I love her so I asked her out this time and she accepted. Can't u get it?

itsphumbieee:
You're both contradicting yourself and making excuses for her. Just follow your heart...it won't be fair to your present girlfriend that you love someone more than you love her so let her down easy.

noblemails:
indecision is ur problem

YourMain:
Yeah it's so sad because I'm sure this other girl loves him and hopefully he doesn't play a fuuckboy move and messes with her.

Michellla:
with what i'v read so far.the guy is too smittened with his ex.
nothing y'all say would stop him from dumping his current chick for the girl.

YourMain:
Clearly girlfriend number one doesn't love you enough. And she's only using you as a replacement cause the one she loves doesn't love her. Don't be an idiot.

YourMain:
I'm sure you can read what you wrote. She came back to you because her ex didn't trust her ( I'm sure he has his reasons), that means if he did trust her she'd be with him. The part about thinking about you is a side effect of all breakups and will wear away over time. That's extremely disrespectful to yourself. You deserve so much better than someone who's going to treat you like a second option.

Well it's up to you anyways. If you feel like she's worth it then go for it.

bolagabriella:
simple truth, you can't eat your cake and still have it. it shows clearly that your heart is not strong enough to make the right decisions that you need to make or maybe you are just been stupid. the first girl don't deserve you and you don't deserve the second girl.

Michellla:
with what i'v read so far.the guy is too smittened with his ex.
nothing y'all say would stop him from dumping his current chick for the girl.

dmola:
i hate to be caught up btw ex's






she ll dump u the second time ode use ur head