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panthera4:
do you settle for petty or for what you love? Be sincere

panthera4:
I guess I don't deserve any of them either

YourMain:
I can't believe you're choosing the first girl. Who is obvious using you as a rebound.

Anyways, just be honest. Sit her down tell her you have unresolved feelings for someone else and she deserves so much better than the half commitment you're able to give her. Make sure she knows it's not her fault. And it's not cause she's not good enough. Just that you're incapable of getting over this girl. ( And you're an idiot. )

panthera4:
she didn't come back to ask me to date her but I called her back myself

Largas:
don't just love someone who doesn't return the emotions
you'll hurt yourself in the process. appreciate that girl that never left you - second one.

Once a cheat, always a cheat. If she could leave you before, she would do it again. forget this second chance shiit you're about to get yourself into emotional shiit.

jhidey08:
well, I understand d op's troubles, it's a common thing here, "who we want doesn't want us, we don't want who wants us", if we av d ability to choose who we want and who wants us lyf would av been a lot easier. Dat's d luv cycle 4 most pple. I guess u haven't been in dat situation b4 and dat's y it's easier 4u 2 judge him. It's a difficult thing yourmain.

YourMain:
Yeah. He's being such an idiot. But at least leave the 2go girl out of it. Kmt he's just being ridiculous.

YourMain:
Yes. But it's really unfair to the other girl. It's hard but you're hurting some one regardless.

jhidey08:
life itself is not fair. U don't love or date out of pity. Allow him 2 follow dat 1st gal and if she dumps his ass again he'll b fulfilled, and if she eventually does well afta d 2nd chance, den he's considered lucky. It's a gamble.

Michellla:
sometimes our hearts let us do silly things.i dont totally blame him, but if he's wise he wouldnt dump his new girl'

YourMain:
I just feel soo bad for her. Imagine she's home now thinking she's found love...

YourMain:
I'm sorry, I'm sure you heard him say he's dating two girls.

He should play one girl as a gamble for his heart. Thats just selfish.

The 2 go girl does not deserve such.

jhidey08:
Dat's d word I've been expecting from u, "selfish", dat's exactly wot he's doing now, his adventure with d 2go gal came around because d first gal left him, and he wasn't strong enough 2 remain single as he felt insecure being single, so he tried his luck with d 2go gal and it worked 4 him. Now reality has dawned on him cos his heart keeps yearning 4d first girl. D truth is, advising him 2 av pity 4d 2go gal is jst lyk wasting d poor gal's tym, dat's when he becomes really selfish (holding on to d gal when he doesn't feel anything strong 4her and nt allowing her to move on and nt waste her tym), she needs to move on and meet who deserves her. Dat's not cruelty, sum decisions just need 2b made 2 make things ryt. U should understand me beta by now.

Michellla:
lol..if he dumps her then she'd definitely find someone better than him.
she deserves better than that mediocre love

YourMain:
I've never asked him to stay with the 2go girl. He told him he should end it with her and tell her he's an idiot.

panthera4:
what's your point

jhidey08:
if toh sey u dey near ba, I for draw u closer and giv u a "once in a lifetime" hug and peck u on d forehead 4 dis post. U deserve to b my adviser

Michellla:
xoxo

Michellla:
lol..if he dumps her then she'd definitely find someone better than him.
she deserves better than that mediocre love

jhidey08:
I'm sori if I've omitted dat part of ur comment. Dah means we're saying d same thing.


Btw, wot is still keeping u awake till now?

YourMain:
It's fine lol. No worries

It's only 11:37 here.

jhidey08:
forward ur CV 2my email address Asap, u've passed interview aiidy

bolagabriella:
yea you don't but that doesn't make you bad or stupid, just that you are not ready. you need to take some time alone to figure out what you really want before dating someone else.

jhidey08:
well, I understand d op's troubles, it's a common thing here, "who we want doesn't want us, we don't want who wants us", if we av d ability to choose who we want and who wants us lyf would av been a lot easier. Dat's d luv cycle 4 most pple. I guess u haven't been in dat situation b4 and dat's y it's easier 4u 2 judge him. It's a difficult thing yourmain.

YourMain:
Yes. But it's really unfair to the other girl. It's hard but you're hurting some one regardless.

jhidey08:
life itself is not fair. U don't love or date out of pity. Allow him 2 follow dat 1st gal and if she dumps his ass again he'll b fulfilled, and if she eventually does well afta d 2nd chance, den he's considered lucky. It's a gamble.

Mcslize:
Damn! Did u just type u luv her more? Do ladies reason wether a guy luv them more or not? It seems you are still yet to understand how ladies minds work.

Love supposed to be shared on equal level. When your love for a girl supersede hers for you, she will gamble with your emotions. You will live like a slave to her. She will treat you with lots of disregards cuz she knows you love her more and there is nothing you will do about it. The world is for the risk taker. If you are not ready to take risk then you won't get that which you want

She will be in control of your emotions making you look weak in her eyes. You being weaked , placed her as the dominant partner which supposed not to be.

Let me ask you these; will you like to be placed as a side guy to her? Will you like her to be sleeping with the other guy while still dating you? I am as right as the answers that are piling up in your heart right now.

There is 100% assurance that even if you have her back as you've already done, she will still be sleeping with the other guy 24/7 and there is nothing you can do about it because you've made yourself a puppy to her. She will even call the other guy in your presence and flirt with him on the phone in your presence knowing that you have no rights over her due to your excessive love for her.

That girl will cheat on you with the other guy on a daily basis.


Keep in check your emotions.

A word is enough for the wise

Michellla:
you should be timee forwardin yours.since you'll be my client

panthera4:
when I was hurt nobody cared, now that am trying to figure out my own happiness, am being forced to please another person emotions right